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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On a scale of 1-10 how broken would you say you are.

Feel free to use your own definitions of broken as one persons 10 may be another's 2

Im just curious how far from the "norm" we all consider ourselves to be.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not broken imo but definitely not "normal"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tapped Mayb but not broken

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'm so stable someone parked a horse up my bum crack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm so stable someone parked a horse up my bum crack."

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Totally broken over the past few weeks but pulling myself back out of it. After all no one else is going to do it for me. And you’d think at my age I’d have learnt

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Broken as in physically and / or psychologically?

Physical maybe a 3/10 as I still ache slightly from a gym session. Psychologically a 0/10. Life is good at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it comes to romantic relationships I'm struggling, so I'm going to say a 10 for that.

Mental health wise I'm much better than I was, so I'm going with a 6.

Health wise I'm deteriorating rapidly so 6 and falling fast.

Tiredness I'll give a 9 to, as I'm almost always tired or exhausted.

Well being, I'm feeling ok considering, so I'm going with an 8.

Sex wise I'm a 10

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

I'm more broken than all the glass in a green house, i gave up along time ago so now I just float through life. Enjoy the ride as they say and remember the good not the bad

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Physically a little beat up. I’m working around it and getting back to the body that I can comfortably maintain. About a 6 which isn’t bad considering my legs.

Mentally I’m about Regan MacNeil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

Although I tripped over the hoover earlier and have a massive scratch on my leg so may up that to a 0.5. I think I’ll live though.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

By many people's standards, completely and utterly broken, physically, psychologically, neurologically. I do the best I can with what I've got, and anyone who writes me off can go to hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling really down atm, just lost really...

So 0 mentally

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Oh is 0 broken? I’ll change mine to 9.5 then

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Feeling really down atm, just lost really...

So 0 mentally

Oh is 0 broken? I’ll change mine to 9.5 then "

Uhmmmmmm The Q was .... HOW broken are you so I'd be saying 10 is broken and 0 is mended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling really down atm, just lost really...

So 0 mentally

Oh is 0 broken? I’ll change mine to 9.5 then

Uhmmmmmm The Q was .... HOW broken are you so I'd be saying 10 is broken and 0 is mended. "

Yeah that’s how I read it too.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Not totally broken but my bum’s got a crack in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally fine.. , Not broken at all! Blesssed to be alive, happy & breathing..

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Not totally broken but my bum’s got a crack in it "

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Hmmm a little broken.. but then normality is subjective. Sexually probably rather broken (cos I can't cum - which fucks me off no end)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'm broken at all. I'm lucky in that I've accepted and dealt with any issues I've had in the past, they didn't break me because I'm still here, I'm just a little more experienced in life.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't think I'm broken at all. I'm lucky in that I've accepted and dealt with any issues I've had in the past, they didn't break me because I'm still here, I'm just a little more experienced in life. "

I think this is it. Sometimes life deals you a crap hand and you end up a little battered, but for some we rise from the ashes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not totally broken but my bum’s got a crack in it "

What a lovely crack it is..

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By *ambsguynextdoorMan
over a year ago

Ely

About a 2 (10 being broken). I know I have things to fix but nothing that is stopping me living life. A few weeks ago I would have said 0.5 but its always good to look for things to improve or in some ways treat.

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By *sh6866Man
over a year ago

halifax

I go up to 11....

Physically.. i'm working on getting back, mentally..i'm the most broken i've ever been..

As is usually the case when someone you trust fucks your life up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m about a 4 , better than I used to be, and I’m slowly getting better. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say physically I'm permanently on about 70% of full capacity, as for psychologically - a bibble and a pencil up each nostril.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I'm well and truly fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm literally broken- or my knee is... It's healing, just not fast enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a lovely chat yesterday with Ads and a friend about depression etc and they hit the nail on the head, no matter how broken etc you feel, you always have some bounce, you are never just on the floor with nothing left, there is some light at the end of the tunnel.

