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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or when someone from far away messages do you think what's the point and not reply yet happily converse with forum users from all over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think of other forum users that I like a bit like pen friends. The ones that given an appropriate opportunity you’d meet up with for coffee or a meal with if they are in your area or you’re in theirs. There are others that given the opportunity I would enjoy much more than a coffee or meal with. Whereas random Fab users are just that, and the distance just makes it seem that much more random. However there are a few I’ve chatted to but inevitably the interest wanes quite quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to meet ppl who are not local and many times even others are in the same boat.

Also it gives an opportunity to travel around meeting people and knowing them. Mostly we love the accents . Amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never actually check location when I find a message I like hence friends that end up being hundreds of miles away. I have a helicopter on the christmas list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to travel so it's a great excuse to visit other parts of the country. The potential for hot sex n giggles is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not looking for any new meets at present, but when I do, distance is important. I don't drive myself, and I don't want people having to drive for hours to meet me, as then the expectations from their part might be too high. I have also had conversations before with people (read: men) from far away who, to me saying they were too far, replied: 'but you say you can accommodate?'. Yes, I can accommodate, if I agree to meet someone for some intimate fun, but I'm not a hotel! So my rule, when I do meet new people- no more than an hour drive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to travel but generally only travel to people I've conversed with from the forums. Recently travelled and it was a bad meet so its put me off traveling to a degree now. I do regularly travel a hour each way to see my fb but he's worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get offers from all over the UK mainland asking me to be their cleaner etc. I never reply.

Or from down south I mean over 100 miles away ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deliver all over the place so my options are as far as Plymouth, Cornwall. Bournemouth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think just the thought of travelling miles to meet someone is more exciting to the whole thing, adds to the build up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can travel quite easily so location up to 100 miles is fine even for a 'regular' meeting. Not that I have one though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on what they say. I mostly just wonder why they'd mail me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will respond to all messages regardless of distance as long as they are not rude or disgusting. Most of the messages I ignore are from guys asking if I want my balls drained. I only changed my message filters to let them contact as I'm looking for a social in Bristol next month, since I did a week ago I've had 3 of those messages fs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind the distance. But it really any excuse for a night away in a hotel. Plus my partner was 2hrs drive from me before he moved here. I drove it alot for fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to most

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Is it just me or when someone from far away messages do you think what's the point and not reply yet happily converse with forum users from all over "

Some people do travel I guess if you are interested ask them if they do.

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By *omesticflightMan
over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

No it makes no difference for me, because I like going on adventures to far-flung places, and you never know if/when the person could be visiting nearby at some point in the future.

Cast the net wide! Otherwise it's a case of being interested in people proximate to you over people who you vibe best with.

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