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"Being totally honest - not sure what you were expecting them to do or say, but if I were walking along a public road and someone pulled over to ask for directions and I noticed a flash of boob or stocking top, I probably wouldn't say anything, nor would I stare, in fact I'd make an effort not to - at most would probably grin to myself after directions had been given and you'd driven off. " Totally agree with this. I wouldn't make anything of it at the time | |||
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"We had a chat about flashing in the car. The idea was to dress W up suitably. Split skirt, stockings, heels, see through blouse quarter cup bra. I did a a check to see the view. It was so so because its not that easily visible when dark. The plan was to drive around and get W to wind down the window and ask directions and show herself off. when i stood next to the car i look down and see suspenders, stockings, and some hard nipple ( its a black see through so still not easy to see casually) we did later turn the interior light on when we found the odd single guy, which was a bit better. The second issue was with today's guys. Granted we picked a cold night and there were surprisingly few single males walking around! The ones we stopped all were looking at phones and had headphones on ffs! Really only one out of four may have had a bit of a look.. Any ideas? W has a white see thru blouse we will check out one evening this week to see if that is more visible. ideas are of interest if any have done this before." If you want more of a reaction, and to keep yourselves off of the register, drive around checking your "who's near button" till you find a suitable guy or guys on fab and within a quarter of a mile, message and invite them to come take a look, wank in front of her, or reach in and finger her to orgasm, the possibilities are endless, and much less likely to offend the vanillas. Ps that as a couple of pics on our profile of us doing exactly that. | |||
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"If you are going to involve unsuspecting members of the public in your sexual fantasies, expect it to go horribly wrong most of the time. this. Plenty of guys have a record for flashing. Days of equal opportunities, I imagine the police will be more than happy to arrest women for it too. " | |||
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"Most people know my views on flashers and the kind of people that usually do it. It’s YOUR kink, it’s not fair to involve unconsenting members of the public in YOUR kink. If a guy asked me for directions on the street and flashed his dick at me I’d take the reg and phone the police, it shouldn’t be any different if a woman does it to a man. " | |||
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"If you are going to involve unsuspecting members of the public in your sexual fantasies, expect it to go horribly wrong most of the time." Absolutely. Being non vanilla or having a niche interest is all well and good, but when you involve others in your play then consent is paramount - both morally and legally. That's not me being the fun police but basic decency. | |||
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"No,its tittilation. Im a big fan of display, presentation, and exhibitionism. Honestly i bet i'm far from the weirdest interest on here but I'm not here to judge." It's far from titillation. | |||
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"Why would you inflict your sexual perversions on to non consenting people? No better than a guy in a flasher mac flashing his cock to women. " This! | |||
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"Thanks, that's pretty much the effect we wanted to have. were new to flashing in a general public environment and its just see how we go kinda thing at the mo. which is why its single guys and not couples " So, its your kink, and you are looking to push it on others without their consent? | |||
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"I think if you asked most of the blokes on here, and in my experience of doing outdoor shoots not many have or would be put out. having done this research i will probably be making use of the phone locator, which sounds a great idea And its so much better than a bloke in a mac." In your opinion. | |||
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"I think if you asked most of the blokes on here, and in my experience of doing outdoor shoots not many have or would be put out. having done this research i will probably be making use of the phone locator, which sounds a great idea And its so much better than a bloke in a mac." Not according to the responses from most males on here...no difference between males and females flashing, if it's unwelcome by the 'victim' | |||
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"I think if you asked most of the blokes on here, and in my experience of doing outdoor shoots not many have or would be put out. having done this research i will probably be making use of the phone locator, which sounds a great idea And its so much better than a bloke in a mac." That’s blokes on here not your average guy on the street. Even the guys on here I think would want some say in who flashes them. | |||
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"I think if you asked most of the blokes on here, and in my experience of doing outdoor shoots not many have or would be put out. having done this research i will probably be making use of the phone locator, which sounds a great idea And its so much better than a bloke in a mac." Might look better but the intent behind it is the same. You are forcing your sexual perversion on unsuspecting members of the public. There is no other way of looking at it. | |||
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"Did ask for ideas not damning judgement" Here's an idea. Keep it as a fantasy and avoid a conviction. | |||
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"be interesting to take a poll on. Providing they are honest and don't have a significant other looking over their shoulder." I love polls I’ll do one. | |||
