FabSwingers.com forum: Ghosted!!

By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably for the same reasons mermen do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably for the same reasons mermen do. "

Bloody mermen. Giving us normal men a bad name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably for the same reasons mermen do. "

Mermen

My phone is on a roll with it's autocorrect today!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, are you 100% sure it's a woman?.

If yes, there are many reasons why women do this.

chalk it up to experience and either learn from it, or accept it happens.

Men do it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably for the same reasons mermen do.

Bloody mermen. Giving us normal men a bad name"
There's plenty more fish in the sea...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably for the same reasons mermen do.

Mermen

My phone is on a roll with it's autocorrect today! "

Sounds like a fishy tale if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably for the same reasons mermen do.

Bloody mermen. Giving us normal men a bad name"

It's because they can't tuck their dicks away, cocky bastards.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this? "

If you’re feeling passionate enough to post “we were getting on great” and then report on a forum - I’d hazard a guess that you were too full on.

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By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

What is a mermen?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a mermen?? Lol "

A male mermaid.

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By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

If you’re feeling passionate enough to post “we were getting on great” and then report on a forum - I’d hazard a guess that you were too full on."
No not all it just annoyed me!she was as full on or more with me

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By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

"What is a mermen?? Lol

A male mermaid. "

Thanks I don't know for sure

She sent me very convincing pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this? "

Sorry to hear that. It's confusing and upsetting but not necessarily because of anything you did.It could be one of any number of reasons why she didn't want to continue the communication. The important thing is that she didn't feel it was worth telling you directly. That's maybe not the kind of person you want to be involved with anyway.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this? "

I would say you did something to upset her or put her off simple as that so she decided for what ever reason you were boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest or a myriad of other reasons to make her not want to talk further and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a mermen?? Lol

A male mermaid.

Thanks I don't know for sure

She sent me very convincing pictures"

Did you reverse image search them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She might be fake or were you a little too forward possibly?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

If you’re feeling passionate enough to post “we were getting on great” and then report on a forum - I’d hazard a guess that you were too full on. No not all it just annoyed me!she was as full on or more with me"

Probably a man then!

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

If you're going to try to meet people online you have to be strong enough not to get upset when they stop messaging you. It happens to everyone (and everyone has probably done it to someone else at some point).

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By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

Thanks for all the advice...

She was a newbie apparently married.

Not really taking it to forward to fast... I know what this site is like

Move on to the next one lol

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By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

"If you're going to try to meet people online you have to be strong enough not to get upset when they stop messaging you. It happens to everyone (and everyone has probably done it to someone else at some point). Yeah it's happen to me a few times

I'm strong and not upset just annoyed

If there had been a reason I could understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard of mermen ... where can I get one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want to see guys bitch about it in the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm strong and not upset just annoyed

If there had been a reason I could understand

There was a reason. You’re just unaware of it.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm strong and not upset just annoyed

If there had been a reason I could understand

There was a reason. You’re just unaware of it. "

Snap I wrote the exact same thing

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By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

I'm strong and not upset just annoyed

If there had been a reason I could understand

There was a reason. You’re just unaware of it.

Snap I wrote the exact same thing

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Well image search has revealed her boob pics were fake...

But not her face pic!

Even more confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP"

Who blocked who! Read the OP's original post she blocked him for a reason you disagree all you like people block for their own reasons and we only have one side of the story here. Sometimes the block button is a fantastic tool.

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By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP

Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.

If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP

Well you would say that and probably think you weren't but from her point of view you may well have been so she blocked you for it.

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By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP

Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.

If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?"

So quick to judge

I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP

Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.

If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?

So quick to judge

I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it "

Thats your point of view hers might well have been vastly different.

I have had crass unplesent boring messages from people and if you point it out they don't see it.

The facts are you exchanged messages and at some point she decided to block you. You think it was for no reason but people usually have a reason for doing so.

Things are becoming a lot clearer as you ask a question in your original post and don't like some of the answers which points to a repeat of the circumstances in the future.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Probably for the same reasons mermen do.

