FabSwingers.com forum: Who can help get my first meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking to meet for the first time iv been really nervous to do so but now i want to push myself into doing so

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You. Only you can help yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You. Only you can help yourself. "

Master of your own destiny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"You. "
This

got to up your game.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No one's going to hold your hand. This is a tough environment.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Looking to meet for the first time iv been really nervous to do so but now i want to push myself into doing so"

Does that mean you've a meet lined up that you're nervous about or just potentially meeting in general?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll meet you mate, no worries

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"You. Only you can help yourself. "

Bingo!

This is a 1 player game OP, every man for himself...

OK it's not quite that bleak and people will help you and give you friendly advice, but no one is going to take you by the hand and spoon feed you. You have to go and make things happen.

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll meet you mate, no worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

General advice that would possibly help; try reading profiles before messaging people. Ensure you are what they are looking for, that they are what you are looking for.

I’m sure everyone is nervous the first few times.

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Fear is a choice. Just go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll meet you mate, no worries

He's close to the m62 I can be there in 20 minutes suck his cock empty his load deep in my throat then I'm gone..... Both happy... Win win

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Generic advice.

Have an interesting, positive profile that lays out who you are and what you're looking for. Pictures: a variety, less is more with genitals for most people.

Messages: be personal and friendly, read profiles first. Only message those who seem to be looking for someone like you. Don't send a picture of your penis unless they ask for it.

It's very hit and miss. Particularly without meet verification. Attending clubs and socials will help with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Generic advice.

Have an interesting, positive profile that lays out who you are and what you're looking for. Pictures: a variety, less is more with genitals for most people.

Messages: be personal and friendly, read profiles first. Only message those who seem to be looking for someone like you. Don't send a picture of your penis unless they ask for it.

It's very hit and miss. Particularly without meet verification. Attending clubs and socials will help with that. "

So if he takes your advice and follows it yo the letter are you going to meet him?

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By *.gerri.xTV/TS
over a year ago

North west

Evil bastards these lot babe

I'll help

I'll supply slut experience , you supply cocktails , venue charges and transport

we shall frequent various clubs upon which i shall break intial ice with various members who take your fancy and then allow you to work your magic

Remember Bellinis will be the fuel for our madcap adventure , think fear an loathing in stalyvegas with champagne instead of ether

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The only person that can help you OP, is you.

I'd suggest you look at the many hundreds of advice threads that already exist, and I guarantee you will find a lot of generic helpful advice.

If you can't help yourself, why would anyone want to help you?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Generic advice.

Have an interesting, positive profile that lays out who you are and what you're looking for. Pictures: a variety, less is more with genitals for most people.

Messages: be personal and friendly, read profiles first. Only message those who seem to be looking for someone like you. Don't send a picture of your penis unless they ask for it.

It's very hit and miss. Particularly without meet verification. Attending clubs and socials will help with that.

So if he takes your advice and follows it yo the letter are you going to meet him? "

It's how he stands the best chance with me, but too many other variables.

Unless I've said "I'll meet you at (place) on (day, time)", the answer is maybe at best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evil bastards these lot babe

I'll help

I'll supply slut experience , you supply cocktails , venue charges and transport

we shall frequent various clubs upon which i shall break intial ice with various members who take your fancy and then allow you to work your magic

Remember Bellinis will be the fuel for our madcap adventure , think fear an loathing in stalyvegas with champagne instead of ether

Fuck him, I'm coming on this trip!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as most of the men on here we all looking for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Generic advice.

Have an interesting, positive profile that lays out who you are and what you're looking for. Pictures: a variety, less is more with genitals for most people.

Messages: be personal and friendly, read profiles first. Only message those who seem to be looking for someone like you. Don't send a picture of your penis unless they ask for it.

It's very hit and miss. Particularly without meet verification. Attending clubs and socials will help with that.

So if he takes your advice and follows it yo the letter are you going to meet him?

It's how he stands the best chance with me, but too many other variables.

Unless I've said "I'll meet you at (place) on (day, time)", the answer is maybe at best. "

My point is this,if women aren't going to meet him, don't give him advice on how to meet other women.... See my point?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"You. Only you can help yourself.

Bingo!

This is a 1 player game OP, every man for himself...