I’ve been left feeling like I have nothing left but something Ads says to me time and time again ‘have you got a roof over your head? Have you eaten today? Do you have people round you that love you?’ And the answer to those things is yes and it does lift me.

Something else that stuck with me yesterday was when someone ask how you are or says ‘I’ve had a really bad day’ they are basically trying to get it off their chests and we should listen and not say back ‘your day has been bad, mine has been...’ (unless it’s prevalent to their troubles).

Right now I’m not really feeling broken, even financially for example, we don’t have much left until the end of the month but I have food in the fridge etc, right now life is pretty ok.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm literally broken- or my knee is... It's healing, just not fast enough. "

Oh I hope you fully recover very soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mentally - 7/10, with it enough to function but little spare capacity

Physically? Around 8/10, need a few bits repaired and renewed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been run over by a cow and a tractor and i've stuck a chainsaw in my leg but i'm still standing. Not broken at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://youtu.be/XoRLIJJSG4o

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Mentally I'd say 5/10 work in progress

Phisically I'd say 4/10 which isn't bad really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently feeling like a 8/10, maybe even 9/10.

In reality it's probably 5/10 though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm literally broken- or my knee is... It's healing, just not fast enough.

Oh I hope you fully recover very soon. "

Thank you, it's been 5 months now... Who would have thought that a silly slip on wet bathroom floor would have such dire consequences...

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I'm about 5% broken but my shoulder will be back soon I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years ago after a catalogue of disaster I was physically and mentally broken. It's no exaggeration to say that I could see no way out. These days I'm a 4 ish.. I may be a distance from where I'd like to be, but from where I've been it's a world of difference.

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By *-CrassClownMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

A hard 7/10, been as high as 9 in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling really down atm, just lost really...

So 0 mentally

Oh is 0 broken? I’ll change mine to 9.5 then

Uhmmmmmm The Q was .... HOW broken are you so I'd be saying 10 is broken and 0 is mended. "

That's how I read it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 as im out of work no transport

Stuck in limbo waiting for calls its ruining my fucking life

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I'm not broken... just badly bent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0. Not at all broken physically or mentally. Life is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling really down atm, just lost really...

So 0 mentally

Oh is 0 broken? I’ll change mine to 9.5 then

Uhmmmmmm The Q was .... HOW broken are you so I'd be saying 10 is broken and 0 is mended.

That's how I read it too."

Which means I need to change sex wise to 0, cos I'm a plum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been as low as a 2/3 but around a 7/8 these days.

Pills and counselling worked for me

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I'm so stable someone parked a horse up my bum crack."

Pictures or it didn't happen.

That should rein you in.....

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Normal is overrated.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Been as low as a 2/3 but around a 7/8 these days.

Pills and counselling worked for me"

viagra and sex worked for me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. I'm happy.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'm unbreakable.

Might be a bit cracked maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a beautiful mess and I wouldn’t change a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm unbreakable.

Might be a bit cracked maybe."

Just at the moment, I'm cooking on gas and enjoying it while it lasts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh I am not sure where begin.

Mental health it varies between 5 to a 8

Physical a 8 apart from a few aches

Emotional a 5 at the moment.

For a happy hump day. I ain't feeling it.

As I am in a over thinking and I wish for a kill switch at times.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Me? I couldn't it a figure on it, but I'd say I'm that cracked mug in the cupboard... You know... The slightly chipped one... The one you feel that miniscule tug in the handle that warns it might come off completely someday... But you still use it and its still your favourite mug because tea from anything else just isn't the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty integrated. I healed a little bit of my unintegrated self last month and life has been very good since. I’m always a work in progress but I’m content. My only physical issue is controlled hypertension because I need meds to keep it controlled. But that improved as my fitness improved and weight reduced so again all moving in the right direction

As for being normal - I’m a bit of a chameleon so I appear more normal to some people than others. I have many faces - not just two faced

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Physically 8/10 I’m a wreck In the last year I had 3 operations, broke my hand boxing and partially lost my eyesight.

