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"Ive done a mate a favour and let him stay...as had spare room .not long we said ..so I thought a month max..in my head....then his ex had some trouble so his boy stayed the odd nite .. (his 11) ..now he has been here over 6 months and his boy has been here 2 ..plus me like a mug ..takes his boy to school as ..its cold wet.ect...it not the lads fault... We have nearly come to blows over it all..my fb dont come here now ..have to go hers...he says if I throw him out there homeless...and this weather...he playing my compassion. .but when is enough enough. .?..few hat to get that out..I dont even care if no replys..feel better aleeady ..the c@#t..lol" Just give him a few months notice to find himself a place. | |||
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"OP if you do throw him out you may actually be doing him a favour. If he is homeless the local authority has a duty to house him and as he has a child he will be a high priority. They will most likely be put in some sort of temporary accommodation to begin with until a suitable property is found for them but it's a stepping stone to a fresh start for them as a family. " Ive said this to him..his meant to be going home to mum tho she off her head mainly. And council have said he as a single male is not priority. .. | |||
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"Ive done a mate a favour and let him stay...as had spare room .not long we said ..so I thought a month max..in my head....then his ex had some trouble so his boy stayed the odd nite .. (his 11) ..now he has been here over 6 months and his boy has been here 2 ..plus me like a mug ..takes his boy to school as ..its cold wet.ect...it not the lads fault... We have nearly come to blows over it all..my fb dont come here now ..have to go hers...he says if I throw him out there homeless...and this weather...he playing my compassion. .but when is enough enough. .?..few hat to get that out..I dont even care if no replys..feel better aleeady ..the c@#t..lol Just give him a few months notice to find himself a place. " Lol I did buddy..we had a fight..in November over it..and will still same position. ...feels like ground hog day for me..lol | |||
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"Ive done a mate a favour and let him stay...as had spare room .not long we said ..so I thought a month max..in my head....then his ex had some trouble so his boy stayed the odd nite .. (his 11) ..now he has been here over 6 months and his boy has been here 2 ..plus me like a mug ..takes his boy to school as ..its cold wet.ect...it not the lads fault... We have nearly come to blows over it all..my fb dont come here now ..have to go hers...he says if I throw him out there homeless...and this weather...he playing my compassion. .but when is enough enough. .?..few hat to get that out..I dont even care if no replys..feel better aleeady ..the c@#t..lol Just give him a few months notice to find himself a place. Lol I did buddy..we had a fight..in November over it..and will still same position. ...feels like ground hog day for me..lol" Time to say goodbye then or put the rent up  | |||
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"Ive done a mate a favour and let him stay...as had spare room .not long we said ..so I thought a month max..in my head....then his ex had some trouble so his boy stayed the odd nite .. (his 11) ..now he has been here over 6 months and his boy has been here 2 ..plus me like a mug ..takes his boy to school as ..its cold wet.ect...it not the lads fault... We have nearly come to blows over it all..my fb dont come here now ..have to go hers...he says if I throw him out there homeless...and this weather...he playing my compassion. .but when is enough enough. .?..few hat to get that out..I dont even care if no replys..feel better aleeady ..the c@#t..lol Just give him a few months notice to find himself a place. Lol I did buddy..we had a fight..in November over it..and will still same position. ...feels like ground hog day for me..lol Time to say goodbye then or put the rent up "Thats just it ..he wont go.. | |||
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"It's a tricky situation for you but ultimately he is taking the mickey and you are not responsible for putting him on the street. It is his responsibility." I know but im a buddist at heart and compassion is key... Yet buddha does say we bring our own suffering..lol Yeah saying yes in first place...lol | |||
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"It's a tricky situation for you but ultimately he is taking the mickey and you are not responsible for putting him on the street. It is his responsibility. I know but im a buddist at heart and compassion is key... Yet buddha does say we bring our own suffering..lol Yeah saying yes in first place...lol " I Know It's Tricky but ultimately that's probably what he's playing on and banking on that you're not going to see him homeless. It's a difficult situation but the way I see it is he's probably not gonna get motivated to find somewhere as he hasn't so far, so you've got two options put up or shut up I know that sounds harsh but I don't really know what else to suggest. | |||
