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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tinder is in trouble for evading age checks and being used for grooming youngsters.

Do you think fab should ask people to verify their age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How would they do it though, passport, drivers license etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tinder is in trouble for evading age checks and being used for grooming youngsters.

Do you think fab should ask people to verify their age? "

How is it Tinder's fault if the kid lied and shouldn't be on there in the first place.

I don't think age verification is necessary.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

YES! had a meet last year after msgn, txtn and pic swops....seemed all good, went to pick him up ( maybe tht should of been a red flag) he got in the car I looked at him said how old are you really!!!! Just turned 20!!! GET OUT OF MY CARRRRRRRR.....so YES!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"YES! had a meet last year after msgn, txtn and pic swops....seemed all good, went to pick him up ( maybe tht should of been a red flag) he got in the car I looked at him said how old are you really!!!! Just turned 20!!! GET OUT OF MY CARRRRRRRR.....so YES! "

Most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YES! had a meet last year after msgn, txtn and pic swops....seemed all good, went to pick him up ( maybe tht should of been a red flag) he got in the car I looked at him said how old are you really!!!! Just turned 20!!! GET OUT OF MY CARRRRRRRR.....so YES! "

Could of been worse. His mum could of dropped him off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are plenty of men on here saying they are younger then they are too!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"YES! had a meet last year after msgn, txtn and pic swops....seemed all good, went to pick him up ( maybe tht should of been a red flag) he got in the car I looked at him said how old are you really!!!! Just turned 20!!! GET OUT OF MY CARRRRRRRR.....so YES!

Could of been worse. His mum could of dropped him off. "

Omg omg don't....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"YES! had a meet last year after msgn, txtn and pic swops....seemed all good, went to pick him up ( maybe tht should of been a red flag) he got in the car I looked at him said how old are you really!!!! Just turned 20!!! GET OUT OF MY CARRRRRRRR.....so YES!

Could of been worse. His mum could of dropped him off.

Omg omg don't.... "

Or his Nan

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"YES! had a meet last year after msgn, txtn and pic swops....seemed all good, went to pick him up ( maybe tht should of been a red flag) he got in the car I looked at him said how old are you really!!!! Just turned 20!!! GET OUT OF MY CARRRRRRRR.....so YES!

Could of been worse. His mum could of dropped him off.

Omg omg don't....

Or his Nan "

The shame of it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YES! had a meet last year after msgn, txtn and pic swops....seemed all good, went to pick him up ( maybe tht should of been a red flag) he got in the car I looked at him said how old are you really!!!! Just turned 20!!! GET OUT OF MY CARRRRRRRR.....so YES! "

Why is that an issue?

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By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston

Whilst I agree with the principle not sure how it work in practice.

It would need everyone here to prove their ID. Then that will be stored on a server waiting to be hacked and maybe be used for sextortion.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"YES! had a meet last year after msgn, txtn and pic swops....seemed all good, went to pick him up ( maybe tht should of been a red flag) he got in the car I looked at him said how old are you really!!!! Just turned 20!!! GET OUT OF MY CARRRRRRRR.....so YES!

Why is that an issue? "

For me personally it is, I have cheese in my fridge older than him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst I agree with the principle not sure how it work in practice.

It would need everyone here to prove their ID. Then that will be stored on a server waiting to be hacked and maybe be used for sextortion. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whilst I agree with the principle not sure how it work in practice.

It would need everyone here to prove their ID. Then that will be stored on a server waiting to be hacked and maybe be used for sextortion.

"

Again this

How could you do it safely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YES! had a meet last year after msgn, txtn and pic swops....seemed all good, went to pick him up ( maybe tht should of been a red flag) he got in the car I looked at him said how old are you really!!!! Just turned 20!!! GET OUT OF MY CARRRRRRRR.....so YES!

Why is that an issue?

For me personally it is, I have cheese in my fridge older than him! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tinder is in trouble for evading age checks and being used for grooming youngsters.

Do you think fab should ask people to verify their age?

How is it Tinder's fault if the kid lied and shouldn't be on there in the first place.

I don't think age verification is necessary. "

I agree with this.