Emotionally. I’m all good.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I'm grand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is fighting a secret battle you don’t know about. Except for me. I am fighting my battle very publicly and it is with an angry squirel with serious issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This time 2 years ago I was almost very fucking broken. Had a full on breakdown in May 2017.

Now I'm not broken. I do carry scars though, I don't see the good in people as much as I used to. I did that too much previously and found myself making excuses for the shitty behaviour of others, now I sense people instead of trusting them automatically. I listen to my gut far more, and I'm not afraid to trust it.

Abuse my trust and it's game over, which sounds harsh but it's my reality now so I suppose that's a bit extreme and says I'm not as unbroken as maybe I think I am.

I'd say I don't necessarily fit into the "normal" bracket, but fuck, there is no normal, not really. Everyone has their own normality and what some people consider normal others think it crazy.

On a scale of 10 I'd put myself at a 2

P

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Everyone is fighting a secret battle you don’t know about. Except for me. I am fighting my battle very publicly and it is with an angry squirel with serious issues."

Be careful with them angry squirrels with issues....they always go for the nuts first!!!

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

I was very "broken"....Stuck in reverse and going nowhere but i found my guiding light. I am still mending, but i am getting there....big huge virtual cuggle to anyone still struggling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'm just going passed 10 so down at the min

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"I'm more broken than all the glass in a green house, i gave up along time ago so now I just float through life. Enjoy the ride as they say and remember the good not the bad "

that about sums it up for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has some issues. That means everyone is normal.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Right now.

Physically, very broken.. I've just crawled out of the gym

If we're talking mentally broken.

Then I suppose I am to a degree.

Life events always leave scars, some never heal.

But others have made me stronger than I've ever been.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I’m not broken at all. I’ve experienced lots of things in my life that lots of others have, like bereavement but I have my health, I have a roof over my head and people that love me. I’m happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm literally broken- or my knee is... It's healing, just not fast enough.

Oh I hope you fully recover very soon.

Thank you, it's been 5 months now... Who would have thought that a silly slip on wet bathroom floor would have such dire consequences... "

how horrible and I can imagine it's been very frustrating.

Well I hope you are very much on the mend soon.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Surprisingly unbroken in many areas, a work in progress in others. I think in some ways healing can only begin when you perceive the brokenness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on your perception of broken.

Obviously I have ups and downs in life as everybody does and there are days I feel pretty crap and other days on top of the world. Then there are those times in life that everything just feels a complete mess and totally broken, but they always end up repairing themselves even if it's not always in the way I want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My finger is a 10 on the broken scale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically I'm a bit more broken every day.

Mental and spiritually I'm stronger than ever.

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By *veready69Man
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH


"Not totally broken but my bum’s got a crack in it "

I would be more than happy to fill that crack for you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically I feel broken, mentally I'm done.

What is driving me forward? Not sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not broken at all. I’ve experienced lots of things in my life that lots of others have, like bereavement but I have my health, I have a roof over my head and people that love me. I’m happy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably around an 8 or a 9. I got sent on a stress management course at work and it turns out I've been burned out since I was a teenager , which probably accounts for the awful state of my mental health!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been through a lot (too much it feels like). So I would say I'm a 8 out of 10 now, used to be 10 years ago.

Not a bad thing, I think most will go through similar or worse at some point. Makes you see things differently, become more caring and understanding. More human as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7, maybe 8. Depressed, lonely, but trying to work through it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"7, maybe 8. Depressed, lonely, but trying to work through it."

'Working through it'. Does that mean trying to bare with it and sit it out? (Will not work). Or making changes to your life that will get you back to yourself? I hope it's the last one

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over a year ago

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I'm indestructible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically, I'm pretty good. Had a heart scare a few years back which was a worry but ran 11 marathons since then. My body survived years of alcohol abuse pretty much unscathed (realistically I probably should have cirrhosis of the liver) so it's doing me proud way too young to he having a second cateract operation though! So I'd say 2 or 3 out of ten at the most.

