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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's happened to the days where lady's use to like a man who is loyal to them and making them feel amazing an like they are the only girl in the world and show them true respect.

Or am I hunting for something that doesn't exist anymore lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure that's still what I want!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

You been watching too many 40's black & white films OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha it seems that way but that's the only way I know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're saying ladies now want cheaters who make them feel shit?

I'm pretty sure that's not true.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"So you're saying ladies now want cheaters who make them feel shit?

I'm pretty sure that's not true. "

Prince - The Most Beautiful Girl In The World

www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMnqtzUqTwA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you're saying ladies now want cheaters who make them feel shit?

I'm pretty sure that's not true.

Prince - The Most Beautiful Girl In The World

www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMnqtzUqTwA

*swoon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you’re in the wrong site.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you’re in the wrong site....."

Why?

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By *redjMan
over a year ago

gloucestershire

First of all i treat every woman with respect, and whichever woman i may be with she is the most important person to me and i give her my loyalty, right up until the point her hubby wants his turn hehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you’re in the wrong site.....

Why? "

Hmmm because loyalty and swinging doesn’t mix....

Looking for Monogamy/loyalty on swinging site is like looking for a honest politician in parliament

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's happened to the days where lady's use to like a man who is loyal to them and making them feel amazing an like they are the only girl in the world and show them true respect.

Or am I hunting for something that doesn't exist anymore lol "

You're on a swingers site to find a monogamous traditional relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would absolutely love that... If I wanted to date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's happened to the days where lady's use to like a man who is loyal to them and making them feel amazing an like they are the only girl in the world and show them true respect.

Or am I hunting for something that doesn't exist anymore lol "

They’re out there - but from my understanding of Fabswjngers, you’re probably looking in the wrong place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me loyalty means being supportive and having each other's back. Always putting your partner first. A good swinging relationship is built on that so I don't see why the OP is being advised he is on the wrong site.

Is that just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me loyalty means being supportive and having each other's back. Always putting your partner first. A good swinging relationship is built on that so I don't see why the OP is being advised he is on the wrong site.

Is that just me?"

I agree with this. You can still have this with regular swinging partners and friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that just me?"

Not first.. on an equal level. We're as important as our partners. No more, no less. I agree with the rest though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you’re in the wrong site.....

Why?

Hmmm because loyalty and swinging doesn’t mix....

Looking for Monogamy/loyalty on swinging site is like looking for a honest politician in parliament "
na thats rubbish im loyal and find swinging is not my think but im going nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that just me?"
im with you kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies still want that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that just me?"

I think its the "make them feel like the only girl in the world" not the loyalty part.

Although how they hell you look for soemthing like loyalty in a stranger when it takes months/years to build up i dont know.

Id say anyone who offers loyalty at the start of anything is fooling you and themselves

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I think plenty of women on here would prefer that, just very few men.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

[Removed by poster at 13/02/19 08:59:11]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think plenty of women on here would prefer that, just very few men. "

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Is this a new spin on the Nice guys come last meme?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's happened to the days where lady's use to like a man who is loyal to them and making them feel amazing an like they are the only girl in the world and show them true respect.

Or am I hunting for something that doesn't exist anymore lol "

Yeaaaaaaah I have a husband better than that, be better OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you’re in the wrong site.....

Why?

Hmmm because loyalty and swinging doesn’t mix....

Looking for Monogamy/loyalty on swinging site is like looking for a honest politician in parliament "

How doesn’t it mix? Im extremely loyal to my husband and always will be

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I think you’re in the wrong site....."

I thought that!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Is that just me?"

With you on this Roooobs.

A good relationship is built on loyalty, trust & respect.

Just so happens I like to share too

Looking for exclusive & monogamous is something entirely different.

That you're not likely to find on here

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Is that just me?"

We have different interpretations. What the op and you are describing I'd expect from a partner.

Anyone I share my body with I'd expect respect etc, but loyalty and support? No!

I think that's why many come a cropper and have meltdowns on here, they are looking for Prince Charming/Snow White whilst their intended is looking to shag and go!

I met my partner here five years ago so I know it can happen, but I wasn't expecting or looking for a Prince Charming.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Although how they hell you look for soemthing like loyalty in a stranger when it takes months/years to build up i dont know.

