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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Or is it just lust?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Elusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people are in love with the idea of love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lending a hand when the bog roll runs out

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Lending a hand when the bog roll runs out"

I really hope this is to pass a new roll through the door.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Elusive "

This applies to love and lust for me.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Most people are in love with the idea of love. "

Without the trouble of hard work and effort?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Multi faceted and complicated.

Lust and love can be bedfellows or the latter can be confused for the first.

I feel a form of love for some I fuck. Not the oft held view of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lending a hand when the bog roll runs out

I really hope this is to pass a new roll through the door.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Love is just a word. It is the all consuming overwhelming feeling behind it that is intense and wonderful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is not to be confused with infatuation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love is just a word. It is the all consuming overwhelming feeling behind it that is intense and wonderful. "

I am in love with your hairy rectum Babs just a comment while passing by

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

The sweetest thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...all around

...the drug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A losing game..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unconditional

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The 'Love is...' cartoons had one that said "... turning his head". It doesn't take much to get a head turn. Surely, that can't be love?

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By *hyevernotMan
over a year ago

Here and there

A battlefield...

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Unconditional"

Is all love unconditional?

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

Amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unconditional

Is all love unconditional?

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ur not meant to ask complicated questions

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Love is just a word. It is the all consuming overwhelming feeling behind it that is intense and wonderful.

I am in love with your hairy rectum Babs just a comment while passing by"

It says thank you, you bearded beauty

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Unconditional

Is all love unconditional?

ur not meant to ask complicated questions

Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loves is intense and a head fuck rollercoaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unconditional

Is all love unconditional?

Only that between parent and child I believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unconditional

Is all love unconditional?

Only that between parent and child I believe "

I wouldn’t agree with that...... unconditional love can be between any gender, race, of any age and relationship.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Unconditional

Is all love unconditional?

Only that between parent and child I believe "

Not necessarily, I've seen it moreso between spouses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'."

There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.

There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.

I think that school of thought is cobblers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.

There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.

Quite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is great if you find it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.

There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.

Everything felt right, I felt a completeness. All encompassing love.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.

There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.

I think that school of thought is cobblers"

I hope so... I have so much innards missing I can never be complete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.

There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.

I think that school of thought is cobblers"

You went to the wrong school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.

There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.

I think that school of thought is cobblers

I hope so... I have so much innards missing I can never be complete.

Exactly. Through love we can become more complete.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"Love is a lie. It is a trick played by the cruel on the foolish and the weak."

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.

There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.

I think that school of thought is cobblers

I hope so... I have so much innards missing I can never be complete.

Exactly. Through love we can become more complete."

Yes this, love is the most healing thing in the universe.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Or is it just lust?

Hello you..

And I think most people confuse lust for love x

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

If you're on here because your other half won't have sex with you, then you're not in love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Love is a lie. It is a trick played by the cruel on the foolish and the weak."

Love is not playing a trick, that’s the trickster fooling you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Love is a lie. It is a trick played by the cruel on the foolish and the weak."

I felt complete and happy. It made me whole, and a stronger person. I have never been foolish or weak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.

There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.

I think that school of thought is cobblers

I hope so... I have so much innards missing I can never be complete.

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you will

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.

There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.

I think that school of thought is cobblers

I hope so... I have so much innards missing I can never be complete.

Love is accepting, respecting, supporting, wanting to be with your partner in Crime at every opportunity ,not being judgemental .. taking delight in their company no matter how much innards are missing.. malfunctioning ...just whisper I love you now and again...and get I love you too in return

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Love is something you give away. It is within you and nowhere else.

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By *ubenesque.Woman
over a year ago

over by there

... is a precursor to heartbreak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or is it just lust?

Billy Bragg described the difference...

Do you know what love is?

Love is when you willingly

Place someone else's priorities

Above your own

Do you know what lust is?

Lust is when you actively

Force your own priority

On someone else

(Something Happened is a beautiful song, try it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... is a precursor to heartbreak"

Not for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unconditional

Is all love unconditional?

ur not meant to ask complicated questions

Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... is a precursor to heartbreak

Not for everyone

I think that is very naive. Everyone who has ever loved will have some experience of heartbreak during their life... The only way to escape this is to die before everyone else you have loved. Don't presume that because it hasn't happened yet, it never will!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just around the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is hard to find

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"... is a precursor to heartbreak

Not for everyone

#bundleoflaughs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... is a precursor to heartbreak

Not for everyone

#bundleoflaughs"

Just being realistic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All around us

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....giving someone the ability to ruin your life and trusting them never to use it

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Love , the special feeling that creates the bond that makes me and my wife realise that we are so much better together than apart . Even one day apart leaves us both a bit lost , and no matter what may happen , good , bad or indifferent , the knowing we have each other makes the good even better , the bad not so bad , and the indifferent good .

