FabSwingers.com forum: Is it creepy to say Hi to someone in the street from here if you haven't massaged them

By *ustysailor OP Man
over a year ago

lowestoft

Hi I saw someone who had come up on my who's near list . Walking towards me soon after.

I wanted to say hi but wasn't sure it would be a bit creepy as I hadn't had any contact with here before. So I just smiled and walked past did I do the right thing

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

yes

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes you 100% did the right thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ?? the right thing to do.

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

very creepy if you did...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it would have been really creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very. I’m amazed you even have to ask.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Yes definitely

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Creepy whether you've messaged or not. Pretend you don't recognise them.

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

"Hi I saw someone who had come up on my who's near list . Walking towards me soon after.

I wanted to say hi but wasn't sure it would be a bit creepy as I hadn't had any contact with here before. So I just smiled and walked past did I do the right thing

You could have said hi as just being polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would this be a full body massage or just neck and shoulders?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes, and don't do the creepy saw you in street, pub, shop message after either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have considered punching you.. before walking away infuriated at the nerve of it.

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By *ensualpleasures69Man
over a year ago

leeds

Yes, respect their private life.

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By *im fuegoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Yep, I saw a woman in Bilston who’s pics I’ve fabbed on here, walked straight towards me but I had to resist, everyone is entitled to their privacy. ( I must admit I’d got a stiffy by the time I’d got back to my car tho lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd have considered punching you.. before walking away infuriated at the nerve of it."

"Considered" Being the key word. I wouldn't actually do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a woman it wouldn’t have been creepy to say hi and get your cock out to show her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens on fab stays on fab never take fab in public obviously if you've been meeting with the person and they say hi be polite but don't mention fab

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

I met someone local a few years back, and run into him very regularly. Turns out we have quite a few acquaintances in common. As it'd be weird to just walk by, I always said hi, we'd all chat a bit.

Never ever mentioned to anyone how we'd met; I'm sure it wouldn't have bothered either of us, but privacy is the key.

If it were someone I'd just seen from here without any previous contact whatsoever, definitely treat them like any other random stranger.

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Hi I saw someone who had come up on my who's near list . Walking towards me soon after.

I wanted to say hi but wasn't sure it would be a bit creepy as I hadn't had any contact with here before. So I just smiled and walked past did I do the right thing

No its not creepy! Neither is them following you home knocking on the door saying hi seen you on fab swingers really loudly so all in the house can here as well as your neighbours.

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

We say hi/hello/good morning/afternoon “alright bud” to most people we see anyway?? Maybe that’s a northern thing? Wouldn’t bring fab up, unless we’d spoken about swinging or met them??

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Massaged ?????

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"Very. I’m amazed you even have to ask. "

Thats what I thought.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Very creepy, regardless of whether there had been any contact beforehand or not - have heard some horror stories of people here being accosted in public, one well known forumite was out shopping with his daughter when someone shouted his username at him and came across I believe, and someone else was followed round a supermarket - just not on at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've even bumped into people i've played with when out and not even said hello - mainly because it was in the presence of mutual friends who may have wondered how I knew them.

The thing is that the majority of people on here would be horrified if you were to say anything to them out in public as they most likely don't want friends or family knowing about this side of their lives.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

She may not be interested in men and if that's the case well I think she'd be very angry you've approached her because you've seen her on here

I think you mad the right choice and walked on a nice smile makes everyone happy

If it was my wife is be pretty upset about it

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Hi I saw someone who had come up on my who's near list . Walking towards me soon after.

I wanted to say hi but wasn't sure it would be a bit creepy as I hadn't had any contact with here before. So I just smiled and walked past did I do the right thing

Ask yourself if someone did that to you, How would you feel?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play dumb dude

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Course, as long as you don't shout " HI LOVED YOUR PICS ON FABSWINGERS" ppl smile at ppl all the time on the street...she probably didn't even recognise you ......chill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Course, as long as you don't shout " HI LOVED YOUR PICS ON FABSWINGERS" ppl smile at ppl all the time on the street...she probably didn't even recognise you ......chill "

Unless he was walking around naked with his cock out of doubt she would of lmao xx

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Course, as long as you don't shout " HI LOVED YOUR PICS ON FABSWINGERS" ppl smile at ppl all the time on the street...she probably didn't even recognise you ......chill

Unless he was walking around naked with his cock out of doubt she would of lmao xx"

and I expected my mates response to be tht!

