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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Getting let down for meets after loads of chatting is really really pissing me off

Anyone else suffering?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting let down for meets after loads of chatting is really really pissing me off

Anyone else suffering?"

No must just be you.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Been on here for over 13 years, not been let down once. How do you meet people OP, do you expect them to rock up at yours, you go to theirs, or an hotel room perhaps? Either way if this is happening too often to you, then there seems to be a common denominator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat for as long as is needed for me to decide I want to give my body to a man, and want his.

Quite a lot drop out, for whatever reason, and I see it as we aren't compatible.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Suffering?

No, if I get stood up I can usually find something else to do. Frustration and suffering are very different things to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting let down for meets after loads of chatting is really really pissing me off

Anyone else suffering?"

go to lots of socials and meet people there! Granted you won't get your end away but others on here seem to think thats success so go for it.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

No I don't suffer losing a nights sleep if it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. Had it happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got let down tonight too. Shall we wallow together?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I actually meant in time wasting

Or as they say,being lead up the garden path!

I’m genuine and I expect the same

But alas,far too many possible fakes and time wasters!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I chat for as long as is needed for me to decide I want to give my body to a man, and want his.

Quite a lot drop out, for whatever reason, and I see it as we aren't compatible.

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Hey, I can do the chat bit

It's just ma flimsy body that lets me down, you'll break me like a rag doll

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By *r n Mrs NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

eccles


"I actually meant in time wasting

Or as they say,being lead up the garden path!

I’m genuine and I expect the same

But alas,far too many possible fakes and time wasters!"

Yes far to many time wasters on here. We've been talking to a guy for a while was ment to meet up. Last min he cancelled. And this is why we only meet in clubs now x

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

When I 1st started swinging nieve wasn't the word, chatting not a problem meeting not a problem knowing were you live a problem because they felt it was there right to show in the middle of the night. So I would count time wasters as a lucky escape.

Fast forward 10years and I'm more choosy after being shown the ropes from a veteran swinging whom I had some fun meets and I meet him at a social. Which I think is the best way if you aren't into the clubs yet.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Getting let down for meets after loads of chatting is really really pissing me off

Anyone else suffering?"

Your ego will heal

find someone else to Use and abuse, I'm sure a stud like you won't have too much trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got let down tonight too. Shall we wallow together? "

Well, they are an idiot to let you down. Would you like a shoulder to wallow on? x

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We've stopped meeting due to a recent spate of timewasters/no shows. What they get out of it, other than having a one handed party all lonesome and unloved, is anybody's guess. But while they're wanking their little sausage we're having great sex.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's realistic to expect to chat with many, many more people than you will ever meet because of mutual compatibility and availability. Explore far and wide without great expectations nor emotional investment.

People have other lives and relationships that are more important than people they may chat with or even meet here. Date elsewhere if it's not something you can or will adjust to

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By *atandjayCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Had chatted with 2 guys dozens of messages

Everything arranged, both prepared mentally

Got dressed up, got drinks and nibbles ready

1 no show and another with a bit of a lame excuse

Can’t understand why (especially when you see what was on the menu)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fabswingers remorse ..cue unlucky in love and all the rubber inners that could arrange a "meet" on mars and they'd still turn up

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"fabswingers remorse ..cue unlucky in love and all the rubber inners that could arrange a "meet" on mars and they'd still turn up "

FAB's very own knights in shining armour...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's re meets I get let down with.

The excuses I've heard over the three years I've been here.

Meet. Arrange the next one. Then they cancel. Then a week later want to apologise, reminisce then expect another meet

Gotta brush it off and move on. X

Clubs are my best meets now. On the night. X

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Getting let down for meets after loads of chatting is really really pissing me off

Anyone else suffering?"

Was let down twice by the same person (foolish on my part), so blocked her and moved on.

Chin up. There are decent women and couples here. Patience and perseverance

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

tooooo much chit chat over days and days always a bad sign for us....so we keep it short and sweet on that front....works for us,

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