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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a tricky question.

I might have to get back to you on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One for every day of the month, on a rotational basis. Obviously February is group fun month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally 2, and they would hopefully get along together

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Thousands

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I would prefer one, but put up with two or three

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One for every day of the month, on a rotational basis. Obviously February is group fun month. "

Ha ha like it. Go for broke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met one person who could hold my attention and satisfy my needs then I'd be happy with that.

On the other hand I do have a few sides to me sexually so finding someone compatible with all of those would be hard (being bi makes it near impossible!). Maybe 2 or 3 regular partners would do that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ideally 2, and they would hopefully get along together "

Ah good plan..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know my answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for every day of the month, on a rotational basis. Obviously February is group fun month.

Ha ha like it. Go for broke!"

It probably will be broke after all that shenanigans.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I settle for one and her female playmates

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would prefer one, but put up with two or three "

Ha ha if pushed..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I met one person who could hold my attention and satisfy my needs then I'd be happy with that.

On the other hand I do have a few sides to me sexually so finding someone compatible with all of those would be hard (being bi makes it near impossible!). Maybe 2 or 3 regular partners would do that? "

Would you be happy with a few individuals on an equal basis or would you prefer one partner of either sex with an option to add a third?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

In an ideal world...

1 person who could push all my buttons, but would be happy for me to meet others for regular fun, and to involve a few others to try new things & spice things up!

Oh hang on....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Well, clearly more than one.

I don't know. A few ongoing friendships where we fuck as well as be friends would suit me perfectly. So one couple, couple of men/women. Yeah, that'd be me done (until we are all bored of each other. ).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In an ideal world...

1 person who could push all my buttons, but would be happy for me to meet others for regular fun, and to involve a few others to try new things & spice things up!

Oh hang on.... "

Sounds like a cracking set up

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"In an ideal world...

1 person who could push all my buttons, but would be happy for me to meet others for regular fun, and to involve a few others to try new things & spice things up!

Oh hang on....

Sounds like a cracking set up "

Oh it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You know my answer! "

Ha ha as much as you do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 regular partners and all of us allowed a bit on side when we can't meet lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, clearly more than one.

I don't know. A few ongoing friendships where we fuck as well as be friends would suit me perfectly. So one couple, couple of men/women. Yeah, that'd be me done (until we are all bored of each other. )."

reminds me of a dinner party where new guests are invited to keep things interesting!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"3 regular partners and all of us allowed a bit on side when we can't meet lol"

Covering all bases..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and one lady in a commited relationship. She would also have sex with others (m & f), I may occasionally join in. In fact she would have a girlfriend as well! I love non-conventional relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably 2 or 3.

My husband pushes all my buttons like nobody else can, but doesn't have a very high sex drive so I'd need him and then a man to fuck regularly and a woman to fuck regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple, mr pushes my buttons so just a couple to swap with regularly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? "

What about you OP? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

What about you OP? Xx"

I prefer one at any one time. Hence why I only look when I have the time to spend getting to know someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably 2 or 3.

My husband pushes all my buttons like nobody else can, but doesn't have a very high sex drive so I'd need him and then a man to fuck regularly and a woman to fuck regularly."

I find it fascinating that the connection within married couples is totally different from the extra sexual partners.. I guess this is what so many singletons aspire to on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1 now"

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? "

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr gives me everything I need sexually, bar one obvious thing- I’m bi, haha! Love sharing him with other women though, so I get the best of everything xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

What about you OP? Xx

I prefer one at any one time. Hence why I only look when I have the time to spend getting to know someone. "

This ideally. I’m probably kidding myself though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it? "

Never is.. i think it's hard for singletons to match on expectations as much as the other factors.. it's just another layer to match up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

What about you OP? Xx

I prefer one at any one time. Hence why I only look when I have the time to spend getting to know someone.

This ideally. I’m probably kidding myself though"

Why so? There's a huge variety in what people are looking for on here and many women in the same boat..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 regular partners and all of us allowed a bit on side when we can't meet lol

Covering all bases.. "
and needs lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I would prefer one, but put up with two or three

Ha ha if pushed.. "

If they twist my arm and pin me to the bed haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would prefer one, but put up with two or three

Ha ha if pushed..

