FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m a terrible kisser.

With my husband I’m absolutely fantastic, I love kissing.

But with anyone else I get the giggles and I’m terrible.

My first fab meet on here, I actually sucked his cock, looked up at him and as he went to kiss me I giggled and went back to sucking his cock! I just got shy.

So. I need to desensitise myself. I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anything else sexually I’m totally fine with! It’s honestly just kissing. Has anyone else suffered with this?!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

no cant say i have

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

"I’m a terrible kisser.

With my husband I’m absolutely fantastic, I love kissing.

But with anyone else I get the giggles and I’m terrible.

My first fab meet on here, I actually sucked his cock, looked up at him and as he went to kiss me I giggled and went back to sucking his cock! I just got shy.

So. I need to desensitise myself. I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?"

I've had this trouble before too ! I'm not shy, just start to giggle occasionally, no idea why.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m a terrible kisser.

With my husband I’m absolutely fantastic, I love kissing.

But with anyone else I get the giggles and I’m terrible.

My first fab meet on here, I actually sucked his cock, looked up at him and as he went to kiss me I giggled and went back to sucking his cock! I just got shy.

So. I need to desensitise myself. I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?

I've had this trouble before too ! I'm not shy, just start to giggle occasionally, no idea why."

I feel like a school girl.

It got so bad that I would just wait on my knees when my old FB came in so I could get straight to sucking his cock. No time for kissing

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By *ndyandMandyCouple
over a year ago

swansea

We love kissing

It’s so erotic gets the juices flowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a terrible kisser.

With my husband I’m absolutely fantastic, I love kissing.

But with anyone else I get the giggles and I’m terrible.

My first fab meet on here, I actually sucked his cock, looked up at him and as he went to kiss me I giggled and went back to sucking his cock! I just got shy.

So. I need to desensitise myself. I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?

I've had this trouble before too ! I'm not shy, just start to giggle occasionally, no idea why."

Did you go back to sucking then too pal

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I love kissing. The problem people have with me is prising me off their lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?"

Please come and practise with me. I adore kissing x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Stick to sucking dick. Leave the kissing.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Stick to sucking dick. Leave the kissing."

What _eli says

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I love kissing as part of a very sensual meet .... I’ll leave the cock sucking though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stick to sucking dick. Leave the kissing."

Buuuuuut I like kissing

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

I love kissing makes for a better sexual meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kissing but I can be awkward asf with it. I don't really kiss my last meet on the mouth but there always is some form of kissing involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a terrible kisser.

With my husband I’m absolutely fantastic, I love kissing.

But with anyone else I get the giggles and I’m terrible.

My first fab meet on here, I actually sucked his cock, looked up at him and as he went to kiss me I giggled and went back to sucking his cock! I just got shy.

So. I need to desensitise myself. I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?"

I would love to help. Just a little peck at first and build it up slowly, or let me kiss your lips, cheek, along your neck and back again to get the tingles going

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I’m a terrible kisser.

With my husband I’m absolutely fantastic, I love kissing.

But with anyone else I get the giggles and I’m terrible.

My first fab meet on here, I actually sucked his cock, looked up at him and as he went to kiss me I giggled and went back to sucking his cock! I just got shy.

So. I need to desensitise myself. I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?"

Feel free to borrow my lips to desensitise your self. I got my own Teath and everything

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m a terrible kisser.

With my husband I’m absolutely fantastic, I love kissing.

But with anyone else I get the giggles and I’m terrible.

My first fab meet on here, I actually sucked his cock, looked up at him and as he went to kiss me I giggled and went back to sucking his cock! I just got shy.

So. I need to desensitise myself. I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?

I would love to help. Just a little peck at first and build it up slowly, or let me kiss your lips, cheek, along your neck and back again to get the tingles going

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I bet you’re better than you think OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I bet you’re better than you think OP"

I hope so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=cha_dEbaxrQ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No km an easy adaptable kisser

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

"I’m a terrible kisser.

With my husband I’m absolutely fantastic, I love kissing.

But with anyone else I get the giggles and I’m terrible.

My first fab meet on here, I actually sucked his cock, looked up at him and as he went to kiss me I giggled and went back to sucking his cock! I just got shy.

