FabSwingers.com forum: When does it become ok

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To apply posts in an open forum directly to another poster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"To apply posts in an open forum directly to another poster?"

You mean in a debate?

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Isn't that what sending a private message is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure if its a single guy you can say as much as you like !!!!

Sits back and awaits a good forum kicking lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends on the subject surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Well the quote button is there to use if you're directly responding to them so of course you can apply your posts to one person

If it becomes that case like the thread that has just closed and its an arguement,becoming personal and really going round in circles with no resolution then maybe its better to continue via pm and leave it off the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the type of thread, Birthday ones get posted a lot.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Am I also right in saying that you cannot message someone directly who has blocked you?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Am I also right in saying that you cannot message someone directly who has blocked you?"

Not really...people can still answer other peoples posts even if they have each other blocked.

They can't try and contact them through the forums though, ie, ask them to unblock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"To apply posts in an open forum directly to another poster?"

Ok will put this to bed.

The only time it would be a problem is name and shame on a random post.

If you are in a debate / chat/ banter on a thread with someone then they can quote / comment on your posts.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

" "Am I also right in saying that you cannot message someone directly who has blocked you?"

yup. If your blocked then the only way to respond to a post is in a thread. "

I'm sorry, before we can unblock you, we will need your customer number.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"Am I also right in saying that you cannot message someone directly who has blocked you?

Not really...people can still answer other peoples posts even if they have each other blocked.

They can't try and contact them through the forums though, ie, ask them to unblock."

Thanks for that

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"To apply posts in an open forum directly to another poster?

Ok will put this to bed.

The only time it would be a problem is name and shame on a random post.

If you are in a debate / chat/ banter on a thread with someone then they can quote / comment on your posts."

Excellent. Thank you.

As in no problem such as leading to a ban?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"To apply posts in an open forum directly to another poster?

Ok will put this to bed.

The only time it would be a problem is name and shame on a random post.

If you are in a debate / chat/ banter on a thread with someone then they can quote / comment on your posts.

Excellent. Thank you.

As in no problem such as leading to a ban?"

Ok say in english...what? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To apply posts in an open forum directly to another poster?

Ok will put this to bed.

The only time it would be a problem is name and shame on a random post.

If you are in a debate / chat/ banter on a thread with someone then they can quote / comment on your posts."

Now i am all for debate chat banter

But

Well its no skin of my nose if you want to have some wifebeater come jizz in your living room,

Becomes just a little to personal for me

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

"To apply posts in an open forum directly to another poster?

Ok will put this to bed.

The only time it would be a problem is name and shame on a random post.

If you are in a debate / chat/ banter on a thread with someone then they can quote / comment on your posts.

Excellent. Thank you.

As in no problem such as leading to a ban?"

Within the rules of course

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"To apply posts in an open forum directly to another poster?

Ok will put this to bed.

The only time it would be a problem is name and shame on a random post.

If you are in a debate / chat/ banter on a thread with someone then they can quote / comment on your posts.

Now i am all for debate chat banter

But

Well its no skin of my nose if you want to have some wifebeater come jizz in your living room,

Becomes just a little to personal for me "

I think the Mods frown upon trying to restart a post if they closed the original. If you have an ax to grind with a member of the site, prob best to keep it away from the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just wondering, We have blocked someone however when i asked if anyone was going to a certain club on saturday, the person i am referring to said "i am if you are sarah". Now i understand that nothing is stopping him from going to the club, but i was just wondering how you would handle it if he does approach us in the club? Sarah

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"To apply posts in an open forum directly to another poster?

Ok will put this to bed.

The only time it would be a problem is name and shame on a random post.

If you are in a debate / chat/ banter on a thread with someone then they can quote / comment on your posts.

Now i am all for debate chat banter

But

Well its no skin of my nose if you want to have some wifebeater come jizz in your living room,

Becomes just a little to personal for me "

That is totally out of context unless you read what led to the comment.

Sorry , but you gave out as much as you took...and why I shut the thread.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"To apply posts in an open forum directly to another poster?

Ok will put this to bed.

The only time it would be a problem is name and shame on a random post.

If you are in a debate / chat/ banter on a thread with someone then they can quote / comment on your posts.

Excellent. Thank you.

As in no problem such as leading to a ban?

Ok say in english...what? lol"

My error, i thought it was in English.

You appear to be confirming to everyone that there is no problem with replying to anyone by quote or comment when engaged in debate/chat or banter.

"The only time it would be a problem is name and shame on a random post."

lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"To apply posts in an open forum directly to another poster?

Ok will put this to bed.

The only time it would be a problem is name and shame on a random post.

If you are in a debate / chat/ banter on a thread with someone then they can quote / comment on your posts.

Excellent. Thank you.

As in no problem such as leading to a ban?

Ok say in english...what? lol

My error, i thought it was in English.

You appear to be confirming to everyone that there is no problem with replying to anyone by quote or comment when engaged in debate/chat or banter.

"The only time it would be a problem is name and shame on a random post."

lol"

err yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To apply posts in an open forum directly to another poster?

Ok will put this to bed.

The only time it would be a problem is name and shame on a random post.

If you are in a debate / chat/ banter on a thread with someone then they can quote / comment on your posts.

Now i am all for debate chat banter

But

Well its no skin of my nose if you want to have some wifebeater come jizz in your living room,

Becomes just a little to personal for me

I think the Mods frown upon trying to restart a post if they closed the original. If you have an ax to grind with a member of the site, prob best to keep it away from the forums."

Not trying to restart the thread but to imply that i would like to have a wifebeater in my home is somewhat personal in my eyes, i have suffered domestic abuse and find it neither tasteful or would i condone it

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"To apply posts in an open forum directly to another poster?

Ok will put this to bed.

The only time it would be a problem is name and shame on a random post.

If you are in a debate / chat/ banter on a thread with someone then they can quote / comment on your posts.

Excellent. Thank you.

As in no problem such as leading to a ban?

Within the rules of course"

Of course, as stated by Rugby up above.

lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I was just wondering, We have blocked someone however when i asked if anyone was going to a certain club on saturday, the person i am referring to said "i am if you are sarah". Now i understand that nothing is stopping him from going to the club, but i was just wondering how you would handle it if he does approach us in the club? Sarah

The Fab Mods and admin are terrific, but I really think it is your responsibility, not theirs, to stop the gentleman from attempting to play with you.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I am shutting this now....if you want to ask a mod about a post then thats fine....but it is best to do in mail rather than on the forums quoting which post you want looking at...as cryptic threads don't help me old brain

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