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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many women actively enjoy it?

I've only tried it once and thought it was immense immense fun (as verifications show) but I was very well prepared. However, I've read lots of comments on the forums from women saying they don't enjoy it, and comments from men saying that they've known very few women who really enjoy it.

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

I love it but i dont get to do it much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweet enjoys anal from time to time but only with myself.

She doesn't trust others to be as gentle .

Anal sex requires a lot of seduction and preparation,and of course lots n lots of lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it but it has to be with someone I trust, its the naughtiness of it and the thought that I'm being dirty. And him taking that part of me just feels so horny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it . I’m quite new it . I always thought I wouldn’t enjoy it . But more than happy to say otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite frankly it's the best sex you can have. Always makes me cum hard when the woman is loving it as much as I am.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Every girl I have met on Fab has enjoyed anal. One so much as craves it.

I think once people get used to it and meet people who know what they doing. It becomes super enjoyable for all.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I do enjoy it but it's not something I've ever done that regularly due to the preparation and trust needed. Even then, I can never completely shake the worry of something untoward happening so it's more of an occasional thing when everything feels as good as it can be.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I love it. With the right person, with plenty of preparation.

I used to think I hated it. No, I just hate arseholes who don't respect the limitations of my body (rigid large dildos up there without lube or warning kind of thing).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it. With the right person, with plenty of preparation.

I used to think I hated it. No, I just hate arseholes who don't respect the limitations of my body (rigid large dildos up there without lube or warning kind of thing). "

Preparation H?

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

"I love it. With the right person, with plenty of preparation.

I used to think I hated it. No, I just hate arseholes who don't respect the limitations of my body (rigid large dildos up there without lube or warning kind of thing). "

I just involuntarily winced at that - one of the most agonising kinds of pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it. With the right person, with plenty of preparation.

I used to think I hated it. No, I just hate arseholes who don't respect the limitations of my body (rigid large dildos up there without lube or warning kind of thing).

I just involuntarily winced at that - one of the most agonising kinds of pain

Some people just push it too far.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love it. With the right person, with plenty of preparation.

I used to think I hated it. No, I just hate arseholes who don't respect the limitations of my body (rigid large dildos up there without lube or warning kind of thing). "

Ouch! I had quite a big butt plug in for a couple of hours beforehand and lubed myself up until I could fit three fingers in myself first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it. With the right person, with plenty of preparation.

I used to think I hated it. No, I just hate arseholes who don't respect the limitations of my body (rigid large dildos up there without lube or warning kind of thing).

Ouch! I had quite a big butt plug in for a couple of hours beforehand and lubed myself up until I could fit three fingers in myself first. "

Any pictures of that??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love it. With the right person, with plenty of preparation.

I used to think I hated it. No, I just hate arseholes who don't respect the limitations of my body (rigid large dildos up there without lube or warning kind of thing).

Ouch! I had quite a big butt plug in for a couple of hours beforehand and lubed myself up until I could fit three fingers in myself first.

Any pictures of that??"

Sadly not

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I love it. With the right person, with plenty of preparation.

I used to think I hated it. No, I just hate arseholes who don't respect the limitations of my body (rigid large dildos up there without lube or warning kind of thing).

I just involuntarily winced at that - one of the most agonising kinds of pain

Yeah. He should have been grateful I didn't vomit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love it. With the right person, with plenty of preparation.

I used to think I hated it. No, I just hate arseholes who don't respect the limitations of my body (rigid large dildos up there without lube or warning kind of thing).

I just involuntarily winced at that - one of the most agonising kinds of pain

Yeah. He should have been grateful I didn't vomit. "

Should've aimed a kick in a painful place!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I love it. With the right person, with plenty of preparation.

I used to think I hated it. No, I just hate arseholes who don't respect the limitations of my body (rigid large dildos up there without lube or warning kind of thing).

I just involuntarily winced at that - one of the most agonising kinds of pain

Yeah. He should have been grateful I didn't vomit.

Should've aimed a kick in a painful place! "

I should have done. He was offended by my scream of pain. Dickhead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love it. With the right person, with plenty of preparation.

I used to think I hated it. No, I just hate arseholes who don't respect the limitations of my body (rigid large dildos up there without lube or warning kind of thing).