If they twist my arm and pin me to the bed haha! "

cue inbox...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr gives me everything I need sexually, bar one obvious thing- I’m bi, haha! Love sharing him with other women though, so I get the best of everything xx"

Think I’d struggle with only ever meeting one woman though, as there is the risk of emotional involvement. That may sound awful, but I don’t want anyone to get hurt for something that is meant to be fun, and an extension of us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

What about you OP? Xx

I prefer one at any one time. Hence why I only look when I have the time to spend getting to know someone.

This ideally. I’m probably kidding myself though

Why so? There's a huge variety in what people are looking for on here and many women in the same boat.. "

Because what I’d like is difficult to find as the choice on here is so immense for women that it’s hard for everyone to take the time to see if it’s worthwhile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mr gives me everything I need sexually, bar one obvious thing- I’m bi, haha! Love sharing him with other women though, so I get the best of everything xx

Think I’d struggle with only ever meeting one woman though, as there is the risk of emotional involvement. That may sound awful, but I don’t want anyone to get hurt for something that is meant to be fun, and an extension of us xx"

Yeah think that's why so many couples prefer less regular meets to endure this doesn't happen. Must be a fine line!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it? "

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

What about you OP? Xx

I prefer one at any one time. Hence why I only look when I have the time to spend getting to know someone.

This ideally. I’m probably kidding myself though

Why so? There's a huge variety in what people are looking for on here and many women in the same boat..

Because what I’d like is difficult to find as the choice on here is so immense for women that it’s hard for everyone to take the time to see if it’s worthwhile. "

True.. but women find it equally difficult when they get sheer volume of messages. It gets overwhelming sometimes. I often switch off for periods of time purely to stop messages and enjoy my existing friendships for a bit.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

One really really good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr gives me everything I need sexually, bar one obvious thing- I’m bi, haha! Love sharing him with other women though, so I get the best of everything xx

Think I’d struggle with only ever meeting one woman though, as there is the risk of emotional involvement. That may sound awful, but I don’t want anyone to get hurt for something that is meant to be fun, and an extension of us xx

Yeah think that's why so many couples prefer less regular meets to endure this doesn't happen. Must be a fine line!"

It is. We enjoy sharing each other, but it can be difficult. One lady we met has become one of my best friends and so we now don’t play, as me and her have that attachment. We spent an amazing night together, but to see them together now, would hurt. That’s nothing to do with not being strong, not trusting them etc, but simply because I’m human and I have feelings xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible "

No shortage of lovelies oooop north.. but Gerard butler could knock on my door and I'd rather have a cup of tea right now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry."

Like a fab commune?

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I like five or six. My other half (obviously), one or two locally that I can meet up with every other week or so, then two or three down south for when I’m working down there.

That changes but doesn’t fluctuate too much. Any more and I start getting all anxious and panicky as my diary is a mess and any less and I run the risk of being bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr gives me everything I need sexually, bar one obvious thing- I’m bi, haha! Love sharing him with other women though, so I get the best of everything xx

Think I’d struggle with only ever meeting one woman though, as there is the risk of emotional involvement. That may sound awful, but I don’t want anyone to get hurt for something that is meant to be fun, and an extension of us xx

Yeah think that's why so many couples prefer less regular meets to endure this doesn't happen. Must be a fine line!

It is. We enjoy sharing each other, but it can be difficult. One lady we met has become one of my best friends and so we now don’t play, as me and her have that attachment. We spent an amazing night together, but to see them together now, would hurt. That’s nothing to do with not being strong, not trusting them etc, but simply because I’m human and I have feelings xx"

Ideally I’d like to meet people who we click with again, but keep that emotional distance, so that we have the trust but the dynamic doesn’t change who we are xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mr gives me everything I need sexually, bar one obvious thing- I’m bi, haha! Love sharing him with other women though, so I get the best of everything xx

Think I’d struggle with only ever meeting one woman though, as there is the risk of emotional involvement. That may sound awful, but I don’t want anyone to get hurt for something that is meant to be fun, and an extension of us xx

Yeah think that's why so many couples prefer less regular meets to endure this doesn't happen. Must be a fine line!

