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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sitting right now in a hotel room I've paid for. Sexy night of fun planned. Great communication beforehand, seemed like a great fit sexually.

No show

Blocked

Won't answer her phone

That's the first time in ten years anything like that has happened. I'm very disappointed.

Has this sort of thing happen to anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, that’s shit OP.

Try arrange a last minute meet with someone else?

And no - never happened to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep often

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Write it off as an expensive wank and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that.

I've had people cancel but not normally at the last minute and never just not turn up and block me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad luck OP, rude behaviour imo. I got stood up today too, not a hotel meet though.

Post on the meets, I'm sure someone will snap you up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our very first meet was a no show ...then hubby was randomly assaulted on the way home ..we can laugh about it now ......

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

OP, it happens to more people than what you know. In fact it happened to us last month, and our plans for a hotel meet tonight fell apart too.

Chin up, there may still be someone else local.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Sorry to hear that OP, yes similar happened to us, many years ago, so after that, we always insisted on a social first.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Sitting right now in a hotel room I've paid for. Sexy night of fun planned. Great communication beforehand, seemed like a great fit sexually.

No show

Blocked

Won't answer her phone

That's the first time in ten years anything like that has happened. I'm very disappointed.

Has this sort of thing happen to anyone else? "

Happened to me OP. The person eventually got in touch and apologised.

Can be a multitude of reasons...

Try for a last min meet is my suggestion. It's a shame but also a risk sometimes. Fab can be an odd wee place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sitting right now in a hotel room I've paid for. Sexy night of fun planned. Great communication beforehand, seemed like a great fit sexually.

No show

Blocked

Won't answer her phone

That's the first time in ten years anything like that has happened. I'm very disappointed.

Has this sort of thing happen to anyone else? "

aww that's horrid..You could post a meet? But nobody wants to be a plan b but you've nothing to lose x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely post a 'meet today'.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

That's a bitch, no excuse short of hospitalisation for not letting someone know. Put a meet request up and a status saying you've been let down - you never know!

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By *ax_uk_2009Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

Have had a couple of coffee meet up no shows. I had driven for an hour and taken an afternoon off work. I was not too happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll take your advice and put up a meet. Stranger things have happened

Sorry for those who have shared a similar experience but it is nice to know I'm not alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that Op, honestly it happens to the best of us.

I've been here a few years and last week arranged a social. It turned out all his pics were fake and it made me feel such an idiot.

Put up a meet request, you might get lucky. I'm not sure if you could report her as a time waster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mid - week is not usually a great night for meets, but you have nothing to lose by trying a meet today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that OP....Her loss might be your gain in the meets section

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I only ever meet socially 1st ,but years ago was stood up by a bloke who had pestered to meet .

Had his number ,rang and texted but no reply,i blocked him...

It seems to happen alot lately op

Still report them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that buddy similar thing has happened to me a year ago hotel meet actually paid half’s and a no show what I thought was extremely strange.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My nan always used to say "there's nowt as queer as folk"

Homophobia aside, I think she may have been right.

Time to be 50% more sceptical

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