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"I guess it would depend if we were all largely straight too. Given that the majority of us here are bisexual, we still have oodles of choice. " See! Already we are positive thinking! Embracing our sexuality and options, the "fab straight" brigade should take note! | |||
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"I guess it would depend if we were all largely straight too. Given that the majority of us here are bisexual, we still have oodles of choice. " Good answers It wouldn’t bother me but I would rather a bum shots from as many angles as you care to put up | |||
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"I guess it would depend if we were all largely straight too. Given that the majority of us here are bisexual, we still have oodles of choice. Good answers It wouldn’t bother me but I would rather a bum shots from as many angles as you care to put up " Another point for the men to consider! We like bum shots too!! | |||
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"I said when I joined that I probably wouldn't get much attention, I'd give it a go for a month or so, and give up if I got nowhere. I'd beat myself up for not being attractive enough, not take it out on anyone. " And you're gorgeous! Would it not cross your mind it's purely a numbers thing? I guess things often feel personal, especially when we are putting ourselves out there like we do on here, I can kinda understand how some guys get defensive but I agree, I'd be the same and just walk away quietly. | |||
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"Men would still think with their dicks and have meet after meet lined up for days on end unlike women who don't think like that. " *most women. Do you think the ladies would be happy waiting in a queue or would we still want to feel special? | |||
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"I think there would be a heck of a lot more fffmfff being arranged It's hard to say if women would respond the same way to rejection ,it would probably depend on the personalities of the people like it does now. Personally I'd be happy to wait ,as negativity just fucks with your soul x " I think the men would be broken if there was That's the thing too, there are a lot more women than men here just for the forums already, maybe more would stop looking too? | |||
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"The tides have turned, women now out number men on the site by 100:1 and despite the fact they post photos of their private parts from every conceivable angle those guys just ain't biting! How do you think it would be if this happened? Would the roles just flip and we would start acting like each other or would the sexes handle their new position differently? " Dating sites are like that? I got "you're not my type but I'd consider meeting you if you're a double D size or bigger." Pass, I still have standards. | |||
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"I guess it would depend if we were all largely straight too. Given that the majority of us here are bisexual, we still have oodles of choice. Good answers It wouldn’t bother me but I would rather a bum shots from as many angles as you care to put up Another point for the men to consider! We like bum shots too!!" My profile has plenty, more than you can beat with a stick | |||
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"Men would still think with their dicks and have meet after meet lined up for days on end unlike women who don't think like that. *most women. Do you think the ladies would be happy waiting in a queue or would we still want to feel special? " Glad you saw my irony there Not sure they'd need to know about the queue, I'm free next Thursday should be surfice, no finer details to be mentioned. Wouldn't feeling special in the moment be enough? I can see the men quite enjoying the sense of empowerment the ladies of fab enjoy. | |||
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"I said when I joined that I probably wouldn't get much attention, I'd give it a go for a month or so, and give up if I got nowhere. I'd beat myself up for not being attractive enough, not take it out on anyone. And you're gorgeous! Would it not cross your mind it's purely a numbers thing? I guess things often feel personal, especially when we are putting ourselves out there like we do on here, I can kinda understand how some guys get defensive but I agree, I'd be the same and just walk away quietly. " Thank you! Fab has cured me of this, but I used to be the kind to take things personally. I know my flaws and foibles, and I blame myself not others or circumstances. It can motivate me to change myself (and it's better than lashing out), although it can be destructive. All this "oh, you'd do the same thing in our shoes"... Bollocks I would. I know myself better than that. | |||
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"I would still do my own thing in my own way. I’m a creature of habit " Do you think you'd still get the same response? Would women still "hold the power"? | |||
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"I suspect there would be the sound of attitudes and preferences rapidly adjusting on both sides. " Maybe the forum would fill up with "do women really like big men or is any pole a goal?" threads! | |||
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"I suspect there would be the sound of attitudes and preferences rapidly adjusting on both sides. Maybe the forum would fill up with "do women really like big men or is any pole a goal?" threads! " More like, is 36DD too small or too big? How big is VWC? | |||