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"be interesting to take a poll on. Providing they are honest and don't have a significant other looking over their shoulder." I have a significant other sitting here and he thinks flashing in public, by either sex is wrong too. | |||
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"be interesting to take a poll on. Providing they are honest and don't have a significant other looking over their shoulder." Do it on Facebook though to get a fairer representative sample | |||
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"Facebook,hmmm no. imaginary friends and the minutiae of everyday drudgery= brain death." They're the Joe Public you're going to be meeting in the real world though. | |||
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"I would like to think i agree with your opinion but the reality is some blokes would get a hardon for anything in a skirt. even another bloke in a skirt! you only have to look at top fabbed pics to know that's true. Not a judgement at all just a fact." And some wouldn’t | |||
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"Ah yes, suppose it’s okay to flash someone as long as you’re fit " Same as it’s only harassment if you don’t fancy the person | |||
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"Ah yes, suppose it’s okay to flash someone as long as you’re fit Same as it’s only harassment if you don’t fancy the person " Apparently so | |||
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"Have you thought about doing this where people do the dogging thing, that way you know there's a receptive audience? And less likely to offend " I was going to suggest that, obviously as long as its late at night. | |||
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"We had a chat about flashing in the car. The idea was to dress W up suitably. Split skirt, stockings, heels, see through blouse quarter cup bra. I did a a check to see the view. It was so so because its not that easily visible when dark. The plan was to drive around and get W to wind down the window and ask directions and show herself off. when i stood next to the car i look down and see suspenders, stockings, and some hard nipple ( its a black see through so still not easy to see casually) we did later turn the interior light on when we found the odd single guy, which was a bit better. The second issue was with today's guys. Granted we picked a cold night and there were surprisingly few single males walking around! The ones we stopped all were looking at phones and had headphones on ffs! Really only one out of four may have had a bit of a look.. Any ideas? W has a white see thru blouse we will check out one evening this week to see if that is more visible. ideas are of interest if any have done this before." Common decency ? | |||
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"Ah yes, suppose it’s okay to flash someone as long as you’re fit Same as it’s only harassment if you don’t fancy the person Apparently so " I only have one experience of being flashed. It was 2008 in magaluf, I’d gone back to my apartment to change and my friends were in one of the bars on the strip. I was walking back down the strip and some guys outside another bar were whistling and one guy pulled his willy out to me, I stopped gave it a good look and said what is that, it looks like a beak, don’t ever get that out in public again. He went bright red and covered it up and all his mates started pointing and laughing at him. Now if he had been good looking and presented me with a decent sizeable lump of a cock, I probably would’ve gone wahey and gave it a little shake, I was in magaluf after all. | |||
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"We had a chat about flashing in the car. The idea was to dress W up suitably. Split skirt, stockings, heels, see through blouse quarter cup bra. I did a a check to see the view. It was so so because its not that easily visible when dark. The plan was to drive around and get W to wind down the window and ask directions and show herself off. when i stood next to the car i look down and see suspenders, stockings, and some hard nipple ( its a black see through so still not easy to see casually) we did later turn the interior light on when we found the odd single guy, which was a bit better. The second issue was with today's guys. Granted we picked a cold night and there were surprisingly few single males walking around! The ones we stopped all were looking at phones and had headphones on ffs! Really only one out of four may have had a bit of a look.. Any ideas? W has a white see thru blouse we will check out one evening this week to see if that is more visible. ideas are of interest if any have done this before." the easiest way I’s to pass a truck slowly with the interior light on if you get honked you know she’s been seen | |||
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"We had a chat about flashing in the car. The idea was to dress W up suitably. Split skirt, stockings, heels, see through blouse quarter cup bra. I did a a check to see the view. It was so so because its not that easily visible when dark. The plan was to drive around and get W to wind down the window and ask directions and show herself off. when i stood next to the car i look down and see suspenders, stockings, and some hard nipple ( its a black see through so still not easy to see casually) we did later turn the interior light on when we found the odd single guy, which was a bit better. The second issue was with today's guys. Granted we picked a cold night and there were surprisingly few single males walking around! The ones we stopped all were looking at phones and had headphones on ffs! Really only one out of four may have had a bit of a look.. Any ideas? W has a white see thru blouse we will check out one evening this week to see if that is more visible. ideas are of interest if any have done this before." Put some flyers up on lampposts next time, you might have a small zombie gang of men awaiting you | |||