OK it's not quite that bleak and people will help you and give you friendly advice, but no one is going to take you by the hand and spoon feed you. You have to go and make things happen.

Good luck OP"

Fab is nearly as hard as Golf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evil bastards these lot babe

I'll help

I'll supply slut experience , you supply cocktails , venue charges and transport

we shall frequent various clubs upon which i shall break intial ice with various members who take your fancy and then allow you to work your magic

Remember Bellinis will be the fuel for our madcap adventure , think fear an loathing in stalyvegas with champagne instead of ether

An offer that cant be refused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You. Only you can help yourself.

Bingo!

This is a 1 player game OP, every man for himself...

OK it's not quite that bleak and people will help you and give you friendly advice, but no one is going to take you by the hand and spoon feed you. You have to go and make things happen.

Good luck OP

Fab is nearly as hard as Golf."

And with more swingers

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By *.gerri.xTV/TS
over a year ago

North west

"Evil bastards these lot babe

I'll help

I'll supply slut experience , you supply cocktails , venue charges and transport

we shall frequent various clubs upon which i shall break intial ice with various members who take your fancy and then allow you to work your magic

Remember Bellinis will be the fuel for our madcap adventure , think fear an loathing in stalyvegas with champagne instead of ether

Fuck him, I'm coming on this trip!! "

If only i had known i would have stopped off when the Accy to Mcr bus went through Rossendale ( i think it was rossendale they all looked the same lol ).

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Generic advice.

Have an interesting, positive profile that lays out who you are and what you're looking for. Pictures: a variety, less is more with genitals for most people.

Messages: be personal and friendly, read profiles first. Only message those who seem to be looking for someone like you. Don't send a picture of your penis unless they ask for it.

It's very hit and miss. Particularly without meet verification. Attending clubs and socials will help with that.

So if he takes your advice and follows it yo the letter are you going to meet him?

It's how he stands the best chance with me, but too many other variables.

Unless I've said "I'll meet you at (place) on (day, time)", the answer is maybe at best.

My point is this,if women aren't going to meet him, don't give him advice on how to meet other women.... See my point? "

No, I don't see your point. If he does these things, and I like him, and he doesn't put me off, and it works out, I'll meet him. If ditto at a social, I'll go further. The way to do that is with broadly that template.

I'm not a charity and he won't get charity meets. Fab doesn't work like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evil bastards these lot babe

I'll help

I'll supply slut experience , you supply cocktails , venue charges and transport

we shall frequent various clubs upon which i shall break intial ice with various members who take your fancy and then allow you to work your magic

Remember Bellinis will be the fuel for our madcap adventure , think fear an loathing in stalyvegas with champagne instead of ether

Fuck him, I'm coming on this trip!!

If only i had known i would have stopped off when the Accy to Mcr bus went through Rossendale ( i think it was rossendale they all looked the same lol )."

You wouldn't of hit my town sweet, which is a fucking shame as I need a blast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you're filled with confidence now!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking to meet for the first time iv been really nervous to do so but now i want to push myself into doing so"

Do you get nervous chatting a lady up in a bar? If not, do that

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By *.gerri.xTV/TS
over a year ago

North west

Lol phew i've only ever been up that way once an heels an small lancashire town's pavements are .....interesting lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Looking to meet for the first time iv been really nervous to do so but now i want to push myself into doing so"

I spoke to my Gran about you;she said YES !!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

You've not asked for profile advice OP so I can't offer it - but that is a very good place to start when looking to meet from here - get your profile right and make it appealing, add to that the right attitude and approach, it won't guarantee a thing but it will improve your experience of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol phew i've only ever been up that way once an heels an small lancashire town's pavements are .....interesting lol

Not a good combination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can help yourself by taking more care of your profile and communication. Saying "iv" and "im" may be cool yoof text speak but it doesn't cut it so well when you're looking for lurve. It may sound a bit poncy, but if you can put together a decent sentence, people see you in a better light and are more likely to respond. Hope this helps!

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By *.gerri.xTV/TS
over a year ago

North west

FFS all this realistic normal advice

and i'm halfway through mashing 3 punnets of strawberrys and chilling champagne flutes

F.U.G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself a wing man and tag team ..

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"You've not asked for profile advice OP so I can't offer it"

That's not strictly true Gemini.

Forum rules are: Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued "or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success", please don't critique their profile or be mean about it.

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