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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would like to apologise for anyone that received messages from me yesterday that they didn't like. It was my mates birthday and we drank from 12pm, I showed them this site when i was d*unk and they messaged some ladies to tell them how sexy we thought they were. If anyone took offence to that i am sorry but well I guess it is partially your own fault for being so hot and putting up such great pics

I think we are all still d*unk now, but sorry again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well maybe you should mail them and say .. or have thay blocked you ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

pffft well you didnt mail me even with your beer goggles on

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I am deeply offended and disgusted - they didn't mail me. Or is that only when it's your birthday

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington


"I would like to apologise for anyone that received messages from me yesterday that they didn't like. It was my mates birthday and we drank from 12pm, I showed them this site when i was d*unk and they messaged some ladies to tell them how sexy we thought they were. If anyone took offence to that i am sorry but well I guess it is partially your own fault for being so hot and putting up such great pics

I think we are all still d*unk now, but sorry again!"

I you feel apologies may be necessary, once you're sober...look in your sent messages box and re-message according

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

It wasn't just ladies you mailed xxx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"It wasn't just ladies you mailed xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3/4 of an hour I waited by the clock as well, timewaster

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Just in case there is a humour failure, make your own conclusions

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Hmmmmm it makes you wonder,why do those poor single males,get a reputation for being indiscreet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"pffft well you didnt mail me even with your beer goggles on "

You dont come up in my search because i am out of your age range otherwise you sure as hell would have got messaged!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am deeply offended and disgusted - they didn't mail me. Or is that only when it's your birthday "

yeah you have had your message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would like to apologise for anyone that received messages from me yesterday that they didn't like. It was my mates birthday and we drank from 12pm, I showed them this site when i was d*unk and they messaged some ladies to tell them how sexy we thought they were. If anyone took offence to that i am sorry but well I guess it is partially your own fault for being so hot and putting up such great pics

I think we are all still d*unk now, but sorry again!

I you feel apologies may be necessary, once you're sober...look in your sent messages box and re-message according "

DAMN another sexy lady that I am out of their age range

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It wasn't just ladies you mailed xxx"

Haha I wasn't THAT d*unk!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"3/4 of an hour I waited by the clock as well, timewaster

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Just in case there is a humour failure, make your own conclusions "

Haha my bad!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmmmmm it makes you wonder,why do those poor single males,get a reputation for being indiscreet.

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My bad for bringing down the single males

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also... everyone excpet one person loved the messages... that other one person blocked me! Oops!

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

Just went running to my inbox....

Absolutely naff all

I'll sit in the ugly/unsexy corner on my own, with a paper bag over me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just went running to my inbox....

Absolutely naff all

I'll sit in the ugly/unsexy corner on my own, with a paper bag over me "

Get out that corner and get the paper bag off... you are HOT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So erm where was ours lol!

I have to hide my phone when i am d*unk lol!

Drink and texts don't mix

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Hmmmmm it makes you wonder,why do those poor single males,get a reputation for being indiscreet.

My bad for bringing down the single males"

You didnt bring them down,you just reinforced their reputation for indiscretion.

When your out with your mates,do you also point out previous meets,and rate them as to how much of a whore they were.

Whilst enhancing your reputation,as a shagger.

Your any couples worst nightmare,a single guy who cant keep it shut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmmm it makes you wonder,why do those poor single males,get a reputation for being indiscreet.

My bad for bringing down the single males

You didnt bring them down,you just reinforced their reputation for indiscretion.

When your out with your mates,do you also point out previous meets,and rate them as to how much of a whore they were.

Whilst enhancing your reputation,as a shagger.

Your any couples worst nightmare,a single guy who cant keep it shut."

Im being thick here now cos I dont see how he has done this all I can see is someone who knows he made a mistake and has taken the time to apologise , he hasnt mentioned any names or anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmmmmm it makes you wonder,why do those poor single males,get a reputation for being indiscreet.

