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By *anOnFire69 OP   Man
over a year ago

The bedroom

Had a wink. Thanked the couple for the wink, said I liked their pics and asked if I could help them in any way with a winky face.

I get a reply saying that hubby isn't bi and so not interested.

My message gets deleted (fair enough)

I delete theirs and move on.

Next I get a reply saying how impolite I am for not acknowledging their last message.

Then they block me so I cant even apologise.

Really?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Nowt as queer as folk

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

High maintenance. They probably wanted it on gold embossed paper signed in blood and stamped with the end of your cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a wink. Thanked the couple for the wink, said I liked their pics and asked if I could help them in any way with a winky face.

I get a reply saying that hubby isn't bi and so not interested.

My message gets deleted (fair enough)

I delete theirs and move on.

Next I get a reply saying how impolite I am for not acknowledging their last message.

Then they block me so I cant even apologise.

Really? "

Honestly. Forget and move on. There will be more times people blow your mind on here and not in a good way.

Obviously ass’s so you’ve they did you a massive favour!

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By *uniperjuiceMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

There's no clear etiquette defined, so people have to work on judgement about expectations. And because we're all so varied in our expectations it's sometimes hard to judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nowt as queer as folk "

No he wasn’t bi

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just had something similar... fabbed a few pictures on a couples profile.. noticed that they said don't hesitate to drop us a message...said how nice the pictures were...got a she's not interested in you and a block...FFS they're 150 miles away...I'm not interested in meeting them either ...i want my fabs back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no clear etiquette defined, so people have to work on judgement about expectations. And because we're all so varied in our expectations it's sometimes hard to judge."

This mixed in with the anonymity of the Internet can cause all kinds of confusion.

Polite for one tends to be rude for another.

Acknowledging a reply is acceptable for some, just leaving it and never thinking of it again works for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we get blocked we just think oh well never mind lol x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Weird or rude people blocking me is a gift they don't know they're giving me.

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By *anOnFire69 OP   Man
over a year ago

The bedroom

Thanks guys. I'm never actually impolite.

I just moved on quietly. Sounds like they were stuck up their own arse.

Or at least something was. Though he was straight. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys. I'm never actually impolite.

I just moved on quietly. Sounds like they were stuck up their own arse.

Or at least something was. Though he was straight. Lol"

Honestly really don't worry about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a nice chat with a women on here, we exchanged pictures we were both happy. Had a nice chat,even added on kik, next day I was blocked hid her profile and something strange happend? A man messaged me and asked if I had any luck with women on here, I said a few added a women on kik? He said what’s her name? I said I can’t tell you that? He said that’s my wife the dirty .... and blocked me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP issue is common, females, couples have their pick of the crop and sometimes just "don't read profiles" (funny that lol), so when you responded, that's when they looed realised their mistake (not mine I am bisexual lol) and didn't want to lose face, hence they way they reacted - I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"High maintenance. They probably wanted it on gold embossed paper signed in blood and stamped with the end of your cock.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"High maintenance. They probably wanted it on gold embossed paper signed in blood and stamped with the end of your cock.

"

I’m amazed how many shitty replies I get on here when I’m always polite and honest. Some serious bi polar people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a wink. Thanked the couple for the wink, said I liked their pics and asked if I could help them in any way with a winky face.

I get a reply saying that hubby isn't bi and so not interested.

My message gets deleted (fair enough)

I delete theirs and move on.

Next I get a reply saying how impolite I am for not acknowledging their last message.

Then they block me so I cant even apologise.

Really?

Honestly. Forget and move on. There will be more times people blow your mind on here and not in a good way.

Obviously ass’s so you’ve they did you a massive favour! "

There are loads of people and couples like that though. Theybasknfor honesty and when you are they judge you and send a shitagram

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"High maintenance. They probably wanted it on gold embossed paper signed in blood and stamped with the end of your cock.

I’m amazed how many shitty replies I get on here when I’m always polite and honest. Some serious bi polar people on here "

Please don't use an illness as an insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP issue is common, females, couples have their pick of the crop and sometimes just "don't read profiles" (funny that lol), so when you responded, that's when they looed realised their mistake (not mine I am bisexual lol) and didn't want to lose face, hence they way they reacted - I guess "

They are the first to judge if you don’t read theirs though. And critisise having a cock profile pic when neither of them are showing their faces on there’s. Double standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only time our block button gets hit is when we're invited to play as singles or people won't take a polite no as an answer, other than that we think we're nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a wink. Thanked the couple for the wink, said I liked their pics and asked if I could help them in any way with a winky face.

I get a reply saying that hubby isn't bi and so not interested.

My message gets deleted (fair enough)

I delete theirs and move on.

Next I get a reply saying how impolite I am for not acknowledging their last message.

Then they block me so I cant even apologise.

Really? "

Shur, why would you want to apologise? Forget that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just forget it.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Sounds high maintenance, don't worry about it. I tend to use blocking as a way of not bugging people I've already contacted who have said no thanks. Nothing personal just I have a shit memory and don't want to be someone who sends annoying messages to people who have said no.

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