FabSwingers.com forum: Stealthing

By *LIRTWITHUS OP Couple
over a year ago

Chester

Singapore is making stealthing during intercourse illegal. Interesting. Thoughts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure how it could be proved though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems im now the naive one what is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems im now the naive one what is it"

I don’t know either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems im now the naive one what is it"

When the man removes the condom during sex unbeknown to the woman. I think!

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By *LIRTWITHUS OP Couple
over a year ago

Chester

When male removes condom during sex, some put on tip only and remove it without fem knowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems im now the naive one what is it

When the man removes the condom during sex unbeknown to the woman. I think!"

God, that’s awful

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Not sure how it could be proved though "

Yep. Unless the man confessed to it some how.

That aside, about fucking time. Awful, shitty thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems im now the naive one what is it

When the man removes the condom during sex unbeknown to the woman. I think!

God, that’s awful

Is that what it is? Terrible!

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

It’s totally wrong to do it and when the feelings good, I ain’t stopping till we’re done.

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By *LIRTWITHUS OP Couple
over a year ago

Chester

"Seems im now the naive one what is it

When the man removes the condom during sex unbeknown to the woman. I think!"

Practically word twins lol. Yes apparently happens more than you think. Read people witnessed it in group play etc. Some are brazen, but some play dumb claiming must have fell off etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems im now the naive one what is it

When the man removes the condom during sex unbeknown to the woman. I think!

Practically word twins lol. Yes apparently happens more than you think. Read people witnessed it in group play etc. Some are brazen, but some play dumb claiming must have fell off etc

That’s so awful but to be honest it doesn’t surprise me

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By *antasticMrFucksMan
over a year ago

Taunton

Can a women not feel the difference? Xxx

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By *LIRTWITHUS OP Couple
over a year ago

Chester

"Can a women not feel the difference? Xxx"

Too late by the time they do I guess

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Can a women not feel the difference? Xxx"

I would have thought so. But who knows in the heat of the moment?

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Another every day is a school day moment

Didn't even know this was a thing! I'm a bit horrified it is

although, surely you'd feel the difference? Definitely should be legal statute for it though!

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this thread was about viewing profiles without appearing in the “whose looked at you” section.

Nevermind.

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By *LIRTWITHUS OP Couple
over a year ago

Chester

"I thought this thread was about viewing profiles without appearing in the “whose looked at you” section.

Nevermind. "

That's stealth mode

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’ve read about this and it’s an awful thing to do to someone. Some people really will do anything for their own gratification. Just awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure how it could be proved though

Yep. Unless the man confessed to it some how.

That aside, about fucking time. Awful, shitty thing."

Oh my goodness is this not like a criminal offence already because if it isn't it should be.

But then I suppose it's like anything like this it's one person's word against another. but at least if it was a known criminal offence it would possibly deter some people from even trying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought that if you consent to sex with someone on the proviso they wear a condom and they then remove it without your knowledge it’s r@#e. Or is this incorrect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought that if you consent to sex with someone on the proviso they wear a condom and they then remove it without your knowledge it’s r@#e. Or is this incorrect?"

Not sure but it should be as it’s non consensual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought that if you consent to sex with someone on the proviso they wear a condom and they then remove it without your knowledge it’s r@#e. Or is this incorrect?"

I think you're right. It's definitely classed as sexual assault according to UK law.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Can a women not feel the difference? Xxx

Too late by the time they do I guess"

Yes, you can feel the difference.

Yes, I've had it done to me.

In the 'heat of the moment' it takes your brain a few seconds to realise something is different, then a few more to process the facts, a quite few more to weigh up your options.

Demand they stop, while considering was it accidental or intentional?

If intentional, why would they do that? How will that person respond? Will you be creating a situation which may turn nasty?

Getting yourself checked ASAP, waiting on test results, praying for an all clear knowing not all results can show up immediately, getting retested again to be sure, all the time avoiding contact with anyone else because your panicking about what could be.

In my opinion, anyone who does that to another person is the lowest of the low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure how it could be proved though

Yep. Unless the man confessed to it some how.

That aside, about fucking time. Awful, shitty thing.

Oh my goodness is this not like a criminal offence already because if it isn't it should be.

