FabSwingers.com forum: Lurkers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love reading all the forums but very rarely join in and if I do because I’m not well known here it can seem like I’m a bit invisible at times anyway, I know why it may seem like it and it isn’t really the case so I’m not complaining but are there any other habitual lurkers out there like myself?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

probably

Welcome. Do join in. It makes it more interesting when new people contribute.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

There are loads.

Hello all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you the forums are probably my favourite thing about fab

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I lurked for ages before posting. Sometimes I still like a lurk

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I think so, when i post on Face Pic Friday i get folk messaging me i’ve not seen about on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are loads.

Hello all."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I think I will always enjoy lurking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lurker here, like to stay low key.

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By *ettyboob72Woman
over a year ago

Manningtree

I'm shy, so I lurk often

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

"I love reading all the forums but very rarely join in and if I do because I’m not well known here it can seem like I’m a bit invisible at times anyway, I know why it may seem like it and it isn’t really the case so I’m not complaining but are there any other habitual lurkers out there like myself? "

Yes mate hi lol , I was on here say 4 years ago now and real argument shit people including me timed out every other day !!!

Now it’s like yuppie snob not in our club so

Ye ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of a lurker. I'll stick my neb in every now and then, but 9 times out of 10 I get half way through typing something, lose interest, delete then lurk on! Haha

Mrs Shadow

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm shy, so I lurk often"

I am pretty shy too I think that’s part of my reason as well x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a bit of a lurker. I'll stick my neb in every now and then, but 9 times out of 10 I get half way through typing something, lose interest, delete then lurk on! Haha

Mrs Shadow "

I really love the word lurk

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

Haha even on a thread bout ignored

HELLO!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a lurker for a long time, but I'm all better now

Join in when you can, i get days of feeling invisible sometimes but I just keep posting until I get a response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were all lurkers once

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haha even on a thread bout ignored

HELLO!!!!!!!!

I’m so sorry I wasn’t ignoring you

I’m not sure if the reason but I think people just end up carrying on a conversation so people out of the loop tend to get skipped over x

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

"Haha even on a thread bout ignored

HELLO!!!!!!!!

I’m so sorry I wasn’t ignoring you

I’m not sure if the reason but I think people just end up carrying on a conversation so people out of the loop tend to get skipped over x"
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Sorry who are you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was a lurker for a long time, but I'm all better now

Join in when you can, i get days of feeling invisible sometimes but I just keep posting until I get a response

...

I like your style

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We were all lurkers once

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

My total point ... Hulkkkk smasaasssshhhh topic

Copied the copied thread put my bit in and mind was taken out or just ignored completely hahahaha

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

Haha from this thread any apart from op brave enough to actually start a topic for fear of no reply’s Pmsl

Not me lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Just because nobody replies to your post doesn't mean you've been ignored though - sometimes no response is needed, it's just enough you've put your point across and there's nothing anyone can add to it.

Sometimes a thread is moving fast and your post gets lost in the flood

And various other reasons.

Either way welcome one and all lurkers and otherwise - as Nicecouple said it's always nice to see new and different contributions

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

"Just because nobody replies to your post doesn't mean you've been ignored though - sometimes no response is needed, it's just enough you've put your point across and there's nothing anyone can add to it.

Sometimes a thread is moving fast and your post gets lost in the flood

And various other reasons.

Either way welcome one and all lurkers and otherwise - as Nicecouple said it's always nice to see new and different contributions

Put a sock in it man lol

Put one up on swinging, braved it

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"My total point ... Hulkkkk smasaasssshhhh topic

Copied the copied thread put my bit in and mind was taken out or just ignored completely hahahaha

I wouldn’t take that personally. It’s like chatting in a nightclub, sometimes the music/other chat is so loud that what you’re saying gets lost in the ether.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jeez guys it’s exhausting having to keep back coming back and forth to check im not doing the unthinkable on this thread when I’ve found a rather intriguing one to read from weeks ago lol

Maybe il rethink and remain a lurker

Thank you all for replying I was a bit worried no one would and really how awkward would that have been

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By *othasMan
over a year ago

wigan

Slides back into the shadows to lurk

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

"My total point ... Hulkkkk smasaasssshhhh topic

Copied the copied thread put my bit in and mind was taken out or just ignored completely hahahaha

I wouldn’t take that personally. It’s like chatting in a nightclub, sometimes the music/other chat is so loud that what you’re saying gets lost in the ether.

