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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love myself and I don’t feel I’m self absorbed. Don’t really ‘love’ the way I look though. Nothing wrong with loving yourself

I’m humble for any attention I may recieve on or off fab. God bless.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Average in most ways.

Except in bed. I'm shite in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm kinda awesome

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Nothing wrong with loving yourself, lots of men on here love themselves as their always wanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m average but I’m happy OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love myself and I don’t feel I’m self absorbed. Don’t really ‘love’ the way I look though. Nothing wrong with loving yourself

I’m humble for any attention I may recieve on or off fab. God bless. "

I always take the view that it's not for me to judge my own looks. It's for others to decide if they like me or not. We are who we are ... I'm comfortable with that.

For what it's worth, I think you look great Queenie!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with loving yourself, lots of men on here love themselves as their always wanking. "

There’s a difference between loving yourself and being in love with your reflection, which is the people I’m talking about.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

There's lots on here always posting asking for advice, opinions or just plain and simple look at me threads. Any site like this is going to attract narcissistic people.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

"

I'm interested as to how you define 'in love with themselves' is it about how they act towards others or themselves?

A genuine question by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

"

People who are self absorbed and self obsessed bore the tits off me! I don’t think it’s only people who are very attractive who behave like this though! Fab seems to be a magnet for them - but there are plenty in the real world too! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were a man I would idolise me.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"Nothing wrong with loving yourself, lots of men on here love themselves as their always wanking.

There’s a difference between loving yourself and being in love with your reflection, which is the people I’m talking about. "

Oh well that rules me out then, being a vampire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Average in most ways.

Except in bed. I'm shite in bed. "

I'm terrible at shagging in fact I'm shit at most things

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Some people rely on there looks for there job ,just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can love yourself without being a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* Sings

Oh Lord it’s hard to be humble....

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"There's lots on here always posting asking for advice, opinions or just plain and simple look at me threads. Any site like this is going to attract narcissistic people. "

I think there's a huge difference between narcism and just looking for attention.

We all look for attention in some form or other, even if it's just attention to our posts and comments. If we didn't all want attention then none of us would be on here with our pictures!

I think it's a question of the kind of attention and how much we are willing to ask for it that is the catching point for many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

People who are self absorbed and self obsessed bore the tits off me! I don’t think it’s only people who are very attractive who behave like this though! Fab seems to be a magnet for them - but there are plenty in the real world too! Xx"

I could name one woman in the lounge who loves herself its excruciating, pm me if you know who

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world...."

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show."

Blimey I know what you mean now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show."

I deal with these types daily..... it’s par for the course in business....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that behaviour is actually restricted to "good looking" people. There are loads of people out there who think they are some kind of gift from god and like to act like you should be grateful to be in their presence.

And yeah, it is off-putting. I want to share my time with someone who is focused on me and our experience together, just as my focus would be on them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now "

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not many like my long hair , even though its washed conditioned blo dried straightend daily ........i love it

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

"

Nonsense, the attention is mostly unwelcome!!! I would rather have ONE decent contact than the hundreds of unsuitable, uninspiring ones all women on here get!! They do absolutely nothing for the ego IMO, they're just men looking for sex without any interest in the real person, who needs it!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid."

Good word

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid.

Good word "

Thanks, word of the day loo roll!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid.

Good word

Thanks, word of the day loo roll! "

Haha, I posted it on the v thread yesterday, it's one of my favourites along with adroit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid.

Good word

Thanks, word of the day loo roll!

Haha, I posted it on the v thread yesterday, it's one of my favourites along with adroit."

*Googles adroit*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid."

I know exactly what you mean.

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI GRAN CANARIA


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid."

Your talking about vanity.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

"

ILM's. You can generally spot them a mile off, even without the pretty profile photos.

Subtly (not) worded threads and posts that aren't at all (much) more about them than whatever question or subject is being raised.

They're harmless if you don't rise to the bait.....

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid.

Good word

Thanks, word of the day loo roll!

Haha, I posted it on the v thread yesterday, it's one of my favourites along with adroit."

Bit weird you frisky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

ILM's. You can generally spot them a mile off, even without the pretty profile photos.

Subtly (not) worded threads and posts that aren't at all (much) more about them than whatever question or subject is being raised.

They're harmless if you don't rise to the bait.....

A"

what's IMLs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid."

You mean vain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind anyone who loves themselves as long as their a decent person. Obnoxious people who love themselves are twats mind. Loving yourself is a good thing! Projecting that you love yourself is a good thing. Just be a decent person and polite and you're good with me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid.

Your talking about vanity."

Without any substance.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Nothing wrong with loving yourself, lots of men on here love themselves as their always wanking. "
sad self pitying wanks tho

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By *abyjane555Couple
over a year ago

north west


"Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

Says the man with 20 body photos

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

ILM's. You can generally spot them a mile off, even without the pretty profile photos.

Subtly (not) worded threads and posts that aren't at all (much) more about them than whatever question or subject is being raised.

