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The Couples Guide..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There’s always new couples and we are included in that. If you had a golden rule to follow what would it be?

To kick it off we’d say;

1. Make time for all and ensure everyone is involved in as much as they desire.

Let’s see the wisdom of Playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk and discuss your rules before every meet. Never break the rules in the heat of the moment- it destroys the trust.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Have pics of both people on your profile

Be honest and open and communicate

Never take 1 for the team.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to your gut

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Be honest with each other and respect your boundaries.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep the other one guessing what you’re up to and leave the seat up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Enjoying the humour as well as the good advice

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Enjoy there company before just doing the business and always so no if one or both of you feel uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk

Listen

Talk some more

Really fucking listen

You won't always agree on things, but agree to put your relationship as your main priority.

Compromise

If something may destroy the trust, don't fucking do it.

Not everyone is a threat, but some people will be jealous of what you have and do what they can to take it for themselves.

Did I mention talk?

Time. Make it. Take it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Never, ever, take one for the team - if you don't both agree you like both halves of the other couple or person enough to want to play with them then don't go there - it'll only lead to regrets afterwards.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Talk

Listen

Talk some more

Really fucking listen

You won't always agree on things, but agree to put your relationship as your main priority.

Compromise

If something may destroy the trust, don't fucking do it.

Not everyone is a threat, but some people will be jealous of what you have and do what they can to take it for themselves.

Did I mention talk?

Time. Make it. Take it.

"

And when you're done talking - talk some more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never, ever, take one for the team - if you don't both agree you like both halves of the other couple or person enough to want to play with them then don't go there - it'll only lead to regrets afterwards."

Very true and good advice.

Just because you are a couple and swing and meet with others couples doesn't automatically mean that you have to fuck them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk

Listen

Talk some more

Really fucking listen

You won't always agree on things, but agree to put your relationship as your main priority.

Compromise

If something may destroy the trust, don't fucking do it.

Not everyone is a threat, but some people will be jealous of what you have and do what they can to take it for themselves.

Did I mention talk?

Time. Make it. Take it.

And when you're done talking - talk some more "

And listen to HEAR, not to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And listen to HEAR, not to reply."

this!

Jo&D.Xx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Talk

Listen

Talk some more

Really fucking listen

You won't always agree on things, but agree to put your relationship as your main priority.

Compromise

If something may destroy the trust, don't fucking do it.

Not everyone is a threat, but some people will be jealous of what you have and do what they can to take it for themselves.

Did I mention talk?

Time. Make it. Take it.

And when you're done talking - talk some more

And listen to HEAR, not to reply."

Two ears one mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And listen to HEAR, not to reply.

this!

Jo&D.Xx"

Smarter than I look I tell ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And listen to HEAR, not to reply.

this!

Jo&D.Xx

Smarter than I look I tell ya "

Not just a pretty face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And listen to HEAR, not to reply.

this!

Jo&D.Xx

Smarter than I look I tell ya

Not just a pretty face "

We both have pretty faces. I have a better moustache tho.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And listen to HEAR, not to reply.

this!

Jo&D.Xx

Smarter than I look I tell ya

Not just a pretty face

We both have pretty faces. I have a better moustache tho.

P "

Oh f*ck

I'm sure your face is just as pretty as hers.

Sorry

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And listen to HEAR, not to reply.

this!

Jo&D.Xx

Smarter than I look I tell ya

Not just a pretty face

We both have pretty faces. I have a better moustache tho.

P

Oh f*ck

I'm sure your face is just as pretty as hers.

Sorry

Jo.Xx"

For some reason B keeps uploading pics where I look like I've been up shagging for 48 hours straight. Oh wait I'm like babe, take a photo during the 1st hour, not the 47th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh ffs!

I'm so confused,

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh ffs!

I'm so confused,

Jo.Xx"

I can see why! Oh dear has my lovely vixen been confuserating?

Right then to sort out my better half's mess; B is male, P is female. P's comment about the moustache was for shits and giggles. Her toplip is hair free... Unless she's grown alustrous beauty of a tache in the last week or so...

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh ffs!

I'm so confused,

Jo.Xx

I can see why! Oh dear has my lovely vixen been confuserating?

Right then to sort out my better half's mess; B is male, P is female. P's comment about the moustache was for shits and giggles. Her toplip is hair free... Unless she's grown alustrous beauty of a tache in the last week or so...

B"

I will do the same

We know very well who both of you are

The Moustache threw us both to be fair!

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh ffs!

I'm so confused,

Jo.Xx

I can see why! Oh dear has my lovely vixen been confuserating?

Right then to sort out my better half's mess; B is male, P is female. P's comment about the moustache was for shits and giggles. Her toplip is hair free... Unless she's grown alustrous beauty of a tache in the last week or so...

B

I will do the same

We know very well who both of you are

The Moustache threw us both to be fair!

D. "

I'm a tinker like that

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love the comments and advice.

Two ears and one mouth for good reason

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