I just involuntarily winced at that - one of the most agonising kinds of pain

Yeah. He should have been grateful I didn't vomit.

Should've aimed a kick in a painful place!

I should have done. He was offended by my scream of pain. Dickhead. "

Tsssk. Yep, he definitely sounds uneducated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv done it.

I dont like it.

Never again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definatley my favourite!!!! But only if I've prepared for it and the person enjoys it just as much

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I love it when it’s done properly and plenty of prep..... and of course the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of lube and a cheeky orgasm first, don't push, let her push back when she's ready. Be gentle till her groans say different. I firmly believe that anal done wrong can be a game changer for future experiences. I've seen orgasms achieved from anal alone and I intend to see a lot more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Il like doing it to girls who like it but not a fan of v bums tho

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

I definatly enjoy it but as has been said before plenty of preparation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been with a few women who liked it or wanted to try. It takes time and patience, preparation and trust but those are all part of the fun building up to it.

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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago

In The Gym

Had ladies ask for it. Ladies who wanted to just try. Then others who hated or just didn't want to try it at all. All down to personal preference.

Just always use lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've enjoyed it every time except the first, as he was nervous about doing it.

If I want it I ask for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It only takes a minute of preparation for me now. I'm not nervous about it and I'm in control for the first penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when I'm in the mood but it's not something I'd want to do all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Hate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only tried a couple of times and didn't manage to relax enough. It was painful.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"I do enjoy it but it's not something I've ever done that regularly due to the preparation and trust needed. Even then, I can never completely shake the worry of something untoward happening so it's more of an occasional thing when everything feels as good as it can be."

This

I trust my partner 100%.... Its my own body I have concerns about. If my tummy feels any bit dodgy at all it's a definite no-no. When everything is good though.. Hell yeah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon it’s like marmite, you either like it or you don’t. I have found some men’s viewpoint on Anal sex vexing. I have even been told in recent days a true submissive would never refuse to do anal. I completely disagree with that.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I reckon it’s like marmite, you either like it or you don’t. I have found some men’s viewpoint on Anal sex vexing. I have even been told in recent days a true submissive would never refuse to do anal. I completely disagree with that. "

A true submissive knows her limits, discusses her limits, and doesn't sacrifice herself for the needs of a dim dom arsehole.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Nope. Hate it "

Not just me then, mines a one way only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. Hate it

Not just me then, mines a one way only

Absolutely. Although I always seem to be in the minority with all these threads

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Nope. Hate it

Not just me then, mines a one way only

Absolutely. Although I always seem to be in the minority with all these threads

Was scrolling down thinking I was the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A true submissive knows her limits, discusses her limits, and doesn't sacrifice herself for the needs of a dim dom arsehole. "

Oh I know. It lead me to some good discussions though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it with my mr, I trust him to know how I’m reacting and go hard or slow in response. I do think you have to trust the other person to get a good experience. X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

A true submissive knows her limits, discusses her limits, and doesn't sacrifice herself for the needs of a dim dom arsehole.

Oh I know. It lead me to some good discussions though. "

Definitely. And I didn't think you needed to be told!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I decided I wouldn’t have anal sex with a woman until I’d at least experienced being pegged myself. Still haven’t but getting closer. My bum is used to penetration now though

The key appears to be proper preparation, douching, lots of good lube, liquid silk works really well. Slow, sensual and small at first until easy to relax and take more gradually.

I’m up to 8” now so think I’m ready

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I decided I wouldn’t have anal sex with a woman until I’d at least experienced being pegged myself. Still haven’t but getting closer. My bum is used to penetration now though

The key appears to be proper preparation, douching, lots of good lube, liquid silk works really well. Slow, sensual and small at first until easy to relax and take more gradually.

I’m up to 8” now so think I’m ready

I flipping love liquid silk. Though I've found a brilliant water silicone hybrid lube called Sliquids Organics Natural Silk Hybrid Lubricant. £12.99 on Lovehoney but it's so worth it and it hasn't messed up any of my silicone toys so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really can't stand it. Tried once, hated every second of the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D enjoys it. Set's her up for a great orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive done a lot of fairly insensitive anal so I get a bit worked up over it now. Occasionally I can be keen and instigate it but need to be mega turned on. Its a peculiar sensation that I dont particulary enjoy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I decided I wouldn’t have anal sex with a woman until I’d at least experienced being pegged myself. Still haven’t but getting closer. My bum is used to penetration now though

The key appears to be proper preparation, douching, lots of good lube, liquid silk works really well. Slow, sensual and small at first until easy to relax and take more gradually.