Got we can be a group within a group !!! Code name “ lurk “ we could do some damage haha

I need sleep ?? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My total point ... Hulkkkk smasaasssshhhh topic

Copied the copied thread put my bit in and mind was taken out or just ignored completely hahahaha

I wouldn’t take that personally. It’s like chatting in a nightclub, sometimes the music/other chat is so loud that what you’re saying gets lost in the ether.

Got we can be a group within a group !!! Code name “ lurk “ we could do some damage haha

I need sleep ?? lol

Instead of the forumites we shall be the lurkamites!

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

"My total point ... Hulkkkk smasaasssshhhh topic

Copied the copied thread put my bit in and mind was taken out or just ignored completely hahahaha

I wouldn’t take that personally. It’s like chatting in a nightclub, sometimes the music/other chat is so loud that what you’re saying gets lost in the ether.

Got we can be a group within a group !!! Code name “ lurk “ we could do some damage haha

I need sleep ?? lol

Instead of the forumites we shall be the lurkamites!

Anyname I just want to feel wanted and seen hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do lurk quite a bit but do try to contribute to conversations, but I do feel Iam invisible here a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do lurk quite a bit but do try to contribute to conversations, but I do feel Iam invisible here a lot. "

I have felt like that a few times I don’t think it is done on purpose as threads can move quickly and I’m not well known on here either, but tonight it got me thinking that this can kind of turn into a viscous circle where people tend not to post much then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My total point ... Hulkkkk smasaasssshhhh topic

Copied the copied thread put my bit in and mind was taken out or just ignored completely hahahaha

I wouldn’t take that personally. It’s like chatting in a nightclub, sometimes the music/other chat is so loud that what you’re saying gets lost in the ether.

Got we can be a group within a group !!! Code name “ lurk “ we could do some damage haha

I need sleep ?? lol

Instead of the forumites we shall be the lurkamites!

Anyname I just want to feel wanted and seen hehe

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

"I do lurk quite a bit but do try to contribute to conversations, but I do feel Iam invisible here a lot.

When you. Do get banter going with a small group I thought firing a quick we pm with a face pic !!! Rather than chatting to a cock or breast lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a few threads tonight I’ve had “lurker responses” but you know what & I can’t speak for everyone, it would be really nice if you could post on the thread how u feel to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do lurk quite a bit but do try to contribute to conversations, but I do feel Iam invisible here a lot.

When you. Do get banter going with a small group I thought firing a quick we pm with a face pic !!! Rather than chatting to a cock or breast lol

That’s a very good point but I think I’d be very wary of handing out face pics willy nilly lol

Seeming as your in Scotland mind that wouldn’t be so bad but if be in constant fear of bumping into someone in Asda!

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

welcome Mrs.

The late thread in the evening is always a good place to start posting in the forum and you'll always be sure of a warm welcome if either myself or Jim are hosting it.

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

"From a few threads tonight I’ve had “lurker responses” but you know what & I can’t speak for everyone, it would be really nice if you could post on the thread how u feel to

Well I’m feeling a bit low tonight had a we cry in Tesco when I couldn’t decide what toilet roll to get !!!! Oh here I go again

pm lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From a few threads tonight I’ve had “lurker responses” but you know what & I can’t speak for everyone, it would be really nice if you could post on the thread how u feel to

I do really enjoy the forums, I didn’t mean this thread to seem negative about them just thought it be an easy way to get to know some people here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have your tits for your profile pic and everyone will listen to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"welcome Mrs.

The late thread in the evening is always a good place to start posting in the forum and you'll always be sure of a warm welcome if either myself or Jim are hosting it."

thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have your tits for your profile pic and everyone will listen to you

Really? I shall have to rethink my profile

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Dont hide we dont bite

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

"I do lurk quite a bit but do try to contribute to conversations, but I do feel Iam invisible here a lot.

When you. Do get banter going with a small group I thought firing a quick we pm with a face pic !!! Rather than chatting to a cock or breast lol

That’s a very good point but I think I’d be very wary of handing out face pics willy nilly lol

Seeming as your in Scotland mind that wouldn’t be so bad but if be in constant fear of bumping into someone in Asda!

We do have a little we biggish population nearly 2500 jocks haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey fella lurker lol I tend to lurk and have a giggle at the forums. I try get involved every now and then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do lurk quite a bit but do try to contribute to conversations, but I do feel Iam invisible here a lot.

When you. Do get banter going with a small group I thought firing a quick we pm with a face pic !!! Rather than chatting to a cock or breast lol

That’s a very good point but I think I’d be very wary of handing out face pics willy nilly lol

Seeming as your in Scotland mind that wouldn’t be so bad but if be in constant fear of bumping into someone in Asda!