It is. We enjoy sharing each other, but it can be difficult. One lady we met has become one of my best friends and so we now don’t play, as me and her have that attachment. We spent an amazing night together, but to see them together now, would hurt. That’s nothing to do with not being strong, not trusting them etc, but simply because I’m human and I have feelings xx"

Yeah I get that.. I simply couldn't do it. I like attatchment too much and I don't think I could draw lines.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry."

Ah this sounds brilliant! But also scarily like whatshisface's ideal though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible

No shortage of lovelies oooop north.. but Gerard butler could knock on my door and I'd rather have a cup of tea right now! "

Yeah I’ve noticed the hot men are mostly up north! Fancy a house swap for a couple of weeks?

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry.

Like a fab commune? "

I’d join. Can I join?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 2 ladies that the have been playing with regular and a third who wants a Feb relationship and all 3 see other people ,1 even has a Dom who wants to watch me fuck her so at Min life's good and chances are me and one of them will do couples meets in near future

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One really really good one "

doesn't seem to be many single guys with the same outlook...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried the one woman thing it didn't go well as she didn't want to be exclusive so know I'm happy with regular NSA fun with the 3 ladies in my life now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible

No shortage of lovelies oooop north.. but Gerard butler could knock on my door and I'd rather have a cup of tea right now!

Yeah I’ve noticed the hot men are mostly up north! Fancy a house swap for a couple of weeks? "

Ha ha that'd be funny.. raiding a whole new patch!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible

No shortage of lovelies oooop north.. but Gerard butler could knock on my door and I'd rather have a cup of tea right now!

Yeah I’ve noticed the hot men are mostly up north! Fancy a house swap for a couple of weeks?

Ha ha that'd be funny.. raiding a whole new patch!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One would be enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr gives me everything I need sexually, bar one obvious thing- I’m bi, haha! Love sharing him with other women though, so I get the best of everything xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tried the one woman thing it didn't go well as she didn't want to be exclusive so know I'm happy with regular NSA fun with the 3 ladies in my life now"

3s impressive! It's interesting to see how people find their balance.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

Variety is the spice of life, however would be so much more enjoyable with a fwb on the same wavelength

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Jayne and I are perfectly matched sexually.

For us, swinging is just a way of exploring the fantasies that need more people than just the two of us, however we also love to make friends.

Our perfect set up would be having the time to meet all those on our "fuckit" list, and then spending weekends having wild parties with the ones that we click with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One would be enough "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry.

Like a fab commune? "

Sort of but much smaller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry.

Like a fab commune?

I’d join. Can I join? "

Well that’s two of us

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over a year ago


"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry.

Ah this sounds brilliant! But also scarily like whatshisface's ideal though."

Who’s what’s his face?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry.

Ah this sounds brilliant! But also scarily like whatshisface's ideal though.

Who’s what’s his face?"

Charles Manson!?!

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

42

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A diverse group of bi/pansexual m, f, TV/TS friends that really enjoy each others’ company and love exploring sexuality and spiritualit together; a sort of polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous community of inquiry.

Ah this sounds brilliant! But also scarily like whatshisface's ideal though.

Who’s what’s his face?

Charles Manson!?! "

Err that’s not what I had in mind at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One primarily, however, I'm happy to meet one or two more as long as it's clean and safe. All part of the fab adventure

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"One really really good one "

This ... with the opportunity to play a little within the relationship, couples fun etc

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over a year ago


"42"

Greedy

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire


"42

Greedy "

Nah I just miss Jim - 42 was his answer to everything

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over a year ago


"I tried the one woman thing it didn't go well as she didn't want to be exclusive so know I'm happy with regular NSA fun with the 3 ladies in my life now

3s impressive! It's interesting to see how people find their balance. "
alternate weekends lol but maybe one day we will just decide to arrange a gangbang

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over a year ago


"I tried the one woman thing it didn't go well as she didn't want to be exclusive so know I'm happy with regular NSA fun with the 3 ladies in my life now

3s impressive! It's interesting to see how people find their balance. alternate weekends lol but maybe one day we will just decide to arrange a gangbang "

Jesus your diary must be epic..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"42

Greedy

Nah I just miss Jim - 42 was his answer to everything "

Maybe that's where we are all going wrong.. he knew something we didn't.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? "
Oh what a great thought provoking question... I'm pretty adamant that I don't want a proper partner but I guess it's partly a defence mechanism.. So in an ideal world I'd like a partner that just gets me and understands that I need others...

