FabSwingers.com forum: 'just trying my luck'

By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I get this a lot in emails (from single men). I often try to respond to emails that aren't actually offensive from the start, but pretty much every time, if that phrase is in a 2nd or 3rd mail I end up getting called something derogatory. Today I resemble a less intelligent version of someone's dog.

Often I explain how, for me, ignoring what I'm looking for on my profile is a sure fire way to get you added to my "nope, even if I changed what I was looking for list."

Because I can but make the assumption that if someone is ignoring my desires in first contact situations, (when they should be trying to make a good first impression) why would they not ignore them in a meet (same goes for not taking no for an answer).

I'm not alone in this right?!

Sorry, awake to early for a Saturday!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Sounds like they are just trying your patience

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By *heekyweebissimWoman
over a year ago

fife,

"I get this a lot in emails (from single men). I often try to respond to emails that aren't actually offensive from the start, but pretty much every time, if that phrase is in a 2nd or 3rd mail I end up getting called something derogatory. Today I resemble a less intelligent version of someone's dog.

Often I explain how, for me, ignoring what I'm looking for on my profile is a sure fire way to get you added to my "nope, even if I changed what I was looking for list."

I'm not alone in this right?!

Sorry, awake to early for a Saturday!"

Couldn’t agree more

if they can’t show some courtesy while messaging why the hell would you want to meet them.

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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Sounds like they are just trying your patience"

Ha! I'm not great with that at the moment either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good set of nipples on you op, do you meet men for a fuck behind Aldi by any chance ?

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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Good set of nipples on you op, do you meet men for a fuck behind Aldi by any chance ? "

Indeed that's exactly what my profile states, #classyBird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good set of nipples on you op, do you meet men for a fuck behind Aldi by any chance ?

Indeed that's exactly what my profile states, #classyBird"

Sorry I meant 'Waitrose'

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Because I can but make the assumption that if someone is ignoring my desires in first contact situations, (when they should be trying to make a good first impression) why would they not ignore them in a meet (same goes for not taking no for an answer)."

100% agree.

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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Good set of nipples on you op, do you meet men for a fuck behind Aldi by any chance ?

Indeed that's exactly what my profile states, #classyBird

Sorry I meant 'Waitrose' "

It's Booths where I'm from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good set of nipples on you op, do you meet men for a fuck behind Aldi by any chance ?

Indeed that's exactly what my profile states, #classyBird

Sorry I meant 'Waitrose'

It's Booths where I'm from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must remember most blokes on here are still stuck on Hungry Caterpillar so you can’t expect them to read long profiles.

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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"You must remember most blokes on here are still stuck on Hungry Caterpillar so you can’t expect them to read long profiles. "

I don't. There is a tldr; right at the very top or my profile and everything. Just for them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You must remember most blokes on here are still stuck on Hungry Caterpillar so you can’t expect them to read long profiles.

I don't. There is a tldr; right at the very top or my profile and everything. Just for them!"

If it isn’t shiny and doesn’t have pictures they won’t see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% agree.

I very much agree with this bit too!!

Don't let them get you down OP. Report any abuse. Remember this bit above. Lucky escape.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

My time and patience is limited, so I wrote a profile, without ambiguity to enable men to exclude themselves. To add belt to the braces I made it clear I wouldn't respond to anyone outwith what I was looking for: and I didn't!

I honestly don't understand the "well he's not what I'm looking for, obviously couldn't give two hoots about my feelings, but he's not "rude", so I'll tell him thanks but he's no thanks" then surprised at a nasty response.

Gee...who would have thought it?!!

Ladies...take control and stop being "victims". You know what you want, go for it. If the bloke ignores your wishes from the off don't engage. If you do unfortunately you'll get petulant responses back.

But hey, it's just my opinion as it's worked for me, but each to their own.

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