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"Already found a fake profile today x" How did you find my profile best open another as a female  | |||
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"Already found a fake profile today x How did you find my profile best open another as a female "Hahahaha x | |||
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"Having problems A lot of men pretending to be fema or couples Or arrange meet they refuse to speak on phone to prove geninue Then all sudden removed from site Anyone having same problem" If you are asking to speak on the phone to prove genuine that can put people off. Messages that demand this just get deleted. Look for veri from different people who aee also well verified. | |||
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"Yes they had no verisimilitude after 3 months but can't a friend put verify on" I always msg people with veri from different people you can spot fake veri and I too would not speak on phone just to prove I'm a woman no way anyone on here unless I really know them would get my phone number x also sticking to clubs and socials helps out fakes x | |||
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"I bought a fake Prada bag once....should of guessed really,he only wanted 3 quid for it .. "Those buy sell groups for Rhyl clearly some dodgy | |||
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"Any ideas in some rules to follow to help" One line profiles that signed up a few hours ago and mesdaged you first are likley fake. Block newbies. Message people with a good ampunt of pics a half decent profile veries and a reasonable ampunt of time on the site will mean you pretty kuch never encounter a fake | |||
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"Im really a woman "If you need a loan of a dress to provide photo. | |||
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"Having problems A lot of men pretending to be fema or couples Or arrange meet they refuse to speak on phone to prove geninue Then all sudden removed from site Anyone having same problem" Happens alot | |||
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"Good idea wouldover try a club nervous was thinking of quest" Dont be nervous when clubs know it's your first time they do help even the men x | |||
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"Having problems A lot of men pretending to be fema or couples Or arrange meet they refuse to speak on phone to prove geninue Then all sudden removed from site Anyone having same problem As its you experiencing this in the main could it be your scintillating profile is putting them off the site?" The OP was expressing concern with regards to non genuine profiles ie the person portrayed in the profile does not match the person behind it often with malevolent or against site rules intent I can't remember him asking for profile advice ? OP my experience is a proportion over 50 percent of alleged female profiles claiming to be under 34 have the hallmarks of suspicious profile .my criticism of your OP would be the use of the word problem , they are certainly no problem for me although I have expressed before that fab themselves may not be so happy Bottom line No reply or no meet has zero bearing or reflection upon the genuine or not status of a profile Many other factors do though and from these factors my local searches highlight a large number of suspect profiles x | |||
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"Why is that men with no photos and a crap profile that can't get a meet, suppose every one is fake. " Not sure he did ! He correctly pointed out that Lots of couple profile and single lady's are indeed constructed by men surely that is both obvious and common knowledge? Secondly if we read the OP and believe his words he has been able to arrange meets Now I dont absolutely think that means they are all fake but the odds are some are And finally , there's lots of very suspicious profiles out there I block close to 5 a day | |||
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"I think with a few standard questions slipped into the conversations, people are pretty easily found out. Just give them no more of your time and move on. " Exactly fakes scammers prostitutes bots have littered the web for decades sex sites are easy prey | |||
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"I think with a few standard questions slipped into the conversations, people are pretty easily found out. Just give them no more of your time and move on. " 
This site is great because all the profiles are real people, no bots to lure people in.
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"What's bots?" Other sites use chat bots/ fake female profiles that mail men to tempt them into paying to be able to mail them back. | |||
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"Having problems A lot of men pretending to be fema or couples Or arrange meet they refuse to speak on phone to prove geninue Then all sudden removed from site Anyone having same problem" Does it really matter? I mean let's face it; you're probably only looking for a few dirty texts five days a month. Embrace the unknown. | |||
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"Having problems A lot of men pretending to be fema or couples Or arrange meet they refuse to speak on phone to prove geninue Then all sudden removed from site Anyone having same problem" There are quite a few very sad and lonely males on here who pretend to be women or couples. We call them the unfuckables. They know they'll never actually meet someone off here so getting off on chat is their only option. | |||
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"Having problems A lot of men pretending to be fema or couples Or arrange meet they refuse to speak on phone to prove geninue Then all sudden removed from site Anyone having same problem There are quite a few very sad and lonely males on here who pretend to be women or couples. We call them the unfuckables. They know they'll never actually meet someone off here so getting off on chat is their only option." Erm I did admit to it on last post | |||
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"I bought a fake Prada bag once....should of guessed really,he only wanted 3 quid for it .. "I feel you pain. I once bought a Tommy Fishfinger coat. | |||
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"I bought a fake Prada bag once....should of guessed really,he only wanted 3 quid for it ..
