FabSwingers.com forum: Vanilla - what does it mean to you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whether it is to describe themselves, or to say no vanillas need apply, I do see this crop up on profiles.

How would you describe vanilla?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I don't have a clue anymore. I thought it was just missionary position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old fashioned married life one or 2 fucks per year no dedication or care taken 3 pumps squirt roll fart smoke sleep style

Would be my idea of vanilla

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I would very much classify myself as vanilla to be honest.

If anyone doesn’t like it then they can eat my shit. Um.....but not in a kinky way though.....

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

One persons vanilla is another persons fetish, depends what/who you compare it to.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

That's the thing - it's completely subjective and matched by its opposite "kinky" for being so - what is vanilla to one person is completely different to the next.

For me I first came across the term when I was introduced to the BDSM/fetish world where it's used to describe those who have no interest in BDSM/fetish activities and so tends to be my understanding - although since joining here I've also come to understand it as any one that doesn't indulge in the swinging lifestyle.

So maybe it's actually a term to describe those in monogamous relationships who only have "straight" sex and never stray outside of it.

I can remember years ago on a dating site chatting to someone who told me they were kinky and when I asked them to expand on that said they liked to use squirty cream on their boobs and have it licked off - which to me would be vanilla with maybe a few chocolate sprinkles on top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before joining here I didn’t think I was. Now I definitely think I am. I need therapy after just googling half the stuff on here never mind doing it!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

It's a seed pod isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before joining here I didn’t think I was. Now I definitely think I am. I need therapy after just googling half the stuff on here never mind doing it! "

Hahaha I’ve been paranoid about my browser history since fab. Some of the things I’ve googled

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly, our definitions are unlikely to be the same.

Would ditching the word in flavour of describing yourself as 'having a kink' be better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before joining here I didn’t think I was. Now I definitely think I am. I need therapy after just googling half the stuff on here never mind doing it!

Hahaha I’ve been paranoid about my browser history since fab. Some of the things I’ve googled

I know!

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By *untyem76Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

"Before joining here I didn’t think I was. Now I definitely think I am. I need therapy after just googling half the stuff on here never mind doing it!

Hahaha I’ve been paranoid about my browser history since fab. Some of the things I’ve googled

private browser is the way to go lol

I know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

vanilla's ok with hundreds & thousands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before joining here I didn’t think I was. Now I definitely think I am. I need therapy after just googling half the stuff on here never mind doing it!

Hahaha I’ve been paranoid about my browser history since fab. Some of the things I’ve googled

private browser is the way to go lol

Someone else mentioned that. I’ve no idea how to do it. Although I do clear history and nobody touches my phone so I’m not too bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

In my book, standard baby making shagging and oral.

Anal, rope, pain etc in my book is beyond vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more. "

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Old fashioned married life one or 2 fucks per year no dedication or care taken 3 pumps squirt roll fart smoke sleep style

Would be my idea of vanilla

That's not a healthy sex life in anyone's definition!!

To me, vanilla means passionate, straight, one-on-one primal sex with no props, fetishes, fantasies, or anything other than two naked bodies required to have a rollicking good time! It's something we can do anywhere, in any position, and preferably as often as possible!!

For me it excludes anal, impact play, bondage or anything demeaning etc, etc.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more. "

Yup. Wonderful stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly, our definitions are unlikely to be the same.

Would ditching the word in flavour of describing yourself as 'having a kink' be better?"
i dont have a kink as such i just like making multiples can keep all the bum smacking stuff for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would very much classify myself as vanilla to be honest.

If anyone doesn’t like it then they can eat my shit. Um.....but not in a kinky way though.....

Is that chocolate vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ice cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say I was vanilla as I’m not into group fun, not into birds, wouldn’t want to be gang banged or dp’d.

I’m only interested in 1 on 1 encounters.

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

"Whether it is to describe themselves, or to say no vanillas need apply, I do see this crop up on profiles.

How would you describe vanilla? "

I'd say it just refers to normie sex. One on one, nothing too far out of the ordinary, without kinks and fetishes.

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Exactly, our definitions are unlikely to be the same.

Would ditching the word in flavour of describing yourself as 'having a kink' be better?"

