FabSwingers.com forum: Raging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Someone recently said they couldn't imagine me "Raging". I never got the opportunity to reply.

The answer is.. I'm a Force of Nature when I do, so I don't. It's not pretty and it's me at my worst. I've a coping mechanism that lets me avoid it.

My question to you is.. What are you like when you're angry? How do you calm yourself or deal with the rage?

*Please don't reference where this comment came from, if you know, it's not needed. Totally different topic, not a side conversation.

Unlike my usual threads. I'll just let you say your bit and not respond to everyone who comments. I'm sure it'll help some of us simmer down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count to ten with deep breaths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Counting to 10 apparently helps. I'm shit at it.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

It takes a lot to make me really angry. I’m naturally laid back and if I don’t agree with something or it upsets me then I usually say so and clear the air in the moment.

However some things can build and build so that the smallest of things tips me over.

That’s when Mad Mac rears her ugly head. It’s scary. I flip and smash my way like a hulkette. There is no ‘calm myself’ in the moment. 5 minutes later I’m fine. It happens so rarely that it’s cathartic when it does.

Still, Mad Mac can stay in her box a good while longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooooh force of nature

I am not a bat tempered person at all and very rarely lose it , I think maybe only 3 times in my life have I actually raged and they all involved family lol !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Counting to 10 apparently helps. I'm shit at it. "

Me too.. I have dyscalcula.. maybe dyslexia too if I spelt it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get angry, but when I do it's a flash in the pan.

My blood boils for a second and then rationality sets in.

Before the flash of anger-if someone is really pissing me off-I'm calm and calculated.

I can only remember two times in my life when I have hit out through anger, and they involved throwing a cup of tea over my husband and throwing something at a wall.

I'm quite good at keeping my cool.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes a lot to make me really angry. I’m naturally laid back and if I don’t agree with something or it upsets me then I usually say so and clear the air in the moment.

However some things can build and build so that the smallest of things tips me over.

Still, Mad Mac can stay in her box a good while longer. "

I'd qualify as a Mad Mac myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the reason for my rage. I do have a tendency to rage cry if it's person related and I can't cave their skull in, ya know, with it being frowned upon and all that jazz.

I do feel it would be beneficial to invest in a punch bag.

I watch clips on YouTube to remind me of the wonderful things humans do for each other or the joy and love to be found in nature. That sorts me out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ooooooh force of nature

I am not a bat tempered person at all and very rarely lose it , I think maybe only 3 times in my life have I actually raged and they all involved family lol !"

What made you imagine I don't lose my temper? i like thats what you think though. Unless you were being sarky.. in which case its funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc.

Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

If I get to the point of raging I have to walk it off to calm down, just need to be left to my own thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often express it in the moment if I can do it in a controlled way. I switch my attention onto something else. I bash the hell out of pillows if I’m feeling furious. I go for walks. I meditate and do some deep breathing until it turns into a different emotion. And when I’m not self aware enough to,deal,with it effectively I might act it out in some way, often by just being grumpy and abrasive. Most of the time so recognise that and apologise and own my shit again

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I don't lose control. Simple as. I have seen adults that do and wonder if they realise they have all the emotional maturity of a toddler. Not really something to wear like a badge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Counting to 10 apparently helps. I'm shit at it.

Me too.. I have dyscalcula.. maybe dyslexia too if I spelt it wrong. "

Dyscalculia is more common than dyslexia, apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooooh force of nature

I am not a bat tempered person at all and very rarely lose it , I think maybe only 3 times in my life have I actually raged and they all involved family lol !

What made you imagine I don't lose my temper? i like thats what you think though. Unless you were being sarky.. in which case its funny

I don’t know, you just seem to come across as calm person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usualy just walk away as its not worth the hassle.

Although if im angry and on the bike i will ride more aggressively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Counting up to twenty would mean taking your socks off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a very placid person so I very rarely rage.

If I see I am being put in a position where I am being provoked I will walk away, it is not a sign of weakness but self preservation - I don’t like what I do or who I become when I lose it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ooooooh force of nature

I am not a bat tempered person at all and very rarely lose it , I think maybe only 3 times in my life have I actually raged and they all involved family lol !

