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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone have any tips on getting that elusive 1st verified by meet?

I message ladies and couples and I try to be polite and respectful. I did an overhaul of my profile, made a more friendly screen name. What else can I do to get that 1st one? Lol

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Are there ever organised socials in your area lovely? They’re often a great way to get verified - and to meet people you might click with!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

You could sacrifice a chicken over some special runes when there is a full moon on the middle of some standing stones and see what path that suggests to you

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"You could sacrifice a chicken over some special runes when there is a full moon on the middle of some standing stones and see what path that suggests to you "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are there ever organised socials in your area lovely? They’re often a great way to get verified - and to meet people you might click with! "

Not sure. I could look into that. Never thought of it before.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The aim shouldn't be a veri, it should be to connect with people. When the aim is a veri, it's often obvious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could sacrifice a chicken over some special runes when there is a full moon on the middle of some standing stones and see what path that suggests to you "

Feels like I need the dark arts to make it happen some times

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"The aim shouldn't be a veri, it should be to connect with people. When the aim is a veri, it's often obvious. "

This

Plus, I'm confused OP - you have a green tick which indicates you are veri'd already - something to hide?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The aim shouldn't be a veri, it should be to connect with people. When the aim is a veri, it's often obvious. "

Its not my aim. But I see profiles who will only chat to or meet Verified by meet accounts.

I do try to have convos in messages and I pop into chat rooms too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The aim shouldn't be a veri, it should be to connect with people. When the aim is a veri, it's often obvious.

This

Plus, I'm confused OP - you have a green tick which indicates you are veri'd already - something to hide?"

Its a veri by someone viewing my cam. Not a meet

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"You could sacrifice a chicken over some special runes when there is a full moon on the middle of some standing stones and see what path that suggests to you

Feels like I need the dark arts to make it happen some times "

Sorry ... I forgot to mention you have to be dancing naked too ... otherwise it really won't work

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"The aim shouldn't be a veri, it should be to connect with people. When the aim is a veri, it's often obvious.

This

Plus, I'm confused OP - you have a green tick which indicates you are veri'd already - something to hide?

Its a veri by someone viewing my cam. Not a meet"

Ah ok - thanks for clarifying

As others have said a veri is not the be all and end all, sure some people won't meet unless you are verified but there are still those that will.

If this is more about you not getting any interaction and meets, rather than the need for a veri, then the usual things taking a look at your profile, pics etc and seeing what can improve them would apply, as others have said look for local socials or just getting more involved in the forums is a great way of getting to know people and them you and sparking conversations from there.

You've not asked for profile advice so I shan't give any other than the generic you need to try and stand out and let your personality shine through and back it up with a selection of decent pics that are enticing and show off your body

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The aim shouldn't be a veri, it should be to connect with people. When the aim is a veri, it's often obvious.

This

Plus, I'm confused OP - you have a green tick which indicates you are veri'd already - something to hide?

Its a veri by someone viewing my cam. Not a meet

Ah ok - thanks for clarifying

As others have said a veri is not the be all and end all, sure some people won't meet unless you are verified but there are still those that will.

If this is more about you not getting any interaction and meets, rather than the need for a veri, then the usual things taking a look at your profile, pics etc and seeing what can improve them would apply, as others have said look for local socials or just getting more involved in the forums is a great way of getting to know people and them you and sparking conversations from there.

You've not asked for profile advice so I shan't give any other than the generic you need to try and stand out and let your personality shine through and back it up with a selection of decent pics that are enticing and show off your body "

I am open to profile advice. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The aim shouldn't be a veri, it should be to connect with people. When the aim is a veri, it's often obvious.

This

Plus, I'm confused OP - you have a green tick which indicates you are veri'd already - something to hide?

Its a veri by someone viewing my cam. Not a meet"

Then you titled your thread wrongly and are misleading people.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I am open to profile advice. Lol"

In general terms the text's not bad and definitely a lot better than some on here - a few tweaks here and there that would make it better though:

- Take out the "been here a while with no success" line - it reads negatively

- I know what you are trying to say with the "I would never reject a chat or meet on looks or size etc." but it could be read as desperation or that you're not fussed and that you'll meet anyone regardless of attraction.

- To some the combination of "cannot accommodate" and "discretion assured" will be a red flag you're attached and playing away - no judgement here, but if you are, consider being honest about it, it won't improve your chances of meets necessarily, but will at least allow people to make an informed choice. If you're not attached then maybe explain why you can't accommodate.

Other than that it's generally fine - maybe needs a touch of personality and perhaps a little more info around interests, but that'd be finishing touches.

Where you're really lacking is pics - the one you have is pretty good but as it's the only one it doesn't reveal a great deal about you (and by "reveal" I'm not suggesting you need a cock pic either!!) - give some thought to more pics that show off your body.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Anyone have any tips on getting that elusive 1st verified by meet?

I message ladies and couples and I try to be polite and respectful. I did an overhaul of my profile, made a more friendly screen name. What else can I do to get that 1st one? Lol"
Go to a club and the staff will verify you if nobody else will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet someone because you want to meet them. Not so you can get that oh so magic verification

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I don’t usually publicise my meets

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP getting your first meet verification isn't some sort of magic key that means women will flock to you like flies round shit!

Some people prefer to only meet those who are already verified but there are plenty of others who are happy to meet unverified people.

Just keep trying to get good chats going and meets will eventually happen. Chat on the forums and in the chat rooms and just generally get yourself known as a nice person.

If you can get to one organised socials are a great way to meet people.

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By *r imp miss minxCouple
over a year ago

Colchester


"You could sacrifice a chicken over some special runes when there is a full moon on the middle of some standing stones and see what path that suggests to you "
thought it was a duck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could sacrifice a chicken over some special runes when there is a full moon on the middle of some standing stones and see what path that suggests to you

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Goat works better .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The aim shouldn't be a veri, it should be to connect with people. When the aim is a veri, it's often obvious.

This

Plus, I'm confused OP - you have a green tick which indicates you are veri'd already - something to hide?

Its a veri by someone viewing my cam. Not a meet

Then you titled your thread wrongly and are misleading people. "

My bad. Should say getting meet verified then

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