I’m up to 8” now so think I’m ready

I might get some of that when the Liquid Silk is running low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of the old joke.

Eyebrows ripped out.

Pubes ripped out.

Eyebrow tattoos.

Chemical peels and numerous other painful things done all in the name of looking pretty.

Won't try anal cos it might hurt...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Reminds me of the old joke.

Eyebrows ripped out.

Pubes ripped out.

Eyebrow tattoos.

Chemical peels and numerous other painful things done all in the name of looking pretty.

Won't try anal cos it might hurt... "

I've not had all of those things, but of all the things I have done on that list, anal can hurt more. And the others are done for more than the immediate moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. Hate it "

Me too. Thought I was the only one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive done a lot of fairly insensitive anal so I get a bit worked up over it now. Occasionally I can be keen and instigate it but need to be mega turned on. Its a peculiar sensation that I dont particulary enjoy though. "

I imagine it feels quite different for a woman to a man. The stimulation of my prostate is the main reason I like bum play as well as all those lovely sensations from the nerve endings. But for women once inside there is no prostate. I can imagine the mental turn on for some and perhaps the different sensation might do it. But I’m still really interested for those who do love it, why they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A true submissive knows her limits, discusses her limits, and doesn't sacrifice herself for the needs of a dim dom arsehole. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is the mental side for me, it feels so dirty and wrong xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nerve endings. Anal g spot(s). It's tight. It's kind of taboo. It's a trust thing, too.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I wouldn't say actively enjoy it, I only tried it once but it was bloody incredible and intense. Although that could be because it was a culmination of a fantastic couple of nights with lots of orgasms and a fairly decent person. I'm not sure I'd do it again but I'm also not sure I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reminds me of the old joke.

Eyebrows ripped out.

Pubes ripped out.

Eyebrow tattoos.

Chemical peels and numerous other painful things done all in the name of looking pretty.

Won't try anal cos it might hurt...

I've not had all of those things, but of all the things I have done on that list, anal can hurt more. And the others are done for more than the immediate moment. "

I have never hurt myself in all my anal exploration so far, because I’ve been very careful and the partners I’ve explored with too have been gentle, slow and attentive to my responses.

I can imagine how painful it could be though. I thought I would never stick anything up my bum from the age of 22 because of a Doctor who gave me a very rough anal exam after I went to A&E with a case of acute diarrhoea that had lasted over a week, after a holiday in Spain. I swore I would never willingly have anything up my arse again. But by the time I was 50 my curiosity got the better of me. Now I love anal play and thankfully have not had anything but pleasure from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerve endings. Anal g spot(s). It's tight. It's kind of taboo. It's a trust thing, too. "

Anal G Spot? That’s a new one on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is the mental side for me, it feels so dirty and wrong xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the sensation of tongues and fingers and will come like a demon in that repect. Actual sex is more about giving a difficult part of myself knowing how much its wanted by him rather than the physical feelings for me. Luckily it usually brings about a fairly quick ending so I can wriggle free

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nerve endings. Anal g spot(s). It's tight. It's kind of taboo. It's a trust thing, too.

Anal G Spot? That’s a new one on me"

I think that's what my FWB found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it with the right person!

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

When it’s done well, it is fantabulous. Poorly delivered or thoughtlessly prepared it is painful, problematic and unpleasant

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I hate it more than sloppy spinach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate it more than sloppy spinach"

Double anal ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I hate it more than sloppy spinach

Double anal ?"

I've only got one arse hole.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I love anal sex - but only since I joined fab! Probably because my whole attitude to sex has changed completely whilst being on here!

Now I’m so relaxed about it - it makes me orgasm constantly - just like vaginal sex! I’m very lucky!

