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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

No man (or woman) should ever presume they know everything about pleasing a woman. We should never stop learning whether that’s in general or with the same person.

So woman what one tip would you give to men about pleasing a lady. What one thing can a man do that really drives you crazy? That sends you into the grip of a nice deep intense orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No man (or woman) should ever presume they know everything about pleasing a woman. We should never stop learning whether that’s in general or with the same person.

So woman what one tip would you give to men about pleasing a lady. What one thing can a man do that really drives you crazy? That sends you into the grip of a nice deep intense orgasm?"
goid point but only true learning comes from experience

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"No man (or woman) should ever presume they know everything about pleasing a woman. We should never stop learning whether that’s in general or with the same person.

So woman what one tip would you give to men about pleasing a lady. What one thing can a man do that really drives you crazy? That sends you into the grip of a nice deep intense orgasm?goid point but only true learning comes from experience"

Totally true, but it’s good to hear ladies views on what men could do differently and what really drives a woman crazy. Then it’s a win/win for all concerned

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

What works for one woman does not work for all. Or some.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Listen to the woman you're with. Or man. We're all individuals.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"What works for one woman does not work for all. Or some."

I know that but it’s still good for men to get some extra advice in general. We are never too old to learn new tricks

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What works for one woman does not work for all. Or some.

I know that but it’s still good for men to get some extra advice in general. We are never too old to learn new tricks "

My advice is not to seek advice. Apart from the bleedingly obvious, it won't help.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Listen to the woman you're with. Or man. We're all individuals. "

This. Every single time.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I agree, exploring, eye contact, reading the signals and emotions as you go is how you learn. But I just wondered if in general there were things that men don’t always do that woman really enjoy?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I agree, exploring, eye contact, reading the signals and emotions as you go is how you learn. But I just wondered if in general there were things that men don’t always do that woman really enjoy?"

Seeing women as individuals with different turn ons and offs.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, this was helpful

I learnt alot

Thanks OP

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Well, this was helpful

I learnt alot

Thanks OP"

Hahahaha

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I agree, exploring, eye contact, reading the signals and emotions as you go is how you learn. But I just wondered if in general there were things that men don’t always do that woman really enjoy?"

I think you've had your answer OP. The simple truth is that the one thing that you can learn, that will drive a woman truly 'mindblowingly crazy', is that there is no one thing.

Learn from her, engage with her. Don't try and trot out tricks in an attempt to be a good lover, just be a better lover...

There is no spoon

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are only two things a person needs to know.

1. Porn is not documentary

2. Every person is different

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"There are only two things a person needs to know.

1. Porn is not documentary

2. Every person is different"

I watch porn sometimes but I don’t consider it real life, in the same way I may read a newspaper but don’t consider if factually correct all the time

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Do a tick list and go through everything you’ve learnt, anything new, just add it to the list... it’s a very thorough and efficient way of learning, remembering and doing process..

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Do a tick list and go through everything you’ve learnt, anything new, just add it to the list... it’s a very thorough and efficient way of learning, remembering and doing process.. "

A journal of sexual learning

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

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By *rincessvenusCouple
over a year ago

Hull

every day is a skoool day

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Better get my cane out then

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"What works for one woman does not work for all. Or some."

No no no. I’m experienced man. I know everything I’m at top of the class for sexi time do you will always fall in a heap after 5 minutes with me. So I’m told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.....you guys..... Smh forums never change....

You're telling the poor guy there's nothing to learn then telling him how to learn it.....

A lot of the above is forced opinion and self worth for the ppl posting it as usual, but I guess that the purpose of this hell hole we call fab for the majority?

Now there's a trick, make your partner feel special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never met a person who was any good at sex on their own, it's a partnership, no?

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


".....you guys..... Smh forums never change....

You're telling the poor guy there's nothing to learn then telling him how to learn it.....

A lot of the above is forced opinion and self worth for the ppl posting it as usual, but I guess that the purpose of this hell hole we call fab for the majority?

Now there's a trick, make your partner feel special "

No, actually, it's my experience. Different people have different sensitivities down there. If you apply pressure in one place, you may send one person to heaven, bore another, and hurt the third. Looking for a road map is how you get boring colour by numbers sex.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


".....you guys..... Smh forums never change....

You're telling the poor guy there's nothing to learn then telling him how to learn it.....

A lot of the above is forced opinion and self worth for the ppl posting it as usual, but I guess that the purpose of this hell hole we call fab for the majority?

Now there's a trick, make your partner feel special

No, actually, it's my experience. Different people have different sensitivities down there. If you apply pressure in one place, you may send one person to heaven, bore another, and hurt the third. Looking for a road map is how you get boring colour by numbers sex. "

I guess I was expecting someone to suggest something everyone likes, just nice to know what really excites you, that’s all x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't think that thing exists. Genuinely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask me how I like my tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing excites me more than anything, but only if our kisses match.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Ask me how I like my tea."

How do you like your tea?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"What works for one woman does not work for all. Or some.

I know that but it’s still good for men to get some extra advice in general. We are never too old to learn new tricks "

Make sure you take me tights off first.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"What works for one woman does not work for all. Or some.

I know that but it’s still good for men to get some extra advice in general. We are never too old to learn new tricks

Make sure you take me tights off first. "

RIP then off?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"What works for one woman does not work for all. Or some.

No no no. I’m experienced man. I know everything I’m at top of the class for sexi time do you will always fall in a heap after 5 minutes with me. So I’m told "

ooooo sexi time ha x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"What works for one woman does not work for all. Or some.

I know that but it’s still good for men to get some extra advice in general. We are never too old to learn new tricks

Make sure you take me tights off first.

RIP then off?"

No. Hopefully while i'm still alive.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"What works for one woman does not work for all. Or some.

I know that but it’s still good for men to get some extra advice in general. We are never too old to learn new tricks

Make sure you take me tights off first.

RIP then off?

Bloody auto correct lol

No. Hopefully while i'm still alive."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^

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