FabSwingers.com forum: Fake Outrage? Double standard!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think their outrage is fake. I think they really *are* angry that someone doesn't want to fuck them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No fat men : acceptable

No fat women : gosh what an cad!!

Has always been the way on here, always will..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

There's a flaw in this highly objective thread.

The women ( according to you ) ask for what they see as positive attributes in a man.

The men ( according to you ) mention negative things they don't want.

An abyss of difference.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

for objective read subjective

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

It's not fake outrage, it's real life online. Some things you have to send with flowers attached.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think their outrage is fake. I think they really *are* angry that someone doesn't want to fuck them. "

True actually, makes sense. I suppose “Selective outrage” would have been better wording on my behalf

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I prefer to state what I want - not what I don't want. So instead of "no short men" I put "I prefer men over 6ft".

If my preference then "offends" those outwith what I'm looking for, then honestly, I'd have to search high and low to find a fuck to give!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

There's a flaw in this highly objective thread.

The women ( according to you ) ask for what they see as positive attributes in a man.

The men ( according to you ) mention negative things they don't want.

An abyss of difference."

That’s actually quite an interesting point. It does look different that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

Women on here have got their likes and dislikes. It's only fair men should have their own. Everyone has an opinion that's fair enough as long as no-ones being nasty!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

There's a flaw in this highly objective thread.

The women ( according to you ) ask for what they see as positive attributes in a man.

The men ( according to you ) mention negative things they don't want.

An abyss of difference."

Oh Grann, you phrase it much nicer than I did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a funny ole game this swinging lark eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better to be a large girl than a large man on here.. At least if you're a girl you can find something they always do ... But large men we have 0% chance even if the woman is big themselves they don't want big men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love it if men were more honest about what their preferences are rather than wanting to meet ' women from 18-99 and it doesn't matter what they look like '

It just goes to show that a lot of men don't care who or what they're fucking.

I'm not offended when I read no fat women on a profile or no black women or whatever their preferences are.

It would be a refreshing change actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These kind of threads are boring and unhelpful to be honest.

Just so many threads bashing women and vice versa and it's unnecessary and unhelpful. Here's an idea why don't we stop moaning and just get on and have some fun!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

There's a flaw in this highly objective thread.

The women ( according to you ) ask for what they see as positive attributes in a man.

The men ( according to you ) mention negative things they don't want.

An abyss of difference.

Oh Grann, you phrase it much nicer than I did!

I know.... I'm sweet as syrup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

There's a flaw in this highly objective thread.

The women ( according to you ) ask for what they see as positive attributes in a man.

The men ( according to you ) mention negative things they don't want.

An abyss of difference."

Precisely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

Me neither.

I've seen people slated for the negative, rude way they word things, but everyone is entitled to their preferences.

I suspect that women are (for the most part anyway) generally less blunt about things when voicing opinions in forum threads though, whereas some men could use a better choice of words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

exactly because it's not that, that is normally said when an uproar is caused I've said it before and I will say it again "its not what you say, it's the way you say it".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

Me neither.

I've seen people slated for the negative, rude way they word things, but everyone is entitled to their preferences.

I suspect that women are (for the most part anyway) generally less blunt about things when voicing opinions in forum threads though, whereas some men could use a better choice of words.

What he said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's better to be a large girl than a large man on here.. At least if you're a girl you can find something they always do ... But large men we have 0% chance even if the woman is big themselves they don't want big men.

True. I'm too fat to have comfortable sex with a fat man, as I don't fit comfortable over his body, and they generally don't have much fitness or stamina.

The easier option for me is average to slim men, or slightly overweight. Even if I were slim my legs don't open wide enough to accommodate a large man, because of my arthritis and I can't have his body weight on me, because it's painful.

Me and fat men don't fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

I have, quite a few times and boy do they get slated for it. Those threads usually get pulled and the OPs go UNLOS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

I have, quite a few times and boy do they get slated for it. Those threads usually get pulled and the OPs go UNLOS."

Fuck I’m so unobservant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

Me neither. I see plenty profiles saying they prefer slim women. It’s a preference. I just move on if I see that. Why shouldn’t men have preferences too? I have loads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

I have, quite a few times and boy do they get slated for it. Those threads usually get pulled and the OPs go UNLOS."

It's normally because of the other comments that are posted on the threads but then become nasty. But I don't understand why there is a need to start a thread like that. I'm not saying it hasn't happened but I haven't seen a woman starting a thread saying I don't like overweight men!

