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By *ing- Elle OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stenalees

why is it when you get on really well with someone and things seem to be going great, like met for sex 4 times, and lots of messages, enjoying each others company etc do they feel the need to disappear. sure you might have made a mistake but when you try to apologise in messages and they havent even read them, then avoid seeing you. I'm not a bad judge of character and i felt he was feeling the same, seeing me as dangerous was because he was feeling the same too. guess it wasnt meant to be after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may be too insatiable for him love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it when you get on really well with someone and things seem to be going great, like met for sex 4 times, and lots of messages, enjoying each others company etc do they feel the need to disappear. sure you might have made a mistake but when you try to apologise in messages and they havent even read them, then avoid seeing you. I'm not a bad judge of character and i felt he was feeling the same, seeing me as dangerous was because he was feeling the same too. guess it wasnt meant to be after all "

Maybe he is / was scared of the feelings he was gaining towards you and doesnt know what to do woth them? Yeah its wrong to ignore you totally i understand that part x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it when you get on really well with someone and things seem to be going great, like met for sex 4 times, and lots of messages, enjoying each others company etc do they feel the need to disappear. sure you might have made a mistake but when you try to apologise in messages and they havent even read them, then avoid seeing you. I'm not a bad judge of character and i felt he was feeling the same, seeing me as dangerous was because he was feeling the same too. guess it wasnt meant to be after all "

Bless you ... But the last eight words of your paragraph give your answer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are thousands of men on here, just pick another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are thousands of men on here, just pick another one "

Despite it being straight to the point shes right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There could be one hundred good reasons his interest in you has cooled. Only, if he hasn't got a big enough pair of balls to explain himself after meeting you four times.. Are any of those reasons really worth worrying about? Fuck him! Fuck him right off! Nobody deserves to be ghosted without reason after a physical relationship has started, terrible manners For exactly this reason, creates doubt, uncertainty, knocks your confidence, makes you feel generally shitty.

As someone said (sorry I forgot who). There are plenty of decent people on here, just pick another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adult site with some childish people unfortunately.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What mistake did you make?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why did you need to apologise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was your mistake? Was it assuming Sydney is the Australian capital? If so, relax. It’s a common error.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Maybe the mistake you needed to apologise was something that he needs to distance himself from. We dont know his side of things so can't really answer you properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did u fart and follow thru?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did u fart and follow thru? "

Trust you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some mistakes are harder to forgive.

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