Obviously tinder, fab etc...

Have a responsibility but so do we as individuals.

Obviously on any site if somebody Suspects an underage person then it should be reported immediately but you will always get people who will look for vulnerable individuals to exploit them. I'm not sure how that is any sites responsibility.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

But 20 would pass the age check?

Back in the day the solution was to make it illegal for you to lie about your age on any legally binding forms.

Do the same thing they do for piracy, if an age lie is detected, give the household an internet ban, punish the person.

In order to verify an age, companies like snapchat, tinder, facebook, the-next-big thing will want access to your childrens passports, and will then store that information for an indefinite period.

This is fucking insanity to me. The goverment wants to pass blame onto companies so they can hit them up for some cash, fine them, etc, but do you really want every site you visit keeping copies of your real private info on record?

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

I had a msg yesterday saying I'm not 40 as states on here but 29 well he had to send a picture to chat so he had to be honest. But it does make you wonder.. Oh and i skipped him his msg was I'll order the taxi now for you to arrive at my hotel at 2am

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"I had a msg yesterday saying I'm not 40 as states on here but 29 well he had to send a picture to chat so he had to be honest. But it does make you wonder.. Oh and i skipped him his msg was I'll order the taxi now for you to arrive at my hotel at 2am "

Cheeky little .....

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"I had a msg yesterday saying I'm not 40 as states on here but 29 well he had to send a picture to chat so he had to be honest. But it does make you wonder.. Oh and i skipped him his msg was I'll order the taxi now for you to arrive at my hotel at 2am "

Age checks wont fix that, you have to think of them as "Adult check", not "verify and display the correct age".

Basically the site would only have a green mark on his profile saying "over 18", with gdpr/data protection rules the info would not be displayed, probably not even displayed to moderators of sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tinder is in trouble for evading age checks and being used for grooming youngsters.

Do you think fab should ask people to verify their age? "
Yes women pretending to be younger haha! let’s get the age verification up

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Tinder is in trouble for evading age checks and being used for grooming youngsters.

Do you think fab should ask people to verify their age?

How is it Tinder's fault if the kid lied and shouldn't be on there in the first place.

I don't think age verification is necessary. "

Because kids NEVER lie doh!!! It's not the parents responsibility to check what their children are doing, what's wrong with you?!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"YES! had a meet last year after msgn, txtn and pic swops....seemed all good, went to pick him up ( maybe tht should of been a red flag) he got in the car I looked at him said how old are you really!!!! Just turned 20!!! GET OUT OF MY CARRRRRRRR.....so YES! "

Not entirely sure that picking up a legal 20 year old is the same as what the op is suggesting

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Most age verifications just prove you are over 18 not your actual age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YES! had a meet last year after msgn, txtn and pic swops....seemed all good, went to pick him up ( maybe tht should of been a red flag) he got in the car I looked at him said how old are you really!!!! Just turned 20!!! GET OUT OF MY CARRRRRRRR.....so YES!

Could of been worse. His mum could of dropped him off. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There would be no 45 yo men left on the site

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I do agree if someone lies it’s not really the sites fault - it’s not the same as someone deliberately going after a 13 year old on Facebook etc this is an over 18 site - if someone signs up as 18 or more they’ve done that not the site making them do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YES! had a meet last year after msgn, txtn and pic swops....seemed all good, went to pick him up ( maybe tht should of been a red flag) he got in the car I looked at him said how old are you really!!!! Just turned 20!!! GET OUT OF MY CARRRRRRRR.....so YES! "

An age check wouldn't stop 20 year olds from joining. You only have to verify you're over 18. I don't think they use your birth date to publish your age yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There would be no 45 yo men left on the site "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tinder is in trouble for evading age checks and being used for grooming youngsters.

Do you think fab should ask people to verify their age?

How is it Tinder's fault if the kid lied and shouldn't be on there in the first place.

I don't think age verification is necessary.

Because kids NEVER lie doh!!! It's not the parents responsibility to check what their children are doing, what's wrong with you?!! "

And no kid ever has used his parents bank card to buy stuff online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There would be no 45 yo men left on the site

"

Some women would gain a few years .

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