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By *humper9erMan
over a year ago

Rocklin

My very first gf, after several months of dating, ask me one evening how I felt about anal sex. At that time, she just turned 17 and just turned 18. We talked about it and she said that she would like for us to try it soon. Well, the "soon" came 2 weeks later, as her parents were gone over the weekend. We were in her bedroom and making out, She never let me get my cock close to her virgin vagina, but, we did explore Oral sex and now we were going to have anal sex. We were both pretty worked up and my cock was as hard as granite. Due to the size of my cock, we had already agreed that I would lie on my back and she would mount me. She had a jar of vaseline and coated the head of my cock liberally with in. I, in turn, used it to lube up her very tight virgin anus.I wondered, being as it was difficult just getting my finger in her ass to my first knuckle, how she was going to get my thick 10" cock inside her. I finally did work two well lubed fingers into her to the 2nd knuckles when she said she was ready to try. I laid down and she knelt over me and then held my cock as she began her decent. Thankfully, my cock head is very spongy, but, even with that, it took a long time and lots of grunting, from her, before my cock head popped in past her anal ring. She grunted out loud as my cock popped inside her. She held still for a bit and then very slowly lowered herself further onto me. She had a scruntched up face and had to stop to allow for her to adjust to being so full. I couldn't believe how tight she was and even surprised she had close to half my cock inside her. She had both hands on my chest and then raised herself up a couple inches, I guesses and then back down a few times. She looked at me with a big smile of her face as she said, I have your big cock in my ass and with that, sat down all the way on me, blow air out of her lungs as she did so! I was as far inside her as was possible. There wasn't another 1/4" to go. She just sat there even as her rectum was seemed to be massaging my cock. She then raised up and I couldn't believe the pressure on my shaft as she almost raised up to make me fall out of her. She then lowered herself all the way down again. I knew I couldn't last to long like this. She then raised up just a little and then right back down. She did this several times, going a little higher and faster when I growled out that I was going to cum! With just 2 more up n downs on me, I grabbed her hips, as she sat back down on me hard, and I began to cum deep inside her with a grunt each time I ejaculated. She cried out that she could feel me cumming in her. She laid full body on me, with my still in her and we kissed. I said something dumb like, I got your ass cherry and she kissed me harder! Soon, we both felt my cock grow to full hardness again inside her and we were once again fucking. This time, I was thrusting up n down inside her. She had sat up on me and wa raising up n down on me too. This allowed me to finger her clit as we fucked. She soon exploded in a huge Orgasm, making her rectum clamp down on me making me join her in a mutual cum! Her entire pussy and crack and my groin were covered in our mutual juices and once she rose up off me, had to run into the bathroom. We both took showers, her in her small bathroom and me in her parents somewhat larger shower. We dressed and left an hour later for our day out. That evening, after taking her home, we repeated the act, only this time, doggy style. It was amazing as I felt my entire cock slowly slip up her ass. the pressure on my shaft was unreal and again, much sooner then I wished, I was ejaculating deep into her ass and she was crying out that she felt each time I ejaculated inside her. We weren't able to repeat for over 2 weeks later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate it more than sloppy spinach

Double anal ?

I've only got one arse hole."

That’s no way to talk about your other half.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I hate it more than sloppy spinach

Double anal ?

I've only got one arse hole.

That’s no way to talk about your other half."

Do snakes have arse holes ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate it more than sloppy spinach

Double anal ?

I've only got one arse hole.

That’s no way to talk about your other half.

Do snakes have arse holes ?"

Mine did

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I love it, I wouldn't do it with someone who wasn't experienced though, I don't think I could relax enough.

Holding a wand on myself at the same time feels amaaaaaazing!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's something I really enjoy, but only with people I absolutely trust. As such only 4 men have been there

I get very intense orgasms from anal, even more so with clitoral stimulation too. The anal passage is very close to the vagina and with the right angle the G spot gets plenty of stimulation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's something I really enjoy, but only with people I absolutely trust. As such only 4 men have been there

I get very intense orgasms from anal, even more so with clitoral stimulation too. The anal passage is very close to the vagina and with the right angle the G spot gets plenty of stimulation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerve endings. Anal g spot(s). It's tight. It's kind of taboo. It's a trust thing, too.

Anal G Spot? That’s a new one on me

I think that's what my FWB found

Right

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