FabSwingers.com forum: Post break up sex.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is the name of a Vaccines song, it’s also the title of this thread. Have you had sex with an ex and later regretted it, or did it rekindle your romance with each other, or alternatively were totally ambivalent after the sex, almost blase if you will ?!

All this and more we will discuss on this thread later, but first the weather, Tom what’s the weather looking like ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm repeating myself... broke up with ex over 2 years ago and we couldn't let each other go. Ended up seeing her for a further 18 months. We ended it so we can get used to to not having eachother before I go away. Still want her now but the lifestyle wasn't making me happy. I can't settle down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I broke up with my child’s father in 2007, but went back for another fuck, well quite a few fucks cos I was pregnant in 2009 and had our child. I regret having my child with him though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tom hasn’t commented about the weather yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I broke up with my child’s father in 2007, but went back for another fuck, well quite a few fucks cos I was pregnant in 2009 and had our child. I regret having my child with him though. "

My ex is sterilized so no chance that happening with me.

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

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"I broke up with my child’s father in 2007, but went back for another fuck, well quite a few fucks cos I was pregnant in 2009 and had our child. I regret having my child with him though.

My ex is sterilized so no chance that happening with me.

Total headfuck I don’t think me and my ex will ever be done or completely over but I’ve regretted sex with her since we split and one couple /couple swing we had not the person I remember she didn’t even kiss the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. When it's over, it's over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option 1 and 2 iv had

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

The weather?

You have a window... open it ...

But it is raining but clearing from the west.

Break up sex ... have done I the past "for old time's sake" the sex wasn't the issue for the break up ... so it was like an FWB thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I broke up with my child’s father in 2007, but went back for another fuck, well quite a few fucks cos I was pregnant in 2009 and had our child. I regret having my child with him though. "
you should never regret having a child with someone. It's not the child's fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my ex had so many break ups but ended up Fucking and getting back together every time. The last time we broke up I made sure to myself I wouldn't be tempted no matter how much she tries it on....it's been hard but it's the best decision I've made for us both in the long run. Just got to break the cycle. Fab has been a welcomed distraction for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had on ex that we continued having sex for 2 years on a fwb basis for a couple of years, started off weekly as we met socially every week anyway, then drifted off to monthly when we met up.

Not seen her in years, but suspect we would still spark sexually if we met now, but sex was the only really good part, we both knew the relationship wouldn't go any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I broke up with my child’s father in 2007, but went back for another fuck, well quite a few fucks cos I was pregnant in 2009 and had our child. I regret having my child with him though.

you should never regret having a child with someone. It's not the child's fault"

I don’t regret my child, my child is my everything. I said I regret having my child with HIM, he is the regret not the child. Thought that was quite clear to understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once and it just wasn't the same. Kissing him just didn't excite me anymore and I got bored about halfway through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did once and it just wasn't the same. Kissing him just didn't excite me anymore and I got bored about halfway through. "

Same, complete let down

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Personally I can’t think of anything worse than having sex with an ex, I’m one of those weird people who removes all signs of affection once I have gone off you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I can’t think of anything worse than having sex with an ex, I’m one of those weird people who removes all signs of affection once I have gone off you."

I think that's normal- be weird to be affectionate with someone you don't fancy any more- and it might be giving out mixed signals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This song is stuck in my head now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, they're an ex for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is the name of a Vaccines song, it’s also the title of this thread. Have you had sex with an ex and later regretted it, or did it rekindle your romance with each other, or alternatively were totally ambivalent after the sex, almost blase if you will ?!

All this and more we will discuss on this thread later, but first the weather, Tom what’s the weather looking like ?"

Being a bit pedantic, but the song's actually about having meaningless sex with someone else to get over a break up. Done that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I split up with my boyfriend, slept together a week later and carried on sleeping together for a few months until we rekindled the relationship. 9 years later we are happier than ever, we have children, bought a house, engaged and are hoping to get married next year.

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By *endrix30Man
over a year ago

dudley

An ex is an ex for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All this and more we will discuss on this thread later, but first the weather, Tom what’s the weather looking like ?

Being a bit pedantic, but the song's actually about having meaningless sex with someone else to get over a break up. Done that."

You’re right it is, post break up sex, to forget about your ex is the chorus!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

There was one guy at college, I graduated and moved away, he didn't.....but we still had the odd steamy night when we bumped into each other over the years!

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