They're harmless if you don't rise to the bait.....

A

what's IMLs? "

"I Love Myself"

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind anyone who loves themselves as long as their a decent person. Obnoxious people who love themselves are twats mind. Loving yourself is a good thing! Projecting that you love yourself is a good thing. Just be a decent person and polite and you're good with me. "

Awwwwwww that's lovely

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid.

You mean vain?"

Perhaps vacuous would be better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm kinda awesome "

It's official!

Bella just awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid.

You mean vain?

Perhaps vacuous would be better"

Oh I knew you’d have to come up with a better word than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t love myself, I don’t even like myself at times, but I’ve learnt to deal with what I’ve been given and it works for me.

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back


"I don’t love myself, I don’t even like myself at times, but I’ve learnt to deal with what I’ve been given and it works for me. "

Defiantly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t love myself, I don’t even like myself at times, but I’ve learnt to deal with what I’ve been given and it works for me. "

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid.

You mean vain?

Perhaps vacuous would be better

Oh I knew you’d have to come up with a better word than me "

Don't I always?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I love myself, in terms of accepting myself , being kind to myself , amusing myself and liking my own company.

If that offends then that's your problem, not mine.

There's a difference between loving yourself and being arrogant. The two things aren't interchangeable.

It's a funny old world when a positive is seen as a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I finally like myself, I wouldn't go as far as saying I love myself.

My photos may give that impression, honestly, I'm not that comfy I'm the glare of a camera.

I may seek a little attention in the Forum, but who uses it and doesn't?

I used to think beautiful people were all vain, brain dead fuck wits, self absorbed, narcissistic people who were ugly on the inside.

That simply isn't true. I have two female, vanilla friends who model (darts/motorsports/energy drinks). They are the opposite of what I described above.

Another of my friends in a 'Mermaid' She's beautiful and very kind. Her new boyfriend isn't someone I'd have put her with, they don't match to look at, but he seems to have made her very happy.

I've been speaking with a woman from 'darn saaaath' who I'd consider out of my league in the looks and body department, but she seems as nice on the inside as she is on the outside.

People are only as ugly as their personality allows them to be. Yes I've got a few 'type's' I prefer. I'd not rule many people out on their body, or face alone. Though I have done so in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m average but am self confident is that loving yourself also enjoy a wank is that loving yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm kinda awesome

It's official!

Bella just awesome! "

*picks up mic*

Boom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with loving yourself, lots of men on here love themselves as their always wanking.

There’s a difference between loving yourself and being in love with your reflection, which is the people I’m talking about. "

Well that seems to cover 90% of the young females I see walking down the street constantly taking selfies of themselves

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Nothing wrong with loving yourself, lots of men on here love themselves as their always wanking.

There’s a difference between loving yourself and being in love with your reflection, which is the people I’m talking about.

Well that seems to cover 90% of the young females I see walking down the street constantly taking selfies of themselves "

A selfie is can be viewed very differently if you look at it as an 'alonie'.

A

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

'To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance'

- Oscar Wilde

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Is this about wanking?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Is this about wanking?"

Ooh. You've given me a thread idea.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is going to openly admit that they think they’re the ‘dogs bollocks’

You know who they are - just stay clear if that’s not the type of person you want to be in contact with.

No one is better than anyone else ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

"

I’d like to think I am humble and average and don’t mind a bit of self deprecating. (Thank goodness autocorrect didn’t kick in haha) with a touch of sass (I’ve been told recently I’m sassy - again thank autocorrect for not kicking in then)

I don’t even fish for compliments.

Btw why not pop over to my ugly profile and fab the fuck out of my photos and message me with your kinkiest fantasy.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid.

Good word

Thanks, word of the day loo roll!

Haha, I posted it on the v thread yesterday, it's one of my favourites along with adroit.

Bit weird you frisky "

Says the man with the broccoli fetish....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid.

Good word

Thanks, word of the day loo roll!

Haha, I posted it on the v thread yesterday, it's one of my favourites along with adroit.

Bit weird you frisky

Says the man with the broccoli fetish...."

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this about wanking?"

No Cher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my thumb toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know gorgeous people who are nice.

I know 'not gorgeous' people who are mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this about wanking?

Ooh. You've given me a thread idea.

A"

Wanking, is it like sex, but on your own ?!

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Ah but with hair this good you gotta flaunt it. Swish swish swish. I love a bit of self love

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have my good days and my bad days of loving myself but I do love selfies and my reflection once I dress up and have full make up on I think it’s all about if you have found yourself and how confident you feel so some people put on fake fasade and try to fake it until they make it and they might have no idea you have noticed it’s not really working

I used to apply full make up every day and go out every weekend but now I can’t wait for hiking trip and I’m happy with no make up. Everyone is different way of seeing their own reflection and most vain people have hardest time as they only see their flaws when looking in mirror and keep looking for next injection or fake eyebrow or even operation I usually find that biggest fat haters are most insecure people about their bodies and looks inside

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Your post is a contradiction....