So one actual partner with numerous others thrown in

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over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible "

I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really

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over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible

No shortage of lovelies oooop north.. but Gerard butler could knock on my door and I'd rather have a cup of tea right now!

Yeah I’ve noticed the hot men are mostly up north! Fancy a house swap for a couple of weeks?

Ha ha that'd be funny.. raiding a whole new patch!!

"

They may be fit up here but with fit comes arrogance and shallowness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible

I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really "

I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible

I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really

I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough. "

I’m happy in here... to meet anyone new now just fills me with dread x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? Oh what a great thought provoking question... I'm pretty adamant that I don't want a proper partner but I guess it's partly a defence mechanism.. So in an ideal world I'd like a partner that just gets me and understands that I need others...

So one actual partner with numerous others thrown in "

So kind of like a fwb set up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible

I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really

I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough.

I’m happy in here... to meet anyone new now just fills me with dread x "

Yeah I get that.. x sometimes it good to press pause and just enjoy the friendships for a while.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Just one, whilst it’s enjoyable for both of us obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible

I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really

I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough.

I’m happy in here... to meet anyone new now just fills me with dread x

Yeah I get that.. x sometimes it good to press pause and just enjoy the friendships for a while. "

100% yes x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just one, whilst it’s enjoyable for both of us obviously "

Snap not that I've found one.. ha ha but don't have the energy to deal with more than one at a time!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Two or three regulars plus a few new people a week. Ideally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of regulars on an irregular basis..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D is my perfect match he gives me everything I need and what he can't give (a woman's touch) he will find me a suitable partner that we can invite into our Perverted but pastionate sex life.

When the mood takes us we like to try new things together it strengthens our bond.

Jo.Xx

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible

I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really

I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough. "

I've just found 3 lol who are more than happy for me to have fun or join in it 1 on 1 its early days but atm I'm getting to know them they work strange hours so hence me having 3 lol girl has needs and I cant be kept waiting xxx ... loving that 2 of them love the social side having laugh attending clubs and organised socials it's just what I was after never thought I would get it and they just appeared lol ... so dont give up hope Miracles do happen xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible

I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really

I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough.

I've just found 3 lol who are more than happy for me to have fun or join in it 1 on 1 its early days but atm I'm getting to know them they work strange hours so hence me having 3 lol girl has needs and I cant be kept waiting xxx ... loving that 2 of them love the social side having laugh attending clubs and organised socials it's just what I was after never thought I would get it and they just appeared lol ... so dont give up hope Miracles do happen xxx"

Ha ha love this!!! Good on you sometimes things really do just slot into place all at once!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"D is my perfect match he gives me everything I need and what he can't give (a woman's touch) he will find me a suitable partner that we can invite into our Perverted but pastionate sex life.

When the mood takes us we like to try new things together it strengthens our bond.

Jo.Xx "

You two have it well and truly made x

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over a year ago

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible

I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really

I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough.

I've just found 3 lol who are more than happy for me to have fun or join in it 1 on 1 its early days but atm I'm getting to know them they work strange hours so hence me having 3 lol girl has needs and I cant be kept waiting xxx ... loving that 2 of them love the social side having laugh attending clubs and organised socials it's just what I was after never thought I would get it and they just appeared lol ... so dont give up hope Miracles do happen xxx

Ha ha love this!!! Good on you sometimes things really do just slot into place all at once! "

Ty x x

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible

I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really

I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough.

I've just found 3 lol who are more than happy for me to have fun or join in it 1 on 1 its early days but atm I'm getting to know them they work strange hours so hence me having 3 lol girl has needs and I cant be kept waiting xxx ... loving that 2 of them love the social side having laugh attending clubs and organised socials it's just what I was after never thought I would get it and they just appeared lol ... so dont give up hope Miracles do happen xxx

Ha ha love this!!! Good on you sometimes things really do just slot into place all at once!

Ty x x"

Lucky buggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

700 like king soleman

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I'd be happy with one

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

In an ideal world ONE man to be exclusive with without the trappings of a conventional relationship, that wants to have an ongoing arrangement socially, sexually and exploring/pushing boundaries/experimenting.

