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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To my profile to make you message me? Don't get me wrong I've had a meet and a couple on the cards. I don't seem to attract the locals though. So I need a profile change I think.

A facelift is out of the question...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

More public pictures and move about 300 miles closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile is really good. Take off that bit at the bottom as it bull crap and means nothing. Put in the type of girl your looking for. And more photos needed the photo is hard to see anything

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yep, the bottom part is bollocks.

It's such a long profile, can't you edit out the filler sentences? Make it slightly more interesting and shorter and snappier - right now it's like a rapidly cooling cup of tea. And photos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think your profile is really good. Take off that bit at the bottom as it bull crap and means nothing. Put in the type of girl your looking for. And more photos needed the photo is hard to see anything "

Done and done. Don't have many pics. Don't like doing them, I'm no poser. Not that it's wrong just not my style...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep, the bottom part is bollocks.

It's such a long profile, can't you edit out the filler sentences? Make it slightly more interesting and shorter and snappier - right now it's like a rapidly cooling cup of tea. And photos. "

Done...

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"I think your profile is really good. Take off that bit at the bottom as it bull crap and means nothing. Put in the type of girl your looking for. And more photos needed the photo is hard to see anything

Done and done. Don't have many pics. Don't like doing them, I'm no poser. Not that it's wrong just not my style... "

I can understand this but if you have a think about the profiles you contact it's probably because you liked the look of them first . So give people a chance to get a look of you , not face pics necessarily, just clear pics that tempt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think your profile is really good. Take off that bit at the bottom as it bull crap and means nothing. Put in the type of girl your looking for. And more photos needed the photo is hard to see anything

Done and done. Don't have many pics. Don't like doing them, I'm no poser. Not that it's wrong just not my style...

I can understand this but if you have a think about the profiles you contact it's probably because you liked the look of them first . So give people a chance to get a look of you , not face pics necessarily, just clear pics that tempt."

Yeah I will try and sort something.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

no interests listed, how would I know if we're compatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, I’ll never message you anyway but good luck

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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So, in hindsight and the reason I normally avoid profile advice threads...

I think a profile is really about you - and identikit ones are dull. Your personality comes through and it's a good insight in to how compatible you are when you read one.

So don't lose the essence of who you are trying to conform to a fora ideal - the majority of users don't really venture into these mucky things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, in hindsight and the reason I normally avoid profile advice threads...

I think a profile is really about you - and identikit ones are dull. Your personality comes through and it's a good insight in to how compatible you are when you read one.

So don't lose the essence of who you are trying to conform to a fora ideal - the majority of users don't really venture into these mucky things."

It's more a bit of fun. I'm leaving soon so chances of a meet now is slim. I'll have to translate it all to Norwegian when I go anyway!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Having read it you are exactly what many forum ladies purport to be looking for. I wouldn't change a thing if I were you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having read it you are exactly what many forum ladies purport to be looking for. I wouldn't change a thing if I were you."

If they purport to be looking for I should change everything lol. Thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Having read it you are exactly what many forum ladies purport to be looking for. I wouldn't change a thing if I were you.

If they purport to be looking for I should change everything lol. Thanks"

Not necessarily but you might find that some misunderstandings occur

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having read it you are exactly what many forum ladies purport to be looking for. I wouldn't change a thing if I were you.

If they purport to be looking for I should change everything lol. Thanks

Not necessarily but you might find that some misunderstandings occur "

Lol. Like I said this is more of a bit of fun...

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I liked your profile op! Some more enticing and creative pics would be good - but I’ve seen far worse profiles - and met a few of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much better now with those changes. If you were closer to me I would be fluttering my eyelashes at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't message you. You sound really cool, great profile and interesting in the forums. You deserve someone really nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't seem to attract the locals either OP so it isn't just you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, in hindsight and the reason I normally avoid profile advice threads...

I think a profile is really about you - and identikit ones are dull. Your personality comes through and it's a good insight in to how compatible you are when you read one.

So don't lose the essence of who you are trying to conform to a fora ideal - the majority of users don't really venture into these mucky things.

It's more a bit of fun. I'm leaving soon so chances of a meet now is slim. I'll have to translate it all to Norwegian when I go anyway! "

Can't you keep your profile and log on sometimes to let us know about your travels?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Having read it you are exactly what many forum ladies purport to be looking for. I wouldn't change a thing if I were you.

If they purport to be looking for I should change everything lol. Thanks

Not necessarily but you might find that some misunderstandings occur

Lol. Like I said this is more of a bit of fun... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't message you. You sound really cool, great profile and interesting in the forums. You deserve someone really nice. "

Thanks. Is that why you wouldn't message me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, in hindsight and the reason I normally avoid profile advice threads...

I think a profile is really about you - and identikit ones are dull. Your personality comes through and it's a good insight in to how compatible you are when you read one.

So don't lose the essence of who you are trying to conform to a fora ideal - the majority of users don't really venture into these mucky things.

It's more a bit of fun. I'm leaving soon so chances of a meet now is slim. I'll have to translate it all to Norwegian when I go anyway!

Can't you keep your profile and log on sometimes to let us know about your travels? "

Yeah I'll still keep profile. When I'm travelling I'll get some tidy pics then. When I go to Cap! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't message you. You sound really cool, great profile and interesting in the forums. You deserve someone really nice.

Thanks. Is that why you wouldn't message me? "

Yes. You're not looking for someone like me.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"clear pics that tempt."

This is where I'm struggling. Obviously as a bloke who isn't attracted to men, I don't know how to photograph myself in a way that will make me look 'tempting'. I'm not super buff or anything so I don't think I can pull off the 'photo of chiseled abs' look and we all know that dick pics are the kiss of death for a profile so I've kept that back for requests only (nobody's requested yet lol). I've experimented with making a face pic public but it hasn't really affected my response rate - maybe slightly negatively if anything - although I didn't think I was that hideous when I first joined the site, after a few months of rejections I'm starting to feel like my confidence is getting knocked...

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"To my profile to make you message me? Don't get me wrong I've had a meet and a couple on the cards. I don't seem to attract the locals though. So I need a profile change I think.

A facelift is out of the question... "

Op you’ve hidden your profile, I hope it’s because you’ve got some great advice and are reworking it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To my profile to make you message me? Don't get me wrong I've had a meet and a couple on the cards. I don't seem to attract the locals though. So I need a profile change I think.

A facelift is out of the question...

Op you’ve hidden your profile, I hope it’s because you’ve got some great advice and are reworking it"

Sorry it's open again. Forgot I had this thread going. Sorry

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"To my profile to make you message me? Don't get me wrong I've had a meet and a couple on the cards. I don't seem to attract the locals though. So I need a profile change I think.

A facelift is out of the question...

Op you’ve hidden your profile, I hope it’s because you’ve got some great advice and are reworking it

Sorry it's open again. Forgot I had this thread going. Sorry"

I like your profile, the only thing I would like to see is a few more pics.

If you had been in my local area when I was a single lady looking to meet guys you would most certainly have piqued my interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To my profile to make you message me? Don't get me wrong I've had a meet and a couple on the cards. I don't seem to attract the locals though. So I need a profile change I think.

A facelift is out of the question...

Op you’ve hidden your profile, I hope it’s because you’ve got some great advice and are reworking it

Sorry it's open again. Forgot I had this thread going. Sorry

I like your profile, the only thing I would like to see is a few more pics.

If you had been in my local area when I was a single lady looking to meet guys you would most certainly have piqued my interest "

I'll upload pics when I'm on my travels. I'll be more at ease and happier then...

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