Mermen

My phone is on a roll with it's autocorrect today! "

Oh that's funny.

Bloody mermen, so fickle. And don't get me started on Seahorses!

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By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP

Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.

If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?

So quick to judge

I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it

Thats your point of view hers might well have been vastly different.

I have had crass unplesent boring messages from people and if you point it out they don't see it.

The facts are you exchanged messages and at some point she decided to block you. You think it was for no reason but people usually have a reason for doing so.

Things are becoming a lot clearer as you ask a question in your original post and don't like some of the answers which points to a repeat of the circumstances in the future. "

Errr no I didn't say I didn't like the answers just pointing out that they were no valid

You don't even know me so don't judge me

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP

Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.

If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?

So quick to judge

I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it

Thats your point of view hers might well have been vastly different.

I have had crass unplesent boring messages from people and if you point it out they don't see it.

The facts are you exchanged messages and at some point she decided to block you. You think it was for no reason but people usually have a reason for doing so.

Things are becoming a lot clearer as you ask a question in your original post and don't like some of the answers which points to a repeat of the circumstances in the future.

Errr no I didn't say I didn't like the answers just pointing out that they were no valid

You don't even know me so don't judge me "

I know you cant take constructive criticism and you get arsy. Don't post things like this if you don't like peoples opinions! Its becoming clearer and clearer to me why she blocked you I must say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure it was ghosted though. Wasnt it just stopped chatting.

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By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP

Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.

If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?

So quick to judge

I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it

Thats your point of view hers might well have been vastly different.

I have had crass unplesent boring messages from people and if you point it out they don't see it.

The facts are you exchanged messages and at some point she decided to block you. You think it was for no reason but people usually have a reason for doing so.

Things are becoming a lot clearer as you ask a question in your original post and don't like some of the answers which points to a repeat of the circumstances in the future.

Errr no I didn't say I didn't like the answers just pointing out that they were no valid

You don't even know me so don't judge me

I know you cant take constructive criticism and you get arsy. Don't post things like this if you don't like peoples opinions! Its becoming clearer and clearer to me why she blocked you I must say. "

You really couldn't be more wrong!

I have said nothing to you or anyone

I appreciate the opinions

Shouldn't have posted it just wanted to rant as you need to sometimes

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By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

"Not sure it was ghosted though. Wasnt it just stopped chatting. "

Same thing no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure it was ghosted though. Wasnt it just stopped chatting.

Same thing no? "

Dont you have to have met a few times and then been blanked. Stopping messaging on here is just, well, stopping messaging. Labels everywhere

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP

Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.

If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?

So quick to judge

I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it

Thats your point of view hers might well have been vastly different.

I have had crass unplesent boring messages from people and if you point it out they don't see it.

The facts are you exchanged messages and at some point she decided to block you. You think it was for no reason but people usually have a reason for doing so.

Things are becoming a lot clearer as you ask a question in your original post and don't like some of the answers which points to a repeat of the circumstances in the future.

Errr no I didn't say I didn't like the answers just pointing out that they were no valid

You don't even know me so don't judge me

I know you cant take constructive criticism and you get arsy. Don't post things like this if you don't like peoples opinions! Its becoming clearer and clearer to me why she blocked you I must say.

You really couldn't be more wrong!

I have said nothing to you or anyone

I appreciate the opinions

Shouldn't have posted it just wanted to rant as you need to sometimes "

Im not wrong though at all its clear by your responses you don't take criticism you are assuming its all her but there is always a trigger for someone blocking someone. I note you didn't address the last three issues in the "boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest" maybe it was one or all of those that made her block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this? "

they seen through your lies?

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

One of a possible hundred and twenty three reasons. You'll most likely never know.

If we're doing a sweepstake though I'll take 'she's only in it for the fantasy and it was getting too close to being real'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What we don't get is you look at a profile one you've not looked at before and they've not looked at ours. But it says you've been blocked by this person how's that work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably for the same reasons mermen do.