Mentally, well I'm a mess but I'm getting better every week. One breakdown and one attempt at calling it quits last year, well that's pretty much rock bottom. But that's not the whole picture, 3 1/2 years sober is a huge positive but it takes some adjusting and the demons of a lot of shit aren't always quiet. On a good day I'd say 5 or 6, a bad day easily 10 and let's not think about the really bad days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm indestructible "

You should be Captain Scarlet

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I'm indestructible

You should be Captain Scarlet "
Showing your age there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very, in many different ways. At the moment about a 6

However, last time I checked broken crayons can still colour in or make pretty pictures.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I have had times where things have threatened to break me, and perhaps they did for a while but I don’t stay broken long.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 4 out of 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"7, maybe 8. Depressed, lonely, but trying to work through it."

Tough things to deal with and an all too often deadly combination for men. I've been there as well. Message me if you want to chat, no ulterior motive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very, in many different ways. At the moment about a 6

However, last time I checked broken crayons can still colour in or make pretty pictures. "

I love this, beautiful sentiment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physically, I'm pretty good. Had a heart scare a few years back which was a worry but ran 11 marathons since then. My body survived years of alcohol abuse pretty much unscathed (realistically I probably should have cirrhosis of the liver) so it's doing me proud way too young to he having a second cateract operation though! So I'd say 2 or 3 out of ten at the most.

Mentally, well I'm a mess but I'm getting better every week. One breakdown and one attempt at calling it quits last year, well that's pretty much rock bottom. But that's not the whole picture, 3 1/2 years sober is a huge positive but it takes some adjusting and the demons of a lot of shit aren't always quiet. On a good day I'd say 5 or 6, a bad day easily 10 and let's not think about the really bad days! "

I can’t imagine how that must feel, but I would think to achieve 3 1/2 years of being sober is bloody hard work, so that alone is a massive achievement...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 out of 10

Or in simple terms Fu@&£&

Backs in pieces, peraformus playing up and my replacement elbow is giving me loads of jip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now it's 7-8/10. About two months ago it was solid 10/10 so I'm getting better I guess, but I'm still a mess

K

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

More norm is 'broken'. It doesn't mean I live at 10 (sometimes I dial it up to 11) but it's rarely below 4.

Broken is how Lickety was born.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment I’m about an 8/9 Feeling broken and want to rant and cry, but I’ll just look at the forum and pretend all good elsewhere x Viv x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think personally I’m broken but I do think parts of my life are extremely fragmented.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Broken is a stronge word I prefer to say fucked

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Parts of my life are broken so about a 2 (0 being the most broken)

I would usually be an 8 or 9, hopefully I'll be back up there soon.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If 1 is not broken and 10 is very broken I'm 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt class myself as broken per say, merely slightly dented. So I'll go with a 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humans are like lego......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humans are like lego...... "

I see myself more as an elastic band

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An eb could be holding a broken thing together...... Like a beautiful cwtch

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Humans are like lego......

I see myself more as an elastic band "

Would love to give you a good ping'ing

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

To be fair I questioned if I was to broken to be back on fab before I signed back up.. But I realised I had control of myself so I was okay.

I would say I was broken but only a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Broken is relative.....

You're either breaking or you're healing, but you're always slightly broken, it's healthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with me.

I’m completely normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post is broken......

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By *ima66Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm so stable someone parked a horse up my bum crack."

Lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think of myself as a Chinese tea cup filled in with gold

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By *edonist79Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

0 not broken at all. I'm exactly how I'm meant to be right now right in this moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh reckon I'm a 9, had to go back on antidepressants cauz rum doesn't count lol

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

I am Batfink my wings of steel will protect me...

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"Me? I couldn't it a figure on it, but I'd say I'm that cracked mug in the cupboard... You know... The slightly chipped one... The one you feel that miniscule tug in the handle that warns it might come off completely someday... But you still use it and its still your favourite mug because tea from anything else just isn't the same "

Not sure where I am on the scale right now, but a tad better for the above... and less off the handle.

Physically, I've been better and worse but my arm and leg aren't as broken as they were and my fingers are completely healed. My arm still goes 'clunk' when I lift with it to too much. I'll be fine by summer.

