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The art of flirting

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By *ottie 13 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

Is the art of flirting dying out or do people think they just don't have to make the effort on here? I'm not one of those people that can just look at someone's pics and arrange a meet to fk I want more than that, am I asking too much for someone to flirt their way into my knickers ???

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"Is the art of flirting dying out or do people think they just don't have to make the effort on here? I'm not one of those people that can just look at someone's pics and arrange a meet to fk I want more than that, am I asking too much for someone to flirt their way into my knickers ???"

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

When I was meeting I loved a good social first. Not just to flirt but to also talk.

I love a good chat which develops into flirting.

Social media type dating apps are slowly eroding the art.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think that lots of people flirt on here, it's the grease that keeps the wheels of fab turning.

It all depends on what you're looking for and wanting though, have you tried making the first move and starting the flirting yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask for it on your profile.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Been a while since I've done any flirting...I do enjoy the flirt though and I'm finding myself again so I will hopefully be back to my old flirtatious ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy a good old flirt. I wouldn’t pretend I’m making an art of it but I certainly like practicing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like anything on fab you will find what you're looking for but it ain't gonna just drop in your lap. I think women especially expect things to just happen and are surprised when they don't get what they want straight away. For as many people interested in the flirtatious build-up there will be those not interested in that.

It's a site that attracts people with many different interests and varied aims and objectives. I think many forget that.

So, no. Not a dying art at all. Just not everyone's priority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, personality is really important and I love to chat. It builds up some rapport and anticipation.

You definitely look worth the effort OP and those are lovely red knickers you have x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the biggest things for us is the flirting and the build up. When we first started we hadn't flirted with anybody else for over a decade. It's the one area where married couples are a little behind when they start out and can often be mistaken for rudeness in clubs. It genuinely isn't, we just forgot how to read it and do it in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like anything on fab you will find what you're looking for but it ain't gonna just drop in your lap. I think women especially expect things to just happen and are surprised when they don't get what they want straight away. For as many people interested in the flirtatious build-up there will be those not interested in that.

It's a site that attracts people with many different interests and varied aims and objectives. I think many forget that.

So, no. Not a dying art at all. Just not everyone's priority. "

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Is the art of flirting dying out or do people think they just don't have to make the effort on here? I'm not one of those people that can just look at someone's pics and arrange a meet to fk I want more than that, am I asking too much for someone to flirt their way into my knickers ???"

We always enjoy a night out at a busy pub or club and my wife enjoys flirting in their vanilla environment . I don’t think there’s any point flirting on a site like this . You really don’t know who is on the other side of your conversation until you’ve met them . So we save for real life .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not, I love flirting.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

It's like smiling with the eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is the art of flirting dying out or do people think they just don't have to make the effort on here? I'm not one of those people that can just look at someone's pics and arrange a meet to fk I want more than that, am I asking too much for someone to flirt their way into my knickers ???

We always enjoy a night out at a busy pub or club and my wife enjoys flirting in their vanilla environment . I don’t think there’s any point flirting on a site like this . You really don’t know who is on the other side of your conversation until you’ve met them . So we save for real life ."

I agree, that's why I prefer to meet in person ASAP.

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