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"We had a chat about flashing in the car. The idea was to dress W up suitably. Split skirt, stockings, heels, see through blouse quarter cup bra. I did a a check to see the view. It was so so because its not that easily visible when dark. The plan was to drive around and get W to wind down the window and ask directions and show herself off. when i stood next to the car i look down and see suspenders, stockings, and some hard nipple ( its a black see through so still not easy to see casually) we did later turn the interior light on when we found the odd single guy, which was a bit better. The second issue was with today's guys. Granted we picked a cold night and there were surprisingly few single males walking around! The ones we stopped all were looking at phones and had headphones on ffs! Really only one out of four may have had a bit of a look.. Any ideas? W has a white see thru blouse we will check out one evening this week to see if that is more visible. ideas are of interest if any have done this before. the easiest way I’s to pass a truck slowly with the interior light on if you get honked you know she’s been seen " ...Yes and that's a great distraction which could cause an accident... | |||
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"Ah yes, suppose it’s okay to flash someone as long as you’re fit Same as it’s only harassment if you don’t fancy the person Apparently so I only have one experience of being flashed. It was 2008 in magaluf, I’d gone back to my apartment to change and my friends were in one of the bars on the strip. I was walking back down the strip and some guys outside another bar were whistling and one guy pulled his willy out to me, I stopped gave it a good look and said what is that, it looks like a beak, don’t ever get that out in public again. He went bright red and covered it up and all his mates started pointing and laughing at him. Now if he had been good looking and presented me with a decent sizeable lump of a cock, I probably would’ve gone wahey and gave it a little shake, I was in magaluf after all. " Ughhhhh I absolutely hate it. When I was 14 or 15 my dad pulled into an empty car park and nipped into the shop. Guy pulled up beside me and kept trying to get my attention, looked over and yep, cock out. Sat in the car crying while he tried to get my attention. Eventually drove off when my dad came back (my dad had locked the car with me in it) And I have so many other shitty stories. I hate it | |||
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"Ah yes, suppose it’s okay to flash someone as long as you’re fit Same as it’s only harassment if you don’t fancy the person Apparently so I only have one experience of being flashed. It was 2008 in magaluf, I’d gone back to my apartment to change and my friends were in one of the bars on the strip. I was walking back down the strip and some guys outside another bar were whistling and one guy pulled his willy out to me, I stopped gave it a good look and said what is that, it looks like a beak, don’t ever get that out in public again. He went bright red and covered it up and all his mates started pointing and laughing at him. Now if he had been good looking and presented me with a decent sizeable lump of a cock, I probably would’ve gone wahey and gave it a little shake, I was in magaluf after all. Ughhhhh I absolutely hate it. When I was 14 or 15 my dad pulled into an empty car park and nipped into the shop. Guy pulled up beside me and kept trying to get my attention, looked over and yep, cock out. Sat in the car crying while he tried to get my attention. Eventually drove off when my dad came back (my dad had locked the car with me in it) And I have so many other shitty stories. I hate it" That's horrible, 2 years ago my 13yo daughter was propositioned by a guy in a car who then drove alongside her trying to get her to get in the car. she managed to take a cut through some flat ran for home. i was there when she got in and i took her straight back out in the car to find the fucker. unfortunately he had gone. | |||
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"Thank for the input, I have taken pics of wens at the riverside in very short skirts, stockings, heels, see thru top and mac. you get mostly joggers and the odd home going commuter. rules of engagement are the same single guys only and if i'm taking photos and a guy goes past she does not close coat so they get an eyeful. We have had one linger on before and i carried on taking shots and posing her." I certainly wouldn’t appreciate you taking photos of me in said situation without my consent and find it a little creepy that you would do so! | |||
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"Thank for the input, I have taken pics of wens at the riverside in very short skirts, stockings, heels, see thru top and mac. you get mostly joggers and the odd home going commuter. rules of engagement are the same single guys only and if i'm taking photos and a guy goes past she does not close coat so they get an eyeful. We have had one linger on before and i carried on taking shots and posing her. I certainly wouldn’t appreciate you taking photos of me in said situation without my consent and find it a little creepy that you would do so! " | |||
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"We had a chat about flashing in the car. The idea was to dress W up suitably. Split skirt, stockings, heels, see through blouse quarter cup bra. I did a a check to see the view. It was so so because its not that easily visible when dark. The plan was to drive around and get W to wind down the window and ask directions and show herself off. when i stood next to the car i look down and see suspenders, stockings, and some hard nipple ( its a black see through so still not easy to see casually) we did later turn the interior light on when we found the odd single guy, which was a bit better. The second issue was with today's guys. Granted we picked a cold night and there were surprisingly few single males walking around! The ones we stopped all were looking at phones and had headphones on ffs! Really only one out of four may have had a bit of a look.. Any ideas? W has a white see thru blouse we will check out one evening this week to see if that is more visible. ideas are of interest if any have done this before. the easiest way I’s to pass a truck slowly with the interior light on if you get honked you know she’s been seen ...Yes and that's a great distraction which could cause an accident... " Sheer stupidity. | |||