What made you imagine I don't lose my temper? i like thats what you think though. Unless you were being sarky.. in which case its funny

I don’t know, you just seem to come across as calm person! "

Carter89 will probably testify I'm not always. I'd like to put it all behind us Carter89, if you're feeling charitable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooooh force of nature

I am not a bat tempered person at all and very rarely lose it , I think maybe only 3 times in my life have I actually raged and they all involved family lol !

What made you imagine I don't lose my temper? i like thats what you think though. Unless you were being sarky.. in which case its funny

I don’t know, you just seem to come across as calm person!

Carter89 will probably testify I'm not always. I'd like to put it all behind us Carter89, if you're feeling charitable? "

Oh what are you putting behind you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc.

Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx "

Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It takes a lot to upset me, I find getting ragey a little stressful so I tend to just walk away. I've raged at my children before and they laughed at me so I walk away from them to. Not often though, they rarely wind me up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes a lot to upset me, I find getting ragey a little stressful so I tend to just walk away. I've raged at my children before and they laughed at me so I walk away from them to. Not often though, they rarely wind me up!"

I do that all the time. My boys rage back. It's cathartic. We're part Scottish, it's in our genes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc.

Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx

Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year

I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.

I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.

I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.

I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.

I’ve lost so many people to suicide, and as a nurse on a medical admissions unit have nursed and lost patients to it too, it’s awful for all involved, and so sad that people feel they have no other way to turn. I’m sorry for your loss and to their loved ones x

I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's rare I totally lose my temper but when I do I'm like a scalded cat . I have to get away from the situation before I say or do something I regret.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I don’t get angry at the internet for a start.

I tell myself what’s behind the comments and realise where it comes from. (Not a dig)

In real life I’m like a petulant child where the rational part of me is almost watching in the third person thinking what a tool. While I hulk out.

I tend to shut myself away till I calm down or go play with my bulldogs as they centre me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc.

Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx

Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year

I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.

I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.

I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.

I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.

I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx

Omg... I think youre awesome just for being able to do that job. You deserve more money than any footballer xxx Massive love to you and yours. Deal with it the way you know how, so long as it's released at some point. I feel like crying after reading that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember the last time I was raging outwardly.

I tend not to, people have told me I should, that I'm too nice and should stand up to folks once in a while...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like angry sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phone a friend and let it all go in a rant.... I have supportive friends and they do it back, if they need to release. I feel so much better afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Music is my calm place for anyone who was interested. Listening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc.

Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx

Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year

I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.

I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.

I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.

I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.

I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx

Thank you. Please don’t cry though, haha, I don’t like upsetting people, haha xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc.

Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx

Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year

I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.

I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.

I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.

I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.

I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx

Thank you. Please don’t cry though, haha, I don’t like upsetting people, haha xx"

I've not cried.. it takes a fair bit to set me off. I do get a lump in my throat when I hear people explain their sorrows though. If I can intensely relate.. Like a friend if mine whose son is suffering awfully with PTSD.. then that will set me off and I'll cry openly whilst still trying to hold the conversation. It's not pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc.

Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx

Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year

I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.

I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.

I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.

I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.

I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx

Thank you. Please don’t cry though, haha, I don’t like upsetting people, haha xx

I feel for your friend, and glad he has you to support him. Sounds like you’re an amazing friend...crying is never pretty, all runny noses and red eyes! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooooh force of nature

I am not a bat tempered person at all and very rarely lose it , I think maybe only 3 times in my life have I actually raged and they all involved family lol !

What made you imagine I don't lose my temper? i like thats what you think though. Unless you were being sarky.. in which case its funny

I don’t know, you just seem to come across as calm person!

Carter89 will probably testify I'm not always. I'd like to put it all behind us Carter89, if you're feeling charitable? "

Ive never met you, i think we disagreed in a thread about ghosts or soemthing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do anger, to me like hate it's a wasted emotion, takes up too much energy I don't have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can go one of two ways, depends on who / what is causing the rage and whether I think (consciously or even sub-consciously) I am in the right.

I tend to adopt either the fight my cause or flight and cry stance. Btw the crying is private and through frustration as opposed to upset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very rare for me to get angry, but when I do it's not a pretty picture. Just don't pick on my close friends or family.I am a very level headed person

But i don't have the nick name Danger Mouse for nothing, I don't like who I am when I am worked up. But overtime I am able to keep myself calm and disfuse the situation.I don't have to attend every battle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very rare for me to get angry, but when I do it's not a pretty picture. Just don't pick on my close friends or family.I am a very level headed person

But i don't have the nick name Danger Mouse for nothing, I don't like who I am when I am worked up. But overtime I am able to keep myself calm and disfuse the

situation.I don't have to attend every battle.