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Could you imagine though if you did go up to her and it wasn't her but someone that looks like her lol that could be awkward lol

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Yes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does make me wonder how many people are idly checking their who's near, just fishing, as you go about your daily life. Mine is firmly switched off thankyou very much.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Does make me wonder how many people are idly checking their who's near, just fishing, as you go about your daily life. Mine is firmly switched off thankyou very much. "

That’s true, my team of stalkers is having a devil’s own job tracking you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does make me wonder how many people are idly checking their who's near, just fishing, as you go about your daily life. Mine is firmly switched off thankyou very much.

That’s true, my team of stalkers is having a devil’s own job tracking you

That's what they told you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Throat punch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, you did the right thing. Any other course of action would be crossing a line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's polite to walk on by unless you get eye contact and then say hi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I saw someone who had come up on my who's near list . Walking towards me soon after.

I wanted to say hi but wasn't sure it would be a bit creepy as I hadn't had any contact with here before. So I just smiled and walked past did I do the right thing

yes, it's creepy

yes, you did the right thing

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I'd have considered punching you.. before walking away infuriated at the nerve of it."

Note to self, if ever in Worcester avert eyes and walk on by.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Course, as long as you don't shout " HI LOVED YOUR PICS ON FABSWINGERS" ppl smile at ppl all the time on the street...she probably didn't even recognise you ......chill

Unless he was walking around naked with his cock out of doubt she would of lmao xx

and I expected my mates response to be tht!

Well great minds think alike lol xx

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Very creepy. Even if we'd messaged I wouldn't want someone saying hi

most likely not on my own and don't want the questions on who that was and how do I know them.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes"

Yep, even if you've never messaged them either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes

Yep, even if you've never messaged them either

Ive never judt gone upto some stranger and started massaging them! Hehe

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"Yep, I saw a woman in Bilston who’s pics I’ve fabbed on here, walked straight towards me but I had to resist, everyone is entitled to their privacy. ( I must admit I’d got a stiffy by the time I’d got back to my car tho lol)"

That’s the last time I walk naked around Bilston

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I had a woman say hi to me in the street the other day asking if i'd like a massage but walked past quickly without making eye contact.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I was at a train station on my own waiting for a,train on the way home from work wen out of nowhere i heard sumone call out the word ...Seeside...

Had a look around. Then sor sumone wave

It wos sumone from hear.

Then Had a quick chat with them before the train cam in.

Even sent verys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I saw someone who had come up on my who's near list . Walking towards me soon after.

I wanted to say hi but wasn't sure it would be a bit creepy as I hadn't had any contact with here before. So I just smiled and walked past did I do the right thing

Yes super duper 100% skincrawlingly scarily creepy.

Also i wouldnt mention youve seen them in a message either as its also creepy. If you do go that route be very unsure if it was them dont say a location and put your face pic so they can pretend it wasnt them if they wish or recognise you too. But still expect to be blocked instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I saw someone who had come up on my who's near list . Walking towards me soon after.

I wanted to say hi but wasn't sure it would be a bit creepy as I hadn't had any contact with here before. So I just smiled and walked past did I do the right thing

Yes super duper 100% skincrawlingly scarily creepy.

I have had a guy message me on here to tell me where he’d seen me and what I was wearing. Told him that was unnerving and blocked him.

Another has messaged me on social media to say I’m on his hotlist- not even under the same name on there.

A guy I’ve known for years started following me on Fet last night and commented on my pics. Wasn’t sure it was him so blocked. He messaged me on Twit this morning to say shame I’d blocked him, I looked lovely and he should have said hi!

These are all overstepping the mark. It’s a creepy feeling xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must have pretty photographic merry

How can you be do sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You must have pretty photographic merry

How can you be do sure "

Memory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a neighbour who's on here in Tesco recently,just smiled & said hello & made a comment about the weather. She said hello back. I felt that was ok as we're neighbours. Anyone else just smile at them & keep walking.

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By *ickeyblueeyes7Man
over a year ago

newport

"We say hi/hello/good morning/afternoon “alright bud” to most people we see anyway?? Maybe that’s a northern thing? Wouldn’t bring fab up, unless we’d spoken about swinging or met them?? "

Exactly nothing creepy about saying hi to someone just don’t mention fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Super creepy, and don’t follow it up with an “I saw you down XYZ road the other day”..!!

*shudder*

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have had few of those messages. Instant block.

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London

It's very creepy.. I have seen people before but would never mention it

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