The noggin is less easy to judge. Slightly numb and seemingly impervious to the kind of shit that might've brought about a spin in the past. Not sure if that's a good or a bad sign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically I'm fit and healthy and, luckily, I always have been. Emotionally I have some deep scars but they are healed. It's taken a huge amount of time and effort to get to this point. Life is good.

Why do you ask Op, are you wobbling?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Overall, there are more positives than negatives, and while life isn't perfect, it will always be preferable to the alternative.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

More good days than bad so can't complain too much.

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

I am a little bit broken at the minute but I am mending slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days I feel a balanced stable 1 then the next I'm a turbulent 7-8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be now I'm jolly well mended , with the occasional wobble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't try to fix me, I'm not broken. ..

Maybe a few dents and a bit chipped around the edges..

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

Im normal as can be

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"More good days than bad so can't complain too much. "

Think I jinxed myself.

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By *r GreyfoxMan
over a year ago

Newport

After lots on abuse from my ex today I’m on a 3

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

Like most here, swings & roundabouts or snakes & ladders. But hey, as 10cc said "Big boys don't cry !" Never liked 10cc anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically? 6/10, and that's an optimistic assessment.

Emotionally? 1/10. Rhino-hide....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a scale of 1-10 how broken would you say you are.

Feel free to use your own definitions of broken as one persons 10 may be another's 2

Im just curious how far from the "norm" we all consider ourselves to be."

Isn't this the same as asking for ur greatest song ever. Tomorrow will bring a different answer.

Me, I'm broke, mostly from outside influences, kinda had enough now. Keep on smiling and don't let it show but fuck me, life really does like to take a good run up when it's about to kick you squarely in the nuts. I have the most amazing girlfriend who I love completely, I have the most amazing daughter who is beyond words. They are the reason for my smile, without them I'd be lost. I've always worked, harder than most, and life has never been so hard. So yeah, today it's 8-9.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

As I have 2 broken fingers at moment fink I'm well and truly broked

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"As I have 2 broken fingers at moment fink I'm well and truly broked"

Ouch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been broken over the last year since my brother died and it’s not getting better. I plod on and take each day as it comes.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Been broken over the last year since my brother died and it’s not getting better. I plod on and take each day as it comes. "

Awwwwww. Sending BIG hugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"7, maybe 8. Depressed, lonely, but trying to work through it.

'Working through it'. Does that mean trying to bare with it and sit it out? (Will not work). Or making changes to your life that will get you back to yourself? I hope it's the last one "

"Working on it" as in getting help and trying to change my thought processes. Unfortunately that doesn't do much for the "Don't have any friends, don't know how to make them" side of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"7, maybe 8. Depressed, lonely, but trying to work through it.

Tough things to deal with and an all too often deadly combination for men. I've been there as well. Message me if you want to chat, no ulterior motive."

Got past the deadly stage a long time ago, thankfully, and I've got that bad since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a pre requisite to being on fab, to have a little crack or two

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

On the basis i have a fractured collar bone and a broken rib that is detached from my sternum, i would say around 6.5.

It only hurts to sneeze or cough and a left handed wank just doesn't feel quite the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit twisted.

Occasionally bent out of shape, but nothing on here can break me.

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By *mSureIfYouAreMan
over a year ago

Derby

I’ll be well and truly broken if England doesn’t beat Wales!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit twisted.

Occasionally bent out of shape, but nothing on here can break me."

And in life?

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I'm as normal as can be it's everyone else that is broken well not fab people your all normal too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly without a job i feel like less than i was confidence is beginning to drain the longer im without work and a car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I hover around an 8 or 9 with short periods of a 3.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Honestly without a job i feel like less than i was confidence is beginning to drain the longer im without work and a car"

I can understand that feeling...it begins to gnaw at you, doesn’t it? You’re awesome though, so keep that pecker up. You’ll get through this.