A punch bag is great or kicking the football of the wall.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc.

Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx

Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year

I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.

I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.

I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.

I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.

I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx

Thank you. Please don’t cry though, haha, I don’t like upsetting people, haha xx

I feel for your friend, and glad he has you to support him. Sounds like you’re an amazing friend...crying is never pretty, all runny noses and red eyes! xx"

She. A mother asking ME advice, as a veteran, on dealing with strong PTSD in her son. It was a double whammy. Parental empathy set me off. Which in turn set her off as well. Dad walked past stoned and pissed dressed as a pirate wondering what the fuck was going on. T'was rather a bizarre turn of events for a fancy dress party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ads never gets angry, I can’t say I’ve ever seen him angry, annoyed but never angry.

When I get angry I go for a cigarette and calm down, I go to Ads for a good talking too.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well ads never gets angry, I can’t say I’ve ever seen him angry, annoyed but never angry.

When I get angry I go for a cigarette and calm down, I go to Ads for a good talking too.

Geeky x"

Funny how we all react and cope differently.

Ghengis

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I used to be quite hot-headed - I've mellowed a lot, and I'm very tolerant and co-operative and giving now......until you push me too far, and then I will go off like a hand grenade!!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc.

Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx

Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year

I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.

I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.

I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.

I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.

I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx

Thank you. Please don’t cry though, haha, I don’t like upsetting people, haha xx

I feel for your friend, and glad he has you to support him. Sounds like you’re an amazing friend...crying is never pretty, all runny noses and red eyes! xx

Apologies, I read it wrong. My best friend used to turn to me, before he passed last year, about things with his son and I used to chat to both, assumed incorrectly, and I apologise. Regardless of the setting, it’s good to have someone who can empathise, glad she has you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Truthfully, I tend to bottle it up and pretend I’m ok, until I’m able to have a bit of me time and assess why I’m so angry. I’ll usually have a cry etc.

Having a disabled daughter I have had to learn to ignore things at the time, take a deep breath and carry on xx

Bottling it up is the worst thing I can do. I've seen others seriously hurt.. and in two instances, take their own life through bottling things. One of which made National news last year

I don’t like to hurt others and words can really hurt. I only bottle things up and compartmentalise things until it’s safe for me to emotionally deal with them.

I’ve always done it, and it’s my survival strategy.

I raged once, when I was 17, and I hated the things I said. It didn’t help the situation, it just prolonged the hurt.

I forgive easily, and prioritise what really matters. Holding on to anger just hurts inside.

I’m lucky, I’m too shallow to feel too deeply, haha xx

Thank you. Please don’t cry though, haha, I don’t like upsetting people, haha xx

I feel for your friend, and glad he has you to support him. Sounds like you’re an amazing friend...crying is never pretty, all runny noses and red eyes! xx

No need for apologies

xxx I'm sorry about your friend as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get angry, but when I do it's a flash in the pan.

My blood boils for a second and then rationality sets in.

Before the flash of anger-if someone is really pissing me off-I'm calm and calculated.

I can only remember two times in my life when I have hit out through anger, and they involved throwing a cup of tea over my husband and throwing something at a wall.

I'm quite good at keeping my cool."

Should have thrown the husband at the wall and drank the tea k .......tea makes you calm

morning to all fabsters x

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I'm fortunate. I have a chilled out personality and rarely "rage".

The last time I completely red mist, plot lost was more than 25 years ago.

These days if I'm feeling stressed I head to the Dojo. I have my own, meditate, get a book off the shelf and do some research or get a katana out and practice drawing and sheathing.

A cool head and concentration required to do both effectively. It's surprising how calming studying a razor sharp killing implement can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't rage either. It's very quick with me, I can sense something pushing my buttons and I'll take myself out of the situation before I let it push me over the edge. Tea actually helps a lot, if I'm stressed about anything I'll go for a cuppa and I'm generally sweet again by the time it's gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's rare I totally lose my temper but when I do I'm like a scalded cat . I have to get away from the situation before I say or do something I regret. "

A hot pussy doesn't seem scary to me ?