I feel you pain. I once bought a Tommy Fishfinger coat."It didn't belong to a certain captain did it ? | |||
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"If they aren’t at least photo verified steer clear, If it gets to watsapp or Kik etc then send and request a voice note stating your fab profile name and the current time, to be double sure I send a photo holding up a random amount of fingers and ask them to do the same....most don’t make it past the first hurdle but the genuine ones; and there are loads, won’t have a problem doing this " And do a handstand whistling dixey...  | |||
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"If they aren’t at least photo verified steer clear, If it gets to watsapp or Kik etc then send and request a voice note stating your fab profile name and the current time, to be double sure I send a photo holding up a random amount of fingers and ask them to do the same....most don’t make it past the first hurdle but the genuine ones; and there are loads, won’t have a problem doing this And do a handstand whistling dixey... "I asked a man to do that for me I met on a Facebook app. His pics were professional modelling pics, which obviously set off my spidey senses. I was rather pleased to receive a pic of a very handsome man, complete with bedhair and a sexy smile to my phone. | |||
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"If they aren’t at least photo verified steer clear, If it gets to watsapp or Kik etc then send and request a voice note stating your fab profile name and the current time, to be double sure I send a photo holding up a random amount of fingers and ask them to do the same....most don’t make it past the first hurdle but the genuine ones; and there are loads, won’t have a problem doing this And do a handstand whistling dixey... "If they can do that then they’re on the wrong site lol  | |||
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"If they aren’t at least photo verified steer clear, If it gets to watsapp or Kik etc then send and request a voice note stating your fab profile name and the current time, to be double sure I send a photo holding up a random amount of fingers and ask them to do the same....most don’t make it past the first hurdle but the genuine ones; and there are loads, won’t have a problem doing this And do a handstand whistling dixey...
I asked a man to do that for me I met on a Facebook app.
His pics were professional modelling pics, which obviously set off my spidey senses.
I was rather pleased to receive a pic of a very handsome man, complete with bedhair and a sexy smile to my phone.
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"The problem is not the fakes as there easy to spot, it's the dreamers and fantasists and time wasters that drive me mad." O yes | |||
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"If they aren’t at least photo verified steer clear, If it gets to watsapp or Kik etc then send and request a voice note stating your fab profile name and the current time, to be double sure I send a photo holding up a random amount of fingers and ask them to do the same....most don’t make it past the first hurdle but the genuine ones; and there are loads, won’t have a problem doing this And do a handstand whistling dixey...
I asked a man to do that for me I met on a Facebook app.
His pics were professional modelling pics, which obviously set off my spidey senses.
I was rather pleased to receive a pic of a very handsome man, complete with bedhair and a sexy smile to my phone.
Exactly the genuine ones won’t have an issue "I wouldn’t be jumping through hoops for a fab meet | |||
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"If they aren’t at least photo verified steer clear, If it gets to watsapp or Kik etc then send and request a voice note stating your fab profile name and the current time, to be double sure I send a photo holding up a random amount of fingers and ask them to do the same....most don’t make it past the first hurdle but the genuine ones; and there are loads, won’t have a problem doing this And do a handstand whistling dixey...
I asked a man to do that for me I met on a Facebook app.
His pics were professional modelling pics, which obviously set off my spidey senses.
I was rather pleased to receive a pic of a very handsome man, complete with bedhair and a sexy smile to my phone.
Exactly the genuine ones won’t have an issue "We wouldn't. Mustn't be genuine then. | |||
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"there is ye can but check sometimes you get caught whish could name and shame or have a forum " But people could lie. I've been reported to admin for being fake because I wouldn't meet someone. Everything in life is a risk. You need to work out what level of risk you're prepared to accept. | |||
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"If they aren’t at least photo verified steer clear, If it gets to watsapp or Kik etc then send and request a voice note stating your fab profile name and the current time, to be double sure I send a photo holding up a random amount of fingers and ask them to do the same....most don’t make it past the first hurdle but the genuine ones; and there are loads, won’t have a problem doing this And do a handstand whistling dixey...
I asked a man to do that for me I met on a Facebook app.
His pics were professional modelling pics, which obviously set off my spidey senses.
I was rather pleased to receive a pic of a very handsome man, complete with bedhair and a sexy smile to my phone.
