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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is this encouraged? And who is selling it to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to flesh this out a bit to be clearer OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Victimhood only works when the perpetrator is a white male.

And if it isn’t, just say that it is anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay, please explain for this old lady...

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Victim of what?

Circumstance?

Murder?

Bullying?

Domestic violence?

Emotional abuse?

I've been a victim and I'm far happier being a survivor ta very much.

I don't like the term victim.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been a victim and I'm far happier being a survivor ta very much.

I don't like the term victim.

P

"

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a victim of my own poor taste in men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t even understand the question

On a lighter note, that was the best song culture club did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it so they get sympathy or for financial gains?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t even understand the question

On a lighter note, that was the best song culture club did "

Love that song

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it so they get sympathy or for financial gains?"

I think so.

Some "play" the victim, some twisted excuses for humans in an attempt to lure others. They feed you warped truths.

You can't believe all this bad stuff has happened to them and you want to fix the world for them.

Years later you discover you've been played like a fiddle.

Turns out you're their victim and you didn't even see it coming.

Narcissists are finely tuned individuals.

P

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Is it so they get sympathy or for financial gains?

I think so.

Some "play" the victim, some twisted excuses for humans in an attempt to lure others. They feed you warped truths.

You can't believe all this bad stuff has happened to them and you want to fix the world for them.

Years later you discover you've been played like a fiddle.

Turns out you're their victim and you didn't even see it coming.

Narcissists are finely tuned individuals.

P"

Oh I know someone like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it so they get sympathy or for financial gains?

I think so.

Some "play" the victim, some twisted excuses for humans in an attempt to lure others. They feed you warped truths.

You can't believe all this bad stuff has happened to them and you want to fix the world for them.

Years later you discover you've been played like a fiddle.

Turns out you're their victim and you didn't even see it coming.

Narcissists are finely tuned individuals.

P

Oh I know someone like this. "

My husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok cool

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being offended and becoming a victim is just in your face these days. I detest it. I think its a failing of society. Who has been encouraging this way of looking at things? And why? I'm not sure, that's why i ask.

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury


"Being offended and becoming a victim is just in your face these days. I detest it. I think its a failing of society. Who has been encouraging this way of looking at things? And why? I'm not sure, that's why i ask. "

And you know this is a 'swinging' website?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being offended and becoming a victim is just in your face these days. I detest it. I think its a failing of society. Who has been encouraging this way of looking at things? And why? I'm not sure, that's why i ask.

And you know this is a 'swinging' website?"

And you know this is a forum where we can talk about things other than swinging?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Victim card is deployed far too often when losing arguments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Victim card is deployed far too often when losing arguments. "

Thing is, it detracts from actual victims. It just becomes a joke term. Crying wolf.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Is it so they get sympathy or for financial gains?

I think so.

Some "play" the victim, some twisted excuses for humans in an attempt to lure others. They feed you warped truths.

You can't believe all this bad stuff has happened to them and you want to fix the world for them.

Years later you discover you've been played like a fiddle.

Turns out you're their victim and you didn't even see it coming.

Narcissists are finely tuned individuals.

P"

Isn't this similar to munchausen by proxy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being offended and becoming a victim is just in your face these days. I detest it. I think its a failing of society. Who has been encouraging this way of looking at things? And why? I'm not sure, that's why i ask. "

Parents not wanting to parent. Those that blame everyone and everything for their child being upset because it's easier than taking responsibility and teaching kids that shit happens.

I remember when KFC couldn't get any chicken and one family tried to sue KFC for wasted time and their kid being heartbroken after it had been promised dinner there to find it closed. Tough. Shit happens.

Also, the where there's blame there's a claim culture.

"Oh my child was running round the supermarket and caught its head on a shelf"

Yes you moron, that's what happens when you don't teach your kids that a fucking supermarket isn't a playground.

Easier to blame others than take responsibility. If they take responsibility they'll see they aren't flawless after all, and low and behold.... they may actually need to make an effort

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being offended and becoming a victim is just in your face these days. I detest it. I think its a failing of society. Who has been encouraging this way of looking at things? And why? I'm not sure, that's why i ask. "

Take a little glance to the left and you may find your answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it so they get sympathy or for financial gains?

I think so.

Some "play" the victim, some twisted excuses for humans in an attempt to lure others. They feed you warped truths.

You can't believe all this bad stuff has happened to them and you want to fix the world for them.

Years later you discover you've been played like a fiddle.

Turns out you're their victim and you didn't even see it coming.

Narcissists are finely tuned individuals.

P

Isn't this similar to munchausen by proxy?"

Nah, that's where "caregivers" make kids ill or fake sickness in the child etc so that the child is given attention.

I think that's the one anyway.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being offended and becoming a victim is just in your face these days. I detest it. I think its a failing of society. Who has been encouraging this way of looking at things? And why? I'm not sure, that's why i ask.

Parents not wanting to parent. Those that blame everyone and everything for their child being upset because it's easier than taking responsibility and teaching kids that shit happens.

I remember when KFC couldn't get any chicken and one family tried to sue KFC for wasted time and their kid being heartbroken after it had been promised dinner there to find it closed. Tough. Shit happens.

Also, the where there's blame there's a claim culture.

"Oh my child was running round the supermarket and caught its head on a shelf"

Yes you moron, that's what happens when you don't teach your kids that a fucking supermarket isn't a playground.

Easier to blame others than take responsibility. If they take responsibility they'll see they aren't flawless after all, and low and behold.... they may actually need to make an effort

P "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being offended and becoming a victim is just in your face these days. I detest it. I think its a failing of society. Who has been encouraging this way of looking at things? And why? I'm not sure, that's why i ask.

Parents not wanting to parent. Those that blame everyone and everything for their child being upset because it's easier than taking responsibility and teaching kids that shit happens.

I remember when KFC couldn't get any chicken and one family tried to sue KFC for wasted time and their kid being heartbroken after it had been promised dinner there to find it closed. Tough. Shit happens.

Also, the where there's blame there's a claim culture.

"Oh my child was running round the supermarket and caught its head on a shelf"

Yes you moron, that's what happens when you don't teach your kids that a fucking supermarket isn't a playground.

Easier to blame others than take responsibility. If they take responsibility they'll see they aren't flawless after all, and low and behold.... they may actually need to make an effort

P "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jussie Smollett....now there's a true victim of homophobic, racist white supremacy.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Why is this encouraged? And who is selling it to them?"

Might be some of the same people who offer the victim protection.

Im quite inspired by Candace Owen.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"Jussie Smollett....now there's a true victim of homophobic, racist white supremacy. "

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Is it so they get sympathy or for financial gains?

I think so.

Some "play" the victim, some twisted excuses for humans in an attempt to lure others. They feed you warped truths.

You can't believe all this bad stuff has happened to them and you want to fix the world for them.

Years later you discover you've been played like a fiddle.

Turns out you're their victim and you didn't even see it coming.

Narcissists are finely tuned individuals.

P

Isn't this similar to munchausen by proxy?

Nah, that's where "caregivers" make kids ill or fake sickness in the child etc so that the child is given attention.

I think that's the one anyway.

P"

Might just be munchausen without the proxy then. Very difficult to diagnose too.

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