On Fab every woman is beautiful and the amount of attention they receive over time will make them narcissistic ....

My evidence is a ranty demanding profile, many women leaving Fab then returning because they receive less attention in the real world....

I’m not talking about Fab and I didn’t refer to women, I’m talking about people in the real world, like when you’re out you can see them in conversation, you can tell they aren’t immersed in the conversation but have one eye on their reflection, theirs an air of fake about them, it’s all for show.

Blimey I know what you mean now

I knew what I meant, but couldn’t explain it, I’m not talking about people who love themselves as a person but more about the image they project, but scratch the surface though and there’s nothing there, vapid.

Good word

Thanks, word of the day loo roll!

Haha, I posted it on the v thread yesterday, it's one of my favourites along with adroit.

Bit weird you frisky

Says the man with the broccoli fetish....

Fair point "

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Is this about wanking?

Ooh. You've given me a thread idea.

A

Wanking, is it like sex, but on your own ?! "

It's like a threesome but with a couple of no shows....

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this about wanking?

Ooh. You've given me a thread idea.

A

Wanking, is it like sex, but on your own ?!

It's like a threesome but with a couple of no shows....

A"

Yeah, that’s better than mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

"

People who seem to ‘love themselves ‘ are usually very insecure about the way they look, they display over the top confidence to hide this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this about wanking?

Ooh. You've given me a thread idea.

A

Wanking, is it like sex, but on your own ?!

It's like a threesome but with a couple of no shows....

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to love yourself,if you don’t love yourself then who will??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got to love yourself,if you don’t love yourself then who will??"

I don’t like that phrase, my husband loved me long before I learned to love myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got to love yourself,if you don’t love yourself then who will??"

My mummy

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By *rand GestureMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes/London

If I had to give myself a mark out out of 10...I'd probably give me one. Ah thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in the real world .....1st one who loves themselves.......Robby Williams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I certainly don't look at myself and think that I am the best looking guy out there.

I'd like to say I am average. But my gut tells me that I am aiming too high with that thought...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tom cruise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gyles Brandreth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got to love yourself,if you don’t love yourself then who will??

I don’t like that phrase, my husband loved me long before I learned to love myself "

I don't hold with it either. I have a fairly low opinion of myself as a human being but I know I am loved by the people who count. As for being attractive, there are plenty of attractive people who don't love themselves, and lots of ugly arseholes who do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christiano Ronaldo

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I think you can be a bit vain and still be a nice person, we all have flaws. Except me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good loving yourself everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good loving yourself everyone "

Our baby loves itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from experience on here and in the real world, those who have over developed muscular bodies seem to rate themselves above everyone else, and make sure everyone around them knows it

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

"

Possible but unusual.

Mostly lovely looking people don’t feel they have to make any effort and are therefore incredibly boring and self obsessed. Much prefer somebody more average who makes me laugh and that has a personality

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Nothing wrong with loving yourself, lots of men on here love themselves as their always wanking.

There’s a difference between loving yourself and being in love with your reflection, which is the people I’m talking about. "

VANITY - noun, plural van·i·ties.

excessive pride in one's appearance, qualities, abilities, achievements, etc.; character or quality of being vain; conceit:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you can be a bit vain and still be a nice person, we all have flaws. Except me . "
. .

Veins ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drama queens are worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

Possible but unusual.

Mostly lovely looking people don’t feel they have to make any effort and are therefore incredibly boring and self obsessed. Much prefer somebody more average who makes me laugh and that has a personality

"

I manage it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you can be a bit vain and still be a nice person, we all have flaws. Except me "

Well your age preferences are shit for starters..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s totally possible to have good looks and not be self absorbed, generally though, those kind of people don’t realise quite how beautiful / good looking they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True beauty comes from within. A beautiful person on the inside shine through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if I was born beautiful, I'd never recognise it. I've spent years at war with my reflection. I suppose I do value myself but a I'm not comfortable in my own skin. However, I am associated with some very beautiful people and they aren't up their own arses, they are totally normal, decent human beings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love myself... I'm simply fabulous darling

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

"

You're talking about the Adonis effect. Plenty of that on FAB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

"

A serious answer to your question yes it is possible to be beautiful and nice

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

I know some really beautiful girls but have terrible personality ,so faulse they remind me of the girls on Towie ,fake and nasty

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

"

cliche Tampala....... just cliche.

'Good looking' is subjective and your argument is as FLAT as a FLUKES ass.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

cliche Tampala....... just cliche.

'Good looking' is subjective and your argument is as FLAT as a FLUKES ass. "

Have you actually read further down the thread, where I clarify the sort of people I meant ?!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Is there anything more off putting than seeing someone who’s obviously totally in love with the way they look, you can literally see them basking in their own beauty. Give me average and humble, with a bit of self deprecating any day of the week.

Is it possible to have good looks and manage not to be a self absorbed narc, because if you are beautiful you don’t really need to try to be nice ?!

"

Why shouldn't one love themselves?

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