Threads like that are generally put up simply to cause controversy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

I have, quite a few times and boy do they get slated for it. Those threads usually get pulled and the OPs go UNLOS.

Fuck I’m so unobservant "

Might have been before your time or a day you weren't on the forums. They usually get pulled pretty quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

I have, quite a few times and boy do they get slated for it. Those threads usually get pulled and the OPs go UNLOS.

Threads like that are generally put up simply to cause controversy. "

Exactly, that's why they get pulled. Women tend to moan about men's behaviour rather than their body preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

I have, quite a few times and boy do they get slated for it. Those threads usually get pulled and the OPs go UNLOS.

Fuck I’m so unobservant

Might have been before your time or a day you weren't on the forums. They usually get pulled pretty quickly. "

And rightly so because our profiles are for discussing preferences. I don't see the need for it on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grrrrrr

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

When cock is in short supply, fat men will be in demand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

I have, quite a few times and boy do they get slated for it. Those threads usually get pulled and the OPs go UNLOS.

Fuck I’m so unobservant

Might have been before your time or a day you weren't on the forums. They usually get pulled pretty quickly.

And rightly so because our profiles are for discussing preferences. I don't see the need for it on the forums. "

No need for a lot of moaning stuff that gets posted on here-and let's be honest, it's usually women moaning about men-but it's here. We can choose whether to read or ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When cock is in short supply, fat men will be in demand.

Or vibrator sales go up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

I have, quite a few times and boy do they get slated for it. Those threads usually get pulled and the OPs go UNLOS.

Fuck I’m so unobservant

Might have been before your time or a day you weren't on the forums. They usually get pulled pretty quickly.

And rightly so because our profiles are for discussing preferences. I don't see the need for it on the forums.

No need for a lot of moaning stuff that gets posted on here-and let's be honest, it's usually women moaning about men-but it's here. We can choose whether to read or ignore. "

I strongly disagree with that!

There are far more threats about how women are rude because they don't reply to messages ect then anything else.

the fact we choose what we read! I am fully aware of that I'm just saying that some of it is unacceptable. I like to think I put my point across without being rude or deliberately inflammatory but if I see an attitude that needs challenging I'm not afraid to challenge it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If women agree to stop moaning about blokes not reading their profiles, in return blokes will stop moaning when women delete them without a polite no thanks! Deal ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If women agree to stop moaning about blokes not reading their profiles, in return blokes will stop moaning when women delete them without a polite no thanks! Deal ?! "

Actually the problem would be sold his men did read the profile and didn't just send out the same message to 50 women. Or if they didn't just completely ignore what was on the profile I don't understand what is difficult about reading a profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

I’ve never seen an uproar on the forums because a man has said he isn’t into overweight women

I have, quite a few times and boy do they get slated for it. Those threads usually get pulled and the OPs go UNLOS."

I've seen plenty too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If women agree to stop moaning about blokes not reading their profiles, in return blokes will stop moaning when women delete them without a polite no thanks! Deal ?!

Most of the men on here are still

Struggling with the Hungry Caterpillar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If women agree to stop moaning about blokes not reading their profiles, in return blokes will stop moaning when women delete them without a polite no thanks! Deal ?!

Most of the men on here are still

Struggling with the Hungry Caterpillar! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mentioned I prefer slim women once in a thread, never again. Oh fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mentioned I prefer slim women once in a thread, never again. Oh fuck."

I remember that thread and that wasn't all you said though was it!

Like I've said many times nobody has a problem with people having preferences it's the little sly digs that go with it.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

There's a flaw in this highly objective thread.

The women ( according to you ) ask for what they see as positive attributes in a man.

The men ( according to you ) mention negative things they don't want.

An abyss of difference."

Very good point. That's the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's often how a preference is expressed that is the issue not the preference itself. And it's often (but by no means exclusively) men who express who express a preference by judging those who don't match it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer it when guys state preferences.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I think that the Green Arrows are fake.

Grr...cross face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences. "

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly. "

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads. "

And there my friend is the difference!

Starting an appreciation thread is positive.

Starting a thread saying I don't like overweight people is not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's expressing a preference and sounding like a twat when you express it.

For example:

I like my ladies petite so I can sweep you up in my arms and carry you to my budoir.

No fat birds. I only have a small fridge and can't afford to feed you.

Arguably someone may object to both, however the second comment is fabicide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

And there my friend is the difference!

Starting an appreciation thread is positive.

Starting a thread saying I don't like overweight people is not!