My bad for bringing down the single males

You didnt bring them down,you just reinforced their reputation for indiscretion.

When your out with your mates,do you also point out previous meets,and rate them as to how much of a whore they were.

Whilst enhancing your reputation,as a shagger.

Your any couples worst nightmare,a single guy who cant keep it shut.

Im being thick here now cos I dont see how he has done this all I can see is someone who knows he made a mistake and has taken the time to apologise , he hasnt mentioned any names or anything "

Thank you for your support

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So erm where was ours lol!

I have to hide my phone when i am d*unk lol!

Drink and texts don't mix"

Trust me if i had seen that wife the message would have been sent!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmmmmm it makes you wonder,why do those poor single males,get a reputation for being indiscreet.

My bad for bringing down the single males

You didnt bring them down,you just reinforced their reputation for indiscretion.

When your out with your mates,do you also point out previous meets,and rate them as to how much of a whore they were.

Whilst enhancing your reputation,as a shagger.

Your any couples worst nightmare,a single guy who cant keep it shut."

You are making a big deal out of nothing here!! No i dont point out any meets or rate them... im not a 15 yr old school boy! Yes I was d*unk and my mates saw the site... anyone could view the site and the people on it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmmm it makes you wonder,why do those poor single males,get a reputation for being indiscreet.

My bad for bringing down the single males

You didnt bring them down,you just reinforced their reputation for indiscretion.

When your out with your mates,do you also point out previous meets,and rate them as to how much of a whore they were.

Whilst enhancing your reputation,as a shagger.

Your any couples worst nightmare,a single guy who cant keep it shut.

Im being thick here now cos I dont see how he has done this all I can see is someone who knows he made a mistake and has taken the time to apologise , he hasnt mentioned any names or anything

Thank you for your support"

your welcome but I am just a tad upset cos was no mail here either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't be happy if a guy i had been messaging showed all his mates the messages.

Not long ago a guy we were having a meet with asked to see the messages from other people, I point blank refused! There's no way I would have shown private messages to anyone that they were not intended for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmmm it makes you wonder,why do those poor single males,get a reputation for being indiscreet.

My bad for bringing down the single males

You didnt bring them down,you just reinforced their reputation for indiscretion.

When your out with your mates,do you also point out previous meets,and rate them as to how much of a whore they were.

Whilst enhancing your reputation,as a shagger.

Your any couples worst nightmare,a single guy who cant keep it shut."

have you never said things to your mates when you've had a drink that the morning after you wish you hadn't ?

i know i have

i see this as an extension of that

he might have pissed people off, he might have gotten himself on a few block lists, but he'll live, as i'm sure the people he contacted will too.

assuming the people he contacted had face pics then they are public, assuming they didn't, his mates were making comments on a random pair of tits or an arse

the only issue i would have is if he gave his friends access to private pics sent to him in confidence by people who prefer anonymity.

if u did that OP, as your name suggests, ur a very naughty boy !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn't be happy if a guy i had been messaging showed all his mates the messages.

Not long ago a guy we were having a meet with asked to see the messages from other people, I point blank refused! There's no way I would have shown private messages to anyone that they were not intended for."

This is why i apologised... i didnt show them people i had met or let them read my messages... all they did was browse members and send a couple of messages to people they thought were hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmmmmm it makes you wonder,why do those poor single males,get a reputation for being indiscreet.

My bad for bringing down the single males

You didnt bring them down,you just reinforced their reputation for indiscretion.

When your out with your mates,do you also point out previous meets,and rate them as to how much of a whore they were.

Whilst enhancing your reputation,as a shagger.

