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Does Anyone Tell the Truth here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or does everyone lie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Yes

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about yourself, OP?

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Having been an estate agent not so much lies as omissions....

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Starting to think its mostly if not always lies

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor


"Or does everyone lie?"

Yes!! Ask me anything

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Starting to think its mostly if not always lies"

Or massive omissions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

No

Some people though would lie in the everyday world so they will be no different here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

No ones an angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"No ones an angel "

I act like one....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

yes

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ones an angel "

Halos can slip.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We lie.

Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.

We never lie to hurt or cause harm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always tell the truth and don’t take offence when having convos and people ask things like what do we do for a living etc (having read previous threads we have seen this seems a No no) it’s just chit chat, why lie? Where all here to meet up and have fun, after all the person your chatting to will possibly end up in your bed at some point and lieing and suspicion won’t build a good connection for a good time

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"Or does everyone lie?"

Is there a reason why you posted this question?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"No ones an angel

I act like one.... "

so I see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always tell the truth.. But then again this could be a lie

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"No ones an angel

Halos can slip. "

I was never given one

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Or does everyone lie?"

Everybody lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We lie.

Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.

We never lie to hurt or cause harm."

This

I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all must bend the truth a little so as not to offend if nothing else.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We lie.

Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.

We never lie to hurt or cause harm.

This

I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying. "

I feel that giving personal information to people from the world wide interweb is not the best idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We lie.

Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.

We never lie to hurt or cause harm.

This

I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying.

I feel that giving personal information to people from the world wide interweb is not the best idea."

I totally agree.

That's what I was saying not using your real name, location etc.. I suppose technically it's not telling the truth but I don't see it as a lie, I see it as being careful and safe.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We lie.

Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.

We never lie to hurt or cause harm.

This

I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying.

I feel that giving personal information to people from the world wide interweb is not the best idea.

I totally agree.

That's what I was saying not using your real name, location etc.. I suppose technically it's not telling the truth but I don't see it as a lie, I see it as being careful and safe. "

Yep.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"We lie.

Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.

We never lie to hurt or cause harm.

This

I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying. "

Well if your not going to give me your real name address national insurance number, credit card details than I think we've got trust issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We lie.

Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.

We never lie to hurt or cause harm.

This

I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying.

Well if your not going to give me your real name address national insurance number, credit card details than I think we've got trust issues "

Yes in that case I've got very deep trust issues. And you know I don't trust anyone who prefers custard creams to bourbons as there was clearly something very wrong with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see no point in lying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do I start a post in the forum ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Click on the lounge or swingers chat etc.

Then at the top it says start a new topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't lie. I don't answer if someone asks me something I don't want them to know.

My location isn't spot on but everything else on my profile is correct.

I'm as honest as I can be, or I refrain from answering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As such is real life. You can meet the nicest of people then latter you find they are hiding a soul full of black eels. Everyone lies about themselves. If we didn't others might find out what we are really like.

You have to hold something back. If only to hold back the nest of eels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does everyone lie?"

Some people tell the truth but some lie.

We really need a head in hand emoji don’t we?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"We lie.

Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.

We never lie to hurt or cause harm.

This

I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying.

Well if your not going to give me your real name address national insurance number, credit card details than I think we've got trust issues

Yes in that case I've got very deep trust issues. And you know I don't trust anyone who prefers custard creams to bourbons as there was clearly something very wrong with them! "

You dont know for sure I like custard creams, I could have been lying or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the wider world there is often a stigma to NSA sex or swinging. Many of us see swinging as something we don’t necessarily want our families or colleagues to know about.

Conversely, when you read the forums many people insist on knowing the ins and outs of a cats arsehole about you before they meet. To protect anonymity, many will lie or omit the truth.

If you want to know to much, rather than not answer people will lie to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Starting to think its mostly if not always lies"

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Some tell the truth x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree some do actually tell the truth. What's the point otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We lie.

Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.

We never lie to hurt or cause harm.

This

I don't feel like not giving out personal information is lying.

Well if your not going to give me your real name address national insurance number, credit card details than I think we've got trust issues

Yes in that case I've got very deep trust issues. And you know I don't trust anyone who prefers custard creams to bourbons as there was clearly something very wrong with them!

You dont know for sure I like custard creams, I could have been lying or not "

That is very true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You dont know for sure I like custard creams, I could have been lying or not"

Lier. Everyone likes custard creams.

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By *.gerri.xTV/TS
over a year ago

North west


"No ones an angel "

ahem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always tell the truth . No point in lying ...everyone gets found out or caught out eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always the truth.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've never lied since joining here 10 years ago, if someone asks me a question I don't want to answer right away, I just say I am not comfortable answering that just now and they accept that answer.

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By *lexeatonMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

Yeh I lie, I'm actually a lot hotter and have an even bigger cock than my pics suggest - but I just can't handle all the emails so I keep it low key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lying to cover up my identity and location.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh I lie, I'm actually a lot hotter and have an even bigger cock than my pics suggest - but I just can't handle all the emails so I keep it low key. "

I feel your pain. It's terrible being inudated with all these sexy messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont lie but I can sidetrack/omit vital information if it seems pertinent to do so. So yes. And no

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By *lexeatonMan
over a year ago

Lichfield


"Yeh I lie, I'm actually a lot hotter and have an even bigger cock than my pics suggest - but I just can't handle all the emails so I keep it low key.

I feel your pain. It's terrible being inudated with all these sexy messages."

Thank god it's not just me, it almost deserves its very own thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell the truth, I’m to bloody honest!

Geeky x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I don't lie. I don't answer if someone asks me something I don't want them to know.

My location isn't spot on but everything else on my profile is correct.

