FabSwingers.com forum: Why Do You Like Rough Sex?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies and Gents,

Rough sex, why do you like it? Search your soul.

A theory I thought of is, that men (in general) have become more passive and pandering towards women that it's led to an extra drive for even more alpha / strong / dominating traits. That manifesting in the more extreme elements of dominance.

An idea but let me know your thoughts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause it feels good, if it’s done right by the right man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define rough sex - it’s subjective I’d say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cause it feels good, if it’s done right by the right man "

Is it just the feeling though? And being dominated, why does that in particular feel good? That loss of control and sometimes a real sense of ownership of your self.

I'm a rough sex kind of guy, but I do sometimes wonder.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I don't, I like hard sex but no rough stuff.

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By *oejulienCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Interesting in itself that 'rough sex' is positioned in terms of alpha / strong / dominant male role.

From a male pov, passion, desire, mutual pleasure and developing a connection are bigger drivers.

May be I'm old fashioned???

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

"Define rough sex - it’s subjective I’d say. "

sooo true..one person's rough is another person's gentle

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

More chance of friction?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

All depends on how much drink I’ve had and if I remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies and Gents,

Rough sex, why do you like it? Search your soul.

An idea but let me know your thoughts!

I think you're hitting on a point! Definitely love hubs being an alpha male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love ‘rough sex’ or what I consider it to be. I love the danger, the lack of control on my part, being able to feel it/see it for days.

The dominance of the man turns me on wildly, not just in the bedroom.

I love the physicality of rough sex, the hardness of it, the rawness of it.

The psychology behind it is fascinating too.

That and I just love filth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like "rough" sex. I do like passionate, unrestrained, animalistic sex where you lose yourself completely.

I don't see it as dominance, I'm not submissive. I do see it as a play on feminity and masculinity. Yes he is using his physical strength to hold me down but it's my feminity that got him to that point. It's an equal thing.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Rough sex can be a bit subjective, but when two people have similar views on what constitutes it and engage in it it's mind blowing. It's the animalistic lust behind it, the total abandon, the pushing of or letting go of boundaries. It's like a self feeding cycle where one edges the other....bliss

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I like making them squeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like "rough" sex. I do like passionate, unrestrained, animalistic sex where you lose yourself completely.

It is this for me also, have been unable to describe it so well before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cause it feels good, if it’s done right by the right man

Is it just the feeling though? And being dominated, why does that in particular feel good? That loss of control and sometimes a real sense of ownership of your self.

I'm a rough sex kind of guy, but I do sometimes wonder. "

Dunno man

It ain’t that deep for me. I just do what I enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like "rough" sex. I do like passionate, unrestrained, animalistic sex where you lose yourself completely.

It is this for me also, have been unable to describe it so well before. "

Oh I think you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be mounted. A certain scenario I enjoy is for me to be sleeping (or pretending to be asleep) face down on the bed, guy comes in and starts fucking from behind like lay down doggy style but in the pink not the stink. He whispers things like your boyfriend will never know, or pretend I’m his step sister! That can be pretty rough sometimes if I pretend I’m trying to fight him off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to be mounted. A certain scenario I enjoy is for me to be sleeping (or pretending to be asleep) face down on the bed, guy comes in and starts fucking from behind like lay down doggy style but in the pink not the stink. He whispers things like your boyfriend will never know, or pretend I’m his step sister! That can be pretty rough sometimes if I pretend I’m trying to fight him off. "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like "rough" sex. I do like passionate, unrestrained, animalistic sex where you lose yourself completely.

Nailed it, Rubi. Couldn't have explained it any better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's a little bit wrong? I don't know but I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all the time.

But I like sitting on a beach during a holiday, and sometimes I visit a theme park and go on The Hulk.

It’s just a mood thing.

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By *othrockercplCouple
over a year ago

Halloween Town

I've always like Lords of Acid, and Rough Sex is a great song by them. It's won awards and everything

https://g.co/kgs/VpzMR7

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I don't like "rough" sex. I do like passionate, unrestrained, animalistic sex where you lose yourself completely.

Good description. I call that primal, but it isn't ever painful or degrading.

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

I wouldn't say rough exactly, more passionate and hedonistic / animalistic ! Not wishy washy vanilla nothingness.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I wouldn't say rough exactly, more passionate and hedonistic / animalistic ! "

I call that vanilla!!

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

Sex where you both want to feel it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used not to but iv found my inner growl and found im very good at it

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I love to play rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes Fuzz and I attempt slow sensual making love.... It doesn't last long before that primal urge takes over and he's chucking me about the bed! That look in his eyes as he withdraws, grabs my ankles and flips me onto my belly, roughly forcing himself into me with a hand round my throat...phwoaaarrr!

Yep, I do like it rough

Peach x

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Quick and spontaneous

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By *ittlesub4uWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Rough sex and dominant partners yes but I don’t think it has anything to do with gender, I’m just bratty/submissive with anyone I fancy

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I like making them squeal."

Thought of the film Deliverance when I read this.

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By *wizzlenipsMan
over a year ago

Newport

"I like making them squeal."

You promised not to tell anyone

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I like it because she likes it

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Cause it feels good, if it’s done right by the right man "
this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's more natural a I like primal sex both me and women fighting for dom with playful grunt and growling ,biting ,scratching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cause it feels good, if it’s done right by the right man this.

"
you might find in Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough sex is not Alpha, it's just rough.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I like making them squeal.

You promised not to tell anyone

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

It has its place and is fun with consenting people who enjoy

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

To be fair I don't call it rough sex.. I call it Primal sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair I don't call it rough sex.. I call it Primal sex "
grrr

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rough sex is not Alpha, it's just rough."

To be fair I hate the term alpha / beta, but I figured it may be useful of a descriptor of the kind of traits that are commonly associated with the rougher end of sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be fair I don't call it rough sex.. I call it Primal sex "

I like the term primal. I should've defined what I meant by rouh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ever start that way, it develops- getting carried away, passionate, lustful, animalistic, primal, reactive. I discuss boundaries before hand. For me degradation of any kind isn't how I play.

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

No as we prefer sensual erotic sex.

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