I’m glad we are friends now, but you start a slim women appreciation thread and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads. "

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

And there my friend is the difference!

Starting an appreciation thread is positive.

Starting a thread saying I don't like overweight people is not!

I’m glad we are friends now, but you start a slim women appreciation thread and see what happens. "

Again it's often how it is worded!

I commented on such a thread saying I quite like Slim men and I was told in no uncertain terms... women like me should not be allowed on a thread like this and I should stick to my Merry band of Desperate men!

So again I will say it's all about how things are worded nobody or very few people have a problem with somebody stating a preference it's how it's worded. There will always be people that object to any kind of preference thread and I'm not one of them I just don't like shaming and I also don't like it on BBW threads when men comment saying "I don't like skinny rakes or ironing boards" I think that is completely disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women. "

Start one then!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

And there my friend is the difference!

Starting an appreciation thread is positive.

Starting a thread saying I don't like overweight people is not!

I’m glad we are friends now, but you start a slim women appreciation thread and see what happens. "
You dare me

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"If women agree to stop moaning about blokes not reading their profiles, in return blokes will stop moaning when women delete them without a polite no thanks! Deal ?!

Most of the men on here are still

Struggling with the Hungry Caterpillar! "

Lol, I never moan about them not reading the profile, I just hit delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If women agree to stop moaning about blokes not reading their profiles, in return blokes will stop moaning when women delete them without a polite no thanks! Deal ?!

Most of the men on here are still

Struggling with the Hungry Caterpillar!

Lol, I never moan about them not reading the profile, I just hit delete

I do that too but it is bloody irritating. But I wouldn't start a thread about it.

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over a year ago

"It's often how a preference is expressed that is the issue not the preference itself. And it's often (but by no means exclusively) men who express who express a preference by judging those who don't match it"

Exactly

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

And there my friend is the difference!

Starting an appreciation thread is positive.

Starting a thread saying I don't like overweight people is not!

I’m glad we are friends now, but you start a slim women appreciation thread and see what happens. You dare me

You carry on!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

And there my friend is the difference!

Starting an appreciation thread is positive.

Starting a thread saying I don't like overweight people is not!

I’m glad we are friends now, but you start a slim women appreciation thread and see what happens. You dare me

You carry on!

"
You would love to see me digging

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

And there my friend is the difference!

Starting an appreciation thread is positive.

Starting a thread saying I don't like overweight people is not!

I’m glad we are friends now, but you start a slim women appreciation thread and see what happens. You dare me

You carry on!

You would love to see me digging

I’ll do one

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women. "

That's because everyone knows that, on the whole, slim women are thought to be more attractive. See the hot pics for proof.

Hence no need to make a point saying they're attractive.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

It’s because on Fab women have the power....drop to your knees big boy lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"If women agree to stop moaning about blokes not reading their profiles, in return blokes will stop moaning when women delete them without a polite no thanks! Deal ?!

Most of the men on here are still

Struggling with the Hungry Caterpillar!

Lol, I never moan about them not reading the profile, I just hit delete

I do that too but it is bloody irritating. But I wouldn't start a thread about it. "

Yeah, I don't even get irritated, its par for the course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If women agree to stop moaning about blokes not reading their profiles, in return blokes will stop moaning when women delete them without a polite no thanks! Deal ?!

Most of the men on here are still

Struggling with the Hungry Caterpillar!

Lol, I never moan about them not reading the profile, I just hit delete

I do that too but it is bloody irritating. But I wouldn't start a thread about it. "

I never read profiles, who’s got time for that shit, I just guess what the special word in the title is and jobs a good’un!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

And there my friend is the difference!

Starting an appreciation thread is positive.

Starting a thread saying I don't like overweight people is not!

I’m glad we are friends now, but you start a slim women appreciation thread and see what happens. You dare me

You carry on!

You would love to see me digging

I’ll do one

"
Who's gonna pull the trigger?

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

And there my friend is the difference!

Starting an appreciation thread is positive.

Starting a thread saying I don't like overweight people is not!

I’m glad we are friends now, but you start a slim women appreciation thread and see what happens. You dare me

You carry on!

You would love to see me digging

I’ll do one

Who's gonna pull the trigger?

You have just proved my and many other people's points on this thread by starting that why would you deliberately be so divisive. I know I'm going to get told there are BBW appreciation threads and that is the point none of those say that certain body shapes are not welcome absolutely ridiculous that you've done that.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

And there my friend is the difference!

Starting an appreciation thread is positive.

Starting a thread saying I don't like overweight people is not!

