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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So if you been having sex a few hours or days when you part after are you the type of person to keep messaging to check there ok

Or chat because your buzzed up still

Or do you just not care as you got what u wanted

Just curious im a messager as im buzzed up still and prob still want more too as i tend to be in buzzed up mode when i leave for days after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have encountered both types of people on here. I appreciate a message after but then I usually aim for regulars. My worse was a 2nights with someone who went cold with me on the last day and then didn't even contact me at all after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to keep messaging for a bit afterwards to ease my neediness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have encountered both types of people on here. I appreciate a message after but then I usually aim for regulars. My worse was a 2nights with someone who went cold with me on the last day and then didn't even contact me at all after "
now thats rough poor lass

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Just one will do me, something along the lines of 'great to see you again, see you soon'. Otherwise I'd feel like they were pestering me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I care about them before the sex why would I stop after....

Caring it's just part of being human.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have encountered both types of people on here. I appreciate a message after but then I usually aim for regulars. My worse was a 2nights with someone who went cold with me on the last day and then didn't even contact me at all after now thats rough poor lass"

Luckily he has been the only one to treat me that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have encountered both types of people on here. I appreciate a message after but then I usually aim for regulars. My worse was a 2nights with someone who went cold with me on the last day and then didn't even contact me at all after now thats rough poor lass

Luckily he has been the only one to treat me that way"

phew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a chatty bastard anyway, so the buzz afterward makes it even worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea "

I’m Always buzzin’. It’s a Manchester thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a natterer. Plus, if I’ve played hard with some kink, after care is very important to me. That includes talking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I care about them before the sex why would I stop after....

Caring it's just part of being human."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea

I’m Always buzzin’. It’s a Manchester thing. "

Me, I just bumble along

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"So if you been having sex a few hours or days when you part after are you the type of person to keep messaging to check there ok

Or chat because your buzzed up still

Or do you just not care as you got what u wanted

Just curious im a messager as im buzzed up still and prob still want more too as i tend to be in buzzed up mode when i leave for days after"

Depends on the person I had sex with.

If we connected and had fun might text the next day or the day after even.

If if was just sex and nothing more maybe a text on the day and then nothing more till the next time.

In terms of Fab, I usually like to meet socially first so find that I will keep in contact with that person regularly if we got on socially and sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just one will do me, something along the lines of 'great to see you again, see you soon'. Otherwise I'd feel like they were pestering me."

Crikey Id have to tie my hands behind my back to stop me typing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea

I’m Always buzzin’. It’s a Manchester thing.

Me, I just bumble along"

Op. I don’t have a thing for one night stands. So I can’t understand why people would go cold, or don’t need contact or to talk. It’s not in my nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you been having sex a few hours or days when you part after are you the type of person to keep messaging to check there ok

Or chat because your buzzed up still

Or do you just not care as you got what u wanted

Just curious im a messager as im buzzed up still and prob still want more too as i tend to be in buzzed up mode when i leave for days after

Depends on the person I had sex with.

If we connected and had fun might text the next day or the day after even.

If if was just sex and nothing more maybe a text on the day and then nothing more till the next time.

In terms of Fab, I usually like to meet socially first so find that I will keep in contact with that person regularly if we got on socially and sexually.

"

I’m a social fucker. I would not fuck anyone I didn’t like socialising with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea

I’m Always buzzin’. It’s a Manchester thing.

Me, I just bumble along

Op. I don’t have a thing for one night stands. So I can’t understand why people would go cold, or don’t need contact or to talk. It’s not in my nature. "

me either but others do was just trying to think of a grown up question that didnt hurt my head too much fof once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea

I’m Always buzzin’. It’s a Manchester thing.

Me, I just bumble along

Op. I don’t have a thing for one night stands. So I can’t understand why people would go cold, or don’t need contact or to talk. It’s not in my nature. me either but others do was just trying to think of a grown up question that didnt hurt my head too much fof once"

It’s an interesting question PMF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to chat before and after meeting, whether it’s a social off here or in real life

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I tend to chat before and after meeting, whether it’s a social off here or in real life "

Exactly this for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. If it's been a good meet and we've got on then I like to stay in touch regularly.

If not so good and just a shag, a message after to say it was nice to meet them is about all I can muster up!

I get post coital drop if it's been really good with someone regular so I need after care but I do warn them first just in case.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Just one will do me, something along the lines of 'great to see you again, see you soon'. Otherwise I'd feel like they were pestering me.