We do have a little we biggish population nearly 2500 jocks haha

I meant that because i live in wales I’d be far enough away not to worry your a co worker or neighbor

Nice profile pic by the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey fella lurker lol I tend to lurk and have a giggle at the forums. I try get involved every now and then "

Yes! This is me all over

Hi!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dont hide we dont bite

Isn’t the proper response supposed to be ....unless asked

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Dont hide we dont bite

Isn’t the proper response supposed to be ....unless asked

I at least am not the biting type even if asked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dont hide we dont bite

Isn’t the proper response supposed to be ....unless asked

I at least am not the biting type even if asked

Pleasure is always more preferable than pain

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

By the way, if you've posted on 35 threads in less than a couple of months, you're not a lurker anymore.

You're automatically upgraded to something else

Possibly "transient", or "part-timer"

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

By the way, if you've posted on 35 threads in less than a couple of months, you're not a lurker anymore.

You're automatically upgraded to something else

Possibly "transient", or "part-timer"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"By the way, if you've posted on 35 threads in less than a couple of months, you're not a lurker anymore.

You're automatically upgraded to something else

Possibly "transient", or "part-timer"

Hmmm I usually only post on them when I’m a little bit tipsy and feeling braver than usual so couldn’t actually say whether I need to be upgraded or not

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

Dont hide we dont bite

Isn’t the proper response supposed to be ....unless asked

I at least am not the biting type even if asked

Hehe lurking sexual tension and flirty things

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Dont hide we dont bite

Isn’t the proper response supposed to be ....unless asked

I at least am not the biting type even if asked

Pleasure is always more preferable than pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come out come out little lurkers. I need new prey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As its after midnight im too tired to be grumpy now do come play out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont hide we dont bite

Isn’t the proper response supposed to be ....unless asked

I at least am not the biting type even if asked

Pleasure is always more preferable than pain

Depends on your perspective

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

Beat that topic super bowl avengers topic and input I dropped lurking

We are born

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come out come out little lurkers. I need new prey

Volunteers

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Dont hide we dont bite

Isn’t the proper response supposed to be ....unless asked

I at least am not the biting type even if asked

Pleasure is always more preferable than pain

Depends on your perspective

And What is your perspective?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Beat that topic super bowl avengers topic and input I dropped lurking

We are born

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Come out come out little lurkers. I need new prey

Dont worry shes not as scary as shes trying to appear

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Come out come out little lurkers. I need new prey

Dont worry shes not as scary as shes trying to appear

Please be gentle, btw you have the most impressive breasts I’ve ever seen and I’m a straight woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Beat that topic super bowl avengers topic and input I dropped lurking

We are born

Ok you may have started something now I couldn’t resist the challenge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont hide we dont bite

Isn’t the proper response supposed to be ....unless asked

I at least am not the biting type even if asked

Pleasure is always more preferable than pain

Depends on your perspective

And What is your perspective? "

Depending on the situation I actually find pain very pleasurable.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Come out come out little lurkers. I need new prey

Dont worry shes not as scary as shes trying to appear

Please be gentle, btw you have the most impressive breasts I’ve ever seen and I’m a straight woman

They help her fly across from Edinburgh to Bristol and back again easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, i lurk on our profiles benefit

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By *ertsDrewMan
over a year ago

Hitchin

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By *ertsDrewMan
over a year ago

Hitchin

I'm an occasional reader and contributor.

It beats me where people find the time to be on here more regularly.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We like to lurk

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"We like to lurk

Well step into the light

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By *rownboy30Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I’ll say yes on behalf of the lurkers, as they won’t.

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

Any more newbies or lurkers out there?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From a few threads tonight I’ve had “lurker responses” but you know what & I can’t speak for everyone, it would be really nice if you could post on the thread how u feel to

I do really enjoy the forums, I didn’t mean this thread to seem negative about them just thought it be an easy way to get to know some people here

I don’t think you’re being negative just saying how you see it, keep posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh the ninja's

Great thread OP you're doing well! There are more lurkers than posters. Keep posting whenever you want and join in the banter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smaaaaash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll say yes on behalf of the lurkers, as they won’t."

There's a lot more people who read the forums but don't post, than people realise.

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

Don't lurk just join in and have fun don't take it to serious and welcome

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By *lsieWoman
over a year ago

where ever

Hello x Me too. I try to join in. But nothing comes of it .

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Not a lurker little bit of a troll but hopefully I give the lurkers a little chuckle when they read some of my comments.

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