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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you saw a pic on here and thought the person perhaps had a medical problem? Would you reply and ask if they'd had it checked out? Or just ignore??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the relation I have with that person.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

If I felt reasonably confident it could be something worth checking out, I think I'd write as tactfully as I could to suggest they do so. Most people would probably take it in the spirit intended I think and if they didn't, well at least you tried.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"If you saw a pic on here and thought the person perhaps had a medical problem? Would you reply and ask if they'd had it checked out? Or just ignore??!"

Depends what I thought it was and whether I had interacted with them before .

So if it was someone I’d never met or spoken to and it looked like they had , warts , cold sores , or something like this , I’d say nothing and block them .

If it was someone we had met or spoken to then yes I probably would mention it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most do. Even consider myself in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most do. Even consider myself in that. "

Oh we’re talking about STI’s. Yup just steer clear there’s plenty more fish. (Not the website).

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm not qualified to diagnose a medical problem so I'd rather not hurt someones feelings or worry them because I dont like the look of their picture, I'd just avoid them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you saw a pic on here and thought the person perhaps had a medical problem? Would you reply and ask if they'd had it checked out? Or just ignore??!"

If I knew them I’d message I’d i didn’t I wouldn’t.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"If you saw a pic on here and thought the person perhaps had a medical problem? Would you reply and ask if they'd had it checked out? Or just ignore??!"

I think for me it would depend on how and what we were talking about.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd ignore it. I have no medical qualifications at all and couldn't possibly tell from a photo if a person might have a problem.

If they had an obvious problem with photographic evidence with an embroidery stitch or the dates of the reign of Elizabeth the first I'd feel more than qualified to message with advice though.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"If you saw a pic on here and thought the person perhaps had a medical problem? Would you reply and ask if they'd had it checked out? Or just ignore??!"

Are you a Dr?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you saw a pic on here and thought the person perhaps had a medical problem? Would you reply and ask if they'd had it checked out? Or just ignore??!"

Nowt to do with me.

Ignore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you saw a pic on here and thought the person perhaps had a medical problem? Would you reply and ask if they'd had it checked out? Or just ignore??!

Are you a Dr? "

Yes lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'd do nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a doctor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what the condition was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen a few written posts on here and thought perhaps the person had a mental problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say, those little lumps on your cock, have you tried to pick them off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If serious would definitely tell them,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you saw a pic on here and thought the person perhaps had a medical problem? Would you reply and ask if they'd had it checked out? Or just ignore??!"

Tell them if your a qualified medical professional,

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Not your circus, not your monkeys.

Unless you're medically qualified then I wouldn't suggest messaging either.

I do look out for medical gadgets on people though in case I see anyone with the same as me - I'd totally message them. But that's more a solidarity thing than an advice thing.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tactfully suggest checking it out. Receptionist at an old job was checking in a guest. He observeres her prominent nose and jaw and asked her about them....sounds awful ignorant I know....but turns out he was a specialist from the States and he noticed she had a very rare condition ( tumour on the paet of the brain that was affecting her hormones ). It was potentially fatal and her GP had put her recent facial changes and headaches down to coincidence aand migraines from stress. She was operated on in Dublin the following week and after months of recovery was lucky to survive.

Puts potentially embarrassing or temporarily worring someone unduly in perspective.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England


"I'd tactfully suggest checking it out. Receptionist at an old job was checking in a guest. He observeres her prominent nose and jaw and asked her about them....sounds awful ignorant I know....but turns out he was a specialist from the States and he noticed she had a very rare condition ( tumour on the paet of the brain that was affecting her hormones ). It was potentially fatal and her GP had put her recent facial changes and headaches down to coincidence aand migraines from stress. She was operated on in Dublin the following week and after months of recovery was lucky to survive.

Puts potentially embarrassing or temporarily worring someone unduly in perspective."

Sounds like acromegaly. Bet the headaches were due to a growth in the pituitary gland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not qualified to diagnose a medical problem so I'd rather not hurt someones feelings or worry them because I dont like the look of their picture, I'd just avoid them."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you saw a pic on here and thought the person perhaps had a medical problem? Would you reply and ask if they'd had it checked out? Or just ignore??!

Are you a Dr?

Yes lol"

If that's the case, do you really want to bring your work home with you? It's not your responsibility, you shouldn't feel obliged, but I think it's nice that you'd consider mentioning it.

Do no harm though.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

You hear about Dr’s watching telly and noticing the presenter or a guest has a funny shaped mole and they ring in to pass a message on - that person gets checked out and it turns out they were ill and caught it just in time.

So if it’s like the above scenario, then yeah, if i were medically qualified, i’d gently and tactfully mention maybe they need to see a GP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I presume you mean an STD or something?

Ive seen some unusual private regions and lots of hermorhoids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not qualified to give someone medical advice, so no,I wouldnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not qualified to diagnose a medical problem so I'd rather not hurt someones feelings or worry them because I dont like the look of their picture, I'd just avoid them."

And probably like the proverbial plague too nsa chick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for advice. I've let it go, and no longer chatting to him. And Def won't be meeting him!

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"If you saw a pic on here and thought the person perhaps had a medical problem? Would you reply and ask if they'd had it checked out? Or just ignore??!"

I must get around to blocking you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you saw a pic on here and thought the person perhaps had a medical problem? Would you reply and ask if they'd had it checked out? Or just ignore??!

I must get around to blocking you"

Ok?! Block away!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Not sure why you would play Dr on here.

Nowt to do with you or anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay out of it not my issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this about my ears?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Stay out of it not my issue"

Hello Playboy......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stay out of it not my issue

Hello Playboy...... "

hello you hows ur weekend

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Stay out of it not my issue

Hello Playboy...... hello you hows ur weekend"

Good thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stay out of it not my issue

Hello Playboy...... hello you hows ur weekend

Good thank you "

good is good enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the most likely thing you'll spot on here is mental health issues..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd like to be near certain that I could do it without causing much distress or anxiety. Pics here may not have been taken in recent days, so information may be irrelevant now. I'd prefer some type of relationship with the person though, which perhaps makes the idea unrealistic.

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