Talking of hot nice boobs

j x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turn green and vent on the forums as well as destroy small citys

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I rarely lose my temper but when I do I have volume and verbal diarrhoea. Everything just shoots out at full pelt.

I don’t often lose it because I have ‘the look’. People know when I’m cross and they leave me alone and I keep my distance from everyone because it distresses me if I upset someone, so best left really.

I’m very grateful that I don’t ge angry often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lose my temper often

But my man very rarely does.

Maybe due to the fact he teaches martial arts and mma and losing your temper in the cage always ends up in losing.

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By *addyLilGirlCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Too much rage on the world. Everybody needs to chill the hell out and spend more time enjoying each others company?? C on the other hand....that girl can rage! Only lasts a lil while though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too much rage on the world. Everybody needs to chill the hell out and spend more time enjoying each others company?? C on the other hand....that girl can rage! Only lasts a lil while though"
rage is good for the soul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://youtu.be/Wb_OvHXQjPQ

He says it all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think so too, provided you can harness it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I mentioned music calms me. Made me think of the band Offspring.. There's a little a little intro at the start of Smash. "Music soothes even the savage beast".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music don't work on me

I need to wear myself out so rage pushups are normally my thing

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over a year ago

I cant and dont let mine out of its box, cant afford to, if I feel it brewing I isolate myself or go for a run... I ve learned to control and recognise signs... Oddly enough though I forced myself into long term isolation, living with nature and learned that by occupying my brain with chores, research etc it could not focus on other crap, consequently not lost my temper for a longggg time, real laid back these days... Ptsd baahumbug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasn't a song to calm you down, it's the lyrics.. He is on point with what's wrong with the world...

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over a year ago

"I mentioned music calms me. Made me think of the band Offspring.. There's a little a little intro at the start of Smash. "Music soothes even the savage beast"."

Music and dance have been my saviours, best thing I ever did was become a dancer, its the one time you can release everything and anything, let the blues chill a raging heart

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over a year ago

"I mentioned music calms me. Made me think of the band Offspring.. There's a little a little intro at the start of Smash. "Music soothes even the savage beast".

Music and dance have been my saviours, best thing I ever did was become a dancer, its the one time you can release everything and anything, let the blues chill a raging heart

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Hmmmmm, I don't rage just annoyed.....strange but only here

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

The angriest I have ever been was during an 18 yr relationship. That man could i furiate me. We would scream and shout to the point that neither of us were being heard.

We ended up great friends and now I am rarely taken to that point. Tho I still could under the right or wrong circumstances.

I'm one of them that once it's out I'm good. Trouble is you can't take back what you've said so nowadays I'm more rational and have learnt not to get too excited over things that don't really matter.

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over a year ago

I actually scared myself the last time I properly lost it. Couldn't keep it in, although in hindsight I was pregnant at the time, so maybe my hormones were a factor.

So it rarely happens because I internalise it.

It comes out in the form of tears of fraustration or it doesn't come out. Safer that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One time my problem bit me in the ass, i was sleeping by the beach so I whacked on my sounds and danced in the rain... Gawd that was a great experience, torrential rain washed the blues away, danced for hours

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 22/02/19 08:44:59]

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"[Rage removed by poster at 22/02/19 08:51:59]"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"[Rage removed by poster at 22/02/19 08:51:59]

If only it were that simple

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over a year ago

"[Rage removed by poster at 22/02/19 08:51:59]

If only it were that simple

Its never simple, its a case of finding what works for the individual, worst part is this can take time.... Such is life eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is rage really good for the soul, it’s usually the sign that coping mechanisms aren’t working quite as they should.

“Uncountable rage” is reached when the person is completely overwhelmed, emotionally but also maturity wise.

I would think longterm raging would be more damaging to a person’s soul, that’s a lot of emotions to be keeping in check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Angry fucks are good!!!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Angry fucks are good!!!

True story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drank so much caffeine during work that ive spent rhe last 6 hours trying to sleep and now im finaly starting to feel tired if i sleep ill sleep till like 8pm and miss the chance to do anything productive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Angry fucks are good!!!

Till you miss a stroke

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Angry fucks are good!!!

Till you miss a stroke

Ouch!

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