FabSwingers.com forum: Sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't people just meet and have sex now a days.. everything is made so complicated by some people. Uncomplicated doesn't have to be boring..we meet play fuck simpke but still amazing sex.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

It's the curse of swinging, I'm afraid...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some do, some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't people just meet and have sex now a days.. everything is made so complicated by some people. Uncomplicated doesn't have to be boring..we meet play fuck simpke but still amazing sex."

Complicated in what way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s sex?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

For me amazing sex involves a connection of some sort.

For me any sex involves establishing that I'm respected and that I'm going to be safe.

You might see complication. I see not wanting to be hurt, and making it worthwhile for me.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"It's the curse of swinging, I'm afraid...

Swinging involves sex. Surely not. Does it?

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

I'd like to meet up for a social with no expectations just to see if the connection is real as you can't always tell until you meet face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to feel attraction to the people I have sex with.

Might as well go to bed with a vibrator if it's just about putting something inside me.

I don't have to shave my legs or straighten my hair for a vibrator.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"It's the curse of swinging, I'm afraid...

Swinging involves sex. Surely not. Does it? "

Well yes, but with a brew..

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"It's the curse of swinging, I'm afraid...

Swinging involves sex. Surely not. Does it?

Well yes, but with a brew..

Ahh right gotcha. And cake too I hope I like cake before I good ole seeing to

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"It's the curse of swinging, I'm afraid...

Swinging involves sex. Surely not. Does it?

Well yes, but with a brew..

Ahh right gotcha. And cake too I hope I like cake before I good ole seeing to "

I hear yum yums are good for that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People complicate it by expecting me to shower,dress up in sexy clothes, shave my pubes and travel an hour to get to them.

Why can't I just roll out of bed, jump in their car and be driven to theirs for some amazing sex

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By *razyhorse58Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

"It's the curse of swinging, I'm afraid...

Swinging involves sex. Surely not. Does it?

Well yes, but with a brew..

Ahh right gotcha. And cake too I hope I like cake before I good ole seeing to

I hear yum yums are good for that.."

Brew and cake always nice to start, maybe another brew at the end lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't people just meet and have sex now a days.. everything is made so complicated by some people. Uncomplicated doesn't have to be boring..we meet play fuck simpke but still amazing sex."

Sounds simple...how’s it working for you?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"People complicate it by expecting me to shower,dress up in sexy clothes, shave my pubes and travel an hour to get to them.

Why can't I just roll out of bed, jump in their car and be driven to theirs for some amazing sex

Yeah. Great sex without shaving or cosmetics would be awesome.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

do i get the feeling the OP thinks every female on here should just let him screw her even if she not attracted to him????

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"do i get the feeling the OP thinks every female on here should just let him screw her even if she not attracted to him????

I'm regularly told there's something wrong with me because I won't drop everything and go running to any guy who puts so much as an x in my inbox.

This is a two way street, and I need much more than that.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

"Don't people just meet and have sex now a days.. everything is made so complicated by some people. Uncomplicated doesn't have to be boring..we meet play fuck simpke but still amazing sex."

What do you mean by complicated?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody people trying to complicate things by establishing attraction, boundaries and safety. PC gone mad etc etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah things like consent, standards, attraction, all that kind of stuff complicates things don’t they op, I totally sympathise.

Reminds me of a message I had a few years ago when the guy said just fuck me once and if you don’t like it you don’t have to do it again!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Yeah things like consent, standards, attraction, all that kind of stuff complicates things don’t they op, I totally sympathise.

Reminds me of a message I had a few years ago when the guy said just fuck me once and if you don’t like it you don’t have to do it again!"

Mine are usually "meet me, I'm much better in person, I promise". Yeah no.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"What’s sex?"
Its not been that long surely Queeny ??

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"Yeah things like consent, standards, attraction, all that kind of stuff complicates things don’t they op, I totally sympathise.