We started our relationship in a bubble of lust , and although the lust is still just as strong , the love has developed in such a way that I never imagined was possible .

I’ve done my best to describe it , but I don’t think I’ve even come close doing justice to the love we share with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... is a precursor to heartbreak

Not for everyone

The thread was based on life partner love. That is not a precursor to heartbreak. Some people fall out of love, no breaking of hearts. Everybody probably experiences heartbreak at some time, mine was death of pets. So no, I am not naive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... is a precursor to heartbreak

Not for everyone

Fine! I'll leave you to it then.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Lending a hand when the bog roll runs out

I really hope this is to pass a new roll through the door.

LMAO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is the best feeling, and a rollercoaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... is a precursor to heartbreak

Not for everyone

Fine! I'll leave you to it then. "

Just my view, and a response to implication I was naive

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Love is not to be confused with infatuation "

No it's not but many people do and when the 'honeymoon' period is over they wonder what happened when it was never the real deal to begin with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love is not to be confused with infatuation

No it's not but many people do and when the 'honeymoon' period is over they wonder what happened when it was never the real deal to begin with."

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"....giving someone the ability to ruin your life and trusting them never to use it "

Trust is such a big word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply beautiful for those who find it.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Love , the special feeling that creates the bond that makes me and my wife realise that we are so much better together than apart . Even one day apart leaves us both a bit lost , and no matter what may happen , good , bad or indifferent , the knowing we have each other makes the good even better , the bad not so bad , and the indifferent good .

We started our relationship in a bubble of lust , and although the lust is still just as strong , the love has developed in such a way that I never imagined was possible .

I’ve done my best to describe it , but I don’t think I’ve even come close doing justice to the love we share with each other

I really like 'making the... indifferent good'.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"When I was in love, I felt 'complete'.

There is a school of thought that one needs to be complete/a whole before love comes a knocking.

I think there is something to be said for this.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Love is not to be confused with infatuation

No it's not but many people do and when the 'honeymoon' period is over they wonder what happened when it was never the real deal to begin with."

Infatuation may sometimes turn to love. It's the sticking around to get to know each other and keep the honeymoon feeling going, isn't it?

I wonder if we want things to be easier and combined with wanting to protect ourselves we set up barriers to that real intimacy?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

You sound as if you have both nailed it. What you have is precious and beautiful.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Love is the knot in your stomach when you are apart for a few days, the easy silences, wanting to do things to bring a smile to their face. The absentminded hand stroking a leg while your watching telly.

The nuzzles of the warm creases in his neck that smell uniquely of him, the crinkle of his eyes when he chuckles.

Not being able to imagine them not in your lives, and a physical ache in your heart if you try to.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

...exciting and newwwww, come aboard we,r expecting Youuuuuuu....the lurveee boat la la la la laaaaaaaa la laaaaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...a battlefield

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Love is not to be confused with infatuation

No it's not but many people do and when the 'honeymoon' period is over they wonder what happened when it was never the real deal to begin with.

Infatuation may sometimes turn to love. It's the sticking around to get to know each other and keep the honeymoon feeling going, isn't it?

I wonder if we want things to be easier and combined with wanting to protect ourselves we set up barriers to that real intimacy?

Yes I think that infatuation can lead to love. After the initial blossom of infatuation the 'garden' needs to be mainained and cared for and then can become a beautiful place to be.

I don't think there is anything wrong in wanting to protect yourself as long as one is open and not closed off to new exciting and wonderful possibilities.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Love is the knot in your stomach when you are apart for a few days, the easy silences, wanting to do things to bring a smile to their face. The absentminded hand stroking a leg while your watching telly.

The nuzzles of the warm creases in his neck that smell uniquely of him, the crinkle of his eyes when he chuckles.

Not being able to imagine them not in your lives, and a physical ache in your heart if you try to."

Most definately, that skunds really great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy to fall into but not so easy to fall out of.

Not sure what that means it just popped into my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...a battlefield"

We are strong. No one can tell us we’re wrong

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The aim of love is to love. Nothing more nothing less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you find out what it is let Foreigner know. They’ve been wanting to know for years.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Load of bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love just is....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or is it just lust?

You lust then you love

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Or is it just lust?

You lust then you love "

I have done it the other way around once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe in love, i have been in love and it was the best feeling ever. It's better than hot buttery toast.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I believe in love, i have been in love and it was the best feeling ever. It's better than hot buttery toast. "

But hot buttery toast is there through love and heartbreak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or is it just lust?

You lust then you love

I have done it the other way around once.

Very unusual lol must if felt strange haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... the sweetest thing.