I’m glad we are friends now, but you start a slim women appreciation thread and see what happens. You dare me

You carry on!

You would love to see me digging

I’ll do one

Who's gonna pull the trigger?

Ah fuck , you beat me to it

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

And there my friend is the difference!

Starting an appreciation thread is positive.

Starting a thread saying I don't like overweight people is not!

I’m glad we are friends now, but you start a slim women appreciation thread and see what happens. You dare me

You carry on!

You would love to see me digging

I’ll do one

Who's gonna pull the trigger?

Ah fuck , you beat me to it

Really you would have started a thread with a heading like that?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

And there my friend is the difference!

Starting an appreciation thread is positive.

Starting a thread saying I don't like overweight people is not!

I’m glad we are friends now, but you start a slim women appreciation thread and see what happens. You dare me

You carry on!

You would love to see me digging

I’ll do one

Who's gonna pull the trigger?

Ah fuck , you beat me to it

"
Always 1st me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's completely different. If someone said no small cocks or short men, i could understand. Stating what you want is different to what you don't want. If someone said 'only looking for slim ladies', that's completely different to saying no overweight/fat people.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Sometimes I get the feeling some guys on here think a woman must let him fuck her just because he mailed them. Threads like this confirm that and back up the theory many men think women shouldn't have a choice who fucks them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody has preference, but wording in a negative fashion is what I disagree with

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over a year ago

"Everybody has preference, but wording in a negative fashion is what I disagree with

Exactly like the one that has just been started and it is just offensive.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Everybody has preference, but wording in a negative fashion is what I disagree with

Exactly like the one that has just been started and it is just offensive. "
Fat is just an adjective. I bet you have called a big man fat before.

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over a year ago

"Everybody has preference, but wording in a negative fashion is what I disagree with

Exactly like the one that has just been started and it is just offensive. Fat is just an adjective. I bet you have called a big man fat before."

I would not start a thread suggesting that certain types of people are not welcome on it which is exactly what you've done and you know you have!

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

That's because everyone knows that, on the whole, slim women are thought to be more attractive. See the hot pics for proof.

Hence no need to make a point saying they're attractive. "

Don't they need some forum love too?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Everybody has preference, but wording in a negative fashion is what I disagree with

Exactly like the one that has just been started and it is just offensive. Fat is just an adjective. I bet you have called a big man fat before.

I would not start a thread suggesting that certain types of people are not welcome on it which is exactly what you've done and you know you have!"
Curvy is often misinterpreted for fat on here though. Just being clear.

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over a year ago

"Everybody has preference, but wording in a negative fashion is what I disagree with

Exactly like the one that has just been started and it is just offensive. Fat is just an adjective. I bet you have called a big man fat before.

I would not start a thread suggesting that certain types of people are not welcome on it which is exactly what you've done and you know you have! Curvy is often misinterpreted for fat on here though. Just being clear."

You're not stupid you know exactly what you're doing.

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

That's because everyone knows that, on the whole, slim women are thought to be more attractive. See the hot pics for proof.

Hence no need to make a point saying they're attractive.

Don't they need some forum love too?"

Nobody is saying no I don't but if you just look at the comments on this thread as already just been started it's not about appreciating slim women it's about putting down larger women look for yourself

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over a year ago

"Everybody has preference, but wording in a negative fashion is what I disagree with

Exactly like the one that has just been started and it is just offensive. Fat is just an adjective. I bet you have called a big man fat before.

I'm gonna sit my fat arse on your face if you don't trap it

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

That's because everyone knows that, on the whole, slim women are thought to be more attractive. See the hot pics for proof.

Hence no need to make a point saying they're attractive.

Don't they need some forum love too?

It's because the slim women are feeling unloved. They need smoke up their arse too

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

That's because everyone knows that, on the whole, slim women are thought to be more attractive. See the hot pics for proof.

Hence no need to make a point saying they're attractive.

Don't they need some forum love too?

It's because the slim women are feeling unloved. They need smoke up their arse too

That's just ridiculous. So because about twice a week there is a thread saying men like larger ladies that is not blowing smoke up anyone's ass. But like I said I read the thread it is not appreciating slimming ladies it is putting down larger ones which is what always happens on those threads.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Everybody has preference, but wording in a negative fashion is what I disagree with

Exactly like the one that has just been started and it is just offensive. Fat is just an adjective. I bet you have called a big man fat before.

You're not stupid you know exactly what you're doing. "
Stating a preference?

