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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Friend with benefits and Fuck buddy.

To some they are very different, to others they are the same thing. Do you have one or the other, maybe you have both?

How do you class FWB compared to FB? Do you have a whole different arrangement?

For me they are different.

FWB is a friend just as much, if not more than just a sexual partner. You would hang out together, sex always an option but never the only option.

FB is a glorified booty call. You enjoy their company to a certain point but it is all about the sex. Very little social side to it that only happens if sex is included.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I think that is a good definition

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By *nicorn on wheelsWoman
over a year ago

scotland


"Friend with benefits and Fuck buddy.

To some they are very different, to others they are the same thing. Do you have one or the other, maybe you have both?

How do you class FWB compared to FB? Do you have a whole different arrangement?

For me they are different.

FWB is a friend just as much, if not more than just a sexual partner. You would hang out together, sex always an option but never the only option.

FB is a glorified booty call. You enjoy their company to a certain point but it is all about the sex. Very little social side to it that only happens if sex is included. "

That’s a good point and never thought of it like that before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had both and currently have a fb. I would say that your description is spot on. However I chat to my fb a lot non sexual too but we wouldn't do anything other than meet for regular sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with what you said above OP...

I have neither at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP is spot on. Well that's what we think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha well defined!!

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By *inn2000Woman
over a year ago

belfast

Yep this is how I see it too. Great definitions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally spot on. I have a fwb and we hang out. We hate being alone and enjoy each other’s company. He’s a friend and we do end up naked and having fun when the mood takes us. But he is a friend first and foremost x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I need one of those

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I assumed most would see it as I do, but have had people on the past argue its the same thing.

Random early thoughts getting me thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have numerous FOBs. Fuck Off Buddy, is what they say when I mention fucking

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Friend with benefits and Fuck buddy.

To some they are very different, to others they are the same thing. Do you have one or the other, maybe you have both?

How do you class FWB compared to FB? Do you have a whole different arrangement?

For me they are different.

FWB is a friend just as much, if not more than just a sexual partner. You would hang out together, sex always an option but never the only option.

FB is a glorified booty call. You enjoy their company to a certain point but it is all about the sex. Very little social side to it that only happens if sex is included. "

Mind your own business re if I have or don’t have either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have numerous FOBs. Fuck Off Buddy, is what they say when I mention fucking"

Have plenty of those too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mind your own business re if I have or don’t have either "

Sorry, can't. I'm a nosey fucker and need to know these things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So whats difference between fwb and bf/ gf then?

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Perfect definition OP - we'd like some fwbs rather than fbs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So whats difference between fwb and bf/ gf then?"

Romance, a deeper connection. Though that depends on how you define bf/gf.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"So whats difference between fwb and bf/ gf then?

Romance, a deeper connection. Though that depends on how you define bf/gf. "

Romance as in sending flowers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So whats difference between fwb and bf/ gf then?

Romance, a deeper connection. Though that depends on how you define bf/gf. "

I could say commitment is the difference

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

My 1st reaction was that they are both the same. I think that's becauae I have had a couple fuck buddies who have turned into FWB.

Thinking about it You put it I agree there is a difference. I much prefer the FWB tho have to say it can get complicated if 1 is keener than the other. I have found this and we ended up falling out which is a shame he's a great guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So whats difference between fwb and bf/ gf then?

Romance, a deeper connection. Though that depends on how you define bf/gf.

I could say commitment is the difference "

Ah yes, very good point. That also.

Its like I have friends I don't want to have sex with.

I have friends that I do.

Then there is that extra level of connection and commitment, and want of being in their company that nobody else could provide, on all levels.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Casual sex, if you want that, is great, but long term i think it can desensitise you, if you’re not careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never really thought there was a difference.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I never really thought there was a difference. "

Yep. I've just used the terms interchangeably. People I just fuck I don't really have a term for.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Casual sex, if you want that, is great, but long term i think it can desensitise you, if you’re not careful.

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Yeah I think so too. A FB for me has to be someone that I like more than for just their body but, I don't necessarily want to become oo invested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good definitions, OP. I have a few FBs, but FWB are harder to find.

I'm quite good company, honestly..

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