I'm as honest as I can be, or I refrain from answering."

Good answer! Same here... I won’t say I lie but most of the time I’m conservative with information I wish to disclose

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'm sometimes too truthful for my own good and rarely sidestep a question if directly asked - although it may well depend who is asking and what the question is.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I don't lie. I don't answer if someone asks me something I don't want them to know.

"

Yup, this, no need to lie.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If my 92 year old dad asks me what I did last night I'm going to tell him I had a quiet night out with friends even if the reality was that I was sucking a guys cock while Mr N watched then joined the fun. Yeah, I lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that Jesus guy still around?

He sounds kinda trustworthy

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Pretty cynical view. Not everyone can be lumped into the same category. You get your good and bad eggs here just the same as anywhere. If I think I’m being lied to then it’s my cue to exit. There’s enough drama on here without creating some for myself.

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

Always

Otherwise what's the point!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Manipulation of the truth on here and or tricking others to get something is a lie then yes OP.

Honesty is the best polity for me but have yet to find that trait in anyone to date. But theres always time and hope

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury


"Or does everyone lie?"

People don't want to hear the truth.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Or does everyone lie?

People don't want to hear the truth. "

And that is the truth.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I always tell the truth even when I lie!

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"Or does everyone lie?

People don't want to hear the truth. "

They can't handle the truth

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I will only share what I’m comfortable sharing if I feel I need to lie to protect my privacy then I will do it. Better safe than sorry.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The problem I find is that people often confuse truth and opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We lie.

Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.

We never lie to hurt or cause harm."

So that's why I couldn't find you. In the phone book. Swines!

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By *reeMan
over a year ago

Paisley


"I always tell the truth.. But then again this could be a lie "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We lie.

Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.

We never lie to hurt or cause harm.

So that's why I couldn't find you. In the phone book. Swines! "

Its a cunning plan on our part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We lie.

Our name isn't Mr and Mrs Nicecouple561 for a start.

We never lie to hurt or cause harm.

So that's why I couldn't find you. In the phone book. Swines!

Its a cunning plan on our part "
Still a very apt username.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" To the wider world there is often a stigma to NSA sex or swinging. Many of us see swinging as something we don’t necessarily want our families or colleagues to know about.

Conversely, when you read the forums many people insist on knowing the ins and outs of a cats arsehole about you before they meet. To protect anonymity, many will lie or omit the truth.

If you want to know to much, rather than not answer people will lie to you. "

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


" Lie Removed by poster at 18/02/19 22:55:37]"

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"Or does everyone lie?"

I do...I’ve been told many times how honest I am...don’t know any other way, but sometimes wonder if I say too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If my 92 year old dad asks me what I did last night I'm going to tell him I had a quiet night out with friends even if the reality was that I was sucking a guys cock while Mr N watched then joined the fun. Yeah, I lie."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a mythomaniac

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

What's to lie about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I do lie to protect my privacy and I’m careful how much personal info I share on the forums.

I don’t lie to trick people into meeting me.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

What is the truth?

The truth does change over time depending on current experience and awareness.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Everybody lies about something, at some point.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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To people I trust/care about yes. I tend to omit things and not answer if I'd rather not say something.

Some forum posts aren't strictly true. I know, it's bloody awful of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here I do lie to protect my privacy and I’m careful how much personal info I share on the forums.

I don’t lie to trick people into meeting me."

Like you need to trick people into meeting you, surely only a man would say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here I do lie to protect my privacy and I’m careful how much personal info I share on the forums.

I don’t lie to trick people into meeting me.

Like you need to trick people into meeting you, surely only a man would say that"

I was musing along the lines of - I could quite easily lie about my age, Photoshop photos, paint a picture that “sells” me in a different light - that kinda thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're just sick of blokes pretending to be women or couples, gets soooooo boring and can spot em a mile away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does everyone lie?

People don't want to hear the truth. "

They can't handle the truth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's behind the question OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree some do actually tell the truth. What's the point otherwise. "

This and...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does everyone lie?

People don't want to hear the truth.

They can't handle the truth!"

This!

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I always lie, 100%, never say a single true statement.

Of course I was lying about that, I always tell the truth, 100%, never tell a single lie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never seen any point in lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age and lies

The site algorithms concerning age creates a significant incentive to lie about age.

.

I am 70. I am fit, physically active, reasonably handsome and have the stamina and strength of most men in their early 60’s -ask my quack.

On several similar sites if I state my true age i get far fewer “hits” than if I say something like 54 and none’s the wiser But the other person is making the choice, not an inflexible algorithm.

On here there’s a significant reason to lie.

Many people set a max age between 50 and 60

Therefore my attempts to make contact are denied by the algorithms. They never get the chance to give me a look and make their own choice.

I have been sorely tempted to lie about my age. I could easily get away with it unless upon meeting I were asked to produce my drivers permit.

If I were able to message younger members they would stil have the ability to decline my attentions. I would take no offense.

I’ve recently made contact with a lovely amd much younger long term Fab supporter after meeting her on KIK. That or gmail is how we stay in touch. By the way she’s a well known KIK participant of parties etc.

I wonder how many here lie about their age to evade Big Brother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kik participant should be fabswingers participant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does everyone lie?"

Must be where I go wrong, I don't lie

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Come on red your having a giggle erent you. Think we've both been here long enough to know the answer to that. Why else do I rarely meet.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

Always

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Yes I do. I am to honest for my own good at times. It's not done me any favours so far.

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Mum always said tell the truth and shame the devil. Never really knew what it meant, but always tell the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point lying, u need to remember a lie (And I'm too lazy for that) but the truth is the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been an estate agent not so much lies as omissions.... "

Imagine a Christmas tree in the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to ask the right questions to get the truth

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