Reminds me of a message I had a few years ago when the guy said just fuck me once and if you don’t like it you don’t have to do it again!"

What a classy message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't people just meet and have sex now a days.. everything is made so complicated by some people. Uncomplicated doesn't have to be boring..we meet play fuck simpke but still amazing sex."

Ahhh so faf message, then meet to fuck? Pity some of us are not that easy, eh OP?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Yeah things like consent, standards, attraction, all that kind of stuff complicates things don’t they op, I totally sympathise.

Reminds me of a message I had a few years ago when the guy said just fuck me once and if you don’t like it you don’t have to do it again!"

Question - Did you?????? lol

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Bloody people trying to complicate things by establishing attraction, boundaries and safety. PC gone mad etc etc..."

I blame the nanny state!!!! lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Yeah things like consent, standards, attraction, all that kind of stuff complicates things don’t they op, I totally sympathise.

Reminds me of a message I had a few years ago when the guy said just fuck me once and if you don’t like it you don’t have to do it again!

Question - Did you?????? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloody people trying to complicate things by establishing attraction, boundaries and safety. PC gone mad etc etc..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't people just meet and have sex now a days.. everything is made so complicated by some people. Uncomplicated doesn't have to be boring..we meet play fuck simpke but still amazing sex."
its not even remotely close to the same thing for me without the lightning of a real connection i may as well fuck a hole in the back fence prob get less splinters too so not amazing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah things like consent, standards, attraction, all that kind of stuff complicates things don’t they op, I totally sympathise.

Reminds me of a message I had a few years ago when the guy said just fuck me once and if you don’t like it you don’t have to do it again!"

I had a very similar message. Wonder if it was the same guy

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

"What’s sex?"
lol il show you beautiful think I can remember vaguely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to feel attraction to the people I have sex with.

Might as well go to bed with a vibrator if it's just about putting something inside me.

I don't have to shave my legs or straighten my hair for a vibrator.

You could always put some googly eyes on it k and a little Tash perhaps even say hi

Only downfall is he won't be able to put the kettle on and make you a bacon sarnie though

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I like to feel attraction to the people I have sex with.

Might as well go to bed with a vibrator if it's just about putting something inside me.

I don't have to shave my legs or straighten my hair for a vibrator.

You could always put some googly eyes on it k and a little Tash perhaps even say hi

Only downfall is he won't be able to put the kettle on and make you a bacon sarnie though

It's less effort to do those things myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah things like consent, standards, attraction, all that kind of stuff complicates things don’t they op, I totally sympathise.

Reminds me of a message I had a few years ago when the guy said just fuck me once and if you don’t like it you don’t have to do it again!

Question - Did you?????? lol

Ummm no!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Don't people just meet and have sex now a days.. everything is made so complicated by some people. Uncomplicated doesn't have to be boring..we meet play fuck simpke but still amazing sex."

Op -so why post about it on a swinging site? Surely if you are here -you are looking for sex that is outside the normal safe range of experiences as advocated by agony aunts, self help books and sex therapists?

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Don't people just meet and have sex now a days.. everything is made so complicated by some people. Uncomplicated doesn't have to be boring..we meet play fuck simpke but still amazing sex."

You would have to have a connection or at least physical attraction. Don't think anyone just rocks up to a random and fucks them.....

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

"Yeah things like consent, standards, attraction, all that kind of stuff complicates things don’t they op, I totally sympathise.

Reminds me of a message I had a few years ago when the guy said just fuck me once and if you don’t like it you don’t have to do it again!

I had a very similar message. Wonder if it was the same guy

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he will run out of people eventually and won't be able to say it to anyone else

There are to many complications sometimes thou but standards and attraction u can't really go without x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to your post op yes there's two kinds of women and men that fuck anything and anyone but would you want that

The other kind are the ones you have to pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to feel attraction to the people I have sex with.

Might as well go to bed with a vibrator if it's just about putting something inside me.