Your any couples worst nightmare,a single guy who cant keep it shut.

have you never said things to your mates when you've had a drink that the morning after you wish you hadn't ?

i know i have

i see this as an extension of that

he might have pissed people off, he might have gotten himself on a few block lists, but he'll live, as i'm sure the people he contacted will too.

assuming the people he contacted had face pics then they are public, assuming they didn't, his mates were making comments on a random pair of tits or an arse

the only issue i would have is if he gave his friends access to private pics sent to him in confidence by people who prefer anonymity.

if u did that OP, as your name suggests, ur a very naughty boy ! "

I most definitely did not! All i did was let them browse the members and send a couple of messages... they had given up and interest even before they got replies!! haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve all done silly things when d*unk, this is a very minor thing, and hats off for saying sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"weve all done silly things when d*unk, this is a very minor thing, and hats off for saying sorry"

Thank you, that is very nice to hear

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Blimey, if I apologised for all the completely stupid things I've done after a shandy or two, I'd have to pack in work to keep up! Well done to OP for being man enough to apologise, ticking off cos I didn't get a fecking message **chucks toys out of pram in disgust and blocks**

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blimey, if I apologised for all the completely stupid things I've done after a shandy or two, I'd have to pack in work to keep up! Well done to OP for being man enough to apologise, ticking off cos I didn't get a fecking message **chucks toys out of pram in disgust and blocks** "

Haha you have already had messages from me and not been interested :P

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"Hmmmmm it makes you wonder,why do those poor single males,get a reputation for being indiscreet.

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You think it is only single guys that let their friends have a look about???

I know of couples and single females that have shown others private pics to others...

Don't kid yourself on that it doesn't happen...

If the OP had given his friends free access to any pics/mail he has received do you think he would have came in here and brought it to our attention?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmmmmm it makes you wonder,why do those poor single males,get a reputation for being indiscreet.

You think it is only single guys that let their friends have a look about???

I know of couples and single females that have shown others private pics to others...

Don't kid yourself on that it doesn't happen...

If the OP had given his friends free access to any pics/mail he has received do you think he would have came in here and brought it to our attention?

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Thank you for your support

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never leave you computer unattended nxt to d*unks tu tut lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never leave you computer unattended nxt to d*unks tu tut lol "

My bad

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

We were a little disturbed at your intention with our three chihuahuas as foreplay. They're totally opposed to anal. We insist on a written apology.

Up the Gers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We were a little disturbed at your intention with our three chihuahuas as foreplay. They're totally opposed to anal. We insist on a written apology.

Up the Gers "

I am sorry but you know the truth comes out when you are d*unk! Haha! Love the Gers!

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Haha. Mrs FJ even pointed out a hoops crest on a profile that had messaged us saying there'd be no way we could have fun with them.

Only a game eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well when i get d*unk (female here), i go on cam and expose myself!! lol

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

If I have to support any team it would be anyone who played against....... well, lets just say..Don't ever call me "Hun"

If I see a pic of anyone showing off football colours I avoid them....

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"well when i get d*unk (female here), i go on cam and expose myself!! lol "

What your tipple?

Il buy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmmm it makes you wonder,why do those poor single males,get a reputation for being indiscreet.

+1

My bad for bringing down the single males

You didnt bring them down,you just reinforced their reputation for indiscretion.

When your out with your mates,do you also point out previous meets,and rate them as to how much of a whore they were.

Whilst enhancing your reputation,as a shagger.

Your any couples worst nightmare,a single guy who cant keep it shut."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha. Mrs FJ even pointed out a hoops crest on a profile that had messaged us saying there'd be no way we could have fun with them.

Only a game eh "

She is a good lady!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well when i get d*unk (female here), i go on cam and expose myself!! lol "

and i am gutted i havent seen that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I have to support any team it would be anyone who played against....... well, lets just say..Don't ever call me "Hun"

If I see a pic of anyone showing off football colours I avoid them.... "

Boo fair play to your lot for coming back from 12 point behind though

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"If I have to support any team it would be anyone who played against....... well, lets just say..Don't ever call me "Hun"

If I see a pic of anyone showing off football colours I avoid them....

Boo fair play to your lot for coming back from 12 point behind though"

Read my post again....I support ANYONE that plays against...

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"

When your out with your mates,do you also point out previous meets,and rate them as to how much of a whore they were.