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over a year ago

"Everybody has preference, but wording in a negative fashion is what I disagree with

Exactly like the one that has just been started and it is just offensive. Fat is just an adjective. I bet you have called a big man fat before.

You're not stupid you know exactly what you're doing. Stating a preference?"

You haven't stated any preference!

You have said slim to curvy women show yourselves not fat women it there is no preference there!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Everybody has preference, but wording in a negative fashion is what I disagree with

Exactly like the one that has just been started and it is just offensive. Fat is just an adjective. I bet you have called a big man fat before.

You're not stupid you know exactly what you're doing. Stating a preference?

You haven't stated any preference!

You have said slim to curvy women show yourselves not fat women it there is no preference there!

"
The preference is no fat women

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over a year ago

"Everybody has preference, but wording in a negative fashion is what I disagree with

Exactly like the one that has just been started and it is just offensive. Fat is just an adjective. I bet you have called a big man fat before.

You're not stupid you know exactly what you're doing. Stating a preference?

You haven't stated any preference!

You have said slim to curvy women show yourselves not fat women it there is no preference there!

The preference is no fat women

But why did you need to even out that you're just deliberately being offensive.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Everyone has the right to choose who they meet, chat to or block I really don't see the issue if you don't like someone profile just block them for god sake moaning about it just makes you look petulant and petty.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Everybody has preference, but wording in a negative fashion is what I disagree with

Exactly like the one that has just been started and it is just offensive. Fat is just an adjective. I bet you have called a big man fat before.

You're not stupid you know exactly what you're doing. Stating a preference?

You haven't stated any preference!

You have said slim to curvy women show yourselves not fat women it there is no preference there!

The preference is no fat women

But why did you need to even out that you're just deliberately being offensive."
No just being clear because curvy is under a big umbrella on here.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If that is your preference then fine what I would suggest is that you don't go shouting about it on the forums, put it on your profile and leave it at that.

Unless you are attention seeking.

As has been said on numerous posts just recently double standards abound on and always will but it is your body and your decision who you choose to meet and that is all that needs to matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey wtf is going on here. This place is getting more like bloody Facebook every day. Why does everyone take things so seriously?! I’m overweight. I am what I am. I don’t get offended by appreciation threads. Chill out people!

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

That's because everyone knows that, on the whole, slim women are thought to be more attractive. See the hot pics for proof.

Hence no need to make a point saying they're attractive. "

So it's not because they usually get negative responses, as stated by several posters?

I'm not including deliberate incendiary posts BTW. Just a simple inoffensive statement of preference.

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over a year ago

"Blimey wtf is going on here. This place is getting more like bloody Facebook every day. Why does everyone take things so seriously?! I’m overweight. I am what I am. I don’t get offended by appreciation threads. Chill out people!"

Yes, let’s make love not war!

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Married "single" female = no problem whatsoever.

Married "single" male = bastard heathen from hell.

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

That's because everyone knows that, on the whole, slim women are thought to be more attractive. See the hot pics for proof.

Hence no need to make a point saying they're attractive.

Don't they need some forum love too?

It's because the slim women are feeling unloved. They need smoke up their arse too

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women. "

Those threads pop up sometimes but non-slim women make bitchy comments and ruin them.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

Those threads pop up sometimes but non-slim women make bitchy comments and ruin them. "

Any thread about size Is a minefield. Someone has to come in with a smart arse comment. It is a pity that we can't all play nice, then I remember that it's the forums

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

Those threads pop up sometimes but non-slim women make bitchy comments and ruin them.

Any thread about size Is a minefield. Someone has to come in with a smart arse comment. It is a pity that we can't all play nice, then I remember that it's the forums

Any thread about any subject is a minefield. "What's your favourite cheese" would no doubt end in a brawl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You’ve misunderstood and misconstrued my point completely. My observation is that when men have something like “no fat women” on their profile, it’s considered gross and they are often the butt of criticism. However, when women have the equivocal “no fat men” there’s no problem with it because - rightfully so - it’s their choice. My (implicit) point wasn’t to say women shouldn’t be allowed to say that, rather, it was that men should be treated with the same likeness when they express themselves as such. Nice try though.

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

Those threads pop up sometimes but non-slim women make bitchy comments and ruin them.

Any thread about size Is a minefield. Someone has to come in with a smart arse comment. It is a pity that we can't all play nice, then I remember that it's the forums

Any thread about any subject is a minefield. "What's your favourite cheese" would no doubt end in a brawl.

Hahahaha so true

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

Those threads pop up sometimes but non-slim women make bitchy comments and ruin them.

