FabSwingers.com forum: Married/attached women : a survey

By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

As a follow up to the men survey I did a couple of days ago, here's one for women.

So, if you get a message from a married or attached woman whose partner is unaware they are on here, what's your position. Assume you are interested in meeting with a view to sex.

1. Definitely won't meet

2. Less likely to meet

3. Makes no difference

4. More likely to meet.

Just say a number. If you feel you don't fit into any of the four categories, please ignore the thread.

Anyone who is open to meeting, men, women or couples is welcome to respond.

We're a 3.

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

Sorry "they are interested in meeting with a view to sex"

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

Results at 430

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m a 3

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I’m a 2

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Again a definite 1 for me.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Hope this one goes smoothly for you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 x

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over a year ago

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

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By *ay123mailMan
over a year ago

Seaham

2 if its to meet at there place.

3 for anywhere else.

So for the purpose of the survey id say 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a 4. Massive turn on!

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over a year ago

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Same as the men one, a 3

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

Bumping

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a follow up to the men survey I did a couple of days ago, here's one for women.

So, if you get a message from a married or attached woman whose partner is unaware they are on here, what's your position. Assume you are interested in meeting with a view to sex.

1. Definitely won't meet

2. Less likely to meet

3. Makes no difference

4. More likely to meet.

Just say a number. If you feel you don't fit into any of the four categories, please ignore the thread.

Anyone who is open to meeting, men, women or couples is welcome to respond.

We're a 3.

I’m a 3

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over a year ago

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

3 or 4

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Didn't make my mark in the previous thread but it's the same answer to both questions...

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

There's a stark difference between men's attitudes and attitudes of couples and women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

1 for us just like the other thread - we can’t have a different rule for each sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 ... I'm not on this planet to conscientiously affect another person's life for the worse

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

Bump!

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over a year ago

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By *utmegsMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

Three for me.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"1 ... I'm not on this planet to conscientiously affect another person's life for the worse "

Apparently I am. I’m thinking of getting an Audi and driving really close to people on the motorway with my headlights on full beam too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo a 3 for me.

As far as I’m concerned it’s none of my business but hers. This is a swinger/sex site right nothing more.

It does annoy me when others are opinionated on something that’s has nothing to do with them. There are more important issues to worry about like Brexit, Trump and climate change then people having fun!

Right, that’s put a cat amongst the pigeons lol

Cheeky x

Peace and love to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 ... I'm not on this planet to conscientiously affect another person's life for the worse

Apparently I am. I’m thinking of getting an Audi and driving really close to people on the motorway with my headlights on full beam too"

Hahahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a 3

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

Another bump!

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a stark difference between men's attitudes and attitudes of couples and women. "

I like your choice of word.

'Stark'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a 4. Massive turn on!"

Absolutely the same...

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By *ady-LoverMan
over a year ago

swindon

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

Only 90 mins to go. Vote now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a landslide

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'll bet more are willing to meet married women than men.

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By *onnor999Man
over a year ago

Wrexham

3 for sure. What happens in their private relationships is their business. Not for me to judge.

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By *ersatile MaleMan
over a year ago

hull

"As a follow up to the men survey I did a couple of days ago, here's one for women.

So, if you get a message from a married or attached woman whose partner is unaware they are on here, what's your position. Assume you are interested in meeting with a view to sex.

1. Definitely won't meet

2. Less likely to meet

3. Makes no difference

4. More likely to meet.

Just say a number. If you feel you don't fit into any of the four categories, please ignore the thread.

Anyone who is open to meeting, men, women or couples is welcome to respond.

We're a 3.

Number 3 for me

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

3 for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 for me

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

Final score:

Overall

Wouldn't meet 7 = 15%

Less likely to meet 6 = 13%

No difference 31 = 67%

More likely to meet 2 = 5%

Replies of men

Wouldn't meet 0

Less likely to meet 2 = 7%

No difference 23 = 86%

More likely to meet, 2=7%

Women and couples

Wouldn't meet 7 = 36%

Less likely to meet 4= 21%

No difference 8 = 43%

More likely to meet 0

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

It's ok to sex a wife because the men shouldn't be neglecting that fine piece of arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

It’s a 3 for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet. I know the totals have been added up already.

I guess I'm the exception to the rule this time.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We would have been a 1 too

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

Compared to attached men

Wouldn't meet

Men 39%

Women 15%

Less likely to meet

Men 32%

Women 13%

No difference

Men 18%

Women 67%

More likely to meet

Men 11%

Women 5%

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I waiver between 2 and 3

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

So as everyone probably expected people are much more ready to meet attached women than attached men.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"So as everyone probably expected people are much more ready to meet attached women than attached men. "

No surprises there then

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a 3

We’re all on here for different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So as everyone probably expected people are much more ready to meet attached women than attached men. "

Great experiment. What's next?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"So as everyone probably expected people are much more ready to meet attached women than attached men. "

And do you see that as a positive or a negative?

Just for balance sake!!!

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

"So as everyone probably expected people are much more ready to meet attached women than attached men.

And do you see that as a positive or a negative?

Just for balance sake!!!"

I think it's a function of women being much rarer. People are thus more tolerant towards women than they are towards men.