So. I need to desensitise myself. I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?

I've had this trouble before too ! I'm not shy, just start to giggle occasionally, no idea why.

Did you go back to sucking then too pal

Thanks for that

but no I'm sure it was a lady

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Find someone who will let you practice with them and can get past the giggles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll help you OP. I get told I'm a great kisser and what are friends for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a terrible kisser.

With my husband I’m absolutely fantastic, I love kissing.

But with anyone else I get the giggles and I’m terrible.

My first fab meet on here, I actually sucked his cock, looked up at him and as he went to kiss me I giggled and went back to sucking his cock! I just got shy.

So. I need to desensitise myself. I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?"

So, you're not kissing with confidence? I'm sure there's a song about that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll help you OP. I get told I'm a great kisser and what are friends for?

Thank you, I appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like kissing but I can be awkward asf with it. I don't really kiss my last meet on the mouth but there always is some form of kissing involved. "

Bloody hell I was only thinking about you earlier and boom you’re back. That’s the Second time in a few weeks that’s happened

If it happens a third time I’ll be spooked.

Welcome back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m shocking at kissing, I need lots of practice too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m shocking at kissing, I need lots of practice too

Wanna help each other out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like kissing but I can be awkward asf with it. I don't really kiss my last meet on the mouth but there always is some form of kissing involved.

Bloody hell I was only thinking about you earlier and boom you’re back. That’s the Second time in a few weeks that’s happened

If it happens a third time I’ll be spooked.

Welcome back

Them physic powers

Thank you!

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Maybe depends how much/if your husband gets involved but maybe starting with kissing him them the other would help?

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m shocking at kissing, I need lots of practice too

Wanna help each other out? "

My tongue won’t reach 250 miles. Even Gene Simmons can’t do that.

I’ve tried apparating with out success, but I’m only a WitchDoc not a Wizard. Do you have a portkey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like kissing but I can be awkward asf with it. I don't really kiss my last meet on the mouth but there always is some form of kissing involved.

Bloody hell I was only thinking about you earlier and boom you’re back. That’s the Second time in a few weeks that’s happened

If it happens a third time I’ll be spooked.

Welcome back

Them physic powers

Thank you! "

That’ll be it. It was a Harry Potter related thought that brought you to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a terrible kisser.

With my husband I’m absolutely fantastic, I love kissing.

But with anyone else I get the giggles and I’m terrible.

My first fab meet on here, I actually sucked his cock, looked up at him and as he went to kiss me I giggled and went back to sucking his cock! I just got shy.

So. I need to desensitise myself. I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?"

Never had this issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love kissing. The problem people have with me is prising me off their lips

Babs, you say it is like a bad thing? I love a good kiss, gets me hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Kissing is everything to me...I’m always really disappointed when my meet makes like a washing machine or a hoover. I always make sure to get a kiss from a social I see as potentially going further to check.

There’s something about the intimacy and they way it builds until you can practically hear your heartbeat pounding in your ears and feel your whole body tingling. Amazing!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Anything else sexually I’m totally fine with! It’s honestly just kissing. Has anyone else suffered with this?!

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I was exactly the same for a long time. Even with my ex partners .. then I met someone and for some reason with him I could . I tried with others and still felt awkward ...

My partner who I had managed to get over this huge thing with betrayed me.. and somehow now.. I can with the right people kiss and really enjoy it x

Don't feel you have to though .. if kissing others isn't for you... then you don't have to

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd. "

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd. "

I don’t think it’s odd. It’s a very intimate thing.