But it’s not an ideal world, is it?

Ideally this yes! But finding one you like who’s local enough is impossible

I’ve found many but they always chase the next one and I get forgotten so fuck it that’s why I can’t be arsed really

I think that's the hardest balance on here.. attraction is one thing, but finding someone with the same expectations is tough.

I've just found 3 lol who are more than happy for me to have fun or join in it 1 on 1 its early days but atm I'm getting to know them they work strange hours so hence me having 3 lol girl has needs and I cant be kept waiting xxx ... loving that 2 of them love the social side having laugh attending clubs and organised socials it's just what I was after never thought I would get it and they just appeared lol ... so dont give up hope Miracles do happen xxx

Ha ha love this!!! Good on you sometimes things really do just slot into place all at once!

Ty x x

Lucky buggers "

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

A different one each week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 now

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

In a ideal world / dream world.

Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal.

But alass I'm still on 0 atm....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried the one woman thing it didn't go well as she didn't want to be exclusive so know I'm happy with regular NSA fun with the 3 ladies in my life now

3s impressive! It's interesting to see how people find their balance. alternate weekends lol but maybe one day we will just decide to arrange a gangbang

Jesus your diary must be epic.. "
well I've a foursome sorted with one lady and a couple I've been talking to for years sat night and the same ladies Dom wants to watch me play with her sometime so in doing ok for an ugly short arse lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tried the one woman thing it didn't go well as she didn't want to be exclusive so know I'm happy with regular NSA fun with the 3 ladies in my life now

3s impressive! It's interesting to see how people find their balance. alternate weekends lol but maybe one day we will just decide to arrange a gangbang

Jesus your diary must be epic.. well I've a foursome sorted with one lady and a couple I've been talking to for years sat night and the same ladies Dom wants to watch me play with her sometime so in doing ok for an ugly short arse lol"

Ha ha behave!! You're clearly doing something right!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I've had a think and actually I'm really not sure.

If I was completely in love with somebody in a committed relationship and they wanted to be monogamous then I would happily do that for the right person but I guess in an ideal world I'd like to be in a relationship with a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a ideal world / dream world.

Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal.

But alass I'm still on 0 atm.... "

Haha this made me laugh... if I had a pound for very man I met on here that goes on about their sex drive yet when push comes to shove they can’t keep up with me.

Fucking Hell... this cracks me up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I've had a think and actually I'm really not sure.

If I was completely in love with somebody in a committed relationship and they wanted to be monogamous then I would happily do that for the right person but I guess in an ideal world I'd like to be in a relationship with a swinger. "

It's very interesting the mix of responses on here.. it's quite tricky when you sit down and think about it.. I think I've just bimbled through the years not thinking anything but week to week so far.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's probably going to vary for me, depending on my internets - sometimes unlimited and others just one. The ideal world will support flexibility and partners who are happily flexible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have to be at least 2 ladies... But they need to be happy to play together...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've had a think and actually I'm really not sure.

If I was completely in love with somebody in a committed relationship and they wanted to be monogamous then I would happily do that for the right person but I guess in an ideal world I'd like to be in a relationship with a swinger.

It's very interesting the mix of responses on here.. it's quite tricky when you sit down and think about it.. I think I've just bimbled through the years not thinking anything but week to week so far. "

yes absolutely but sometimes i think what's the best way to be, just enjoy the moment and how things are right now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I've had a think and actually I'm really not sure.

If I was completely in love with somebody in a committed relationship and they wanted to be monogamous then I would happily do that for the right person but I guess in an ideal world I'd like to be in a relationship with a swinger.

It's very interesting the mix of responses on here.. it's quite tricky when you sit down and think about it.. I think I've just bimbled through the years not thinking anything but week to week so far.

yes absolutely but sometimes i think what's the best way to be, just enjoy the moment and how things are right now. "

Ha ha yeah but I've been doing that for 8 years now and hadn't realised that I was coasting..

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? "

How many sexual partners in total, throughout my life? That number is open-ended

I have a number of regular playmates I enjoy spending time with, as our schedules and ‘ordinary’ lives allow. Variety is the spice of life though, so I’m always open to meeting new, likeminded fun friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a poly relationship (MFM)

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

I have thought about this question; in an ideal world, I would like 2 or 3 women not into sleeping with a whole lot of people, not a number thing. Just a little variety.