No, admirable to try and define it scientifically or logically, for which you may get general agreement. But the question you posed will always remain as one of passionate interest to large numbers of people, to which which there is no solid evidence of the distinction you seek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d say I was vanilla as I’m not into group fun, not into birds, wouldn’t want to be gang banged or dp’d.

I’m only interested in 1 on 1 encounters.

You love a bit of rimming though love. That’s probably not vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Sex that no longer excites fabsters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use the term, as it generally seems to be something used by those who consider themselves to have invented exciting sex, to describe others whose sexual activity they consider less adventurous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever. "

Ok I’ll be vanilla with a bit of sauce and a few sprinkles then

. I’d like a flake too though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d say I was vanilla as I’m not into group fun, not into birds, wouldn’t want to be gang banged or dp’d.

I’m only interested in 1 on 1 encounters.

You love a bit of rimming though love. That’s probably not vanilla. "

It’s pretty common these days though so I dunno.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever.

Ok I’ll be vanilla with a bit of sauce and a few sprinkles then

. I’d like a flake too though

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u know thats someone pushing a shit back up your arse right?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"It's a seed pod isn't it?"

they say the best comes from madagascar!!! lol

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Normal. I do love vanilla.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Id class it as plain..... standard positon no room for experimentation. Just bog standard you suck you lick you fuck you fall asleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever.

Ok I’ll be vanilla with a bit of sauce and a few sprinkles then

. I’d like a flake too though

"
thats called a 99 isn’t it Nora, or a 69 on here...lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever.

Ok I’ll be vanilla with a bit of sauce and a few sprinkles then

. I’d like a flake too though

u know thats someone pushing a shit back up your arse right?

I’m not even gonna question that because I’m sure it’s probably “a thing”. I am now unshockable.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

It’s means the flavour I add to Pepsi to give it a better taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

Yup. Wonderful stuff!

That’s what I say, what’s so bad choosing the most popular flavour Icecream in the cart? It’s popular for a reason, the majority of people like it.

Stick it in a fancy cone and it’s fliooing delicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever.

Ok I’ll be vanilla with a bit of sauce and a few sprinkles then

. I’d like a flake too though

u know thats someone pushing a shit back up your arse right?

"
oh deary me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever.

Ok I’ll be vanilla with a bit of sauce and a few sprinkles then

. I’d like a flake too though

thats called a 99 isn’t it Nora, or a 69 on here...lol..

See even that doesn’t really bother me. Much prefer concentrating on one thing at a time.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm another who wouldn't use vanilla to describe sex - it does seem to fall into casting aspersions about vanilla/non-vanilla sex being better or worse. I quite like the passionate and intimacy of "vanilla" but I also enjoy the intimacy of kinky sex. I think what it means is ever changing anyway.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Ooh I like vanilla. For me it’s great sex with no frills. Lots of foreplay, a few changes of positionand best enjoyed on a freshly laundered bed. Rinse and repeat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever.

Ok I’ll be vanilla with a bit of sauce and a few sprinkles then

. I’d like a flake too though

thats called a 99 isn’t it Nora, or a 69 on here...lol..

See even that doesn’t really bother me. Much prefer concentrating on one thing at a time.

"
yes, I know what you mean..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever.

Ok I’ll be vanilla with a bit of sauce and a few sprinkles then

. I’d like a flake too though

thats called a 99 isn’t it Nora, or a 69 on here...lol..

See even that doesn’t really bother me. Much prefer concentrating on one thing at a time.

yes, I know what you mean.."

Might change my name to Nora the borer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plain straight sex nothing kinky,but can still be great with the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever.

Ok I’ll be vanilla with a bit of sauce and a few sprinkles then

. I’d like a flake too though

thats called a 99 isn’t it Nora, or a 69 on here...lol..

See even that doesn’t really bother me. Much prefer concentrating on one thing at a time.

yes, I know what you mean..

Might change my name to Nora the borer

"
. I’ll change mine to cheeky chops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever.

Ok I’ll be vanilla with a bit of sauce and a few sprinkles then

. I’d like a flake too though

u know thats someone pushing a shit back up your arse right?

I’m not even gonna question that because I’m sure it’s probably “a thing”. I am now unshockable. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever.

Ok I’ll be vanilla with a bit of sauce and a few sprinkles then

. I’d like a flake too though

thats called a 99 isn’t it Nora, or a 69 on here...lol..