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"The tides have turned, women now out number men on the site by 100:1 and despite the fact they post photos of their private parts from every conceivable angle those guys just ain't biting! How do you think it would be if this happened? Would the roles just flip and we would start acting like each other or would the sexes handle their new position differently? " I'd buy shares in a Viagra manufacturer | |||
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"The tides have turned, women now out number men on the site by 100:1 and despite the fact they post photos of their private parts from every conceivable angle those guys just ain't biting! How do you think it would be if this happened? Would the roles just flip and we would start acting like each other or would the sexes handle their new position differently? Dating sites are like that? I got "you're not my type but I'd consider meeting you if you're a double D size or bigger." Pass, I still have standards." Some people say such twattish things! I'd be the same, I'd still want the same things from anyone I meet. | |||
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"I'd still fancy you all regardless. manslut!" I'm quite selective I'll have you know | |||
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"I think it would be exactly the same but with roles reversed. Irate women being abusive when they get turned down. Men loving all the attention. " Agreed. Whilst the people on this thread say they would be the same, most of the current forumites wouldn’t be on here. | |||
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"It would be much the same as now. We don’t often hear of the many men who just accept that they will will be ignored, or are very unlikely to have a meet. Same as many women would also accept the situation with good grace. " That's true. We tend just to notice the grumpy ones complaining on the forums and things. | |||
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"Nothing will change. Their may be loads of men here now but very few that I'm actually interested in seeing " Quality not quantity! A fab favourite | |||
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"I guess it would depend if we were all largely straight too. Given that the majority of us here are bisexual, we still have oodles of choice. Good answers It wouldn’t bother me but I would rather a bum shots from as many angles as you care to put up Another point for the men to consider! We like bum shots too!! My profile has plenty, more than you can beat with a stick " Can I beat with something else? | |||
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"Men would still think with their dicks and have meet after meet lined up for days on end unlike women who don't think like that. *most women. Do you think the ladies would be happy waiting in a queue or would we still want to feel special? Glad you saw my irony there Not sure they'd need to know about the queue, I'm free next Thursday should be surfice, no finer details to be mentioned. Wouldn't feeling special in the moment be enough? I can see the men quite enjoying the sense of empowerment the ladies of fab enjoy. " But aren't women more inclined to ask about other meets? By nature we are more jealous I'd say. | |||
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"I cant handle it now so god no Im good thanks" It's not optional! | |||
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"The tides have turned, women now out number men on the site by 100:1 and despite the fact they post photos of their private parts from every conceivable angle those guys just ain't biting! How do you think it would be if this happened? Would the roles just flip and we would start acting like each other or would the sexes handle their new position differently? Dating sites are like that? I got "you're not my type but I'd consider meeting you if you're a double D size or bigger." Pass, I still have standards. Some people say such twattish things! I'd be the same, I'd still want the same things from anyone I meet. " I suppose it's like women demanding a 9" cock or bigger. Doesn't matter that I am his "required" size, I'm not sure how anyone would stoop to only being there due to size requirements, without an attraction of whatever sort that the other party offers. | |||
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"I suspect there would be the sound of attitudes and preferences rapidly adjusting on both sides. Maybe the forum would fill up with "do women really like big men or is any pole a goal?" threads! More like, is 36DD too small or too big? How big is VWC? " Do men like moustaches or should I wax? | |||
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"The tides have turned, women now out number men on the site by 100:1 and despite the fact they post photos of their private parts from every conceivable angle those guys just ain't biting! How do you think it would be if this happened? Would the roles just flip and we would start acting like each other or would the sexes handle their new position differently? I'd buy shares in a Viagra manufacturer " very clever thinking! | |||
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"I think it would be exactly the same but with roles reversed. Irate women being abusive when they get turned down. Men loving all the attention. " Do you think how we respond would be different though? Would our hissy fits be worse? Would men taunt us with their power? | |||
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"There are more men than women on here? I never would have guessed that by the attention I get..." From men? | |||