I would assume it is a difficult ask for a woman to satisfy a man all sexual desire - can't say the same for women.

I grew up in an environment where some men have 2+ wives and that is another problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll echo many here...one relationship, with the confidence and trust in each other to play together and apart with blessings and pervy pics shared!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 bi men who would be happy to have 3somes now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried the one woman thing it didn't go well as she didn't want to be exclusive so know I'm happy with regular NSA fun with the 3 ladies in my life now

3s impressive! It's interesting to see how people find their balance. alternate weekends lol but maybe one day we will just decide to arrange a gangbang

Jesus your diary must be epic.. well I've a foursome sorted with one lady and a couple I've been talking to for years sat night and the same ladies Dom wants to watch me play with her sometime so in doing ok for an ugly short arse lol

Ha ha behave!! You're clearly doing something right!! "
message me privately and I'll tell u my secret it will revolutionise the way u see men on here lol

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester

1 would be an improvement on the situation at the moment

But maybe 2 or 3 would be great for a bit of variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 2 and 3

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed?? "

Hi op!

In my dream world? One wonderful, localish, non jealous, non monogamous guy would come along and rock my world - and he’d have no problem with me seeing 2 guys on here who I thoroughly enjoy spending time with and shagging (but will never have a ‘proper ‘ relationship with) - and a few young studs as and when the feeling takes me/us! He’d also swing too though - as I’ve no wish to be a Hotwife - and we’d swing as a couple! And if he was bi too - I’d be in bloody heaven!

Basically there’d be a whole lot of sex!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1 2 and 3 "

Ha ha greedychops

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"1 would be an improvement on the situation at the moment

But maybe 2 or 3 would be great for a bit of variety "

I’ll be number 3!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1 would be an improvement on the situation at the moment

But maybe 2 or 3 would be great for a bit of variety "

What!?! You must be getting hits mr!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sexual partners would you like?

Are you happy with one person that pushes all your buttons?

Are you looking for a couple of people for regular fun?

Or do you love variety and want to experiment with lots of different people?

What would be your perfect set up if opportunity allowed??

Hi op!

In my dream world? One wonderful, localish, non jealous, non monogamous guy would come along and rock my world - and he’d have no problem with me seeing 2 guys on here who I thoroughly enjoy spending time with and shagging (but will never have a ‘proper ‘ relationship with) - and a few young studs as and when the feeling takes me/us! He’d also swing too though - as I’ve no wish to be a Hotwife - and we’d swing as a couple! And if he was bi too - I’d be in bloody heaven!

Basically there’d be a whole lot of sex! "

Ha ha sounds like a challenge!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one is my goal. The undeniable chemistry, fireworks when we kiss and both completely open with each other about our wants and needs. To have trust and confidence to explore together. I dream of being enough for someone and them enough for me.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally i want ro find thay one ladt who is as naughty minded as i am.. the female version of me... and that can keep up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 2 and 3

Ha ha greedychops"

Me? I'd be more than happy with one extra special person though. The other stuff is just a bonus. Or filling till I find number 1. If she's up for 2 and 3, great. No biggy if not.

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over a year ago


"Just one is my goal. The undeniable chemistry, fireworks when we kiss and both completely open with each other about our wants and needs. To have trust and confidence to explore together. I dream of being enough for someone and them enough for me. "

Heard so many stories of people randomly meeting here that never expected it.. just takes one x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1 2 and 3

Ha ha greedychops

Me? I'd be more than happy with one extra special person though. The other stuff is just a bonus. Or filling till I find number 1. If she's up for 2 and 3, great. No biggy if not."

Yeah I think the question is completely variable depending on the level of connection.