See even that doesn’t really bother me. Much prefer concentrating on one thing at a time.

yes, I know what you mean..

Might change my name to Nora the borer

I might too. Mister B..for boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever.

Ok I’ll be vanilla with a bit of sauce and a few sprinkles then

. I’d like a flake too though

thats called a 99 isn’t it Nora, or a 69 on here...lol..

See even that doesn’t really bother me. Much prefer concentrating on one thing at a time.

yes, I know what you mean..

Might change my name to Nora the borer

I might too. Mister B..for boring. "

Oh I dunno. A bottle of beer down your jeans is quite kinky

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

We've always taken it to mean "ordinary".

Ordinary sex is, in our case, husband and wife having regular sex with no 'extras' (whether that include toys, kink, or other people). This does not mean vanilla is bad, boring or dull. It simply means, every so often, we wish to spice it up.

Vanilla with cookie dough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever.

Ok I’ll be vanilla with a bit of sauce and a few sprinkles then

. I’d like a flake too though

thats called a 99 isn’t it Nora, or a 69 on here...lol..

See even that doesn’t really bother me. Much prefer concentrating on one thing at a time.

yes, I know what you mean..

Might change my name to Nora the borer

I might too. Mister B..for boring.

Oh I dunno. A bottle of beer down your jeans is quite kinky "

You should see what I carry in my back pockets.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Ordinary, boring, basic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have a clue anymore. I thought it was just missionary position. "

Vanilla is just custard without the jelly or cream

though I quite like it actually, triffles can be a bit too much sometimes

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Just basic, no other flavours, missionary chat go home, roll on roll off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more.

No, I don’t think so. I even class light tying and blindfolds as vanilla. Oral sex is. Anal probably is too to be honest even though it’s not for me.

You see, light tying and blindfoldeds is adding some strawberry sauce to your Icecream surely.

anal, yes again is a little more than just plain sex. *just my opinion.

Also, maybe people use the phrase vanilla to make something sound boring. That’s just their oppinion too. Vanilla can be the best sex ever.

Ok I’ll be vanilla with a bit of sauce and a few sprinkles then

. I’d like a flake too though

thats called a 99 isn’t it Nora, or a 69 on here...lol..

See even that doesn’t really bother me. Much prefer concentrating on one thing at a time.

yes, I know what you mean..

Might change my name to Nora the borer

I might too. Mister B..for boring.

Oh I dunno. A bottle of beer down your jeans is quite kinky

You should see what I carry in my back pockets. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I did google something the other day and shock horror I actually thought ooooooh that looks fun so I have something on my to do list now

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Ordinary, boring, basic"

Someone is doing it wrong, lol, sex should never be boring!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ordinary, boring, basic"

So you don't think vanilla sex can be passionate and intense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla is anything you would tell your work mates about. Easy.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Nice in an ice cream or coffee or custard

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By *ettyboob72Woman
over a year ago

Manningtree

to me it means cup cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non kink. So my kinky play is not vanilla but everything else is really

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Custard and vanilla pods.

Something that nearly everyone likes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla is sex that's not BDSM. That doesn't mean vanilla is dull or predictable or negative in any way. Vanilla sex can be amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Vanilla is sex that's not BDSM. That doesn't mean vanilla is dull or predictable or negative in any way. Vanilla sex can be amazing. "

and being blindfolded and chained to the bed while the wife goes shopping can get dull and predictable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly, our definitions are unlikely to be the same.

Would ditching the word in flavour of describing yourself as 'having a kink' be better?"

Vanilla flavour

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We’ve always considered vanilla to mean not associated with swinging

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"It's a seed pod isn't it?

they say the best comes from madagascar!!! lol

Totally love Madagascan custard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing as never use the term as don't understand it ... each to their own as oppose to labeling the unecessary

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"We’ve always considered vanilla to mean not associated with swinging "

Thats my understanding also and suppose by vanilla sex they mean nothing kinky just regular sex

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"It's a seed pod isn't it?

they say the best comes from madagascar!!! lol

Totally love Madagascan custard "

I had palpitations last time I had that lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion. Vanilla , just sexy sex. Two naked bodies rolling around the bed and nothing more. "

I like that description

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