Crikey Id have to tie my hands behind my back to stop me typing "

I'm aware that makes me sounds really cold but I'm really not

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By *ancfemWoman
over a year ago

widnes

If it’s been a good meet, deffo chat after as I’d want round 2/3/4etc lol

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"So if you been having sex a few hours or days when you part after are you the type of person to keep messaging to check there ok

Or chat because your buzzed up still

Or do you just not care as you got what u wanted

Just curious im a messager as im buzzed up still and prob still want more too as i tend to be in buzzed up mode when i leave for days after

Depends on the person I had sex with.

If we connected and had fun might text the next day or the day after even.

If if was just sex and nothing more maybe a text on the day and then nothing more till the next time.

In terms of Fab, I usually like to meet socially first so find that I will keep in contact with that person regularly if we got on socially and sexually.

"

Nothing says "I've been thinking about you" like

"Hi, we've not spoken for a while but faf?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just one will do me, something along the lines of 'great to see you again, see you soon'. Otherwise I'd feel like they were pestering me.

Crikey Id have to tie my hands behind my back to stop me typing

I'm aware that makes me sounds really cold but I'm really not "

it dont at all we all have different needs u dont need a pest is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to chat before and after meeting, whether it’s a social off here or in real life

Exactly this for me "

That’s how you make good friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea

I’m Always buzzin’. It’s a Manchester thing.

Me, I just bumble along

Op. I don’t have a thing for one night stands. So I can’t understand why people would go cold, or don’t need contact or to talk. It’s not in my nature. me either but others do was just trying to think of a grown up question that didnt hurt my head too much fof once

It’s an interesting question PMF "

what an odd feeling normal service will resume shortly

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

" home safe and sound" is usually the message I receive or send.. Then what happens after that is in the hands of the gods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just one will do me, something along the lines of 'great to see you again, see you soon'. Otherwise I'd feel like they were pestering me.

Crikey Id have to tie my hands behind my back to stop me typing

I'm aware that makes me sounds really cold but I'm really not "

Nah it doesn’t. I worry after I’ve blurted out my diatribe that I’ve bored them to death and been too open. It’s good to have people who provide me with balance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea

I’m Always buzzin’. It’s a Manchester thing.

Me, I just bumble along

Op. I don’t have a thing for one night stands. So I can’t understand why people would go cold, or don’t need contact or to talk. It’s not in my nature. me either but others do was just trying to think of a grown up question that didnt hurt my head too much fof once

It’s an interesting question PMF what an odd feeling normal service will resume shortly"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea

I’m Always buzzin’. It’s a Manchester thing.

Me, I just bumble along

Op. I don’t have a thing for one night stands. So I can’t understand why people would go cold, or don’t need contact or to talk. It’s not in my nature. me either but others do was just trying to think of a grown up question that didnt hurt my head too much fof once

It’s an interesting question PMF what an odd feeling normal service will resume shortly "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one message suits me, something along the lines of "that was fun, see you soon" - I'm not needy and I don't like being bothered post-meet

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Depends on the depth of the connection.

There are people I keep in touch with, there are people I want to see again.I'm conscious that this is Fab tho, not Plenty of Kippers.

On a shag and go I'm not going to be writing sonnets afterwards...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course. If I didn’t have the connection and friendship there would be no sex anyway.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I love a cuddle afterwards.

......just before I drop off and snore like a warthog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to take time to build friendships with those I skeet so I'd expect us to be just as chatty after as we were before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to take time to build friendships with those I skeet so I'd expect us to be just as chatty after as we were before. "

Skeet - that’s a new one on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people I tend to have slept with are talkers like me so we’d still be messaging etc and enjoying friendly banter.

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By *uniperjuiceMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

I generally prefer sex in the context I'd some kind if ongoing affection / rapport so I'd like that to continue naturally. Even if it's been a casual encounters I'd always message with thanks and good wishes.

In BDSM encounters after care can be very important, and lovely.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I generally prefer sex in the context I'd some kind if ongoing affection / rapport so I'd like that to continue naturally. Even if it's been a casual encounters I'd always message with thanks and good wishes.

In BDSM encounters after care can be very important, and lovely. "

"I enjoyed your vagina,many thanks and good wishes"

Maybe something like that?

With a thumbs up sign at the end if they were particularly good?

I like your style.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Just one message suits me, something along the lines of "that was fun, see you soon" - I'm not needy and I don't like being bothered post-meet "

Oh thank god I'm not the only one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I care about them before the sex why would I stop after....

Caring it's just part of being human."

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I chat for a while beforehand so it would feel quite odd if we just stopped straight after.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes, chatting about it after a good meet helps with the post meet blues too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I revive this thread in the name of all that is holey

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