Id say anyone who offers loyalty at the start of anything is fooling you and themselves"

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty sure that's still what I want!"

#MeToo

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I think you’re in the wrong site.....

Why?

Hmmm because loyalty and swinging doesn’t mix....

Looking for Monogamy/loyalty on swinging site is like looking for a honest politician in parliament

How doesn’t it mix? Im extremely loyal to my husband and always will be

I read it as single people seeking loyalty and monogamy not couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you're saying ladies now want cheaters who make them feel shit?

I'm pretty sure that's not true.

Prince - The Most Beautiful Girl In The World

www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMnqtzUqTwA

Careful with your external link. I got a 24hr ban for doing that.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"So you're saying ladies now want cheaters who make them feel shit?

I'm pretty sure that's not true.

Prince - The Most Beautiful Girl In The World

www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMnqtzUqTwA

Careful with your external link. I got a 24hr ban for doing that.

You tube is ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you're saying ladies now want cheaters who make them feel shit?

I'm pretty sure that's not true.

Prince - The Most Beautiful Girl In The World

www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMnqtzUqTwA

Careful with your external link. I got a 24hr ban for doing that.

You tube is ok."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that just me?

Not first.. on an equal level. We're as important as our partners. No more, no less. I agree with the rest though

Hhmmm....I kinda agree but I would put a partner first before others and I'd expect them to be doing the same for me, then it's equal.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Is that just me?

We have different interpretations. What the op and you are describing I'd expect from a partner.

Anyone I share my body with I'd expect respect etc, but loyalty and support? No!

I think that's why many come a cropper and have meltdowns on here, they are looking for Prince Charming/Snow White whilst their intended is looking to shag and go!

I met my partner here five years ago so I know it can happen, but I wasn't expecting or looking for a Prince Charming. "

Yep. I agree wholeheartedly with this. If you're looking for happy ever after on here you will be disappointed. I know (as do you) that there are exceptions that prove the rule but for every thread that's started by people who have found loyalty, support and romance from a casual sex partner on here I see ten maybe twenty bemoaning the shallow nature of their contacts who only want sex.

If I was single I wouldn't look here for loyalty and support from a man.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Is that just me?

Not first.. on an equal level. We're as important as our partners. No more, no less. I agree with the rest though

Hhmmm....I kinda agree but I would put a partner first before others and I'd expect them to be doing the same for me, then it's equal. "

Our relationship is like that but I wouldn't expect that from a swinging partner.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"What's happened to the days where lady's use to like a man who is loyal to them and making them feel amazing an like they are the only girl in the world and show them true respect.

Or am I hunting for something that doesn't exist anymore lol "

So you want somebody you can control..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that just me?"

No, that’s definitely how it is with me and mr. Wouldn’t be together if it was any different x

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Women want to be wooooed and admired

They want to be showered with compliments and gifts and in return us men get an easy life.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think many women look for those things. But one, not so often here. And two, I suspect it takes different forms now. A lot of guys seem to pine for the 1950s where gender roles were more rigid and they get to perform masculinity by holding doors open and the like (see: many people who message me about swing dresses. I'm not a traditional lady, I just like big skirts ffs). I think that kind of relationship with that kind of expectation is rare now, and people expect loyalty and strength in other forms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's happened to the days where lady's use to like a man who is loyal to them and making them feel amazing an like they are the only girl in the world and show them true respect.

Or am I hunting for something that doesn't exist anymore lol "

Today's ladies just want a man who is a liar and cheat, make them feel like shit and like they are just another handless wank and want no respect. Where are you meeting people at?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Women want to be wooooed and admired

They want to be showered with compliments and gifts and in return us men get an easy life. "

Oh god, I couldn't think of anything worse. Lie to me, give me trinkets, then go off and do what you like as if I'm stupid, and I'm powerless to do anything about it? That's so often how that sort of thing plays out.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"What's happened to the days where lady's use to like a man who is loyal to them and making them feel amazing an like they are the only girl in the world and show them true respect.

Or am I hunting for something that doesn't exist anymore lol "

When you find one let me I'll fight you for her LOL

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Women want to be wooooed and admired

They want to be showered with compliments and gifts and in return us men get an easy life. "

You're mixing with the wrong women.

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