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over a year ago

I think youre spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aside from having the biggest ass fetish.. meanong i live to eat pr lick a ladys ass... have made a few orgasm by simply licking your bums... one lucky lady got a bit more but she was 1 of a kind... hehe

For one reason or another since a young age, ive always been attracted to the Mature ladies.. mothers. Milfs.. cougars.. curvy mature ladies.. plump or curvy ladies.. i love a woman woth a full figure.. curves.. bluges.. i love stretchmarks too.. see i think every lady is different. I love to kiss.. passionately.. love to look in your eye.. ur hands round my neck.. caress each side equally. Ur belly.. legs.. grab your beautiful curvy bum.. pull you in.. kiss you deeplymm slowly... i love to caress a womans body.. like a flower.. kiss.. lick.. make a lady orgasm before i do.. love making slow passionate love... all the way.. do spanking your bum... treating you like a naughty girl.. kinky.. slutty.. love role playing and pretending etc..

Im a hopeless romantic whos 100 percent sexually driven and cant do fuck all. Lets make love guys. Have sex. Bring back the 70s..

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over a year ago

Aside from having the biggest ass fetish.. meanong i live to eat pr lick a ladys ass... have made a few orgasm by simply licking your bums... one lucky lady got a bit more but she was 1 of a kind... hehe

For one reason or another since a young age, ive always been attracted to the Mature ladies.. mothers. Milfs.. cougars.. curvy mature ladies.. plump or curvy ladies.. i love a woman woth a full figure.. curves.. bluges.. i love stretchmarks too.. see i think every lady is different. I love to kiss.. passionately.. love to look in your eye.. ur hands round my neck.. caress each side equally. Ur belly.. legs.. grab your beautiful curvy bum.. pull you in.. kiss you deeplymm slowly... i love to caress a womans body.. like a flower.. kiss.. lick.. make a lady orgasm before i do.. love making slow passionate love... all the way.. do spanking your bum... treating you like a naughty girl.. kinky.. slutty.. love role playing and pretending etc..

Im a hopeless romantic whos 100 percent sexually driven whose living in cosy Wickford essex and cant do fuck all. Lets make love guys. Have sex. Bring back the 70s..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard one two answers because not that luck to have many partners loll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One cracking one would do me

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"1 would be an improvement on the situation at the moment

But maybe 2 or 3 would be great for a bit of variety

What!?! You must be getting hits mr!! "

Few to none

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1 would be an improvement on the situation at the moment

But maybe 2 or 3 would be great for a bit of variety

What!?! You must be getting hits mr!!

Few to none "

Lost!!!

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"1 would be an improvement on the situation at the moment

But maybe 2 or 3 would be great for a bit of variety

What!?! You must be getting hits mr!!

Few to none

Lost!!! "

Tell me about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1 would be an improvement on the situation at the moment

But maybe 2 or 3 would be great for a bit of variety

What!?! You must be getting hits mr!!

Few to none

Lost!!!

Tell me about it "

We need some fresh forum blood.. that's criminal!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one. Only need one. This is man speaking....but she needs more! That’s cool too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One cracking one would do me "

Snap

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Just one sounds so simple when you write it

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"In a ideal world / dream world.

Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal.

But alass I'm still on 0 atm....

Haha this made me laugh... if I had a pound for very man I met on here that goes on about their sex drive yet when push comes to shove they can’t keep up with me.

Fucking Hell... this cracks me up! "

Ya but most men hear have had sex at sum point wear i have not and got catching up to to.

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By *ima66Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Two or three for variety on a regular basis would be my ideal...

I like to watch the person I’m with to be a flirt and tease with others then, when their at a heightened state of arousal we find somewhere to fuck...

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Well how about 1 but have someone or more to help with the fun from time to time..

It work for us ...

Quilt over quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going forward, I'd like one.

Who knows what I need.

We can all dream right?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Going forward, I'd like one.

Who knows what I need.

We can all dream right? "

They do not stand a chance unless you tell them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going forward, I'd like one.

Who knows what I need.

We can all dream right? "
it's cool to dream but reality is u probably will have to meet a few to the one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. I'd be A sexual and be able to concentrate on more important things like, I don't know my job/career, flippin world hunger even, instead of thinking so much about nookie. On the other hand if its a perfect world then there is no world hunger and I'm a millionaire so maybe 20 or 30, just cause I'm a greedy fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 seems like a nice round number to cover all my sides & then a wee random when the wind blows a certain way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably 2 or 3.

My husband pushes all my buttons like nobody else can, but doesn't have a very high sex drive so I'd need him and then a man to fuck regularly and a woman to fuck regularly.