Hence why I get the giggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

Some will find it odd though, as they couldn't imagine getting all psyched up without the form of intimacy. I had a no kiss meet many moons ago. It was awful. I'll never do it again. Far too mechanical, with no passion. It's one of my worst meets to date. Never again. For that reason, although I have an each to their own mentality and try not to judge those who dont kiss, to build the passion, i do also find it odd.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

Why do you find it "odd"? There are LOTS of things, sexually, that I am not into nor see how someone gets pleasure from them, so I just don't do them...but I don't find them "odd"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

Why do you find it "odd"? There are LOTS of things, sexually, that I am not into nor see how someone gets pleasure from them, so I just don't do them...but I don't find them "odd"! "

That's good that you don't, but as you well know, others will not feel the same way. We are all different and though you may just decide not to engage with things that don't 'float your boat' per say, yet not find it odd, others will

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not a problem I have with kissing, role play on the other hand, I can't do without laughing. I wouldn't like to meet someone and not kiss them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

But you are judging by stating its odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick a blindfold on and wait for him to kiss you. Wont know when its coming then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

But you are judging by stating its odd

Hence the word 'try

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

I don’t think it’s odd. It’s a very intimate thing.

Hence why I get the giggles "

Do you know why you're giggling? Is it embarrassment, awkwardness, nervousness?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

But you are judging by stating its odd

Hence the word 'try

I see

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

I don’t think it’s odd. It’s a very intimate thing.

Hence why I get the giggles

Do you know why you're giggling? Is it embarrassment, awkwardness, nervousness?"

I get shy! God knows why. I’m happy doing anything else and not shy at all. Just the kissing. Once I get into it I’m fine it’s just the initial few minutes. I’m such a catch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

But you are judging by stating its odd

Hence the word 'try

I genuinely believe that many like to believe that they are not judgemental, but there are certain things they will judge on... I don't mean that to be only fab related things. Whether that be in their head, or verbalising it. I don't believe there is anyone who is completely judgement free.... Not that I've experienced anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

I don’t think it’s odd. It’s a very intimate thing.

Hence why I get the giggles

Do you know why you're giggling? Is it embarrassment, awkwardness, nervousness?

I get shy! God knows why. I’m happy doing anything else and not shy at all. Just the kissing. Once I get into it I’m fine it’s just the initial few minutes. I’m such a catch

I'm sure they find it rather sweet and endearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice practice practice

I'm sure there will be lots of people willing to practice with you.

Personally I love kissing and i think I'm pretty good at it too

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

But you are judging by stating its odd

Hence the word 'try

Oh I'm very judgemental on certain things, I freely admit it. Like you I try not to be or at least not express it unless its something really bad or a positive judgement.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

I don’t think it’s odd. It’s a very intimate thing.

Hence why I get the giggles

Do you know why you're giggling? Is it embarrassment, awkwardness, nervousness?

I get shy! God knows why. I’m happy doing anything else and not shy at all. Just the kissing. Once I get into it I’m fine it’s just the initial few minutes. I’m such a catch

I suspect that most guys would be willing to endure a couple of minutes giggling to catch you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing. It's a must or no meet no matter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

I don’t think it’s odd. It’s a very intimate thing.

Hence why I get the giggles

Do you know why you're giggling? Is it embarrassment, awkwardness, nervousness?

I get shy! God knows why. I’m happy doing anything else and not shy at all. Just the kissing. Once I get into it I’m fine it’s just the initial few minutes. I’m such a catch

I suspect that most guys would be willing to endure a couple of minutes giggling to catch you

Awww you’ve made me blush!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a terrible kisser.

With my husband I’m absolutely fantastic, I love kissing.

But with anyone else I get the giggles and I’m terrible.

My first fab meet on here, I actually sucked his cock, looked up at him and as he went to kiss me I giggled and went back to sucking his cock! I just got shy.

So. I need to desensitise myself. I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?

I've had this trouble before too ! I'm not shy, just start to giggle occasionally, no idea why.

Did you go back to sucking then too pal

Thanks for that

but no I'm sure it was a lady

Glad we cleared that up matey

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

pucker up and get me lol

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

Why do you find it "odd"? There are LOTS of things, sexually, that I am not into nor see how someone gets pleasure from them, so I just don't do them...but I don't find them "odd"!

Oh I understand others don't/won't feel the same but it's why they feel the need to declare something "odd" I don't understand....why do you feel the need to make anyone who thinks it's "normal" feel "odd" for the way they feel/think? Or don't you think that happens? It's not body shaming but preference shaming...it happens a lot on here, this(suposadly) open minded/non judgemental place we call Fab.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

Why do you find it "odd"? There are LOTS of things, sexually, that I am not into nor see how someone gets pleasure from them, so I just don't do them...but I don't find them "odd"!

