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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just noticed a status asking for a back up meet in case the meet they already have arranged doesn’t go through.

Would you happily be a backup?

What are your thoughts on this?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Stinks to high heaven of Desperation - Calvin Klein

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Nice thought to be able to have a choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stinks to high heaven of Desperation - Calvin Klein"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice thought to be able to have a choice "

This is true haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't appeal to me but at least they're being honest. I've heard of people who only find out they're the back up when they get cancelled and the person displays a veri from someone else the next day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no. And I wouldn’t do that to someone else either.

We book a hotel, (or plan something) and invite someone along with no expectations. If they turn up, cool. If not, we’ve agreed we get to enjoy the night together. I certainly wouldn’t have someone on call as plan b/c/d etc....to have a choice as said above is a nice thought but good god, how does Dave/Tiffiny feel when they find out you’d called 3 other people before them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't appeal to me but at least they're being honest. I've heard of people who only find out they're the back up when they get cancelled and the person displays a veri from someone else the next day. "

Happened to me once. I’d not have cared if she’d been honest. Wouldn’t have gone through with it either. What bothered me most was who I got pied for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't appeal to me but at least they're being honest. I've heard of people who only find out they're the back up when they get cancelled and the person displays a veri from someone else the next day. "

I didn’t think about it like that. That is a good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's happened to me before had mees planned a hour before cancelled no probs check there profile later had a verification in last few hours more common than people think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did have a social once with someone who had 2 meets that day! Sadly the social wasn’t for me!

I think he thought I’d be his hat trick!

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"It doesn't appeal to me but at least they're being honest. I've heard of people who only find out they're the back up when they get cancelled and the person displays a veri from someone else the next day. "

Oh yes Benn there dine that a few times, they get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not unless it was one of my girly friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just noticed a status asking for a back up meet in case the meet they already have arranged doesn’t go through.

Would you happily be a backup?

What are your thoughts on this?"

That’s a horrible!

I’d be mortified.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just noticed a status asking for a back up meet in case the meet they already have arranged doesn’t go through.

Would you happily be a backup?

What are your thoughts on this?

That’s a horrible!

I’d be mortified."

Exactly my thoughts!

Ps loving the pinstripe stockings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been that desperate for just a shag that I will sit around on the reserves bench....

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Substitute

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Nope, I don't want to be someones second choice in case they get let down, likewise I wouldn't treat someone like that either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't appeal to me but at least they're being honest. I've heard of people who only find out they're the back up when they get cancelled and the person displays a veri from someone else the next day. "

Yes, that happens. Got me using the block button for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Substitute "

Come on in injury time or in

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