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"I've just finished smacking a naughty schoolgirl,to be perfectly honest,we both really enjoyed it " its diffrent hitting children in anger. I am a older woman just see spanking stuff a four-play ... and not a child. | |||
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"It's a difficult subject, but to smack a child for that is totally wrong, terrible. My dad used to beat us and i have some terrible memories of that, i only smacked my son once - he was just about to do somthing very dangerous and i instantly reacted with a single slap on the back of his legs - i felt awful for ages! There will always be arguements for and against but i think that if you have decent dialogue with your children and mutual respect than there should be no need for corporal punishment ona regular basis. Z" well to here that lady so up-set on the radio she was only about 10 and its stayed with her all them years ... did make me think i have never done the smacking i would take things away ... there treats. | |||
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"I think the problem is people say smacking is ok so long as its controled and not over the top but everyone has their own ideas of whats over the top How do you control whats ok and whats not, where do you draw the line between a smack and violance? My dad was very abusive to us, he didnt see anything wrong with beating us with belts etc to him it was just punishment, and till the day he died he never saw anything wrong with what he used to do to us, thats the problem you have some just do not know where to draw the line, whats acceptable to you isnt to others" What you say is very valid and thought provoking. My idea of "Not over the top", for example, would be a very light tap. Again, not something I do, or would ever do. Personally, I think this kind of punishment can, and often does have, long lasting effects, often life long :{ On the other hand, if my little one is sent to bed early, it lasts until asleep. If banned from the x-box for a week, it lasts a week. But this sort of punishments works for us. | |||
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"....thats the problem you have some just do not know where to draw the line, whats acceptable to you isnt to others" Part of an erlier reply... Of course any smacking that bleeds, bruises or injury is assault and should be treated as such. | |||
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"....thats the problem you have some just do not know where to draw the line, whats acceptable to you isnt to others Part of an erlier reply... Of course any smacking that bleeds, bruises or injury is assault and should be treated as such." And you seriously think that at the point an adult hits a child that is where the line should be drawn? | |||
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