I don't have to shave my legs or straighten my hair for a vibrator.

You could always put some googly eyes on it k and a little Tash perhaps even say hi

Only downfall is he won't be able to put the kettle on and make you a bacon sarnie though

It's less effort to do those things myself! "

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

For some it seems, it has to be a crusade for a meet with the "mr or mrs perfect one" rather than a risk it not meeting upto their expectations.

This is obviously their / our perogative, but does make everything so calculated and a faf with regard to the simple acts involved.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Reminds me of a message I had a few years ago when the guy said just fuck me once and if you don’t like it you don’t have to do it again!"

Legend.

Make a mental connection and the physical connection follows. Make women curious to meet you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"For some it seems, it has to be a crusade for a meet with the "mr or mrs perfect one" rather than a risk it not meeting upto their expectations.

This is obviously their / our perogative, but does make everything so calculated and a faf with regard to the simple acts involved."

There's an ocean between "looking for the perfect person" and "will fuck anything without standards or selection criteria". And a lot of guys who complain if you don't do the latter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to do a rubix cube before we kiss on my meets, not that complicated

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Is this another poor me I can't get a meet thread?

Coupled with the misunderstanding that this is a sex site pure and simple?

Perish the thought that people may have the option to choose and decide what it is they do and don't want to do?

What is the world coming to???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't people just meet and have sex now a days.. everything is made so complicated by some people. Uncomplicated doesn't have to be boring..we meet play fuck simpke but still amazing sex."

Did you think fab was Instashag?

You did, didn't you.

Fabswingers is not Instashag.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If establishing a connection and chemistry, not to mention attraction, trust and respect and finding we are on the same wavelength sexually equates to complicated OP then I'll take complicated every time.

I've done the uncomplicated and found it somewhat unsatisfactory by comparison.

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

"For some it seems, it has to be a crusade for a meet with the "mr or mrs perfect one" rather than a risk it not meeting upto their expectations.

This is obviously their / our perogative, but does make everything so calculated and a faf with regard to the simple acts involved.

There's an ocean between "looking for the perfect person" and "will fuck anything without standards or selection criteria". And a lot of guys who complain if you don't do the latter. "

There is nothing wrong with wanting some things you find attractive, I myself have some preferences. But a lot of profiles get bogged down with such specifics, got to be this height, age, stature and a dozen other criteria, it's little wonder they have slim luck on here, both men, women and couples.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"For some it seems, it has to be a crusade for a meet with the "mr or mrs perfect one" rather than a risk it not meeting upto their expectations.

This is obviously their / our perogative, but does make everything so calculated and a faf with regard to the simple acts involved.

There's an ocean between "looking for the perfect person" and "will fuck anything without standards or selection criteria". And a lot of guys who complain if you don't do the latter.

People are allowed to have preferences. And no sex is often better than sex you don't really want.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Don't people just meet and have sex now a days.. everything is made so complicated by some people. Uncomplicated doesn't have to be boring..we meet play fuck simpke but still amazing sex."

The days of the fish bowl are long gone now it a emotional, or physical attraction....it's like dating but with sex if SHE LIKES YOU. good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Panda syndrome...

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Don't people just meet and have sex now a days.. everything is made so complicated by some people. Uncomplicated doesn't have to be boring..we meet play fuck simpke but still amazing sex.

The days of the fish bowl are long gone now it a emotional, or physical attraction....it's like dating but with sex if SHE LIKES YOU. good luck. "

Unless there's pampas grass in the front garden of course

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Yeah things like consent, standards, attraction, all that kind of stuff complicates things don’t they op, I totally sympathise.

Reminds me of a message I had a few years ago when the guy said just fuck me once and if you don’t like it you don’t have to do it again!

Question - Did you?????? lol

Ummm no! "

Cannot imagine why not after all the effort the guy had (not) put in to his message!!!!!! lol

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