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"The tides have turned, women now out number men on the site by 100:1 and despite the fact they post photos of their private parts from every conceivable angle those guys just ain't biting! How do you think it would be if this happened? Would the roles just flip and we would start acting like each other or would the sexes handle their new position differently? Dating sites are like that? I got "you're not my type but I'd consider meeting you if you're a double D size or bigger." Pass, I still have standards. Some people say such twattish things! I'd be the same, I'd still want the same things from anyone I meet. I suppose it's like women demanding a 9" cock or bigger. Doesn't matter that I am his "required" size, I'm not sure how anyone would stoop to only being there due to size requirements, without an attraction of whatever sort that the other party offers." Exactly, compatibility is about more than body parts. | |||
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"The tides have turned, women now out number men on the site by 100:1 and despite the fact they post photos of their private parts from every conceivable angle those guys just ain't biting! How do you think it would be if this happened? Would the roles just flip and we would start acting like each other or would the sexes handle their new position differently? " We would be made up. Don't meet men and love bi ladies. Oh god yes please!! | |||
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"I guess it would depend if we were all largely straight too. Given that the majority of us here are bisexual, we still have oodles of choice. See! Already we are positive thinking! Embracing our sexuality and options, the "fab straight" brigade should take note! " I thought the "fab straights" were embracing their sexuality, they just weren't being honest about it. | |||
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"I think it would be exactly the same but with roles reversed. Irate women being abusive when they get turned down. Men loving all the attention. Do you think how we respond would be different though? Would our hissy fits be worse? Would men taunt us with their power? " Perhaps men would leave women dangling on the chance of meeting ...only to be gazumped by a better offer Or is that me being a little bitter | |||
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"I guess it would depend if we were all largely straight too. Given that the majority of us here are bisexual, we still have oodles of choice. " Good job most of the guys here are also bisexual (or at least curious) then! | |||
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"I cant handle it now so god no Im good thanks It's not optional! " unlos here i come then | |||
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"I cant handle it now so god no Im good thanks It's not optional! unlos here i come then" Don't you dare. If I can still be here putting on a fake smile so can you Mr! | |||
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"I would still do my own thing in my own way. I’m a creature of habit Do you think you'd still get the same response? Would women still "hold the power"?" I hope I would still appeal to the ones that I appeal to otherwise what am I doing now? It would mean they are settling for me because of lack of choice and opportunity and I don’t feel that’s the case. I don’t feel women do hold the power either. It’s an easy thing to say. I think there would be the same issues and reactions. Both sexes moan and groan now, I don’t think that would change | |||
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"I cant handle it now so god no Im good thanks It's not optional! unlos here i come then Don't you dare. If I can still be here putting on a fake smile so can you Mr! " too many women too much temptation | |||
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"The tides have turned, women now out number men on the site by 100:1 and despite the fact they post photos of their private parts from every conceivable angle those guys just ain't biting! How do you think it would be if this happened? Would the roles just flip and we would start acting like each other or would the sexes handle their new position differently? We would be made up. Don't meet men and love bi ladies. Oh god yes please!!" Silver linings | |||
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"I'm crap at approaching men so I'd be useless. My personal approach is socialising but only meeting a couple of guys a year that I form a connection with, so that wouldn't change it would just become harder. It would be interesting to see if the patience to chat and socials first would still be accepted with so much more choice... " That's a good point. I've never seen a guy on here complaining that the women don't want a social first! | |||
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"I guess it would depend if we were all largely straight too. Given that the majority of us here are bisexual, we still have oodles of choice. Good answers It wouldn’t bother me but I would rather a bum shots from as many angles as you care to put up Another point for the men to consider! We like bum shots too!!" Bum shots you say?......... | |||
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"I would still do my own thing in my own way. I’m a creature of habit Do you think you'd still get the same response? Would women still "hold the power"? I hope I would still appeal to the ones that I appeal to otherwise what am I doing now? It would mean they are settling for me because of lack of choice and opportunity and I don’t feel that’s the case. I don’t feel women do hold the power either. It’s an easy thing to say. I think there would be the same issues and reactions. Both sexes moan and groan now, I don’t think that would change " I agree. I don't think women hold power here. Yes we are outnumbered and can "be picky" but that's how it should be for everyone, guys included. | |||