Any thread about size Is a minefield. Someone has to come in with a smart arse comment. It is a pity that we can't all play nice, then I remember that it's the forums

Any thread about any subject is a minefield. "What's your favourite cheese" would no doubt end in a brawl.

It so would!

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

Those threads pop up sometimes but non-slim women make bitchy comments and ruin them.

Any thread about size Is a minefield. Someone has to come in with a smart arse comment. It is a pity that we can't all play nice, then I remember that it's the forums

Any thread about any subject is a minefield. "What's your favourite cheese" would no doubt end in a brawl.

It so would!

Smoked cheese for me

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

Those threads pop up sometimes but non-slim women make bitchy comments and ruin them.

Any thread about size Is a minefield. Someone has to come in with a smart arse comment. It is a pity that we can't all play nice, then I remember that it's the forums

Any thread about any subject is a minefield. "What's your favourite cheese" would no doubt end in a brawl.

"
Any fucker that doesn't like halloumi is gonna get it.

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

Those threads pop up sometimes but non-slim women make bitchy comments and ruin them.

Any thread about size Is a minefield. Someone has to come in with a smart arse comment. It is a pity that we can't all play nice, then I remember that it's the forums

Any thread about any subject is a minefield. "What's your favourite cheese" would no doubt end in a brawl.

Any fucker that doesn't like halloumi is gonna get it.

Halloumi on the bbq

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

Those threads pop up sometimes but non-slim women make bitchy comments and ruin them.

Any thread about size Is a minefield. Someone has to come in with a smart arse comment. It is a pity that we can't all play nice, then I remember that it's the forums

Any thread about any subject is a minefield. "What's your favourite cheese" would no doubt end in a brawl.

Any fucker that doesn't like halloumi is gonna get it.

Halloumi on the bbq

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over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

Those threads pop up sometimes but non-slim women make bitchy comments and ruin them.

Any thread about size Is a minefield. Someone has to come in with a smart arse comment. It is a pity that we can't all play nice, then I remember that it's the forums

Any thread about any subject is a minefield. "What's your favourite cheese" would no doubt end in a brawl.

It so would!

Smoked cheese for me

Yes! None of that mouldy looking shit though

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Never noticed however have seen no ugly people haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never noticed however have seen no ugly people haha"

What about ugly cheese though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never noticed however have seen no ugly people haha

What about ugly cheese though?"

I just had an awful vision then. Thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’ve misunderstood and misconstrued my point completely. My observation is that when men have something like “no fat women” on their profile, it’s considered gross and they are often the butt of criticism. However, when women have the equivocal “no fat men” there’s no problem with it because - rightfully so - it’s their choice. My (implicit) point wasn’t to say women shouldn’t be allowed to say that, rather, it was that men should be treated with the same likeness when they express themselves as such. Nice try though.

That's cos women are sensitive and need to be handled with kid gloves, and men are hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never noticed however have seen no ugly people haha

What about ugly cheese though?

I just had an awful vision then. Thanks for that

Was it knob related?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never noticed however have seen no ugly people haha

What about ugly cheese though?

I just had an awful vision then. Thanks for that

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

That's cos women are sensitive and need to be handled with kid gloves, and men are hard."
Hard as nails me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's cos women are sensitive and need to be handled with kid gloves, and men are hard. Hard as nails me.

See, he wouldn't care if someone said he was average

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

That's cos women are sensitive and need to be handled with kid gloves, and men are hard. Hard as nails me.

See, he wouldn't care if someone said he was average

"
Nah, punched above my weight several times. I have other talents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's cos women are sensitive and need to be handled with kid gloves, and men are hard. Hard as nails me.

See, he wouldn't care if someone said he was average

Nah, punched above my weight several times. I have other talents.

Me too. There's always some desperate hot, young man on my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now this is just hurtful now. I love cheese, but I have to have dairy free now and it doesn’t satisfy me the same way.and as for cake, stop taunting me! So I demand a thread for the people who love dairy and flour based food but can’t have them- the dreaded gluten intolerant!! (Insert dramatic “dun, dun, dun!) And as for the beefcakes, I can’t eat red meat!! The prejudice here, against bland food eaters is astounding!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now this is just hurtful now. I love cheese, but I have to have dairy free now and it doesn’t satisfy me the same way.and as for cake, stop taunting me! So I demand a thread for the people who love dairy and flour based food but can’t have them- the dreaded gluten intolerant!! (Insert dramatic “dun, dun, dun!) And as for the beefcakes, I can’t eat red meat!! The prejudice here, against bland food eaters is astounding!! xx "

With you!! Dairy, gluten and fish free.. its torture!!