Whilst enhancing your reputation,as a shagger.

Your any couples worst nightmare,a single guy who cant keep it shut."

How the hell you got all that from him admitting he lets his friends access his account is way beyond me!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I have to support any team it would be anyone who played against....... well, lets just say..Don't ever call me "Hun"

If I see a pic of anyone showing off football colours I avoid them....

Boo fair play to your lot for coming back from 12 point behind though

Read my post again....I support ANYONE that plays against... "

Haha well if not a Celtic fan then why the hatred for Rangers? Unless you are an Aberdeen fan and that would just be laughable!

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

My EX hubby was a Gers fan!

A grown man that would cry when his precious team lost....

I like seeing them beat because I know, somewhere that sad little git will be crying into his pint

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland


"Haha. Mrs FJ even pointed out a hoops crest on a profile that had messaged us saying there'd be no way we could have fun with them.

Only a game eh "

Here was me thinking it was only Ireland and Scotland that had this way of thinking or are we exporting it to England too.

We dont care what team or religion and are not intereted in finding out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My EX hubby was a Gers fan!

A grown man that would cry when his precious team lost....

I like seeing them beat because I know, somewhere that sad little git will be crying into his pint "

Haha fair enough then I like your thinking!

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"

We dont care what team or religion and are not intereted in finding out."

Exactly why I hate seeing pics with people showing off football colours...

I dont care about team/religion but they obviously do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

We dont care what team or religion and are not intereted in finding out.

Exactly why I hate seeing pics with people showing off football colours...

I dont care about team/religion but they obviously do "

I like football but it has nothing to do with decisions i make in life! Especially nothing to do with peoples religion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fxxk me man i wish i add a cock big as yours how big are u 8ins

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"fxxk me man i wish i add a cock big as yours how big are u 8ins "

9 fully hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well when i get d*unk (female here), i go on cam and expose myself!! lol "

ouch you wait till yer d*unk.....

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I know I am going to be slaughtered on st. Paddy's day.. Do I just start apologising in advance now? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well when i get d*unk (female here), i go on cam and expose myself!! lol "

Noted and its the weekend lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Glad so many people backed me up here. Thank you all that did!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Hmmmmm it makes you wonder,why do those poor single males,get a reputation for being indiscreet.

My bad for bringing down the single males

You didnt bring them down,you just reinforced their reputation for indiscretion.

When your out with your mates,do you also point out previous meets,and rate them as to how much of a whore they were.

Whilst enhancing your reputation,as a shagger.

Your any couples worst nightmare,a single guy who cant keep it shut.

You are making a big deal out of nothing here!! No i dont point out any meets or rate them... im not a 15 yr old school boy! Yes I was d*unk and my mates saw the site... anyone could view the site and the people on it... "

yes i have been d*unk,many times,and said things i shouldn't have.on no occasion did anything i said or done,have any potential consequences,for anyone else,except me.

so onto your next point.

at what point were you not acting like a 15 year old school boy.was it when you felt the need to boast to your mates,that you were on a swingers site.

was it when you decided to prove it,by giving them access to the site,through your profile.

was it when you felt it was ok,for them to message fellow members of the site,through your profile.

oh no wait a minute,

it was when you decided,it wasn't ok for them to view your friends private pics,hmmmmm suddenly mature.then again we only have your word,for this sudden bout of discretion.

reading through this thread,i see people posting of exposing themselves,by going on cam.the difference is,nobody made that decision for them,they made that decision themselves,as it should be.

for some,non swingers knowledge of their swinging lifestyle,doesn't matter.

for others it could have devastating consequences,on their lives,and would prefer no one outside of swinging knew.

as for your point,anybody can view the site this is very true,but only individuals,can make the decision,whether or not you can be their friend,trust i imagine would be quite important when making that decision.

i'm quite sure most would think twice,if they had any idea,your mates had access to your profile,which included their private pics.

it may not be a big deal for you,

but it is a big deal for some.

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