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"I think it would be exactly the same but with roles reversed. Irate women being abusive when they get turned down. Men loving all the attention. Agreed. Whilst the people on this thread say they would be the same, most of the current forumites wouldn’t be on here." Oh we'd still be on here! Can't keep us away... Tbf though the ratio being reversed wouldn't really affect couples as much I don't think. Plus both of our singles profiles already got plenty of attention before we met and fell for each other, so we wouldn't see it really affecting us in that way either? B | |||
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"Teeth and hands are more important than pussy. Realistically no change would happen, if you're a dick you're a dick, numerical advantage won't change that." Someone told me I had amazing teeth the other day. I found it a weird compliment. But yeah, I wouldn't meet someone whose personality sucked. | |||
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"I guess it would depend if we were all largely straight too. Given that the majority of us here are bisexual, we still have oodles of choice. Good answers It wouldn’t bother me but I would rather a bum shots from as many angles as you care to put up Another point for the men to consider! We like bum shots too!! Bum shots you say?......... " | |||
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"I would still do my own thing in my own way. I’m a creature of habit Do you think you'd still get the same response? Would women still "hold the power"? I hope I would still appeal to the ones that I appeal to otherwise what am I doing now? It would mean they are settling for me because of lack of choice and opportunity and I don’t feel that’s the case. I don’t feel women do hold the power either. It’s an easy thing to say. I think there would be the same issues and reactions. Both sexes moan and groan now, I don’t think that would change I agree. I don't think women hold power here. Yes we are outnumbered and can "be picky" but that's how it should be for everyone, guys included. " Exactly | |||
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"I think it would be exactly the same but with roles reversed. Irate women being abusive when they get turned down. Men loving all the attention. Agreed. Whilst the people on this thread say they would be the same, most of the current forumites wouldn’t be on here. Oh we'd still be on here! Can't keep us away... Tbf though the ratio being reversed wouldn't really affect couples as much I don't think. Plus both of our singles profiles already got plenty of attention before we met and fell for each other, so we wouldn't see it really affecting us in that way either? B" A lot of couples are looking for "a unicorn" so maybe the increase in females would be a great thing for them? | |||
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"I would still do my own thing in my own way. I’m a creature of habit Do you think you'd still get the same response? Would women still "hold the power"?" I don't think it comes down to gender really, I think it comes down to the individual. I hold my own power rather than my poonani holding it for me. Just because I got many many offers on a daily basis on my singles profile (and we do on this one too) doesn't mean I/we take them up on those offers. Like a big box of chocolates, would I eat them all, including the flavours I don't like? No I fucking wouldn't. P | |||
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"Men would still think with their dicks and have meet after meet lined up for days on end unlike women who don't think like that. *most women. Do you think the ladies would be happy waiting in a queue or would we still want to feel special? Glad you saw my irony there Not sure they'd need to know about the queue, I'm free next Thursday should be surfice, no finer details to be mentioned. Wouldn't feeling special in the moment be enough? I can see the men quite enjoying the sense of empowerment the ladies of fab enjoy. But aren't women more inclined to ask about other meets? By nature we are more jealous I'd say. " Eww! Clingy! Men would simply move on with the numbers being in their favour. Women would inevitably evolve as that type of behaviour wouldn't be an attractive trait for a meet. Men would feel a sense of entitlement from the ladies which really would be unfair. | |||
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"I would still do my own thing in my own way. I’m a creature of habit Do you think you'd still get the same response? Would women still "hold the power"? I don't think it comes down to gender really, I think it comes down to the individual. I hold my own power rather than my poonani holding it for me. Just because I got many many offers on a daily basis on my singles profile (and we do on this one too) doesn't mean I/we take them up on those offers. Like a big box of chocolates, would I eat them all, including the flavours I don't like? No I fucking wouldn't. P" That's the thing. All this "women hold the power" stuff. It's all well and good having hundreds to pick from but if none of them appeal then that power is pointless. | |||