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Never noticed however have seen no ugly people haha

What about ugly cheese though?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

yes makes me lol a lot,,i mean I really laugh

its cringworthy tbh

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

That's cos women are sensitive and need to be handled with kid gloves, and men are hard. Hard as nails me.

See, he wouldn't care if someone said he was average

Nah, punched above my weight several times. I have other talents.

Me too. There's always some desperate hot, young man on my case

"
Good for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw, I’m not starting one, how dull would that be!! I’m just going to sit in a corner, nibbling on lettuce, daydreaming about a slice of chocolate cake xx I just like to complain about being offended xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With you!! Dairy, gluten and fish free.. its torture!!"

God yes!! I’m surprised I can even give oral tbh, as that obviously means me having something in my mouth, and swallowing something at some point! Haha xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahahaha, eating almost or completely vegan doesn’t have to be bland and boring! Check out BoshTV; they have lots of free recipes online that are soooo tasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahaha, eating almost or completely vegan doesn’t have to be bland and boring! Check out BoshTV; they have lots of free recipes online that are soooo tasty

I don’t like spicy, beans, pulses or peppers though, so can they cater for completely unreasonable people like me? Haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

Those threads pop up sometimes but non-slim women make bitchy comments and ruin them.

Any thread about size Is a minefield. Someone has to come in with a smart arse comment. It is a pity that we can't all play nice, then I remember that it's the forums

Any thread about any subject is a minefield. "What's your favourite cheese" would no doubt end in a brawl.

Any fucker that doesn't like halloumi is gonna get it.

Is that the posh word for cock cheese?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

Those threads pop up sometimes but non-slim women make bitchy comments and ruin them.

Any thread about size Is a minefield. Someone has to come in with a smart arse comment. It is a pity that we can't all play nice, then I remember that it's the forums

Any thread about any subject is a minefield. "What's your favourite cheese" would no doubt end in a brawl.

Any fucker that doesn't like halloumi is gonna get it.

Is that the posh word for cock cheese?"
hope not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer it when guys state preferences.

So do i it's always very off putting when a guy just has on his profile, up for anything looks and size not important.

The only thing I don't like is when threads are started about it because they always just turn ugly.

Seen plenty of women start BBW appreciation threads.

It's interesting that there aren't as many appreciation threads for slim women.

Those threads pop up sometimes but non-slim women make bitchy comments and ruin them.

Any thread about size Is a minefield. Someone has to come in with a smart arse comment. It is a pity that we can't all play nice, then I remember that it's the forums

Any thread about any subject is a minefield. "What's your favourite cheese" would no doubt end in a brawl.

Any fucker that doesn't like halloumi is gonna get it.

Is that the posh word for cock cheese?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahahaha, eating almost or completely vegan doesn’t have to be bland and boring! Check out BoshTV; they have lots of free recipes online that are soooo tasty

I don’t like spicy, beans, pulses or peppers though, so can they cater for completely unreasonable people like me? Haha xx "

Oh wow... then you deserve the bland lifestyle! Haha, only kidding! I’m sure they do tbh, they have a YouTube channel with literally hundreds of recipes. It’s great because I avoid dairy and I can still enjoy Mac & Cheese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. It is double standards. Often by the same people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahaha, eating almost or completely vegan doesn’t have to be bland and boring! Check out BoshTV; they have lots of free recipes online that are soooo tasty

I don’t like spicy, beans, pulses or peppers though, so can they cater for completely unreasonable people like me? Haha xx

Do you have the link? My friend is coeliacs and struggles with tasty gluten free recipes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahahaha, eating almost or completely vegan doesn’t have to be bland and boring! Check out BoshTV; they have lots of free recipes online that are soooo tasty

I don’t like spicy, beans, pulses or peppers though, so can they cater for completely unreasonable people like me? Haha xx

Do you have the link? My friend is coeliacs and struggles with tasty gluten free recipes

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqmn-vEmYbZ4wqMHt2ndZdQ There you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahaha, eating almost or completely vegan doesn’t have to be bland and boring! Check out BoshTV; they have lots of free recipes online that are soooo tasty

I don’t like spicy, beans, pulses or peppers though, so can they cater for completely unreasonable people like me? Haha xx

Do you have the link? My friend is coeliacs and struggles with tasty gluten free recipes

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqmn-vEmYbZ4wqMHt2ndZdQ There you go

Thank you lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahaha, eating almost or completely vegan doesn’t have to be bland and boring! Check out BoshTV; they have lots of free recipes online that are soooo tasty

I don’t like spicy, beans, pulses or peppers though, so can they cater for completely unreasonable people like me? Haha xx

Do you have the link? My friend is coeliacs and struggles with tasty gluten free recipes

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqmn-vEmYbZ4wqMHt2ndZdQ There you go

Thank you!! I’m actually not outraged anymore. You’ve restored my faith in humanity (well, maybe not all of it, but a bit at least) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

There's a flaw in this highly objective thread.

