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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get more action from tinder than here? I know the two site are totally diff but on here it seems no one is interested even when i show them my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers are picky eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get more action from tinder than here? I know the two site are totally diff but on here it seems no one is interested even when i show them my face"

Cos Tinder is meant to be a dating site so ladies on there probably want to date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On tinder matches can only message on here women get swamped with messages on a daily basis so that could have something to do with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hear all this. It's frustrating though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear all this. It's frustrating though "

I used to feel the same mate but don't let it bother you. Just enjoy the challenge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get more action from tinder than here? I know the two site are totally diff but on here it seems no one is interested even when i show them my face"

I have several male friends who say the same about POF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody fussy fuckers!

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Swingers are picky eh"

Aye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send me your face please OP

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Tbh tinder is about a 60/40 m/f split but fab is 90/10 m/f

This is why you'll have better luck on tinder especially as you appear to be quite fit.

Less women are on fab because it takes a strong personality and immunity to mysoginist arseholes who see you as a free whore.

There are lots of lovely guys but the numbers skew the experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Send me your face please OP "
i can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last year it got too much for me - tinder, bumble, badoo and pop plus on here.

I was ran ragged.

I'm just on here now... Making the most of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pof not pop, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Last year it got too much for me - tinder, bumble, badoo and pop plus on here.

I was ran ragged.

I'm just on here now... Making the most of things "
sounds hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More women on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there a lot more women on Tinder? It seems a less embarrassing place to be seen as it's supposed to be a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last year it got too much for me - tinder, bumble, badoo and pop plus on here.

I was ran ragged.

I'm just on here now... Making the most of things "

Why ran ragged?

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Lucky you op.....got nothing on tinder either

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Can it just be the more personal approach on Tinder? Here, all hell breaks loose if we ask to see the face.

On the other hand, it seems a bit wrong to use dating sites exclusively for "action".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why stick on fab if other avenues give you more success?

Unless you are sticking around for fabstraight guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it because the woman are less paricular on tinder or more particular on here.

Whatever the answer to the above is anyone's guess.

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By *ixedMagic1Man
over a year ago

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"I get more action from tinder than here? I know the two site are totally diff but on here it seems no one is interested even when i show them my face"
I agreed on tinder though, easy work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos they are all local and not in Aberdeen or Cornwall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had guys message me this and it is annoying but as the other member said ignore it.

So many people up there arse onhere and do you want to meet some of those people, I know I wouldn't.

You come across a real decent guy just take at as it comes xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh tinder is about a 60/40 m/f split but fab is 90/10 m/f

This is why you'll have better luck on tinder especially as you appear to be quite fit.

Less women are on fab because it takes a strong personality and immunity to mysoginist arseholes who see you as a free whore.

There are lots of lovely guys but the numbers skew the experience."

If those ratios are right then it makes an awful lot of sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last year it got too much for me - tinder, bumble, badoo and pop plus on here.

I was ran ragged.

I'm just on here now... Making the most of things

Why ran ragged?"

Trying to keep up with all of the conversations and dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's much easier now - no activity at all, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can it just be the more personal approach on Tinder? Here, all hell breaks loose if we ask to see the face.

On the other hand, it seems a bit wrong to use dating sites exclusively for "action"."

I had a friend who was on there and his profile said quite specifically that he was only looking for sex, nothing more. Whether you agree that it is right or wrong, he was being honest and he had success with that approach. (S)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh tinder is about a 60/40 m/f split but fab is 90/10 m/f

This is why you'll have better luck on tinder especially as you appear to be quite fit.

Less women are on fab because it takes a strong personality and immunity to mysoginist arseholes who see you as a free whore.

There are lots of lovely guys but the numbers skew the experience.

If those ratios are right then it makes an awful lot of sense "

Well im off to the pussy farm then this just wont do!!

Ill call him dave like all good cats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder has been good to me, most women are looking for relationships, but a lot are happy to have a FB or Fwb, while they are waiting for mr right. You just to have to feel them out first, some are pretty direct, others are open to the suggestion once its put them. Also the standard of women is pretty high, there’s a lot of attractive women on there open to the idea of fun.

You just have to speak to them politely and not be an arsehole, which it seems from speaking to them, most blokes seem to struggle with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder and POF are great. Women are less suspicious (I know that's not their fault on here). Find a lot of women are FAB level adventurous. But can get messy as they expect more back.

Tried Bumble, so far nothing! They're like nuns, not even had a date. Just want to talk all the time....

FAB has more to offer than just trying to meet sexual partners. I love the forum and being accepted for my outrageous kinks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get more action from tinder than here? I know the two site are totally diff but on here it seems no one is interested even when i show them my face"

1 photo and no veris for over a year. Women will 100% think you are a fake account. No wonder you get no where on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its as simple as a smaller percentage of women to men on here compared to Tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it because the woman are less paricular on tinder or more particular on here.

Whatever the answer to the above is anyone's guess."

That’s not true, my ex who I met on tinder said she used to swipe right to about 1 in 120. The standard of men on there is terrible apparently and most of them are holding bloody great carp fish, cause like that’s what women find really attractive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it because the woman are less paricular on tinder or more particular on here.

Whatever the answer to the above is anyone's guess.

That’s not true, my ex who I met on tinder said she used to swipe right to about 1 in 120. The standard of men on there is terrible apparently and most of them are holding bloody great carp fish, cause like that’s what women find really attractive! "

While most of the men on here are holding their cocks

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