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"Ive done a mate a favour and let him stay...as had spare room .not long we said ..so I thought a month max..in my head....then his ex had some trouble so his boy stayed the odd nite .. (his 11) ..now he has been here over 6 months and his boy has been here 2 ..plus me like a mug ..takes his boy to school as ..its cold wet.ect...it not the lads fault... We have nearly come to blows over it all..my fb dont come here now ..have to go hers...he says if I throw him out there homeless...and this weather...he playing my compassion. .but when is enough enough. .?..few hat to get that out..I dont even care if no replys..feel better aleeady ..the c@#t..lol Just give him a few months notice to find himself a place. Lol I did buddy..we had a fight..in November over it..and will still same position. ...feels like ground hog day for me..lol Time to say goodbye then or put the rent up
Thats just it ..he wont go.."Pack up his stuff and leave it on the street. | |||
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"Ive done a mate a favour and let him stay...as had spare room .not long we said ..so I thought a month max..in my head....then his ex had some trouble so his boy stayed the odd nite .. (his 11) ..now he has been here over 6 months and his boy has been here 2 ..plus me like a mug ..takes his boy to school as ..its cold wet.ect...it not the lads fault... We have nearly come to blows over it all..my fb dont come here now ..have to go hers...he says if I throw him out there homeless...and this weather...he playing my compassion. .but when is enough enough. .?..few hat to get that out..I dont even care if no replys..feel better aleeady ..the c@#t..lol Just give him a few months notice to find himself a place. Lol I did buddy..we had a fight..in November over it..and will still same position. ...feels like ground hog day for me..lol Time to say goodbye then or put the rent up
Thats just it ..he wont go..
Pack up his stuff and leave it on the street. "I work he dont..so he in most time..he could probably throw me out easier. .lol plus his boy there at mo as I said...as poast above..he plays the fact he knowsI wont Iin winter bing him out.... Thanks for replying. | |||
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"Ive done a mate a favour and let him stay...as had spare room .not long we said ..so I thought a month max..in my head....then his ex had some trouble so his boy stayed the odd nite .. (his 11) ..now he has been here over 6 months and his boy has been here 2 ..plus me like a mug ..takes his boy to school as ..its cold wet.ect...it not the lads fault... We have nearly come to blows over it all..my fb dont come here now ..have to go hers...he says if I throw him out there homeless...and this weather...he playing my compassion. .but when is enough enough. .?..few hat to get that out..I dont even care if no replys..feel better aleeady ..the c@#t..lol Just give him a few months notice to find himself a place. Lol I did buddy..we had a fight..in November over it..and will still same position. ...feels like ground hog day for me..lol Time to say goodbye then or put the rent up
Thats just it ..he wont go..
Pack up his stuff and leave it on the street. "He would be a priority for emergency accommodation if he has care of his son because I know you said he's going back to his mum soon but at the moment he's living with his dad. | |||
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"It's a tricky situation for you but ultimately he is taking the mickey and you are not responsible for putting him on the street. It is his responsibility. I know but im a buddist at heart and compassion is key... Yet buddha does say we bring our own suffering..lol Yeah saying yes in first place...lol I Know It's Tricky but ultimately that's probably what he's playing on and banking on that you're not going to see him homeless. It's a difficult situation but the way I see it is he's probably not gonna get motivated to find somewhere as he hasn't so far, so you've got two options put up or shut up I know that sounds harsh but I don't really know what else to suggest. " I just feel better getting it out... He does play me yr right...im going to relocate him myself I think..in a bedsit..then its up to him... Thanks..always good to get it out... | |||
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"Ive done a mate a favour and let him stay...as had spare room .not long we said ..so I thought a month max..in my head....then his ex had some trouble so his boy stayed the odd nite .. (his 11) ..now he has been here over 6 months and his boy has been here 2 ..plus me like a mug ..takes his boy to school as ..its cold wet.ect...it not the lads fault... We have nearly come to blows over it all..my fb dont come here now ..have to go hers...he says if I throw him out there homeless...and this weather...he playing my compassion. .but when is enough enough. .?..few hat to get that out..I dont even care if no replys..feel better aleeady ..the c@#t..lol Just give him a few months notice to find himself a place. Lol I did buddy..we had a fight..in November over it..and will still same position. ...feels like ground hog day for me..lol Time to say goodbye then or put the rent up
Thats just it ..he wont go..