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"Don’t think a poll on here is an accurate reflection to the real world, plus I’ve got a real good body and nice boobs so it’s kind of different. " If I did the poll there would be very different answers. | |||
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"In my experience even as a bloke i find a great percentage aren't as honest as their girls think. I've had guys during social meets texting the wife or gf telling them they are working late or out with the boys! if the whatssap goes silent or has been switched to secrecy its a great indicator. i dont do meets with them because they will let you down in a heartbeat. one of the reasons i enjoy shoots, scares the liars off fast " Try posting this same thread in the Stories and Fantasies section of the forum. I think you'll get different answers in there. | |||
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"Facebook,hmmm no. imaginary friends and the minutiae of everyday drudgery= brain death." So you only want to poll biased audiences.... Are you a politician by any chance? | |||
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"Don’t think a poll on here is an accurate reflection to the real world, plus I’ve got a real good body and nice boobs so it’s kind of different. If I did the poll there would be very different answers. " Not from me! I don't want to unsuspecting flashed by that flower | |||
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"Thanks yes tried dogging twice nearby found the guys a bit lacking to be honest and one was a bit pushy and had to be told to fuck off. Might be worth trying elsewhere." Then I think you've answered your own question.. | |||
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"Well my poll results suggest that the majority of men (on fab) would be happy to be flashed but that isn’t a reflection of the real world in everyday situations. A lot would think it was odd. " That is because it is you. | |||
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"I'd give you long very very detailed directions..... " lol yes not sure everyone when presented with this would be fast to react | |||
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"I think you have watched too many porn films" No i put it down to having an imagination | |||
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"Facebook,hmmm no. imaginary friends and the minutiae of everyday drudgery= brain death. So you only want to poll biased audiences.... Are you a politician by any chance? " No. but Russians, republicans, and vote leave found it easy to sway support via facebook.. Really easy bias can be bought on social media. | |||
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"I think you have watched too many porn films No i put it down to having an imagination" Some imagination if you think its ok to flash innocent folk | |||
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"Just find a dogging spot ... park up ... flash your interior light a few times ..... see what happens ." At least they will be like minded people not random people. | |||
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"Just find a dogging spot ... park up ... flash your interior light a few times ..... see what happens . At least they will be like minded people not random people. " That is until the day you pull into a car park and the interior light on the car opposite is partly on the fritz | |||
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"Just find a dogging spot ... park up ... flash your interior light a few times ..... see what happens . At least they will be like minded people not random people. " I would go with that its not really fair to expose yourself to innocents or distract other drivers as that's a safety issue. | |||
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"Just find a dogging spot ... park up ... flash your interior light a few times ..... see what happens . At least they will be like minded people not random people. That is until the day you pull into a car park and the interior light on the car opposite is partly on the fritz" | |||
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"Facebook,hmmm no. imaginary friends and the minutiae of everyday drudgery= brain death. So you only want to poll biased audiences.... Are you a politician by any chance? No. but Russians, republicans, and vote leave found it easy to sway support via facebook.. Really easy bias can be bought on social media." Typical politicians answer | |||
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"I am amazed people are still flashing in cars with the number of dash cams about. It only takes someone to take the footage to the police and months later you are on the sex offenders register. " And quite rightly so. If its done with other consenting adults then fair enough. With random people no. Easy enough for them to take note of car registration and report the offenders to the police, which they are perfectly entitled to do. | |||
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"I am amazed people are still flashing in cars with the number of dash cams about. It only takes someone to take the footage to the police and months later you are on the sex offenders register. And quite rightly so. If its done with other consenting adults then fair enough. With random people no. Easy enough for them to take note of car registration and report the offenders to the police, which they are perfectly entitled to do. " , Yes | |||
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"I am amazed people are still flashing in cars with the number of dash cams about. It only takes someone to take the footage to the police and months later you are on the sex offenders register. And quite rightly so. If its done with other consenting adults then fair enough. With random people no. Easy enough for them to take note of car registration and report the offenders to the police, which they are perfectly entitled to do. " | |||
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