And also the most heartbreaking, gut-wrenching,soul-piercing thing. If you want one, you must be prepared for the other; that's the gamble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you love someone a tiny bit ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes u crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe in love, i have been in love and it was the best feeling ever. It's better than hot buttery toast.

But hot buttery toast is there through love and heartbreak.

Depends how you make it, but true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you find out what it is let Foreigner know. They’ve been wanting to know for years. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overrated.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

We started our relationship in a bubble of lust , and although the lust is still just as strong , the love has developed in such a way that I never imagined was possible .

I’ve done my best to describe it , but I don’t think I’ve even come close doing justice to the love we share with each other

I think that’s one of the loveliest things I’ve read on here. Made me feel warm and fuzzy and it’s nothing to do with me! You’re a lucky pair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna know what love is, i want yous to show me.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Something that shouldn’t be abused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... the sweetest thing.

And also the most heartbreaking, gut-wrenching,soul-piercing thing. If you want one, you must be prepared for the other; that's the gamble. "

Can you not just lust after somebody without loving them?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

a chemical reaction

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

The best feeling in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel it in my fingers, I feel it in my toes.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Being truly loved is the safest feeling ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never having to say sorry.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

True fulfilment in every sense and feeling complete in every way possible.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"... the sweetest thing.

And also the most heartbreaking, gut-wrenching,soul-piercing thing. If you want one, you must be prepared for the other; that's the gamble.

Can you not just lust after somebody without loving them?"

Yes, i'd say so

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I wanna know what love is, i want yous to show me.

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you can attempt to describe it as others have already done. Love is a personal thing and I think hard to describe. Love has to be felt to truly underderstand it's power.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or is it just lust?

Billy Bragg described the difference...

Do you know what love is?

Love is when you willingly

Place someone else's priorities

Above your own

Do you know what lust is?

Lust is when you actively

Force your own priority

On someone else

(Something Happened is a beautiful song, try it) "

I love this! Nailed it!

Love for me is putting some else before yourself, and in doing so making yourself happy. It’s an all encompassing feeling and very hard to put into words.

But in the very true words of Miley Cyrus Nothing breaks like a heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Organic, as you age, it may change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... the sweetest thing.

And also the most heartbreaking, gut-wrenching,soul-piercing thing. If you want one, you must be prepared for the other; that's the gamble.

Can you not just lust after somebody without loving them?"

Yes; lust is entirely different to love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanna know what love is, i want yous to show me.

you can attempt to describe it as others have already done. Love is a personal thing and I think hard to describe. Love has to be felt to truly underderstand it's power."

I have had the privilege of love and it's absolutely indescribable as i think it maybe different for everyone.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Putting someone else first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs." ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it is about putting someone else first and prioritising their needs above your own. It's about all kinds of things, like trust, attraction, feeling like your best self when they're around, compassion, shared values, mutual respect etc. But I'm not going to always put someone else first and I don't expect someone to always put me first. It should be give and take, not just give. For me it's important that the person I love also loves and respects themselves, so I can trust them to say I'm being a knob if I'm being a knob, or to tell me if my actions and decisions are to their detriment in any way. Healthy love is working together so that both can have their needs met without losing any sense of self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seemingly unattainable for me, so I’ve settled for lust. And loving it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

marriage is an institution: love is blind: so a true marriage is an institution for the blind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unrequited love hurts more than toothache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love..... well, it's all of the things.

It's feeling complete when you're together, yet still safe when you're apart, because they're with you, in your heart.

It's first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Your first and last thoughts. It's sleeping soundly at night knowing they're safe.

It's passionate and honest, even when it stings.

It's being brave enough to tell them they're being a dick, because you trust their love enough to know they'll still love you afterwards, and you're telling them because you're being honest and want them to be the best them they can be.

It's willingness to learn and grow together.

It's having them snore in your ear, yet you find comfort in that, because it's a reminder that they're there....and breathing!

It's finding bits of them in songs you hear, and songs having meaning when they didn't before.

It's feeling like there was no life before them... like they've always been there.

It's realising that soulmates aren't a myth.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Marriage is a great institution, but then who wants to live in an institution.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I don't think it is about putting someone else first and prioritising their needs above your own. It's about all kinds of things, like trust, attraction, feeling like your best self when they're around, compassion, shared values, mutual respect etc. But I'm not going to always put someone else first and I don't expect someone to always put me first. It should be give and take, not just give. For me it's important that the person I love also loves and respects themselves, so I can trust them to say I'm being a knob if I'm being a knob, or to tell me if my actions and decisions are to their detriment in any way. Healthy love is working together so that both can have their needs met without losing any sense of self. "

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Never having to say sorry. "

That took much longer than I expected. I haven't checked your age, but I suspect it's a certain one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like this.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

....a dog from hell

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