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"Evening all. Friendly debate about fabbers being over 30, not being able to accommodate for various reasons. Are they fakers? Do they genuinely have good reasons? And is it a red flag for others? Keep it friendly and light please " I have a child. | |||
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" just cant be arsed" To change the bedsheets inbetween meets? | |||
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"Women have families or elderly aunts at home. Men have wives." I’ve 2 male friends on here who have their children 3 or 4 nights a week. Neither are married still. | |||
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"My general assumptions are either not single and/or they have kids. We don't accommodate because we have kids and this is their home too. I don't want to bring anyone else home. There's pictures of them and their things are here even if they're not. I think a lot of parents are the same. V x" That reminded me of a house party we once went to. People were shagging next to the kids' things. | |||
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"Women have families or elderly aunts at home. Men have wives. I’ve 2 male friends on here who have their children 3 or 4 nights a week. Neither are married still. " I know someone like this too. Him and his ex have shared custody. | |||
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"Women have families or elderly aunts at home. Men have wives. I’ve 2 male friends on here who have their children 3 or 4 nights a week. Neither are married still. I know someone like this too. Him and his ex have shared custody. " Yes same for my 2 friends x | |||
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" just cant be arsed To change the bedsheets inbetween meets? " no answering the question | |||
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"I think I explain myself well enough on this point. " I had a look at your profile after you'd mentioned rathergood.com And, yes, that bit made me laugh | |||
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"Evening all. Friendly debate about fabbers being over 30, not being able to accommodate for various reasons. Are they fakers? Do they genuinely have good reasons? And is it a red flag for others? Keep it friendly and light please " There will be loads of reasons why they can't x | |||
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"Baffles me that some people cannot accommodate and cannot travel. Maybe it's me but, I'm not going to drive out to pick someone up to bring them mine to drop them off. Ain't a taxi service. I'd only do that for close friends. " I think this. I think it just means travel outside of their locality, but makes me chuckle | |||
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"You sound like you’re making assumptions based on a couple of details from the profile. Keep an open mind, get to know the person and if it really bugs you ask." I don't think he's making any assumptions, he's over 30 and can't accommodate | |||
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"Baffles me that some people cannot accommodate and cannot travel. Maybe it's me but, I'm not going to drive out to pick someone up to bring them mine to drop them off. Ain't a taxi service. I'd only do that for close friends. " Some people think travelling means an 8 hour train journey to Scotland | |||
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" just cant be arsed To change the bedsheets inbetween meets? no answering the question" Why is it such a chore though, at least it gives me a chance to get ma duster and Barry out, ma furniture has never looked better than after a meet | |||
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"You sound like you’re making assumptions based on a couple of details from the profile. Keep an open mind, get to know the person and if it really bugs you ask. I don't think he's making any assumptions, he's over 30 and can't accommodate " I stand corrected. | |||
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"No. I don’t think so. Personally I’d never tell anyone where I live never mind invite anyone here. This is my children’s home and fab is totally separate from my private life. And I’m very real by the way. " Same here. Wouldn't want anyone knowing where we live. It's none of their business as it's totally private too us. We enjoy hotels anyway, it's more fun and naughty. We Wouldn't go to their house either. Its a trust thing. You never know if they are filming you unknowingly *Mrs | |||
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"Women have families or elderly aunts at home. Men have wives." Alternatively... Men have kids or mothers at home. Women have husbands. | |||
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"I think I explain myself well enough on this point. I had a look at your profile after you'd mentioned rathergood.com And, yes, that bit made me laugh " Bloody rathergood.com! That site is the reason I can't have a tin of soup without singing Soupy George to myself | |||
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"I dont see why it makes any difference if a man chooses not to accommodate. Weather male or female its there choice not to accommodate at there home. It should be taken at face value without any accusations or accusing of other reasons not to accommodate." I've spoken to men who say they can accom and gone on to admit they are married, once you've been chatting for a bit. I've also have met a man who couldn't accomodate, because he was house sharing. The only way to know, is to ask. I dont see 'cannot accom' as a red flag... I admit I used to though. | |||
