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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a little question regarding message etiquette. If I send a lady a message and she reads then deletes I know she's not interested, but if she reads it and doesn't delete it but doesn't reply either, should I expect a reply in 6 months when she gets through her other 700 messages? Or is not deleting my message no kind of promise for a reply? I'm thinking it's the latter everytime but I just wondered what everyone else thought.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

You’re not alone unread normally for me!

Can’t work it out slightly worrying can’t be me right

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Different for different people. Don't watch your messages, it will drive you mad. Focus on the ones that answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’re not alone unread normally for me!

Can’t work it out slightly worrying can’t be me right

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It's not you bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've started sending messages and deleting my sent folder straight away that way I'm not watching them and if I get a reply it is a pleasant surprise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Different for different people. Don't watch your messages, it will drive you mad. Focus on the ones that answer. "

Awk I do, and I keep chatting to those ladies who were lovely enough to reply and they are great I just wondered lol sometimes I dial in to the messages to see if any yellow had disappeared but that's all really

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Different for different people. Don't watch your messages, it will drive you mad. Focus on the ones that answer. "

It’s them too half way through a chat and deadlines for days ??? But thank you you’re right

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Just a little question regarding message etiquette. If I send a lady a message and she reads then deletes I know she's not interested, but if she reads it and doesn't delete it but doesn't reply either, should I expect a reply in 6 months when she gets through her other 700 messages? Or is not deleting my message no kind of promise for a reply? I'm thinking it's the latter everytime but I just wondered what everyone else thought. "

Best advice I've had, once you've sent a message delete it from your sent messages folder.

It'll never bother you again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've started sending messages and deleting my sent folder straight away that way I'm not watching them and if I get a reply it is a pleasant surprise."

This is my new move man! Should have been doing this already, good call!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite possible she's had a few moments to read her messages but not able to reply just yet, think of her could be kids about, or other half, maybe taking a sneak peak in work or on the bus/train, I know I do.. Just wait and see give a day or two at least, no reply no interest.. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quite possible she's had a few moments to read her messages but not able to reply just yet, think of her could be kids about, or other half, maybe taking a sneak peak in work or on the bus/train, I know I do.. Just wait and see give a day or two at least, no reply no interest.. Mrs "

Thank you, more good advice

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