Exactly the genuine ones won’t have an issue
I wouldn’t be jumping through hoops for a fab meet"I don't see sending a pic or a phone call, to check someone isn't pulling a fast one, is jumping through hoops. I'm well verified so I don't get asked on here, but if I wasn't I would oblige. I won't cam though as that could give them wank fodder. | |||
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"there is ye can but check sometimes you get caught whish could name and shame or have a forum " So whats to stop say me going "_inge61 is totaly fake arranged to meet and it was actualy a one eyes one legged flying purple people eater that turned up!!!!" Or some other such bs. Youd find any name and shame system would be abused by people who didnt get a meet labelling every woman as a fake etc and trying to use it to black mail them | |||
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"I know some other sites have a meet system forum based, you agree to meet on there and if someone doesn't turn up for no good reason there outed. " Lol thats so open to abuse. Two people agree to meet, late on one phones the other is incredibly abusive/d*unk/threatening. Obviously the first cancels and gets outed for not having s good reason. And if the unrecorded phone call is a good reason then its the default time waster get out isnt it. | |||
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"I know some other sites have a meet system forum based, you agree to meet on there and if someone doesn't turn up for no good reason there outed. " I quite like the site meet arrangements booking option - if nothing else, it means people have to do a little more thinking about what they are committing to as well as the site having backup evidence if users get reported for no shows. I've suggested it on fab before but there was little support | |||
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"I know some other sites have a meet system forum based, you agree to meet on there and if someone doesn't turn up for no good reason there outed. Lol thats so open to abuse. Two people agree to meet, late on one phones the other is incredibly abusive/d*unk/threatening. Obviously the first cancels and gets outed for not having s good reason. And if the unrecorded phone call is a good reason then its the default time waster get out isnt it. " Keep all communication on the site,apart from address obviously. | |||
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"I know some other sites have a meet system forum based, you agree to meet on there and if someone doesn't turn up for no good reason there outed. Lol thats so open to abuse. Two people agree to meet, late on one phones the other is incredibly abusive/d*unk/threatening. Obviously the first cancels and gets outed for not having s good reason. And if the unrecorded phone call is a good reason then its the default time waster get out isnt it. " I hate all the lets show people up ideas for non meeters. Just use your brains/common sense/wits when arranging to meet and if it does still all go wrong then just accept it. We are all here of our own free will and there are a million and one reasons things can change. If I felt anything at all was expected of me or I would have my name on a little forum blacklist, after laughing my head off I would probably move on somewhere else were my free time/body/emotions weren't bound in some imaginary petty contract. Phew. | |||
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"I bought a fake Prada bag once....should of guessed really,he only wanted 3 quid for it .. "Ha ha ha ha | |||
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"Fab isn't a babysitter and we're all adults. Use your judgement, use the tools available to you, do some independent critical thinking and work out what level of risk you're prepared to take. That's the way the world works for those who want adult privileges. " People want to be so unnacountable for their own lives. It is depressingly laughable  | |||
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"I know some other sites have a meet system forum based, you agree to meet on there and if someone doesn't turn up for no good reason there outed. Lol thats so open to abuse. Two people agree to meet, late on one phones the other is incredibly abusive/d*unk/threatening. Obviously the first cancels and gets outed for not having s good reason. And if the unrecorded phone call is a good reason then its the default time waster get out isnt it. Keep all communication on the site,apart from address obviously." So ignore allllllll the advice about avoiding fakes amd having a phone call then? | |||
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"Fab isn't a babysitter and we're all adults. Use your judgement, use the tools available to you, do some independent critical thinking and work out what level of risk you're prepared to take. That's the way the world works for those who want adult privileges. People want to be so unnacountable for their own lives. It is depressingly laughable "Indeed. | |||
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"I know some other sites have a meet system forum based, you agree to meet on there and if someone doesn't turn up for no good reason there outed. Lol thats so open to abuse. Two people agree to meet, late on one phones the other is incredibly abusive/d*unk/threatening. Obviously the first cancels and gets outed for not having s good reason. And if the unrecorded phone call is a good reason then its the default time waster get out isnt it. Keep all communication on the site,apart from address obviously. So ignore allllllll the advice about avoiding fakes amd having a phone call then?" It's only a suggestion and works on other sites, don't get all narky with me for my suggestions. Perhaps you have a better idea. | |||
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"Fab isn't a babysitter and we're all adults. Use your judgement, use the tools available to you, do some independent critical thinking and work out what level of risk you're prepared to take. That's the way the world works for those who want adult privileges. People want to be so unnacountable for their own lives. It is depressingly laughable " | |||