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"Evening all. Friendly debate about fabbers being over 30, not being able to accommodate for various reasons. Are they fakers? Do they genuinely have good reasons? And is it a red flag for others? Keep it friendly and light please " I never play on my own doorstep does that make me fake? | |||
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"This is my child's home. So I don't accommodate. " I don't have children, but I can totally understand where you're coming from | |||
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"Baffles me that some people cannot accommodate and cannot travel. Maybe it's me but, I'm not going to drive out to pick someone up to bring them mine to drop them off. Ain't a taxi service. I'd only do that for close friends. Some people think travelling means an 8 hour train journey to Scotland " | |||
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"Evening all. Friendly debate about fabbers being over 30, not being able to accommodate for various reasons. Are they fakers? Do they genuinely have good reasons? And is it a red flag for others? Keep it friendly and light please I have a child. " | |||
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"Evening all. Friendly debate about fabbers being over 30, not being able to accommodate for various reasons. Are they fakers? Do they genuinely have good reasons? And is it a red flag for others? Keep it friendly and light please " Genuinely good reason. My main one is I don’t want complete strangers in my home... whatever the intentions. | |||
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"Evening all. Friendly debate about fabbers being over 30, not being able to accommodate for various reasons. Are they fakers? Do they genuinely have good reasons? And is it a red flag for others? Keep it friendly and light please " Or that they have children living with them | |||
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" Some have awful homes and wouldn't invite a pig to tea. " I've been to a house where a pig would wipe its feet on the way out.... seriously I have | |||
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"some could be on military bases, hard to sneak people in " Having lived in many military bases no need to sneak lol. Winchester no differant as have been based there. Disney down round the corner as well | |||
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"If there is a genuine reason such as kids then just need to mention in the profile....obvioously people do lie but I would probably think they were married otherwise." I don't think anyone needs to justify anything. If you see something on a profile that doesn't marry, move on! | |||
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"As explained above in detail, there are so many reasons why people can't accommodate there is nothing suspicious about it. Personally, I could but I often think about things like noise and upsetting neighbours, etc. " What kind of raucous shenanigans are you planning to upset the neighbours?!! Not wanting strangers in your house I get, but not having guests because of neighbours?!! O...k...! | |||
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"Would never accommodate straight off the bat as that my daughter's home 4 days of the week. And would only ever accommodate when she isn't there." I met when my daughter was at uni. There was a member who used to drug her children and lock them in their rooms in order to fuck strangers. To this day I think that is the most outrageous thing I've read on here. | |||
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"As explained above in detail, there are so many reasons why people can't accommodate there is nothing suspicious about it. Personally, I could but I often think about things like noise and upsetting neighbours, etc. What kind of raucous shenanigans are you planning to upset the neighbours?!! Not wanting strangers in your house I get, but not having guests because of neighbours?!! O...k...!" I worry about these things I just moved recently because of awful neighbours so perhaps a little hyper sensitive about the whole thing. | |||
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"Women have families or elderly aunts at home. Men have wives. Alternatively... Men have kids or mothers at home. Women have husbands." I don't think that ever happens. Married women are too busy making the tea to shag around. | |||
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"Could be married. Could have children living at home. Could just not want random folk in their house. Could live with relatives/flat share. " All of the above ! | |||
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"You sound like you’re making assumptions based on a couple of details from the profile. Keep an open mind, get to know the person and if it really bugs you ask. I don't think he's making any assumptions, he's over 30 and can't accommodate " I think i genuinely have a reason for not accommodating because i live with my mum and due to health reasons i look after her hence the not being able should i be be put in the same net as someone else that isnt in my situation and are faking | |||
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"Women have families or elderly aunts at home. Men have wives. Alternatively... Men have kids or mothers at home. Women have husbands. I don't think that ever happens. Married women are too busy making the tea to shag around. " Do you really think so?... well, I have to differ. I've seen quite a large number of women's profiles stating the need for discretion as they're married and don't want their husbands to find out - and they're just the ones who are honest(ish) about it... goodness knows how many are here cheating, every bit as much as their male counterparts. | |||
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"I just don't want any of you twats round my gaff...." What he said. | |||
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