The motto of fabs should be "supply and demand is everything"

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over a year ago

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

"So as everyone probably expected people are much more ready to meet attached women than attached men.

Great experiment. What's next?

Maybe I can do "would you meet an fb couple if they were both married to other unknowing partners" ??

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

"3"

Survey over

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Aren’t we lucky then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 - no way on earth, don't care what you look like.... poison on the inside.

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

"Aren’t we lucky then...

You're lucky, I'm lucky, he's lucky, we're all lucky, hhahahahahaha!!!!!!!!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"So as everyone probably expected people are much more ready to meet attached women than attached men.

Great experiment. What's next?

Maybe I can do "would you meet an fb couple if they were both married to other unknowing partners" ??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So as everyone probably expected people are much more ready to meet attached women than attached men.

Great experiment. What's next?

Maybe I can do "would you meet an fb couple if they were both married to other unknowing partners" ??"

That would be a great one!

Or have a sub question of just 'would you meet a fb couple'. I know some couples won't meet fb's.

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

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over a year ago

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Survey over

Did I win?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta luvre a fab survey - well done OP.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Well done for both surveys OP. I think the outcome was as predicted with one rule for meeting men and another for meeting women. x

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 and do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3/4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a 3

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

"Well done for both surveys OP. I think the outcome was as predicted with one rule for meeting men and another for meeting women. x"

Another interpretation is that men have no morals

57% of couples/women wouldn't meet an attached woman or would be less likely to meet her compared to only 7% of men who take a similar negative view.

Actually I think it's a function of men having fewer options

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well done for both surveys OP. I think the outcome was as predicted with one rule for meeting men and another for meeting women. x

Another interpretation is that men have no morals

57% of couples/women wouldn't meet an attached woman or would be less likely to meet her compared to only 7% of men who take a similar negative view.

Actually I think it's a function of men having fewer options "

I didn't like the subject matter, I'm a STRONG number one in both surveys (more a reflection of the old me I hate, than anyone else who cheats). I did like both posts though OP

Well done.

Not the results I was expecting, not results I'm that particularly happy about, but I feel like I've learnt something about other people's views as a group and as individuals. Learning something new can only be a good thing. Thankyou.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"It's ok to sex a wife because the men shouldn't be neglecting that fine piece of arse."

To neglect, or be neglected? That is the question.......

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well done for both surveys OP. I think the outcome was as predicted with one rule for meeting men and another for meeting women. x

Another interpretation is that men have no morals

57% of couples/women wouldn't meet an attached woman or would be less likely to meet her compared to only 7% of men who take a similar negative view.

Actually I think it's a function of men having fewer options "

So by that token you’re saying I only get meets because men have fewer options available....

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I'm married but my partner knows about my 'Fab life'. Sometimes a guy is turned on by the thought of pulling the wool over his eyes but this doesn't do it for me at all.

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area

1. I have absolutely no desire to help a lady cheat on her husband.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Well done for both surveys OP. I think the outcome was as predicted with one rule for meeting men and another for meeting women. x

Another interpretation is that men have no morals

57% of couples/women wouldn't meet an attached woman or would be less likely to meet her compared to only 7% of men who take a similar negative view.

Actually I think it's a function of men having fewer options "

I'm not sure it's about options , I really do think the majority of men can compartmentalise in this way more efficiently and would see it as none of their concern the status of the woman they are boinking. And some actually find it a turn on to boink a mans wife behind her husbands back , whereas I don't think any women stated they actually got off on it, more that married men can be more convenient and less trouble seemed to be the deciding factors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Absolutely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So as everyone probably expected people are much more ready to meet attached women than attached men. "

What do you mean by people - forum users, fab members in general or the wider population?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. I have absolutely no desire to help a lady cheat on her husband. "

You mean 'woman', not 'lady'.

Check the dictionary before anyone jumps..... not a judgement, just a fact.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"1. I have absolutely no desire to help a lady cheat on her husband.

You mean 'woman', not 'lady'.

Check the dictionary before anyone jumps..... not a judgement, just a fact."

A woman is a female adult. A lady is a polite or formal way of referring to a woman. I don’t get your point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. I have absolutely no desire to help a lady cheat on her husband.

You mean 'woman', not 'lady'.

Check the dictionary before anyone jumps..... not a judgement, just a fact.

A woman is a female adult. A lady is a polite or formal way of referring to a woman. I don’t get your point. "

There is no polite way to refer to a man or woman who is cheating on their spouse. Therefore, 'lady' or 'gentleman' is not appropriate for those individuals.

Clearly, a lady or gentleman would conduct themselves with honour and respect (for others and themselves).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a married man who’s wife doesn’t know... I was thinking of giving up but after seeing the other post, I’ve got 11% chance ????

As for this post... 4 from me.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the outcome of the survey was pretty obvious before anyone started answering.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. I'm happy and confident, because I'm not hurting anyone else, whether they know it or not. I may be a glorified pool boy, but I can walk tall.

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

1. I don't meet with anyone who's partner has no idea they're here.

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over a year ago

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By *lloverkisserMan
over a year ago

preston

Definately 4

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By *earded_kent_GentMan
over a year ago

ashford

I’m number 3....

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

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over a year ago

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm still a 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 for me. All on here for different reasons and there’s always a story

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over a year ago

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

3-4 for me it’s a turn on

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