I would class myself as a 7. I used to be a 9 or 10 but I’m getting better. The inside of my head isn’t as anxious as it used to be and I feel stronger in my own identity. It takes time to unravel learned behaviours, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly without a job i feel like less than i was confidence is beginning to drain the longer im without work and a car

I can understand that feeling...it begins to gnaw at you, doesn’t it? You’re awesome though, so keep that pecker up. You’ll get through this.

I would class myself as a 7. I used to be a 9 or 10 but I’m getting better. The inside of my head isn’t as anxious as it used to be and I feel stronger in my own identity. It takes time to unravel learned behaviours, though."
yep i threw a pillow at jezza last week thanks tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly without a job i feel like less than i was confidence is beginning to drain the longer im without work and a car"

I found being out if work really challenging. Lack of routine was as tough as lack of money. Hope you find something soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly without a job i feel like less than i was confidence is beginning to drain the longer im without work and a car

I found being out if work really challenging. Lack of routine was as tough as lack of money. Hope you find something soon "
think thats it the laying around the waiting for calls emails its dumb but cheers

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

broken totally my friends 32yr old daughter was found dead on tuesday so think thats how i feel the now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"broken totally my friends 32yr old daughter was found dead on tuesday so think thats how i feel the now"
oh thats aweful i feel a bit daft now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physically, I'm pretty good. Had a heart scare a few years back which was a worry but ran 11 marathons since then. My body survived years of alcohol abuse pretty much unscathed (realistically I probably should have cirrhosis of the liver) so it's doing me proud way too young to he having a second cateract operation though! So I'd say 2 or 3 out of ten at the most.

Mentally, well I'm a mess but I'm getting better every week. One breakdown and one attempt at calling it quits last year, well that's pretty much rock bottom. But that's not the whole picture, 3 1/2 years sober is a huge positive but it takes some adjusting and the demons of a lot of shit aren't always quiet. On a good day I'd say 5 or 6, a bad day easily 10 and let's not think about the really bad days!

I can’t imagine how that must feel, but I would think to achieve 3 1/2 years of being sober is bloody hard work, so that alone is a massive achievement... "

Thank you it's been tough staying sober, started drinking at 16, used it to mask social anxiety and then to self medicate. But weird learning to socialise sober at this age but the biggest adjustment is the amount of free time I have now i no longer deal with hangovers but and having removed myself from most social circles. But I'm massively proud of no longer being the d*unken tosser I so often was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physically, I'm pretty good. Had a heart scare a few years back which was a worry but ran 11 marathons since then. My body survived years of alcohol abuse pretty much unscathed (realistically I probably should have cirrhosis of the liver) so it's doing me proud way too young to he having a second cateract operation though! So I'd say 2 or 3 out of ten at the most.

Mentally, well I'm a mess but I'm getting better every week. One breakdown and one attempt at calling it quits last year, well that's pretty much rock bottom. But that's not the whole picture, 3 1/2 years sober is a huge positive but it takes some adjusting and the demons of a lot of shit aren't always quiet. On a good day I'd say 5 or 6, a bad day easily 10 and let's not think about the really bad days!

I can’t imagine how that must feel, but I would think to achieve 3 1/2 years of being sober is bloody hard work, so that alone is a massive achievement...

Thank you it's been tough staying sober, started drinking at 16, used it to mask social anxiety and then to self medicate. But weird learning to socialise sober at this age but the biggest adjustment is the amount of free time I have now i no longer deal with hangovers but and having removed myself from most social circles. But I'm massively proud of no longer being the d*unken tosser I so often was"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

-50

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By *aolo AMan
over a year ago

Surrey

Intetesting question ?? Defo damaged goods but also always been a little off the wall anyway? I always think David Bowie! It's only in my later life after a broken marraige I realised I'm Abstract Aesthetic and now I'm Okey with that, this and a Fetish site scene I finally feel comfortable hanging out with similar souls but bizarrely I've also realised I'm in a Twilight space twix Vanilla and Out there? I wish I could find a play partner on the same page but think she was a girl friend I had in my 20's but missed it?? ?? .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 1

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

About 7/10

But getting better, my strength has gone though

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