But then I suppose it's like anything like this it's one person's word against another. but at least if it was a known criminal offence it would possibly deter some people from even trying it."

Good point about it hopefully deterring people.

Don't know how it could be proved.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have never heard of this but know that I have it should definately be illegal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its great it made it illegal. completely wrong and should be made illegal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think its great it made it illegal. completely wrong and should be made illegal. "

I haven't looked into it and I'm sure that would come under some sort of offence but again as other people have mentioned I suppose it's proving it. I have heard of this happening but I think thankfully it's very rare or at least I hope it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure how it could be proved though

Yep. Unless the man confessed to it some how.

That aside, about fucking time. Awful, shitty thing.

Oh my goodness is this not like a criminal offence already because if it isn't it should be.

But then I suppose it's like anything like this it's one person's word against another. but at least if it was a known criminal offence it would possibly deter some people from even trying it.

Good point about it hopefully deterring people.

Don't know how it could be proved.

Yes like I said I'm not sure how you would police something like this but obviously it is exceptionally unacceptable but if it was actually an offence in its own right then I do think it would act as a deterrent. Like for example upskirting is now going hopefully to be an offence in its own right rather than just being covered by voyeurism. I haven't explained that very well but I hope it makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When male removes condom during sex, some put on tip only and remove it without fem knowing."
should get a kicking never mind jail fucking scum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can a women not feel the difference? Xxx

Too late by the time they do I guess

Yes, you can feel the difference.

Yes, I've had it done to me.

In the 'heat of the moment' it takes your brain a few seconds to realise something is different, then a few more to process the facts, a quite few more to weigh up your options.

Demand they stop, while considering was it accidental or intentional?

If intentional, why would they do that? How will that person respond? Will you be creating a situation which may turn nasty?

In my opinion, anyone who does that to another person is the lowest of the low.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Can a women not feel the difference? Xxx"

TBH and I may be wrong as I haven't had sex in such a long time, but say being moved in 'doggy' position, I don't know if I would have felt the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can a women not feel the difference? Xxx

TBH and I may be wrong as I haven't had sex in such a long time, but say being moved in 'doggy' position, I don't know if I would have felt the difference

Do you know I've been thinking about this since reading the thread and I'm not sure I would know.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Too late, particularly if he spunks in you. I've had to have HIV tests because of this.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Can a women not feel the difference? Xxx

TBH and I may be wrong as I haven't had sex in such a long time, but say being moved in 'doggy' position, I don't know if I would have felt the difference

Do you know I've been thinking about this since reading the thread and I'm not sure I would know.

I honestly don't think I would! Just being truthful, and with condoms getting thinner and thinner, they really are not as intrusive as they used to be, so I think quite a lot of women wouldn't know until it was to late!

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By *LIRTWITHUS OP Couple
over a year ago

Chester

Does make you think a bit more. You can only really trust yourselves after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can a women not feel the difference? Xxx

TBH and I may be wrong as I haven't had sex in such a long time, but say being moved in 'doggy' position, I don't know if I would have felt the difference

Do you know I've been thinking about this since reading the thread and I'm not sure I would know.

I saw some quite good advice once on a thread about somebody talking about something similar. It said that make sure you guide the cock in so that you can feel to make sure there is a condom on but then I guess you can be as safe and cautious possible but things still happen. Thankfully I think these things are very rare.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Can a women not feel the difference? Xxx

TBH and I may be wrong as I haven't had sex in such a long time, but say being moved in 'doggy' position, I don't know if I would have felt the difference

Do you know I've been thinking about this since reading the thread and I'm not sure I would know.

Exactly, but if you are in the doggy position, how many times do or can you check?

That is why I haven't had sex in so long, as I need to build up trust but so many men don't understand that and think a fuck is a fuck which my brain can't comprehend.

So it turns out celibacy is for me now unless some new breed of man comes along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion, anyone who does that to another person is the lowest of the low.

It happened to me, he ripped the end off when I was distracted, I didn't know and couldn't tell. After he made out like it had broken and the end bit was inside me. (I was very new to sex when this happened) then he came clean.

Next day went the clinic and didn't touch anyone for 3 months before getting tested again, the stress was awful. It should be an offence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Singapore is making stealthing during intercourse illegal. Interesting. Thoughts!"
Good in the long run but they do like there rules in Singapore.

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