The women ( according to you ) ask for what they see as positive attributes in a man.

The men ( according to you ) mention negative things they don't want.

An abyss of difference."

Well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't agree with having a checklist of how a person body/ height hair colour etc should be, we are all on here for fun you ain't gonna marry the people you meet or have their babies.... I mean I get that we have to find others attractive to get in bed with them but it really gets pathetic at times

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"If women agree to stop moaning about blokes not reading their profiles, in return blokes will stop moaning when women delete them without a polite no thanks! Deal ?!

Most of the men on here are still

Struggling with the Hungry Caterpillar! "

And that's because half of them are trying to fit their dicks through the holes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If women agree to stop moaning about blokes not reading their profiles, in return blokes will stop moaning when women delete them without a polite no thanks! Deal ?!

Most of the men on here are still

Struggling with the Hungry Caterpillar!

And that's because half of them are trying to fit their dicks through the holes..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

Or, wait.....haven’t you just brought attention to those who have details on their profiles.

What’s it to you what others are doing?

Forget it it op, leave people alone and get on with your own thing.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

People can ask for whatever is their preference but then people should also be accepting of others preferences without criticism. Gender is immaterial.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

As an overweight woman myself can’t say I’ve been outraged seeing such things on a guys profile. I see it as a positive thing my times not been wasted messaging him to find out I’m not what he wants in a woman

I not even offended when I see them express their preferences in a derogatory way “not into skin and bones” or “don’t messaged me if you look like a beached whale” I just think myself “jeez you’re doing yourself not favors mate

But I’m also not a woman that makes demands on her profile mines a FAQs sarcastic puss take on all the questions a majority (not all) of guys seem to ask in a first message

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

There's a flaw in this highly objective thread.

The women ( according to you ) ask for what they see as positive attributes in a man.

The men ( according to you ) mention negative things they don't want.

An abyss of difference."

He's a glass half empty guy it seems

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

There's a flaw in this highly objective thread.

The women ( according to you ) ask for what they see as positive attributes in a man.

The men ( according to you ) mention negative things they don't want.

An abyss of difference.

He's a glass half empty guy it seems"
My glass of cyanide is always half full thanks.

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

"When cock is in short supply, fat men will be in demand.

Or vibrator sales go up.

Exactly that. I don't think women are as inclined as some men are to lower their standards just because they're horny. I've never heard of women going "moose hunting" for instance.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"When cock is in short supply, fat men will be in demand.

Or vibrator sales go up.

Exactly that. I don't think women are as inclined as some men are to lower their standards just because they're horny. I've never heard of women going "moose hunting" for instance. "

Every day's a school day! I've never heard that expression before so looked it up. Charming!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

suck it Up Buttercup..

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I prefer to state what I want - not what I don't want. So instead of "no short men" I put "I prefer men over 6ft".

If my preference then "offends" those outwith what I'm looking for, then honestly, I'd have to search high and low to find a fuck to give!"

Regardez le champs ou je cultive mon baise, c'est stèrile.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't think I've ever "gone off" about something like that.

Had plenty of guys "go off" at me because I declined politely....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone notice how it’s accepted as the norm for women to have things like; “Must be 6 foot tall, must have abs, must be VWE, must not be hairy must blah blah blah” and there’s no problem.

But when a guy has “not into overweight women” he becomes the centre of attention for a lot of forum threads here and gets called a pig?

Just an observation

Or, wait.....haven’t you just brought attention to those who have details on their profiles.

What’s it to you what others are doing?

Forget it it op, leave people alone and get on with your own thing.

“Just an observation”

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"When cock is in short supply, fat men will be in demand.

So will gunt lifters and magnifying glasses.

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

"When cock is in short supply, fat men will be in demand.

So will gunt lifters and magnifying glasses."

I didn't know men could have "gunts"!

i thought it was literally when fat women's tummies merg into their cunts! Everydays a school day!

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