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"It would be great if all accounts HAD to photo verify within a minute month maybe. " Wouldn’t help. You don’t need to photo verify with your face. And I’m sure if you know what you’re doing, you could easily manipulate a photo to verify yourself | |||
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"You do have to verify with your face Yes it’s possible to fake it but it’s not that easy It’s the couples that are single men that wind us up the most" Can just have a full length nude | |||
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"You do have to verify with your face Yes it’s possible to fake it but it’s not that easy It’s the couples that are single men that wind us up the most Can just have a full length nude" ...nice try, son! | |||
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"You do have to verify with your face Yes it’s possible to fake it but it’s not that easy It’s the couples that are single men that wind us up the most" You don't. It's always been either a face photo or a full body, neck down, nude photo. A | |||
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"You do have to verify with your face Yes it’s possible to fake it but it’s not that easy It’s the couples that are single men that wind us up the most" You don't have to verify with your face. It's one of the two options. It's also not compulsory for all new profiles...... | |||
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"You do have to verify with your face Yes it’s possible to fake it but it’s not that easy It’s the couples that are single men that wind us up the most Can just have a full length nude ...nice try, son! "Eh? No full length nude no face is perfectly acceptable for photo verification "mom"  | |||
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"You do have to verify with your face Yes it’s possible to fake it but it’s not that easy It’s the couples that are single men that wind us up the most You don't have to verify with your face. It's one of the two options. It's also not compulsory for all new profiles......" Just looked and seen can be full length nude but at leas5 that does prove if female or male or an actual couple And we know it’s not compulsory, we are saying we think it should be after a set period | |||
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"Having problems A lot of men pretending to be fema or couples Or arrange meet they refuse to speak on phone to prove geninue Then all sudden removed from site Anyone having same problem" Nope | |||
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"You do have to verify with your face Yes it’s possible to fake it but it’s not that easy It’s the couples that are single men that wind us up the most You don't have to verify with your face. It's one of the two options. It's also not compulsory for all new profiles...... Just looked and seen can be full length nude but at leas5 that does prove if female or male or an actual couple And we know it’s not compulsory, we are saying we think it should be after a set period" To be honest photo verification doesn't prove a great deal - for starters it only proves you submitted a pic when you joined that was approved at that time, any subsequent pictures added aren't checked to make sure they match up - with basic editing skills they can be quite easily faked too. The only real way to safeguard against fakes and time wasters is to keep your wits about you, use common sense, and not rush into things - all too often people dive in there arranging meets without making the most basic of checks and then wonder why they are let down. I've yet to have my time wasted once and have had some very satisfying meets and that's because I do the above. | |||
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"Sorry. I'm being lazy and haven't read the thread, so apologies if this has been asked, but are you messaging newbies OP? I can understand that there are fake profiles, that have been on for a while, but i can't imagine these profiles deleting their profile, just because they've spoken to you, hence the question "hope you are realooking. U are stunning . Fake profile tho says u 41 u )look 31 | |||
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"Sorry. I'm being lazy and haven't read the thread, so apologies if this has been asked, but are you messaging newbies OP? I can understand that there are fake profiles, that have been on for a while, but i can't imagine these profiles deleting their profile, just because they've spoken to you, hence the question mostly newbies bout a lot of single woman fakes and when you question it's obvious a man who gets abuaive " | |||
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"You do have to verify with your face Yes it’s possible to fake it but it’s not that easy It’s the couples that are single men that wind us up the most You don't have to verify with your face. It's one of the two options. It's also not compulsory for all new profiles...... Just looked and seen can be full length nude but at leas5 that does prove if female or male or an actual couple And we know it’s not compulsory, we are saying we think it should be after a set period" Why should it be after a set period? What's your thinking here? | |||
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"The problem is not the fakes as there easy to spot, it's the dreamers and fantasists and time wasters that drive me mad. O yes "This ... | |||
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"You do have to verify with your face Yes it’s possible to fake it but it’s not that easy It’s the couples that are single men that wind us up the most You don't have to verify with your face. It's one of the two options. It's also not compulsory for all new profiles...... Just looked and seen can be full length nude but at leas5 that does prove if female or male or an actual couple And we know it’s not compulsory, we are saying we think it should be after a set period Why should it be after a set period? What's your thinking here?" Gives people a chance to take a pic If a couple, not always easy to do it straight away, especially if they don’t live together Another problem on the site is couples that have split after verifying but that’s not an easy one We won’t meet th3 male half of a couple unless met the female half before to get round this situation | |||
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