I find it fascinating that the connection within married couples is totally different from the extra sexual partners.. I guess this is what so many singletons aspire to on here. "

I think a lot of it is just knowing each other for long enough that we don't worry about each other's ego when we're giving instructions (& we know that the other won't get offended if we give instructions!) so we each get exactly what we need, and he's had lots of practise to learn what I like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None. I'd be A sexual and be able to concentrate on more important things like, I don't know my job/career, flippin world hunger even, instead of thinking so much about nookie. On the other hand if its a perfect world then there is no world hunger and I'm a millionaire so maybe 20 or 30, just cause I'm a greedy fucker "

Do you ever cry at movies every now and then? I'm pretty happy being single and I know I don't want a relationship, but I sat watching Forest Gump last night and at one point when Jenny and Forest hadn't seen each other for a long time and are reunited they run into each others arms and that part brought a wee tear to my eye I'm not ashamed to admit. It got me thinking for a second that maybe I would like that closeness with 1 person, until I changed the channel at the end of the movie. So what I'm getting at is that my mind changes regularly so I don't honestly know whether I would one 1 woman in an ideal world or more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two or three regular partners with the option of more if I wanted. Dream on!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

This thread does speak volume about the suppressed desire of human nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than my current tally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a ideal world / dream world.

Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal.

But alass I'm still on 0 atm.... "
thought u had a bird now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 1 slim 1 curvy and a bi male or TV to cover all options.But 1 regular FWB would be enough if push each other’s limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One is fine, but if she wants to bring her best girlfriend from time to time I'm ok with that.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"In a ideal world / dream world.

Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal.

But alass I'm still on 0 atm....

thought u had a bird now"

Yes i have a girlfriend now (not a bird ) but cos her parst is haunting her a bit she is taking things very slowly. And i have no plans to make her speed up. (as much as i wood like things to move a bit faster ) I plan to surport her and wen she is redey things will start to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a ideal world / dream world.

Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal.

But alass I'm still on 0 atm....

thought u had a bird now

Yes i have a girlfriend now (not a bird ) but cos her parst is haunting her a bit she is taking things very slowly. And i have no plans to make her speed up. (as much as i wood like things to move a bit faster ) I plan to surport her and wen she is redey things will start to happen. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I have my own partner already but we are in a open relationship. I also have a regular fb. Technically that's enough which is why my profile states not meeting but ideally I would like a dom or another regular partner. I don't like one offs and lots of variety. I think the sex is better with someone you know well

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Right now I'm happy with one who ticks all my boxes. When we've more free time and opportunity, we may include others in our adventures...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a ideal world / dream world.

Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal.

But alass I'm still on 0 atm....

thought u had a bird now

Yes i have a girlfriend now (not a bird ) but cos her parst is haunting her a bit she is taking things very slowly. And i have no plans to make her speed up. (as much as i wood like things to move a bit faster ) I plan to surport her and wen she is redey things will start to happen. "
ffs that was suppost to be a thumb grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferably 1, but finding someone who has free time at the same time as me would be pretty hard, so 2 or 3 probably work the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like one special one, but as a partner in crime we would then share lots of others

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"In a ideal world / dream world.

Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal.

But alass I'm still on 0 atm....

thought u had a bird now

Yes i have a girlfriend now (not a bird ) but cos her parst is haunting her a bit she is taking things very slowly. And i have no plans to make her speed up. (as much as i wood like things to move a bit faster ) I plan to surport her and wen she is redey things will start to happen. ffs that was suppost to be a thumb grrrrrr"

You meen this..... .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a ideal world / dream world.

Just 1 wanting fum times 2-3 times a day 7 days a week wood be ideal.

But alass I'm still on 0 atm....

thought u had a bird now

Yes i have a girlfriend now (not a bird ) but cos her parst is haunting her a bit she is taking things very slowly. And i have no plans to make her speed up. (as much as i wood like things to move a bit faster ) I plan to surport her and wen she is redey things will start to happen. "

You sound like a very good boyfriend, she's lucky.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

One man who likes adding other women on occasion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fascinating answers as always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I'm jealous of those that have found that one person on here I would love that at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must admit I'm jealous of those that have found that one person on here I would love that at some point"

Seems the majority of singletons would ideally like one main partner whether they add to that or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What Nik M said.

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