Bloody mermen. Giving us normal men a bad name

It's because they can't tuck their dicks away, cocky bastards. "

Jason Momoa with it tucked away! What a fantasy killer that image is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What we don't get is you look at a profile one you've not looked at before and they've not looked at ours. But it says you've been blocked by this person how's that work "

You wouldn't know if they've looked at you cos they won't show on your list if they block you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP

Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.

If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?

So quick to judge

I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it

Thats your point of view hers might well have been vastly different.

I have had crass unplesent boring messages from people and if you point it out they don't see it.

The facts are you exchanged messages and at some point she decided to block you. You think it was for no reason but people usually have a reason for doing so.

Things are becoming a lot clearer as you ask a question in your original post and don't like some of the answers which points to a repeat of the circumstances in the future.

Errr no I didn't say I didn't like the answers just pointing out that they were no valid

You don't even know me so don't judge me

I know you cant take constructive criticism and you get arsy. Don't post things like this if you don't like peoples opinions! Its becoming clearer and clearer to me why she blocked you I must say. "

Good grief he's not getting arsey! He's just telling his side of the story. Don't infer he's some kind of weirdo. Wtf?!

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

This happens to me when I first joined the site, was chatting with and getting on great with a charming female member, her last message being,

“ her husband will be back from some time away soon “.

next thing I know I’m blocked, so as previously posted chalk it up to experience, fabs is a big wide world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this? "

Many people are childish and don't have the social skills to say they don't want to chat or meet so just block. See it as a lucky escape.

It does sound like it could have been a man wanking but you never know.

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By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

I disagree. It could be that she got cold feet, her husband discovered she is on Fab, she met someone else or any other reason. There's no justification to automatically blame it on the OP

Yes, she blocked him for a reason but the only person who knows what that reason was, is the woman in herself.

If the story was about a woman who got blocked, would you assume it was because she had been boring/abusive/unplesent/dishonest/married/cheating/dishonest?

So quick to judge

I was pleasent friendly not boring and only took our conversation where she wanted to take it

Thats your point of view hers might well have been vastly different.

I have had crass unplesent boring messages from people and if you point it out they don't see it.

The facts are you exchanged messages and at some point she decided to block you. You think it was for no reason but people usually have a reason for doing so.

Things are becoming a lot clearer as you ask a question in your original post and don't like some of the answers which points to a repeat of the circumstances in the future.

Errr no I didn't say I didn't like the answers just pointing out that they were no valid

You don't even know me so don't judge me

I know you cant take constructive criticism and you get arsy. Don't post things like this if you don't like peoples opinions! Its becoming clearer and clearer to me why she blocked you I must say.

Good grief he's not getting arsey! He's just telling his side of the story. Don't infer he's some kind of weirdo. Wtf?!

Thank you my point exactly

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By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

Thank you for all your feedback

It's not something that normally bothers me

Note.... Was totally straight with her not abusive boring aggressive etc etc

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this? "

If this is your reaction after two days, you were probably overbearing.

You have to realise no one is obliged to continue conversation with you, and if you're going to get upset at every knockback you'll be unhappy.

It's fun. She didn't promise you a kidney then renege on the deal...chill!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

Many people are childish and don't have the social skills to say they don't want to chat or meet so just block. See it as a lucky escape.

It does sound like it could have been a man wanking but you never know. "

Going by previous threads, when women say no thanks/change their mind they go from beautiful to fat slag in a nanosecond, so I can understand those that decide to take the easy option and block.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Whatever happened to no expectations and accepting sometimes you just don't float someones boat

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ghosting

"The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication."

A few messages doesn't equate to the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve had a lucky escape mate... she’s probably an absolute head the ball!!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Been chatting to a lady on here for a couple of days.

All of a sudden been blocked!

Wtf were getting on great

Why do women do this?

Had this conversation earlier..... a couple of days of great conversation and ONE wrong line.... BOOM! end of conversation. We just don’t always see that ONE offending sentence coming and when it does you guys undo all the good you started off....

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By *ig9incherforu OP Man
over a year ago

Welwyn

'Sigh' some of these replies

Chill peeps

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