Pack up his stuff and leave it on the street.
I work he dont..so he in most time..he could probably throw me out easier. .lol plus his boy there at mo as I said...as poast above..he plays the fact he knowsI wont Iin winter bing him out....
Thanks for replying."I dont know what to suggest then sorry. | |||
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"Ive done a mate a favour and let him stay...as had spare room .not long we said ..so I thought a month max..in my head....then his ex had some trouble so his boy stayed the odd nite .. (his 11) ..now he has been here over 6 months and his boy has been here 2 ..plus me like a mug ..takes his boy to school as ..its cold wet.ect...it not the lads fault... We have nearly come to blows over it all..my fb dont come here now ..have to go hers...he says if I throw him out there homeless...and this weather...he playing my compassion. .but when is enough enough. .?..few hat to get that out..I dont even care if no replys..feel better aleeady ..the c@#t..lol Just give him a few months notice to find himself a place. Lol I did buddy..we had a fight..in November over it..and will still same position. ...feels like ground hog day for me..lol Time to say goodbye then or put the rent up
Thats just it ..he wont go..
Pack up his stuff and leave it on the street.
He would be a priority for emergency accommodation if he has care of his son because I know you said he's going back to his mum soon but at the moment he's living with his dad. "No legaly he with her...she still get the dow... | |||
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"Ive done a mate a favour and let him stay...as had spare room .not long we said ..so I thought a month max..in my head....then his ex had some trouble so his boy stayed the odd nite .. (his 11) ..now he has been here over 6 months and his boy has been here 2 ..plus me like a mug ..takes his boy to school as ..its cold wet.ect...it not the lads fault... We have nearly come to blows over it all..my fb dont come here now ..have to go hers...he says if I throw him out there homeless...and this weather...he playing my compassion. .but when is enough enough. .?..few hat to get that out..I dont even care if no replys..feel better aleeady ..the c@#t..lol Just give him a few months notice to find himself a place. Lol I did buddy..we had a fight..in November over it..and will still same position. ...feels like ground hog day for me..lol Time to say goodbye then or put the rent up
Thats just it ..he wont go..
Pack up his stuff and leave it on the street.
I work he dont..so he in most time..he could probably throw me out easier. .lol plus his boy there at mo as I said...as poast above..he plays the fact he knowsI wont Iin winter bing him out....
Thanks for replying.
I dont know what to suggest then sorry.
"Its cool I wasn't looking for solutions. .just needed to vent it...I know he taking the Michael. ..this was better than killing him in his sleep. .lol ..im joking of course. . | |||
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"It's a tricky situation for you but ultimately he is taking the mickey and you are not responsible for putting him on the street. It is his responsibility. I know but im a buddist at heart and compassion is key... Yet buddha does say we bring our own suffering..lol Yeah saying yes in first place...lol I Know It's Tricky but ultimately that's probably what he's playing on and banking on that you're not going to see him homeless. It's a difficult situation but the way I see it is he's probably not gonna get motivated to find somewhere as he hasn't so far, so you've got two options put up or shut up I know that sounds harsh but I don't really know what else to suggest. I just feel better getting it out... He does play me yr right...im going to relocate him myself I think..in a bedsit..then its up to him... Thanks..always good to get it out..." Do you rent your place? A move does sound like a good plan. Your mate doesn't work and is taking the piss? No wonder you're fed up. Hope you can get him out. Feel bad for his son having such a crap dad. | |||
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"Mugged you right off, he's currently just laughing at you" Not with the big fat lip I gave him he aint...lol He is a old friend of many yrs ..down on luck..... But its getting sorted.. | |||
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