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"The penis museum in Iceland is looking for people to donate their penises to be put on show. " If they can come up with a way of making mine hard and magnificent then they can have mine. If they can only display it while flaccid they are not having my winky. | |||
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"I really don't care what happens to my body. I have told my boys I do not want a funeral, the thought of my boys having to go through that process horrifies me. Just send me to the furnace alone, no service, no mourners. No relatives who never bothered with me in life, no false sentiments or people turning up to make sure I'm dead. My boys can remember me how they like, and mark it however they like, but they ain't being put through that rigmarole. " My thoughts exactly | |||
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"I really don't care what happens to my body. I have told my boys I do not want a funeral, the thought of my boys having to go through that process horrifies me. Just send me to the furnace alone, no service, no mourners. No relatives who never bothered with me in life, no false sentiments or people turning up to make sure I'm dead. My boys can remember me how they like, and mark it however they like, but they ain't being put through that rigmarole. " Do you not think that makes it worse for them Theres no collective mourning to normalise, it no closure or chance to say good bye. It just one day mum is gone and the rest of the family and community is gossiping behind thier back about how disgraceful it is they couldn't even be bothered to hold a furneral | |||
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"I really don't care what happens to my body. I have told my boys I do not want a funeral, the thought of my boys having to go through that process horrifies me. Just send me to the furnace alone, no service, no mourners. No relatives who never bothered with me in life, no false sentiments or people turning up to make sure I'm dead. My boys can remember me how they like, and mark it however they like, but they ain't being put through that rigmarole. Do you not think that makes it worse for them Theres no collective mourning to normalise, it no closure or chance to say good bye. It just one day mum is gone and the rest of the family and community is gossiping behind thier back about how disgraceful it is they couldn't even be bothered to hold a furneral" I don't think that's the case at all. Close friends and family will know the reason behind it and as for the rest, why should anyone care what they think? | |||
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"I really don't care what happens to my body. I have told my boys I do not want a funeral, the thought of my boys having to go through that process horrifies me. Just send me to the furnace alone, no service, no mourners. No relatives who never bothered with me in life, no false sentiments or people turning up to make sure I'm dead. My boys can remember me how they like, and mark it however they like, but they ain't being put through that rigmarole. Do you not think that makes it worse for them Theres no collective mourning to normalise, it no closure or chance to say good bye. It just one day mum is gone and the rest of the family and community is gossiping behind thier back about how disgraceful it is they couldn't even be bothered to hold a furneral. I don't think that's the case at all. Close friends and family will know the reason behind it and as for the rest, why should anyone care what they think?" Nope certainly not the case, I did say my boys can mark it in exactly the way they want too without the rigmarole. And believe me, my boys won't care what others think, because the people who matter will know my reasons. No one elses business tbf. Why should things be done just to please others, because it's a societal expectation. All I know is I've lost too many people, Mum and my Dad included to know that I do not want my kids to sit in a cold crematorium thinking of me looking at a box, it won't be me in the box anyway, just my shell. They are in control, their way. | |||
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"Once you're dead obviously, where would you like to see it go or be used for? " Funny thing is I already have.its all set down on paper and signed. | |||
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"I really don't care what happens to my body. I have told my boys I do not want a funeral, the thought of my boys having to go through that process horrifies me. Just send me to the furnace alone, no service, no mourners. No relatives who never bothered with me in life, no false sentiments or people turning up to make sure I'm dead. My boys can remember me how they like, and mark it however they like, but they ain't being put through that rigmarole. Do you not think that makes it worse for them Theres no collective mourning to normalise, it no closure or chance to say good bye. It just one day mum is gone and the rest of the family and community is gossiping behind thier back about how disgraceful it is they couldn't even be bothered to hold a furneral. I don't think that's the case at all. Close friends and family will know the reason behind it and as for the rest, why should anyone care what they think? Nope certainly not the case, I did say my boys can mark it in exactly the way they want too without the rigmarole. And believe me, my boys won't care what others think, because the people who matter will know my reasons. No one elses business tbf. Why should things be done just to please others, because it's a societal expectation. All I know is I've lost too many people, Mum and my Dad included to know that I do not want my kids to sit in a cold crematorium thinking of me looking at a box, it won't be me in the box anyway, just my shell. They are in control, their way. " I think funerals serve a purpose. Every society has some farewell service or ritual. If you have made it clear that you don't want one it won't be their choice, control or their way as they will always have some conflict about going against your wishes if they choose to have a funeral. Funerals are for the living not the dead. | |||
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