The way I look at it is that nobody can "make" me feel bad about my preferences because they feel differently. I'm happy with the choices I've made and the preferences I've expressed and no comments can make me feel differently

. I do often defend no kissing but I never come away from a kissing thread feeling bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

Why do you find it "odd"? There are LOTS of things, sexually, that I am not into nor see how someone gets pleasure from them, so I just don't do them...but I don't find them "odd"!

There a lot who feel something odd, that they dont understand. It comes about on various threads with different fetishes. It wasn't anything crazily shaming, so I do believe you have complete overreacted to the comment. There are other comments that are far more shaming than that. It's not saying the people are odd. More that being able to engage in a sexual encounter feels odd, without kissing first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything else sexually I’m totally fine with! It’s honestly just kissing. Has anyone else suffered with this?!

I did.. briefly, after marriage ended. Not for long though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a terrible kisser.

With my husband I’m absolutely fantastic, I love kissing.

But with anyone else I get the giggles and I’m terrible.

My first fab meet on here, I actually sucked his cock, looked up at him and as he went to kiss me I giggled and went back to sucking his cock! I just got shy.

So. I need to desensitise myself. I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?"

Is it cos you're married and don't think you should?

(Sorry if someone has mentioned this, I'm being lazy and not reading the whole thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m a terrible kisser.

With my husband I’m absolutely fantastic, I love kissing.

But with anyone else I get the giggles and I’m terrible.

My first fab meet on here, I actually sucked his cock, looked up at him and as he went to kiss me I giggled and went back to sucking his cock! I just got shy.

So. I need to desensitise myself. I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?

Is it cos you're married and don't think you should?

(Sorry if someone has mentioned this, I'm being lazy and not reading the whole thread

Don’t think so, anything else I’ve done sexually has come naturally and I don’t get the giggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

Why do you find it "odd"? There are LOTS of things, sexually, that I am not into nor see how someone gets pleasure from them, so I just don't do them...but I don't find them "odd"!

Oh and no place is without judgement. Just because this is a swinging community, does not mean that as a matter of course, we all think everything sexually is perfectly acceptable, even if we don't engage in that activity. More open minded?perhaps. But still judgemental at times. Otherwise we would be devoid of emotions and feelings. It's human nature. Being a swinger does not make people exempt from that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a terrible kisser.

With my husband I’m absolutely fantastic, I love kissing.

But with anyone else I get the giggles and I’m terrible.

My first fab meet on here, I actually sucked his cock, looked up at him and as he went to kiss me I giggled and went back to sucking his cock! I just got shy.

So. I need to desensitise myself. I need lots of kissing, so I can get over my shyness.

Can anyone help?

Is it cos you're married and don't think you should?

(Sorry if someone has mentioned this, I'm being lazy and not reading the whole thread

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Don’t think so, anything else I’ve done sexually has come naturally and I don’t get the giggles"

I get the giggles but that usually adds to the fun of the meet

There must be something creating your block...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giggling would be fine, but if someone didn't want to kiss me, I'd be put off and feel rejected. Time to leave.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

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"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

Why do you find it "odd"? There are LOTS of things, sexually, that I am not into nor see how someone gets pleasure from them, so I just don't do them...but I don't find them "odd"!

Oh this i know, i am not saying for one minute that i myself don't judge, we all do...it's human nature. But i don't feel the need to let anyone know that i find their likes/dislikes "odd", i can see where that wouldn't be appreciated.

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over a year ago

"I absolutely love kissing. Can’t have a meet without it. Some couples say they don’t do it, so I don’t meet them. Very odd.

Why is it "very odd"? Because it's not how YOU think it should be? Words fail me..

Why do you find it "odd"? There are LOTS of things, sexually, that I am not into nor see how someone gets pleasure from them, so I just don't do them...but I don't find them "odd"!

That's understandable

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over a year ago

Kissing is sensual and intimate so it’s not unusual that it’s an act some people only want to share with their partner.

Maybe subconsciously that’s your brains way of seperating fab meets and all that entails from the man you love.

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