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"Men would still think with their dicks and have meet after meet lined up for days on end unlike women who don't think like that. *most women. Do you think the ladies would be happy waiting in a queue or would we still want to feel special? Glad you saw my irony there Not sure they'd need to know about the queue, I'm free next Thursday should be surfice, no finer details to be mentioned. Wouldn't feeling special in the moment be enough? I can see the men quite enjoying the sense of empowerment the ladies of fab enjoy. But aren't women more inclined to ask about other meets? By nature we are more jealous I'd say. Eww! Clingy! Men would simply move on with the numbers being in their favour. Women would inevitably evolve as that type of behaviour wouldn't be an attractive trait for a meet. Men would feel a sense of entitlement from the ladies which really would be unfair. " Oh god. We'd be sending our face pics out here there and everywhere! All those demanding men! | |||
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"I would still do my own thing in my own way. I’m a creature of habit Do you think you'd still get the same response? Would women still "hold the power"? I don't think it comes down to gender really, I think it comes down to the individual. I hold my own power rather than my poonani holding it for me. Just because I got many many offers on a daily basis on my singles profile (and we do on this one too) doesn't mean I/we take them up on those offers. Like a big box of chocolates, would I eat them all, including the flavours I don't like? No I fucking wouldn't. P That's the thing. All this "women hold the power" stuff. It's all well and good having hundreds to pick from but if none of them appeal then that power is pointless. " Exactly! I'd much rather have a wank than go to the effort of arranging a meet for the sake of it. Or.... hang on, here's an epiphany.... I'd get myself out there and go to a club (like I have done previously and will do again) with the intention of having a great evening out. Maybe just maybe that attitude may be more attractive than looking like a rampant mongrel sniffing the air to find a bitch on heat. P | |||
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"I guess it would depend if we were all largely straight too. Given that the majority of us here are bisexual, we still have oodles of choice. Good answers It wouldn’t bother me but I would rather a bum shots from as many angles as you care to put up Another point for the men to consider! We like bum shots too!! My profile has plenty, more than you can beat with a stick Can I beat with something else? " Whatever pleases you and me for that matter | |||
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"Nothing would change for me either, yes I get messages but if I am not attracted to them then I’m not meeting. Getting lesser messages wouldn’t change that. " Tbf if it was accurate role reversal then it wouldn't be 100 women for every guy, it would probably be between 10 and 12. Going on my own experience as a single guy also meaning that there would still be guys for most women to meet with, provided they didn't act like dicks, put a lot of effort into their profiles, had a decent personality, groomed themselves properly, looked after themselves physically to make themselves the ultimate they could be, made use of their vivid imagination, concentrated on the many things they could offer a guy in the bedroom department and were very proactive about searching for guys till their reputations became established and they could rely on the guys messaging them? Not too much to ask really, like it is for guys now. | |||
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"Even if the women outnumbered guys 100-1 I still don’t believe women would drop their standards for a fuck the way men do. Me personally I’d post pictures more frequently and ensure I was on hotpics every day to be noticed and I’d sit back and wait to be contacted. Even the way things are now out of every 100 guys there’s probably only 2 or 3 that I’d actually want to sleep with. If there was only 2 or 3 women out of 100 that guys wanted to sleep with I’d be one of those so I’d be fine. To sum up, if the tables were turned I’d be in the same position as the guys who already have success on here the way things are. " Stole my next line tbh. Men and women in my opinion are wired up differently, whilst they would have so many options and yes over time they'd become selective there'll be swathes with their snout in the trough taking on all comers in a month of Sunday. Yes you have some women like that but the amount of men doing it would be astronomical. Funny lot us blokes. | |||
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"I have standards I might change, but standards I definitely wouldn't. I think a lot of guys don't understand the way (many) women are brought up, to guard themselves sexually, to be very careful in case someone wants to hurt you. Too many guys can't even be bothered to reassure me that they're not potentially dangerous. I recognise most guys aren't. But it's a bit, I need a way to be able to tell. Or at least do my best to guard against it. I'd rather swear myself to celibacy than meet people who didn't give me some way of knowing that they weren't predators. " | |||
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"Teeth and hands are more important than pussy. Realistically no change would happen, if you're a dick you're a dick, numerical advantage won't change that. Someone told me I had amazing teeth the other day. I found it a weird compliment. But yeah, I wouldn't meet someone whose personality sucked. " Being Scottish I'm amazed you have teeth, all the gnawing on sheeps stomachs and irn bru. I'm too dumb and ignorant though to realise that's not always the case haha | |||
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