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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't you think this is getting hard work with all the talk bit no action

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not for me, no. All the talk usually leads to action at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don’t really do talk, focus on the action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It can be, but it generally gets to action eventually, and that's definitely worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not instashag, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking normally leads to action no?? I don't mind the talking bit, you get to know the person a bit before you get balls deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its easy

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

It's good to talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're right, I want to go straight to the action, though I want to make sure everyone gets as much enjoyment as possible and make sure we get on, if only there was someway to discuss this before action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nuh it's good to talk. It's all part of the action. I can't sleep with someone I don't know or know I have a connection with. Personality is much more important to me. That's why I don't ask for pics. Well, in the first month anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't you think this is getting hard work with all the talk bit no action "

So, Jay... You are grumbling about too much chat. On a forum. Where people come to chat...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I also think it's quite naive, some people thinking that it's possible to just exchange pleasantries and get an address, which some do.

I for one want to establish that someone is a decent person who doesn't want to hurt me. Look at me, stuck up woman, wanting to be safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you more bored than the last time you complained about this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No no talking is good but the end result is better to be skin on skin my point is talking is enough for some people to get off

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

So pick people who want to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im like gi joe i get more action thaan action man with the kung fu grip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the chat!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No speaky, no meety lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Let's keep it in perspective

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Let's keep it in perspective "

In what way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m bored of people saying they’re bored.

Maybe try being friendly with people. It’s not all about mindless willy waving, you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also think it's quite naive, some people thinking that it's possible to just exchange pleasantries and get an address, which some do.

I for one want to establish that someone is a decent person who doesn't want to hurt me. Look at me, stuck up woman, wanting to be safe. "

I've seen sites advertised where "women will meet, just send a message and fuck right away'. Also Swinger porn often shows orgies where men just join in and fuck the women.

I sometimes wonder if that's where many people get their wrong ideas about Swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No no talking is good but the end result is better to be skin on skin my point is talking is enough for some people to get off"

Do you mean some 'women' do sex chat then don't meet?

Those are likely to be men wanking.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I also think it's quite naive, some people thinking that it's possible to just exchange pleasantries and get an address, which some do.

I for one want to establish that someone is a decent person who doesn't want to hurt me. Look at me, stuck up woman, wanting to be safe.

I've seen sites advertised where "women will meet, just send a message and fuck right away'. Also Swinger porn often shows orgies where men just join in and fuck the women.

I sometimes wonder if that's where many people get their wrong ideas about Swinging.

"

Yeah. I've seen that too. It's ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only boring people get bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid sex chat and cyber and establish a connection that doesn't revolve around sex.

If you can get along as people, who can share thoughts, have a giggle, take the piss out of each other and can pick one another up when you feel a little down, you have got a friend who is likely to be a great fuck.

The harder you try, the harder it is to find what you want. Take the pressure off the end game and enjoy the journey!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Personally, I find most men have no idea how to speak to women, so I have long given up on here to be honest.

The site has changed in the last 10 years, and it is drawing all the undesirables in my opinion!

The more press this site attracts, the more men think this is just a sex site and have no clue how to speak to people, or just think sending a cock pic will draw all the women to their feet!

If I could turn back time to when I first joined I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I find most men have no idea how to speak to women, so I have long given up on here to be honest.

The site has changed in the last 10 years, and it is drawing all the undesirables in my opinion!

The more press this site attracts, the more men think this is just a sex site and have no clue how to speak to people, or just think sending a cock pic will draw all the women to their feet!

If I could turn back time to when I first joined I would. "

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I have the opposite problem, too much action and not enough time to talk....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nuh it's good to talk. It's all part of the action. I can't sleep with someone I don't know or know I have a connection with. Personality is much more important to me. That's why I don't ask for pics. Well, in the first month anyway. "

This.

There's a lot of potential fun to be had in getting to know someone by, you know, talking. Getting to know someone's brain is a lot more appealing that just getting to know whatever they have under their clothes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the opposite problem, too much action and not enough time to talk.... "

Haha.

Put the effort in and there are rewards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the opposite problem, too much action and not enough time to talk.... "

you can talk for bloody England!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Nuh it's good to talk. It's all part of the action. I can't sleep with someone I don't know or know I have a connection with. Personality is much more important to me. That's why I don't ask for pics. Well, in the first month anyway.

This.

There's a lot of potential fun to be had in getting to know someone by, you know, talking. Getting to know someone's brain is a lot more appealing that just getting to know whatever they have under their clothes. "

The best sex is with those I know a bit.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

But...but... it's good to talk... isn't it? ... meh I dunno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I find it's getting mentally tiring talking to people who are hard work, or have too many conversations on the go I hide my profile and take a break.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Too much aural nor enough oral

I don't want to listen to you talk. Just put your penis inside me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But...but... it's good to talk... isn't it? ... meh I dunno"

Maureen Lipman said so, pretty sure Bob Hoskins did too, but I might have made that up. I'm not googling BT adverts to find out either, I'm gonna take it and roll with it

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

It's all part of the dance, you may just need to learn some different steps.

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