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By *inkysexpot OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

I'd like to think I'm being polite in messages I've sent and yet no reply. I have gathered women get inundated with messages and don't want to waste their time with replies when they aren't interested so I guess I'm wondering what is it women are looking for with the first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A first message can be anything as long as they find you attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bank details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ratio on here is very lop sided, so many woman just want the attraction before replying.

I have had a few replies and still chat now bt would say 98% of the time my messaged gets deleted.

It will happen you just have to keep plugging away

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There is no magic catch all formula OP - what may work for one person won't work for another kind of thing.

Quite often when people find they're not getting responses it's not their messages that are the root of the problem but their profile and pics, so take a look at yours to see if they could be improved in any way

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm always polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no magic first message formula. I've replied to all different types, it really depends on who is sending them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A first message can be anything as long as they find you attractive. "

That's why you've not replied?!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"A first message can be anything as long as they find you attractive. "

If they dont reply they dont find you attractive x

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

You need to look like Tom Hardy you then might get a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The message is more just like a 'hello this is my profile' as thats were people tend to go first before replying or not.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Technically any first message is a spam -so unless you feel like buying from verimaek, why not just lambast them with cruel revenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A first message can be anything as long as they find you attractive. "

This, try to make it as interesting as you can, but each woman is looking for a different first message. It is a bit of a gable knowing what each would like in a message but generally polite works.

The message is to get them to look at your profile, if they don't like your profile (or your pics) then it is not going to happen. Regardless of what the message said.

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By *inkysexpot OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Not a Tom hardy look alike I'm afraid and when your looking for something specific it's like a needle in a haystack isn't it. Can't really get across a good personality in a quick message either.

Thank you all for your input.

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